You don’t have to cave in to the chaos and craziness of Christmas cards and diets and bad relationships and all that stuff. You do not have to be pulled into the vortex of Martha and her way of living. You can choose. It’s a choice, what are you going to be distracted by? If you’re not careful, you’ll be deceived, and you’ll strive for perfection, and in your striving for perfection, you’ll abandon the presence this holiday season.