Everything is temporary, especially the situations you are currently experiencing. Death is the only thing that truly lasts forever. The NOW you are going through will pass and cease to hold such such powerful relevance in the very next moment. The best question to ask yourself is this: 'did I maximize the time I have here NOW?' Are you too busy focusing on the what-ifs and worrying yourself with fears of the unknown? Or are you going to spend your time wisely finding new ways to grow your success and make your dreams your reality?
When the solutions you found no longer work NOW, do you make yourself find another way to achieve your success, or do you give up on your goals? Do you decide to drag out the inevitable rather than facing it head-on? Your need for perfection is simply an excuse you allow to get in your way by procrastinating out of fear and prolonging your position. But the sooner you do something, the sooner it is finished, the sooner you can move on to the next thing in your life. NOW you can realize you overcame your problems quickly and efficiently in order to grow beyond an old fearful version of yourself that no longer exists.
We must make constant and consistent decisions rapidly so that we can keep our success propelling forward NOW. We need to learn from our actions which were failures we had to endure in order to learn which actions work best for our success. We have to be willing to adapt these actions as we grow. Just because it worked in your favor before, doesn't mean it always will as your goals evolve.
Sometimes you have to look beyond your own abilities and realize a partnership is necessary. You should always strive to be surrounded by people on a higher level than you currently are NOW. If you are the smartest one in the room, how could you possibly learn anything new if you have no one new to learn from? Your circle will morph as your needs change and your goals adapt to your success. Your situation will pass and the people around you will go. The most you can do is prepare by accepting change and staying true to your own drive for your dreams to come true.