As you head into 2024, you should already be working towards your goals and ahead of everybody else. A year does not start on January 1st for everyone, so you shouldn't be holding out on your goals just because of a time marker others have set in order to procrastinate starting their goals TODAY. If you want to truly succeed at your goals, you have to start them TODAY. Not tomorrow, not Monday, TODAY! If you wish to see the ripple effects of your actions, you must do them NOW!
It is not your responsibility to bear the weight of other people's problems just because they bring them to you. Loyalty does not mean that you have to carry their burdens with you throughout the day. If anything, it would be love for them to keep their shit to themselves in the first place, or at least take it with them when they leave rather than expect you to take it on instead. The trick is, you have to be able to analyze a situation, process it rapidly, discard what is not useful to us, and maintain that which is important.
Our disagreements with others are usually rooted as problems deep within ourselves that we have not figured out how to work through yet. Criticisms made by others that we tend to take too personally shouldn't stop us from growing and succeeding. Letting other people walk away with their problems will allow us to let go of the tight grip of control we think we have over our situations that probably won't even matter in 5 minutes.
If we truly feel the need to help others, it isn't by allowing ourselves to also become burdened by their problems, but rather by helping them discover the true root of their problem so that it can be dealt with in the most effective manner and return them to the fast track to supreme growth. Are there tools we can use to assist in identifying the problem and overcoming it by becoming more efficient at mentally processing? Many times we have the things we need already, we just tend to overlook them or forget we have them in our back pockets ready to use. It all starts with genuinely listening and actively responding appropriately by asking thought-provoking questions to be able to offer more sound advice and solutions.
Interview other people every change you can get to better understand their mindset and grow your own mental capacities through empathy and experiences. Read (or listen!) to that book that makes you feel compelled and self-challenged to make yourself into a better version. Share your own experiences with others and help them learn from your lessons and successes in life. Learn for yourself from other people's perspectives and interpretations who sat through the exact same situation yet had very different experiences. Books are an excellent way to take another person's experience, simplify it down to suit your personal needs, and grow exponentially faster through the power of compounding ideas and joining together with like minded elite entrepreneurs.
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