162. They Don't Hate YOU, They Hate...
Failing Motherhood
Have you ever been told, "I HATE YOU" by your child?
Or even worse "You're not coming to my birthday party!"
Parents of strong-willed kids (esp. mom) can become the scapegoat for the anger they harbor, and it can lead to parents hearing things like “You don’t love me”.
This often causes a spiral into permissiveness to avoid conflict, anxiety, and/or a lot of self-doubt as a parent.
Spoiler Alert: They don’t hate you. They hate feeling crazy and all alone with their BIG emotions. And we do too.
IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:
- My CRAZY week and what led me to resent my husband
- 7 things they hate MORE than you
- The prerequisite to building the momentum that’s needed to problem solve forward together
DON'T MISS:
- How to interpret and respond when your child says “I HATE YOU!”
// MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //
Episode 111 (June 2023): “Why are they so angry?”
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