It doesn’t matter what age your kids are, or even if you have kids; we need kids in our life to help us to become good people. The best way to understand kids today is not to learn how different kids are today, but to have a good memory. If you can remember the feelings that you had when you were a child, they are very similar to the feelings that kids have. If you want a peace-filled home you have to have a peace-filled heart. And the Biblical word for peace means absence of war. It means you can’t be at war between you and God, you can’t be at war with others, and you can't be at war with your kids. So, the most loving thing that you can do is to be at peace with God.