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<v SPEAKER_00>Please be seated.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Good evening, everyone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If you'd like to open your Bibles to Matthew chapter 25, we'll be there in just a few moments.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want to express my appreciation for the opportunity to be with you this weekend.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In so many ways, it's been a joy and a great encouragement to me to be able to meet you and to be in your fellowship and participate with you in this men's weekend.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There are a number of people I appreciate who have contributed mightily to this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'd like to pack up AJ and take him home with us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I tell you what, that guy, he has been Johnny on the spot for me and Noah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everything we needed every time we had a question, then he sent us an email at the end, laying the whole program out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I thought, man, thank you for that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I know he has a team of guys that work with him, and I think the team of guys that do that too, but AJ was the front man.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so that meant if he's the front man, he also gets the blame if it didn't go well too.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But uh I appreciate what AJ did and the group that works with him to provide for us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's been special to me because I get to be with Noah.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Him and Michaela were with us for a few years, and Noah was very forbearing with me working with him and preaching and trying to learn some things about that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I enjoy working with young men, trying to help them understand something about that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I will tell you, the student has passed the teacher.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm very proud of him and the work that he's doing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just been a joy for me to be in his presence, but to hear him teach and to see him work and see the great work that he's doing in the kingdom of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My love is so immense for him and his family, and I'm so proud of all of them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I want to thank Jamie and Jennifer for housing us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I made a few smart remarks yesterday about the sawdust floors and the outdoor plumbing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But I'm gonna tell you, that's a five-star hotel.

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<v SPEAKER_00>With our own personal chef.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They have made me and Noah feel very, very welcome and appreciated, and they have been the ultimate host, and the hospitality has just been so warm and precious.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jeffrey's father and I go back a long, long way, and her granddad and my dad go back even further than that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm glad to get to be in their home and get to know her and her family and be part of that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's just been a joy to be with them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's been great to be able to make contact with Nate.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We've kind of known each other through the years, but not had much time to visit, and I've appreciated the time to be with him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then Saturday, when I got in, I got to do the podcast with George and with Justin.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I appreciate the the work that George is doing and how he's growing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Unique thing though about Justin, we realized is uh I went to college at what was East Texas State University.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now it's Texas Enemy Commerce and uh Texas AM in commerce.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh I would work a half a day, but I'd work a half a day for his grandfather.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that was kind of a neat little thing to put together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I knew his dad when his dad was a young boy in high school.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so as we talked, the light bulbs kept coming on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's so it's nice to make that connection.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then uh I knew Caleb before Caleb was born.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His family was with us for a number of years, and to see the young man that he was going into and have his own family and now expecting another one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So a number of things that I really appreciate.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Appreciate your elders uh inviting me to be here and the work that they're doing here so much.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Appreciate your work and the excitement that you have for the cause of Christ.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's read the beginning of Matthew chapter 25 together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Matthew chapter 25.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then the kingdom of heaven shall be likened to ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now five of them were wise and five were foolish.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those who were foolish took their lamps and took no oil with them, but the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps, but while the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And at midnight a cry was heard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Behold, the bridegroom is coming out to meet him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And all those virgins arose, trimmed their lamps.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the foolish said to why to the wise, Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But the wise answered, saying, No, lest there not be enough for us and you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Rather go to those who sell and buy for yourselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And while they went, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding, and the door was shut.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And afterwards the other versions also came, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But he answered and said, Assuredly, I say to you, I do not know you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Watch therefore, for you know neither the hour nor the day in which the Son of Man is coming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If I set first of all the immediate context for what I think is taking place here, I think chapter 25, at least this part of chapter 25, is illustrating the point of Matthew chapter 24.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Matthew chapter 24 is talking about the destruction of Jerusalem.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And at the end of Matthew chapter 24, you have that same utterance, watch and pray.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Talks about how you can look at the clouds and the weather and you can see see things from there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Can you not watch for the Son of Man?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then he comes and he says, Let me illustrate that for you in a story that maybe can penetrate and that you can understand.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he closes with the same encouragement you need to watch.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because you know not the hour when the Son of Man comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Paul, that certainly can be applicable to the second coming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those same words can be applicable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think primarily he's talking about the destruction of Jerusalem, and you know not when the Son of Man is going to come in judgment against you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So you need to be ready when he comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You need to be watching.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But tonight we're talking about starting ready and staying ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I'd like to take, after we look at that immediate context of things, and I'd like to extrapolate, pull some things out of that that I think are very pertinent and helpful to us when we think about this idea of are you ready to start ready and to stay ready?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever experienced the moment of euphoria in which everything lined up for you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those rare moments when things just everything went together for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, it started out great, in the middle it was great, and it ended great, and you started out on fire.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But how we start out is not what's important.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What is important is how we stay ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's easy to be pumped up and to start ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I won't ask for a show of hands.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But how many of us have begun a project with a great deal of enthusiasm for that project, only to, in a short period of time, have the enthusiasm of that project to die out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Someone once said the enthusiasm with which we begin is not the enthusiasm with which we end.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we can begin with a great deal of enthusiasm in a number of different things, and we think we're ready for this, and then it just seems like we don't stay ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It just seems like we go out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when we think about what is said to us in this story with these ten virgins that are here for this wedding.

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<v SPEAKER_00>While we would not do weddings like they do, there were some things that took place in there that I think are helpful to us to start ready and to stay ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think when we think about this, we need to understand we can't start at midnight to prepare for what we need at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The hour had come for them to be ready, and now, just now they're going to plan to be ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was interesting at the house before we left.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We were having some casual conversation among ourselves, and I asked the question of one of the boys that were there, are you a procrastinator?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And his younger brother said, Yes, he's the king of it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then the younger brother debated the older brother as to who the king of it was.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then Noah asked me if I was a procrastinator.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm a lot of things, but I'm not a procrastinator.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can't provide what is necessary at midnight only at midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can't wait for the crisis to come to prepare for the crisis.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There has to be something that's put in place in preparation before the crisis ever comes to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we see that in this parable.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We see this in this story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think I've seen that in people's lives.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Perhaps it's been your experience.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe the elders, maybe Nate, your experience that you you sat by the bedside of people who were tremendously sick, and death was just at the door for them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You know, the number of times I've sat with people like that, they've never said, you know, I sure wish I'd had the right position on marriage, divorce, and remarriage.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I sure wish I'd had had the right position on the work of the church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not diminishing those.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Please understand that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But at that time, you don't have a deep theological debate about things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What you want to know at that time is have I been preparing myself to be ready for when the Lord comes?

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<v SPEAKER_00>My dad's mother, my nanny, lived to be almost 93 years old.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I was visiting with her in the nursing home one day, and my middle name is Glenn.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the family calls me anything from Ricky Glenn to Glenn.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so as I was visiting with her, she said, Glenn, I just don't know if I've prayed enough.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She wasn't worried about a theological debate.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What she wanted to know was, am I ready, have I done enough to prepare to be ready?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have a real good friend who runs marathons.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In fact, just recently he ran the Boston Marathon, Jacob Hudgens.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I began to do some looking at this and I began to think about this as an illustration.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I thought I better ask a guy who does this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've heard things about people who run marathons that there comes a place in running a marathon in which you really hit what they call the wall, which means you've exhausted every bit of resources you have, and now then it's just sheer gut and will.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I asked Jacob, is this when this happens?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, Yeah, somewhere around mile 20 or 22, and said, You don't have anything left, and it's just all you've got to push.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But here's the thing: you don't wait till mile 20 or 22 to prepare for mile 20 or 22.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have to be ready before you reach there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There has to be a starting ready and a staying ready to finish and compete in that marathon race.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can't wait until the crisis comes to prepare for being ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That brings to my mind a second consideration I'd like to ask and think about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why is it?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why is it that we struggle to stay ready?

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<v SPEAKER_00>See, in this story, you had five that were ready, and you had five that were not ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's obvious in our reading that was there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And by the way, have you noticed how much in common they do have?

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're virgins, they all have lamps, they're all asleep together there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They all have oil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now they don't all have enough oil, but they all have oil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're all there together waiting for the anticipated arrival of the bridegroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're all there together.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There are a number of things they have in common.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we might think that, well, here are these five foolish ones, and really what this story is telling us is these five foolish ones, they're just sinful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're just lazy and sinful.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, maybe so.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe so.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But is there another possibility beside the fact that these might have been lazy and and the sinful virgins who didn't prepare in time?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is there another option?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Perhaps it was exhaustion.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just because a person is exhausted doesn't mean the person doesn't care.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've known a lot of exhausted people that care, except the fact they're just purely exhausted.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And now then they've been here and they're waiting and they haven't prepared themselves, and the exhaustion has overwhelmed them in this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not that they're sinful and lazy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They have, they care, they're present, they are there, they want to be there, they care.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Exhaustion's not a sin.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is not about a condemnation of someone, it's about the fact that here you can't wait until the 11th hour to prepare for the 12th hour, and that was their problem.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And perhaps they just have become exhausted in things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever experienced that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes we we have a number of metaphors that we use, we call it burnout.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever experienced that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you experienced just sheer exhaustion, just sheer burnout?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You've pushed yourself as far as you can push, and then there's one more thing that comes up that you were not anticipating, and that one more thing just puts you over the top.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you stopped caring?

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<v SPEAKER_00>No, you still care.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's why you've pushed yourself so hard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But the problem is we haven't prepared adequately for the marathon.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We haven't prepared adequately for the 20th or 22nd mile in things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I think I'd like to talk about three things that I think challenge us with what we're talking about, dealing with this aspect of being exhausted.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The first thing I'd like to talk about and challenge us to think about is our intimacy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what I mean by that is our intimacy with God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This has been a great weekend.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But this is a big thing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Listen, if you can't get pumped up for this, if you can't get pumped up for the big thing, we've got a problem.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But now here comes the challenge.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The big thing's about to be over.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the small things are about to start.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When the alarm goes off in the morning, it's not going to be man's weekend.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're not going to have two guest speakers that are going to be here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's going to be the alarm goes off and life begins again.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How about how we handle our intimacy with God in the small things?

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<v SPEAKER_00>For years I struggled with some of these Bible reading programs that people put out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've done Mark Roberts' Bible reading program for years, and finally I figured out I get so far behind, I just give up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But on my phone, I've got a Bible app.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that Bible app has a verse of the day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I can pull that verse of the day up and I can read that verse of the day, and that just simply gets me started.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have a few things I read from Gary Henry, who does a great job writing readable blogs.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not an article this long where you have to think through it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's nice little devotional things, but they are moments, small moments, small intimate moments that help you in that moment connect with God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So when I talk about intimacy with God, I'm not talking about the big things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm talking about the day-to-day things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How we prepare for the day-to-day things that help us then when the big things that challenge us in life come.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The second thing I'd like to suggest to think about is the idea of community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is a community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>People in a local fellowship with each other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That word fellowship is an interesting word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And by the way, the term fellowship and community are cousins.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They talk about a partnership, they talk about a mutual involvement in something.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm talking about a community in which we begin to involve ourselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we know people and we touch people and we're involved with people.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when people see us, they can look at us and see there's something wrong.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's something happening.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's something going on.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I need help from someone, and they sense that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Shepherds develop that sixth sense about them when they look at the flock.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There's some there's something going on with that, with that lamb there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I've got to go talk to that lamb.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The sheep are herding here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I've staying connected with that community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's so easy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's so easy to separate ourselves from the intimacy with God and community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And as a result of that, we wind up like the five foolish.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We still care.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But we've allowed the static and the things of life just simply pull us away and distract us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we get to the point where we need the oil, and we don't have the oil, we don't have the energy to complete it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the third seems double to the first, and that is spending our time, not just intimacy with God in prayer, but intimacy with God in his word daily.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If we're not communicating with God and He's not communicating with us, then we're not going to have that close relationship with God that is going to help us stay connected to Him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here you have these five wise ones that have brought plenty of oil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And there's something deeper that happens now because now the five foolish say, Please give us some of yours.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it looks like they're really being ungenerous.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If that wasn't a word, it is now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It looks like they're not being very generous because, hey, what's it a little bit to share with someone else?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You take a drop, I'll take a drop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Everybody takes a drop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now we got a bunch of drops.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they said, no.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You go and you buy and you sell.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And what that means is I can't borrow your intimacy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I can't bar your community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I can't bar your time in the word of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But listen, they're all available.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The oil's available.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't have to be without the oil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The oil is available.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The oil is there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And here's the thing: we don't have to go buy it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It is as near to us as the word of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that's what Paul says in Romans.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, God is near to us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't have to ascend to the heights or descend to the abyss.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is right near us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so when you think about this, we can't borrow that from somebody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I can't borrow those things from you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They couldn't borrow the oil from one another.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had to go buy that for themselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If I'm going to start ready and stay ready, I can't borrow your ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I have to be ready for myself and I have to prepare that not just when the crisis comes, but before the crisis comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Listen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If the oil of intimacy and the oil of community and the oil of communication is running out of marriage, we can't wait till the divorce papers are filed before we start doing something about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're not going to navigate the storm, the crisis of the storm.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When the storm comes, we have to be able to prepare for the time when the crisis comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that comes before the crisis comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that was the problem with these five foolish women.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They did not prepare for when the time comes and they needed to extend themselves.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had all these things in common except for the fact they did not prepare for the delay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Wouldn't it be nice tonight?

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<v SPEAKER_00>When the last amen is led, that that instant, that moment, the Lord would come.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But how prepared are we going to be if he delays?

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's the real question.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the point of this lesson about starting ready and staying ready is we had to prepare to be ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we can't wait for the need to be ready before we prepare to be ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I realize 2009 seems like years ago because it is.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But January 15, 2009, there was something significant that happened.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>There was a fellow who was just a common pilot who became an immediate famous pilot named Sully Sullenberger.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His plane was having problems as he came over to New York and 3,000 feet above the Hudson Bay.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He knew he did not have enough power to turn around and make any of the airports in the region itself.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For 42 years, Sully Sullenberger had been flying planes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And for 42 years, he's been going to the simulator.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For 42 years, he's been trimming things.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For 42 years, he's been looking at all the manuals that are there to check before you ever take off on a flight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's been looking at his planes, he's been examining his planes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's done all the things that are necessary for the plane to fly and for the pilot to be prepared for the plane to fly and to handle the plane.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He's been doing that for 42 years.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when the one time came where the preparation was necessary, it was the accumulation of 42 years of preparation and training that enabled him to land that plane in the bay and not a single life be lost.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's an illustration of what I'm talking about.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have these five, these ten verses, they all started out ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But they didn't stay ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They had some oil, but not enough oil, five.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They waited till midnight to prepare for what they needed in midnight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They didn't take advantage of the time to prepare themselves, to trim themselves, to make sure everything was there that was necessary to be able to be there when the bridegroom came and they weren't prepared for the delay of the bridegroom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so they did not stay ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they missed that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And now here are haunting words in this story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The door is shut.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The five went in, the five came back after finding oil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're knocking at the door.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Please let us in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Knock, knock, knock, let us in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The ring doorbell is going off, and we see that please let us in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the door is shut.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And it says, I never knew you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't know how that strikes you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But how is the Lord going to let us in if we've never met him?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let me ask you, how likely are you to let a stranger come in your house?

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<v SPEAKER_00>How likely are you to open a door to a stranger?

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<v SPEAKER_00>When we lived in Del Rio for seven years, between the years of 1981 and 1988, my wife would tell the kids, if someone rings the doorbell, don't answer the door.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now, here's the backstory to that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The house we lived in was budded right up against the church building.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Our backyard was part of the side yard of the church building.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So we lived in a house there that the brethren provided for us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And that meant everybody came by stopped.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so I was out of town one day, and the rule was when dad's out of town, we don't answer the door.

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<v SPEAKER_00>One day, somebody knocked on the door, and Cody Glenn was probably all about kindergarten, first grade age.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He opened the door, so I was a stranger, slammed the door and said, Mom, somebody's at the door.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A little too late.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're not gonna let somebody in you don't know.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's what the Lord's saying.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not gonna let you in because I don't know you, and you don't know me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But now here's the encouraging thing about that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>For us, the door is open.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's the day today.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The door's open.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we can come in.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But we're going to have to reacquaint ourselves with the intimacy of God with the small things in our life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're going to have to acquaint ourselves in the Word of God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we're going to have to reconnect ourselves to a sense of community.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then he closes with this powerful expression that we uttered in the beginning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Watch therefore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because you don't know the hour.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But you can't wait until the hour comes to prepare.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The challenge of being a disciple of the Lord is to start ready and to stay ready.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Tonight the door is open for each one of us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Jesus Christ says, I am the door.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And anyone who enters through me shall have everlasting life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he awaits.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He awaits us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If we can help you come while we stand up, while we sing.
