1. You’re not stressing over your body.
2. You’re not afraid to talk about sex.
3. When you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone a bit.
4. You sometimes you schedule it to make it happen.
5. You like it.
6. You take turns initiating (agreed frequency).
7. You feel like it’s a joy and not a chore.
8. You’re willing to try new things together.
9. You feel good or connected after sex.
10. You seek help when you need it (or continuing education).