Who are you most committed to? Do you put yourself and your loved ones first? Or do you allow others to take control of your happiness and take up way too much of your most valuable asset, TIME? You should be putting forth your best effort in the time you have to do the things you said you will commit to at that given time. Do NOT trade your valuable moments you cannot get back for invaluable people or mindless activities. Do you truly not have enough time, or is it simply not a priority right now?
Are you delegating your time in the appropriate ways and areas of your life as you need to? Are you waking up and giving yourself enough time to promote your mental health for the day? You should me pumping your brain with premium positivity to fuel your body with superior energy. Focus your efforts into structured schedules that respect your time and force others to do so by your own set boundaries. Be present with what it is you are supposed to be doing within any given moment and evaluate if you are acting in ways that will maximize your time.
Make it happen. What? Who knows? YOU know. Be aware that you are the only one who can make your success happen. You have to be the one to seek it out relentlessly for your own growth. You have to set your own boundaries in order to gain the time you want with your family, or earn the money to get that dream car or house, or experience the freedom to choose how you want to spend your time and money with whoever you deem most worthy of those two extremely valuable things.
Build your legacy through the lessons you learn on a daily basis. Receive, react, commit. We all have a story and a journey ahead, as long as we are willing to progress beyond who we used to be. Be proud of who you are, but be able to accept you still have room to grow. Your story is up to you how it is told from here on based on your commitment to yourself and your desire to achieve your truest forms of blissfulness.