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Why You’re Repelling Money Without Realizing It (And What to Do Instead)
Ever feel like you’re doing “all the right things” and still pushing money away? We got curious about that tension and followed it into the body—where stress, old money scripts, and protective reflexes quietly override even the best strategy. We explore the science behind frequency mismatch and why high-beta overthinking blocks the alpha/theta states you need for creativity, intuition, and receiving. From brainwave coherence to the reticular activating system, we unpack how your beliefs filter what you notice—and why opportunities can sit right in front of you while your nervous system says, “Nope.”
We also dig into the polyvagal map of safety and danger to explain why success can feel risky, especially if wealth once meant pressure, judgment, or isolation. That’s where our “Money Repeller Bingo” gets real: procrastination, undercharging, shrinking around family, guilt when receiving—these aren’t flaws, they’re protective habits. Then we flip the script with a Wealth Rewiring Blueprint that blends somatic tools (breathwork, cold exposure, vagus nerve resets), energetic hygiene (boundaries, cord cutting, frequency tuning), and grounded money practices (daily micro-tracking, Money Mondays, clean pricing). When your body believes receiving is safe, your strategy finally sticks.
We share how proximity accelerates change—why rooms with healthy money norms recalibrate your baseline—and how couples can harmonize finances by addressing shared and inherited patterns. If you’ve been waiting for “perfect,” consider this your nudge to ship the offer, celebrate tiny wins, and build capacity to hold more without burning out. Press play, then tell us the repeller you’re retiring first. If this landed, follow, share with a friend, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find and heal their money story.
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Yeah, almost as if every time they talk about money, they spray themselves with money repellent. It's like and then every word, action, and thought that emanates from them is to repel money.
SPEAKER_00:Mm-hmm. Like bear spray.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So much so that if they get close to me, the money in my pocket disappears. What the hell? You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_00:It's like maybe because it's like, oh, you're next to that.
SPEAKER_02:Go ahead, let's get out of here.
SPEAKER_00:Welcome to the Empowerment Couple Podcast for the lovers, leaders, and legacy builders ready to rise. We're Zuri and Michael Starr, your favorite empowerment coaches, partners in life, love, and leveling up.
SPEAKER_02:This show is your sanctuary for soul aligned success in a world drowning in burnout, broke mindsets, and relationship drama.
SPEAKER_00:Each week, we'll bring you real talk, radical tools, and sacred strategies across our four transformational pillars wellness mastery, wealth expansion, sacred relationships, and embodied leadership.
SPEAKER_02:We'll guide you to lead from your soul's desire and create meaningful impact without sacrificing your wellness. Plus, this season we're bringing on powerful guests, playing laugh-out loud games, and sharing unfiltered stories that will challenge your beliefs and amplify your energy.
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SPEAKER_02:Your most beautiful let's do it together. One, two, three. Your most beautiful life.
SPEAKER_00:Yes. So uh proximity is power, baby.
SPEAKER_02:And sometimes it can also weakness, too.
SPEAKER_00:It can also do like pull away.
SPEAKER_02:Beware of the company you keep.
SPEAKER_00:It can also be a energy leak.
SPEAKER_02:That is correct.
SPEAKER_00:It can also be an energy leak. We're gonna be talking about wealth expansion and why you're repelling money without realizing it and what to do instead. Because if this is you and you're like, oh, I clicked on this episode because this is so me, I want you to know you're not broken, but your nervous system may be repelling the very abundance you've been trying to manifest. So let's talk about the hidden ways you're blocking money and what to do instead.
SPEAKER_02:Just know that you, like what you said, Zuri, you are not cursed, you're not unworthy or unlucky. You're just running subconscious patterns that contradict the wealth that you say you want. So let's get into it uh and let's talk about the confrontation, right? How you're actually repelling money. Right? So most people repel money unconsciously.
SPEAKER_01:Yes.
SPEAKER_02:Right? Self-sabotage doesn't look like sabotage, it looks like avoidance or undercharging for your services. Uh, it might be procrastination, uh poor energetic hygiene, you know, how you talk about yourself. Uh your nervous system doesn't attract what you want, it attracts what it feels safe holding.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, and in researching all of this to help clients, we have found that there's a lot of science about this. There's so much science about um, you know, how you're subconsciously repelling money, you know, wealth, you know, comfort, um, freedom.
SPEAKER_02:Well, I wouldn't mind getting into a little science break, right? Let's let's talk about why you can want wealth and still block it at the same time.
SPEAKER_01:Let's do it.
SPEAKER_02:So let's break down the neuroscience behind why you might be repelling money without even knowing it.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, and we call it a lot of times frequency mismatch, but what does that actually mean in scientific terms? So, to do that, let's talk about brainwave incoherence and money confusion. Yes, in science terms, frequency mismatch refers to misaligned brainwave patterns when different areas of your brain aren't communicating effectively. These mismatches, like between gamma and beta frequencies, can cause the brain to lose coherence, making it harder to send or receive clear internal signals. In a 2014 study by San Cristobal, scientists found that communication between brain regions weakened when their rhythms were out of sync. So if you're holding scarcity in your subconscious while trying to manifest abundance, your brain is literally crosswired. So when we're stressed or stuck in overthinking, which is high beta, we block access to alpha and theta states associated with creativity, openness, and energetic receiving.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah. Your brain is a machine, right? So you can't attract overflow when your nervous system is shut down.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah. And I would just say your brain is an organ.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah.
SPEAKER_00:And it has certain functions. And um, there are things that it literally can't do. Like it, it isn't um, it can be rewired to operate differently, but it's it's an organ that's wired for a specific purpose. Yeah. So let's talk maybe a little bit about the hidden power of subconscious programming.
SPEAKER_02:Perfect. Yeah. Subconscious programming refers to beliefs and emotional patterns we inherit, especially around money, safety, and worth. These aren't just mental habits, they're neural patterns that live below awareness and influence 95% of decisions, according to Harvard researcher Gerald Zaltman.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah.
SPEAKER_02:Uh, another um researcher, uh Brad Klotz, uh I think he's a PhD, um, in 2025, uh, did a paper from Creighton University, which explains that money scripts, deep beliefs from childhood or culture, drive financial behavior more than budgeting apps ever could.
SPEAKER_00:So these money scripts are like your childhood kind of programming. Yep, that would be another way to say it. Well, that means that your money script might be running the show, even when you think you're calling the shots. So there's an a head app um study that further showed that under stress, and that's from this year, by the way, um, that further showed under stress, the brain's amygdala and limbic systems overpower the prefrontal cortex, causing reactive money moves like impulse spending, hoarding, ignoring your finances, and fear-based savings.
SPEAKER_02:Of course. I mean, when you're stressed, your brain flips the switch from rational to reactive. And that's when abundance gets blocked.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah.
SPEAKER_02:And a 2024 Frontier study using FNIRS, which is a neuroimaging device, it found that emotional valuation overrides logic in financial decisions, especially when someone has low financial safety or deep-rooted scarcity wiring. Yikes.
SPEAKER_00:So when this is when your gut says no, but your head says yes, that's your subconscious. And it's not always aligned with abundance.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, unfortunately. So let's do a little recap. What this means for your money blocks, right? So if you're stuck in survival mode trying to attract overflow, your brain is on two different channels. That is frequency mismatch.
SPEAKER_00:Yes. And if your subconscious learned that money equals stress, betrayal, or danger, then trying to manifest it might feel like self-sabotage, but it's actually self-protection.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah. Well, until your subconscious feels safe with wealth, your nervous system will keep pushing it away.
SPEAKER_00:And that's why we don't just do mindset, we do neuroalignment. It's not about what you want, it's about what your body believes is safe. To truly shift wealth reality, you have to address both your brain waves and your body's wiring and how your nervous system interprets success and receiving. Totally. So further understanding this requires us looking at the polyvagal theory. Oh, yeah. So why success can feel unsafe. The polyvagal theory teaches us that the nervous system constantly scans for cues of safety or danger. But this is even true around money. So if your body has learned that money means pressure or wealth equals abandonment, or it's not safe to be seen, all you know, all of the things that um become unsafe, you know, the the feeling of out of the comfort zone. Yeah, out of the comfort, but also like there's you know, extreme fear connected to it. Your system might just code more success or more wealth, more abundance as less safety.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, and and here's the crazy thing even when money is available, your body may not feel safe enough to receive it. Right. So this is why nervous system regulation, breath work, somatics, embodiment is not just it's not just trendy, right? It's critical for expanding your wealth container.
SPEAKER_00:Yes, I so agree.
SPEAKER_02:So uh there's a um thing called the RAS filter, which you can use to create what you believe, right? The reticular activating system, RAS, in your brainstem acts like a filter. It lets in info that matches your beliefs and delete and deletes what it doesn't, right? So it it's constantly working. So if you believe money is dangerous, your RAS may literally filter out opportunities for wealth, aligned relationships, or even visibility.
SPEAKER_00:Yes. So what that means is your brain doesn't just reflect your reality, it curates it.
SPEAKER_02:Most certainly. Oh my God, totally.
SPEAKER_00:So let's talk about the subconscious scripts that drive 95% of money behavior. So, like we were talking about earlier, according to Harvard Business School, 95% of financial decisions come from the subconscious, not the conscious logic. So that means, you know, Harvard's quoted as saying like people with low self-worth often unconsciously repel money through their habits. So your subconscious beliefs shape your budget, your pricing, how much you allow yourself to earn or keep. And it's really important for you to be conscious of how your subconscious could be running the show.
SPEAKER_02:Exactly. And it and you know, with it, it's an it's interesting. Like, it's not what you know, right? It's what your subconscious believes you deserve. You might know, like, oh, I I I know I deserve that car, but if your subconscious doesn't believe you deserve that car, you're not gonna get that car.
SPEAKER_00:Mm-hmm. It's true. So um let's just look at at this a little deeper. And in summation, we don't get what we want, we get what we believe we deserve.
SPEAKER_02:Of course. Like your subconscious doesn't care how big your dream is, it cares how safe your body feels receiving it.
SPEAKER_00:Yes. I think let's let's do some gameplay on this.
SPEAKER_02:Oh, I'm I'm all gamified. I'm ready to go.
SPEAKER_00:Let's gamify it. Okay, so let's play money repeller bingo.
SPEAKER_02:I love bingo. Let me get my little little little scratch cards and everything.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, so what I'm gonna give you is just a pad of paper and um you can just mark down a one next to anything that um applies to you. So one point for each thing that applies to you. If it doesn't apply to you, don't mark anything down. So if it doesn't apply, it's a zero. You don't have to write down a zero, just you know, mark. There's ten of them, so you can just do a little, you know, scratch mark for each one. Okay. Um, so here we go. Empowered posse, play along with us. Um, you're just giving yourself one point for each that applies to you, and at the end, we'll add it up. Um, if you're driving, use your fingers. Don't, don't, don't try to drive and write.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_00:Okay. Um, so number one, you get anxious checking your bank account.
SPEAKER_02:Ooh, okay, okay. Let me think about that one. Next one.
SPEAKER_00:You over-deliver, but under charge.
SPEAKER_02:Guilty. Okay, what else?
SPEAKER_00:Okay, keep your answers to yourself. We're gonna add we're gonna add it up at the end. Okay. You say you want abundance, but feel guilty receiving. Okay. You procrastinate launching your offer.
SPEAKER_02:Crickets. Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_00:You fear being judged if you make more money than your family.
SPEAKER_02:Uh, I don't have that one at all, but yeah, that's good. I I know I'm not supposed to take it.
SPEAKER_00:Can you just silencio?
SPEAKER_02:Uh, I'm trying to. These are good questions, though.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, so just write it down.
SPEAKER_02:Okay.
SPEAKER_00:You're just tracking this, okay? Got it. Let everyone else have an experience too.
SPEAKER_02:I'll do my best. My mouth wants to run.
SPEAKER_00:The sidebar. Okay. I feel fully safe. Here's a statement. So this is you saying, I feel fully safe being wealthy in front of my friends and family.
SPEAKER_02:I'll be quiet. Next.
SPEAKER_00:I regularly track and celebrate my money, even small wins.
SPEAKER_02:I won't say nothing, but I do that. Sorry. I know, I'm not supposed to say anything.
SPEAKER_00:Look at me. Knock it off. Well, I'm gonna play the game, so you're you can play it without your mouth.
SPEAKER_02:Okay.
SPEAKER_00:Use your fingers to write down the one. Are you gonna be able to do this at the end?
SPEAKER_01:Yes.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, so keep up. Okay, I believe I can do good in the world and be financially thriving. I ask for what I'm worth without shrinking. I have clear vision for what I do with more money. Okay, so that's 10. If you said yes to three or more, you don't have to tell me which ones they are, but did you say yes to three or more?
SPEAKER_02:Um, a little bit more than three or more, yeah.
SPEAKER_00:Well, congratulations. In Powered Posse, did you say more to uh yes to three or more? If you did, congratulations. Because what this means, this is exciting. You've just spotted your repeller pattern. And that's the first step to resetting it and you know to stop using bear spray on money. Yeah, that's quick. No repeller needed. So did any of them give you like an aha before we move on?
SPEAKER_02:It's the third one that got me.
SPEAKER_00:You say yes, you you see yes, you want, you say you want abundance, but feel guilty receiving it.
SPEAKER_02:Um, and that's something that I I I know that uh that I have.
SPEAKER_00:Uh huh.
SPEAKER_02:So I'm taking active measures. So I have a money mantra, and the money mantra says, uh, I'm a magnet for money. Money loves me and I love money. Money is always looking for me, and I allow money to find me. So what it does is it allows me to feel less guilty when I actually receive it. More worthy. I feel more worthy. I feel like, oh, I I called this in instead of like, oh my God, why am I getting all this money?
SPEAKER_00:Right.
SPEAKER_02:What about you?
SPEAKER_00:Um the funny one is that um I think feel fully safe being wealthy in front of friends and family is that like every next level, next version of me, you know, becomes more successful, more wealthy, more in whatever way you measure success. And the way that I measure success, and sometimes I find that if you don't see people for a long time, you can shrink, you know, you can start kind of shrinking yourself to fit what they think you are, right? And it's subconscious, it's not a conscious thing that I'm doing. I'm not like going in there like, oh, I gotta act small. No, I'm not doing that, but I notice the behavior is being run by a subconscious programming. So that would be one that I think is pretty big for me. And yeah. So it's important to just look at any of the things that you put a one next to and um just recognize that like this isn't often something that you are doing on purpose. It it is something that you know has been wired in and that you're just going to rewire. So like take your power back from it. It's not to feel bad. If you, if you're like, oh shit, I have 10, that's okay too. Like it doesn't matter wherever you are, you can heal this.
SPEAKER_02:At any age, you can reprogram your whole mind just with thoughts, habits, and action. So yeah, if you feel like any of these are or multiples are are heavy on you, you're in luck because you can change it.
SPEAKER_00:Totally. And we're gonna talk next about the top five hidden ways people repel money.
SPEAKER_02:Oh, I love this one. Let's let's do this.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, so number one would be like we've talked about energetic misalignment. So you could be saying all the affirmations or mantra like Mike, you know, shared, but while holding fear in your body, because and here's the thing you can't affirm abundance from a frequency of lack.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, it's two different channels. Um uh number two is self-sabotage, uh, disguised as perfectionism, like procrastination, is often rooted in fear of being seen or failing. Right. Right. So when that happens, we start to repel up uh options that bring in money.
SPEAKER_00:Right. Number three is unconscious loyalty to broke lineages. So if you have guilt about surpassing parents, friends, or partners, or just who maybe you grew up with, or you know, like you know, like I was saying, if you grew up in like a small town, or you know, there's portions of your family that didn't have money, you know, that unconscious loyalty can be what you are blocking your wealth. And oftentimes, you know, that's that's the block, is that you're you're doing it subconsciously without realizing that you're trying to stay connected to where you came from.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, and this is a really, really powerful one for a lot of our clients.
SPEAKER_00:Yes.
SPEAKER_02:Um, so number four is nervous system dysregulation. Let it be known that fight or flight mode sabotages consistent effort, presence, or bold action, right? So it's gonna keep you operating small. Uh, there's a Stanford study that states that regulated nervous systems perform 30% better on cognitive and strategic tasks.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah.
SPEAKER_02:So get yourself grounded regularly.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, and and regulated. So number five is lack of receptivity. And this is what, you know, is constantly um called the yin wound. So if you're always in doing mode, then you can't be in receiving mode. So it's especially common in high achieving women, and it is very common in providers. So providers often have like a burnout cycle. Yeah. Um, but women especially are meant to be in receptivity, are meant to be in more flow. But if you're always in doing mode and never getting quiet and being open to receptivity, then you're going to tend to lean more masculine and you will receive less. You'll receive less love, attention. It comes in so many different forms. And if this is hitting you over the head, like, oh shit, like that I'm being called out, like um, I feel so attacked. Uh if you're feeling that way, just know that there is a quick switch for this, and we're gonna talk next about like what to do instead. So insummation, you're not afraid of money, you're afraid of who you'll have to become to hold it.
SPEAKER_02:Oh, that is so true. That is mostly true.
SPEAKER_00:This is where people have like a very strong wound around um fear of success. Yeah, you know.
SPEAKER_02:Well, let's talk about what to do instead, right? Let's talk about the wealth rewiring blueprint, right? So there's actionable fixes that you can take in order to make this happen. Uh there's somatic rewiring, uh, which is uh the practice of receiving through breath work, stillness, and pleasure.
SPEAKER_00:Yes. There's nervous system training. So, you know, some people really get a lot of benefits from cold exposure, um, breath holds, so where you're, you know, holding your breath and doing deep breathing exercises, um, vagus nerve resets.
SPEAKER_02:Oh, yeah, the vagus nerve is is most certainly something you want to focus on on the yeah, and we talk about it in this season. Uh, then there's the shadow work. A lot of people don't want to do the shadow work, but there is so much wealth uh in the shadows. So you got to address the guilt, uh, the lineage ties, and any type of uh worthiness stories that you're holding on to.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, which is what you're doing with like rewiring the mantra. Correct. You know, that worthiness um wound is crazy. Um, the other thing is like energetic hygiene. So we have like cord cutting, you know, um, guided meditations. We work with cord cutting a lot in our coaching practice, um, boundary setting, which we've done two podcasts about because it's just so massive. Um, and then frequency tuning. So, for example, you know, listening to binary beats that have 528 hertz, or music that is coded with frequency tuning, or using, you know, we talk about like the Healy device. Um, there's all kinds of different frequency medicine you can get out there from as simple as putting on some noise canceling headphones and some music, or you know, using something that's more dialed into scanning your bioenergetic field.
SPEAKER_02:Uh also sound bowls, uh tuning forks.
SPEAKER_00:Yes.
SPEAKER_02:Um, all that stuff starts to come into play. Uh, and I would highly recommend um uh investing in some of those things because it's stuff, it's stuff that you can enjoy at home and and you know consistency is where this stuff comes through.
SPEAKER_00:Right.
SPEAKER_02:Uh then there's the uh practical strategy, right? You have to raise your prices, you gotta charge your worth, you gotta track your money daily, right? Your money is your best friend.
SPEAKER_00:Yes, and I always talk about like doing a money minute, and all of us have a minute a day that we could spend on looking at our money. Um, and you know, if you look at your money and it takes you less than a minute, then you can use the other 30 seconds to um manifest, you know, to really like, you know, get into the embodiment. And we talk a lot about um uh reality selection, you know, select the reality you want to see in your bank account. Like if you look at it and you're like, oh, I've only got you know$50, you know, you know, close your eyes and see the zeros and feel what it would feel like, you know. Three extra zeros there, you know, five extra zeros, maybe seven. Um that's cool. Like, right? And so, like, get yourself into um a practice. Mike and I also do money Mondays where we talk together about money um because it just creates a habit of setting up our week to both call in the money but also to be in gratitude for the money that we have. And yeah, so the other thing I would suggest is supportive suggestion. So you want to align yourself with people who have healthy money scripts because proximity is power. And we always talk about like, you know, working with different people who have figured it out, you know, work with somebody who's like a master at the thing. So I highly recommend you get in, you know, proximity with a coach or a group or affiliation that have figured out the money game.
SPEAKER_01:Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_00:And, you know, that know how to rewire and they're using tools like we discussed, or they also are using um, you know, some type of of NLP or like, you know, there's a stuff, a lot of stuff that we use to get people to rewire. Um because energetic misalignment is the number one reason your strategies aren't sticking.
SPEAKER_02:Correct.
SPEAKER_00:So well, yeah.
SPEAKER_02:I mean, you don't need another marketing course, right? You need to stop hiding your light because of your money wound. Yes, right? So you remove the wound and that money will flow. It will it'll it will money loves to be found.
SPEAKER_00:Money loves to be found and um is will be a magnet to you if you uh you know align yourself with it. Correct. Yeah, the moment I learned proximity is power, like things really change because I distanced myself from those that were constantly in a state of lack and limitation, and I purposely chose to be around people who they, you know, I was like the dumbest one at the table. You know, it's like let me learn everything and sponge this, and then like, you know, your tables change as you evolve, your tables change, and like keep looking for the tables that you can sit at where you can learn the most from, because you'll constantly be in a state of improvement.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, the the company you keep really acts as a barometer of the the the wealth trajectory that you're going through, right? So if you are hanging out with people who are consistently managing their money, making money, excited about receiving money, going on these big deals and and um great vacations because they have mastered the art of of receiving money, those are the people you want to hang out with. Yeah. If you're hanging out with people who are coupon cutting and you know, um, you know, doomsday planning, that's the wrong frequency for abundance.
SPEAKER_00:Right.
SPEAKER_02:That's scarcity.
SPEAKER_00:Right. So if you felt seen in this episode and you're ready to stop repelling the very wealth you desire, book a session with either Mike and I um or together if you are a couple. I really recommend that you work with, if you're married, is to work on this together. And Mike and I do sessions with couples where we help you harmonize. And if wealth is your goal, that's easy. If wealth is the only thing you haven't figured out in your relationship, like that's kind of the easiest, you know. Um, it's usually like the harder things are like communication breakdowns and you know, lack of trust or sometimes infidelity, whatever the thing is, those things are are harder, you know, to heal quickly. But um, you want to say something?
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, I I think that um the power behind the group settings when it's you know, when we work with both the husband and wife, is that oftentimes it only takes one of the couples, one of the partners who have any type of money wound to sully both of the partners' ability to make money.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, because of the proximity.
SPEAKER_02:Exactly.
SPEAKER_00:And because you end up sharing each other's energy, and if you aren't aware of energy, energetic misalignment, you might be dipping your vibration constantly to try to just find sinking harmony.
SPEAKER_02:That exactly. And then also um, you know, one one member of the couple can be exhibiting um uh actions or words or using things that are going to um uh I don't know, um create wounds in the other person. So you have the opportunity to create wealth or repel wealth based on just your relationships alone. So if you're in that that cusp of like, okay, we want to actually start calling in more money, I would highly recommend getting that that group coaching because, you know, the couple coaching, because then you can have the opportunity to look at all the wounds together.
SPEAKER_00:Yep. And for our single friends, we do have group coaching offers. Just use the links in our show notes to join us. Um, most things require application, but um, some of our group sessions you can anyone is welcome. And what we'll do is we'll help you identify and neutralize the exact subconscious blocks that are holding your abundance hostage. Yeah. So you'll stop repelling wealth. You're you'll start being aligned with it, you'll start feeling the frequency shift. And it's really, you know, I often say magic, and then like people are like, it's not magic, it's science. Okay, but I feel like it's a little bit of both. There are some things that are are indescribable that happen once you start changing your very Vibration, when you start operating from joy and operating from gratitude, and um it feels magical because it happens so quickly. Things just change correct quickly. And so, you know, years of therapy, for example, which you know can be supportive for people to um process, it's very different being in group coaching sessions or private sessions where you're not just menting, you're looking for the source, and we are helping you identify the source and helping you squash the source.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, it's it's crazy. Every time I've done group coaching, uh, either participated or uh or you know, was a practitioner of it. Um, one thing that I always realized is that it is so easy to see patterns in someone else than it is to see patterns in yourself. So when you when you in those group coachings, you see all these patterns, right? And then all of a sudden you start thinking like, wait, I do that and I do that and I do that, and you realize like, wait a minute, I am not broken. I just need to get reprogrammed, right? Right. I'm not behind, you're not broken. You just you're just out of resonance with your next financial timeline. And that's something that we can fix together, most certainly.
SPEAKER_00:Yes. And I would just say in these group sessions, what's great is that if you have a coach that is holding the vibration of whatever the intention is, if it's like, you know, a wealth reset or something, the um and everyone joins with that intention that it, you know, like the tide raises all boats, right? It's like like it, you basically all rise together and your the proximity, especially in like the groups that I I host, it's like the proximity becomes like a sisterhood of like no one gets left behind. We all rise together without judgment, without you know, bias, like everyone rises together because that's the mission. And brotherhood in you know, terms of what you're doing, or like with a couple, it's like, no, we're going to unify, we're gonna harmonize, we're going to do it together. And it's not an option to be on different teams, like different frequencies. We are like copiloting here. So um, yeah, coaches need coaches too. The Mike and I need coaches, like we we constantly are getting coached because somebody else, you know, can see your blind spots. And so it's amazing to get someone to help you rewire something that you might not see. Yeah. You know, a behavior, a language pattern. Like it's easy to see it externally.
SPEAKER_02:Yes, that is correct. Yeah, the only way you can see yourself is when you actually look in a mirror, and that's what a coach does. A coach holds up that mirror and and allows you to have uh different perspectives that you can use to see where you are actually at and how you can move forward.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah.
SPEAKER_02:Um in your own body, right? You don't have to get a brand new body, you don't think you do anything, you just have to have different actions and different thoughts.
SPEAKER_00:Right, right.
SPEAKER_02:I was thinking about that game that we had just played and the the very last one, right? I have a clear vision for what I would do with more money. And uh when you said that, and uh I instantly realized, oh my god, that is a huge pattern because what I'm envisioning is giving it away.
unknown:Right?
SPEAKER_02:I was envisioning all the time.
SPEAKER_00:Because your nervous system doesn't feel like it's safe.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, I was like, oh, I can help this person, I can help this person, I can help this person. And at no point did I say, wait a minute, I'm gonna help myself. So um I feel like I feel like I'm enough to help myself.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, it goes back to that that um exact thing that you were talking about that you were feeling is like it goes back to that worthiness, like, oh, I'm not worthy of this. Here, let me, it's like hot potato. Like, you know, you ever play that game when you're little? You're like, oh, this is mine, like get it out of here.
SPEAKER_02:Exactly. It's like, you know, burn your seal. Someone gives me, you know, you know, if I win, say, you know, a couple million dollars, I can I can literally see all of my family live members living in beautiful houses. And for some reason I picture myself living in a van down by the river. Right? It's like, wait a minute. I gotta, I gotta, I gotta look at that self-worth wound and and handle it, you know, because living in the van by the river sucks.
SPEAKER_00:Well, you need to up that to like a couple hundred million if you're gonna buy your family's houses.
SPEAKER_02:Well, maybe I'll buy them all. Maybe I'll buy them all vans by the river.
SPEAKER_00:You guys can have a caravan. Count me out. No. Bye.
SPEAKER_02:Actually, you know what? A travel van by the river would be kind of fun. Not not for permanent living, but you know, for a little vacation.
SPEAKER_00:That's not what you said. So it's yours, you're changing the hypotheticals. So this is your favorite thing you should do.
SPEAKER_02:I'm working through the hypotheticals, right? If I'm if I'm trying to picture myself in a van by the river, it's not gonna be, you know, uh a shady van that's all dilapidated like Uncle Rico's, right?
SPEAKER_00:I'm talking about Uncle Rico.
SPEAKER_02:I'm talking about, you know, a two-story travel van with, you know, all kinds of amidities and and then I can pick what river I want to be at.
SPEAKER_00:You know what I'm saying? Still no.
SPEAKER_02:Hey, I'm working on it. I love you.
SPEAKER_00:I love you, but still no.
SPEAKER_02:Working up, not down.
SPEAKER_00:Listen, you can you can come back and visit me in wherever I live, which will be beautiful. Okay.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, but so you love me so much that you will join me at a van down by the river.
SPEAKER_00:For a night or two. Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. Nope. I'm just telling you right now. No, maybe a previous version of me, yes, but no, not right now. That's that is not in alignment with this version of me.
SPEAKER_02:What was your what was your second on the game?
SPEAKER_00:Okay. Um, you know, really call myself out here. Um, you procrastinate launching your offer.
SPEAKER_02:I knew you were gonna say that. I looked at it, I was like, she's gonna say this offer because you're sitting on like, you know, 10, 15 offers right now.
SPEAKER_00:Boy. Called out, called out. Um, yeah, just like I create a lot of content and a lot of offers. And there are times where I hesitate. You can call it procrastination too. Um, and there are certain offers that I created like 10 years ago and didn't launch for various reasons, but most of them I think tied to um a wealth wound. So working through that is uh paramount.
SPEAKER_02:It is paramount. And you know, sometimes it stings when we realize where some of these wounds are. Um, but it's not a sting that you want to avoid, right? It's a sting that you want to actually experience. Because the minute that you actually look at your wounds and be like, oh. Like, how easy would it be now that you know the whole procrastination wound, right? Know your wound, come up with a plan, kill your wound, let that money come in.
SPEAKER_00:Or you could just keep procrastinating and then you'll never know how much money you could make from that offer because it never goes out into the world. And that's where you end up being, you know, in regret land later in life. And nobody wants to be in regretland, right?
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, I I wonder, I might actually have a procrastination course that I've been procrastinating.
SPEAKER_00:Your offer is how not to procrastinate. Put that one out first. Yes.
SPEAKER_02:Can I? Well, maybe tomorrow.
SPEAKER_00:Well, maybe tomorrow. That's like a disease. Like, I'll start on Monday, right? Yeah, I think that's Tuesday.
SPEAKER_02:You're like, oh, I got plenty of time.
SPEAKER_00:Oh, some more cake.
SPEAKER_02:I need this cake.
SPEAKER_00:Sending you the highest vibrations.
SPEAKER_02:You are health.
SPEAKER_00:You are love. And then they're really repelling the opportunity that you have to make any money.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah. And then, and then you scroll online and you see someone else someone else's procrastination course, you're like, ah, yes. This one sucks. I should have done my own.
SPEAKER_00:Well, the thing is, is that like I do find that people, especially some of the people that I coach that are course creators or content creators, and they'll be like, oh, well, that's already been done. And it was like, everything's already been done. Everything's already done. You know, it's like wait, if we're gonna only do what's not been done, like that, that's gonna be, you know, a small fraction of things. Nobody can do it like you, is the point. That's gonna be, you know, so what you're just gonna be an inventor? Like, you know, there's not a lot of inventors. There isn't. But there's plenty of people who are maybe saying the same thing, but saying it in a unique way. And there's people out there that need that message from that person delivering that message.
SPEAKER_02:Correct, correct. Every ear is tuned for a a particular voice or frequency.
SPEAKER_00:Yep.
SPEAKER_02:You might be that frequency, that voice that will that will unlock someone else's magic.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah. And the beautiful thing about showing up and actually giving your offer is that you don't really know what's gonna happen. But I can guarantee that if you don't put it out there, nothing's gonna happen.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah.
SPEAKER_00:Other than you're going to feel betrayed by yourself because you will have broken promises and you will have let yourself down and you will have kept yourself stuck. So um by your choices, by your inaction.
SPEAKER_02:I'd go so far as to say that you have a certain bandwidth, right? That you can receive information, also known as inspiration, right? So all these great ideas. And every time you execute on one of those, your bandwidth expands. Yes. But the universe is like, oh, this guy is producing. Let's get all these ideas out into the world through him. And every time that you procrastinate or you're like, no, I'm not gonna put this out there, that bandwidth shrinks because the universe is like, well, I'm not gonna give this guy any insight or or uh, you know, inspiration because he's just gonna sit on it.
SPEAKER_00:He's yeah, he's gonna be inactive and he's gonna be thinking like, oh, I'm stuck, I'm stuck, I'm stuck.
SPEAKER_02:He's actually doing his personality.
SPEAKER_00:With all these great ideas and thinking like, well, I just need somebody else to execute the ideas. And it's like the person who has the idea also needs to be part of the person who puts it into action. Even hiring someone else is an action. Even, you know, like just having the idea. Ideas, what I've learned in as being an entrepreneur, ideas are actually easy. It's the execution of ideas that is more challenging because it requires action. Because ideas drop in all the time. You know, I mean, we're constantly being inspired by whatever we're watching, wherever we go. You know, sometimes we get quiet, and like you said, you know, inspiration comes through us from, you know, from the universe, um, or whatever you believe in. And like, yeah, that's crazy to think that it could um, you know, your inspiration can get smaller and smaller by inactivity.
SPEAKER_02:What was that quote that we got from uh uh Michael Jackson that uh when he would get songs, you know, he would go to sleep and he would wake up with songs in his mind, and right then and there he would go to the studio and record it because he's like I have to get it on, I have to get it on wax before Prince gets it. Yeah, right? Because Prince was also a powerhouse, right? His bandwidth was massive.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, right.
SPEAKER_02:So the the I the the the song idea is like, oh, do I go through Michael Jackson? Do I go through Prince? Do I go through Freddie Mercury? Like, there's all these big players out there, and they're players because they take that inspiration and they make it.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, they do something with it, right? Exactly. They make it manifest, they embody it.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, yep. So, you know, I know that you you have a garage full of dope ass offers. So I'm looking forward to seeing those offers based off of this conversation, right?
SPEAKER_00:Okay, DBT.
