Strong Men Strong Marriages
Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.
Strong Men Strong Marriages
Why This Podcast Might Not Be Enough To Change Your Marriage
You’re a faithful podcast listener. You read books. You take courses. You learn as much as you can to create sexual, mental and emotional intimacy with your wife.
And, you’re making some steps in the right direction.
But, you’re not quite where you want to be.
Or, you make some progress, then seem to slip back.
It’s not that you need to listen to one more podcast or find just the right book.
Your brain needs to change.
And to do that, you need to do 3 things:
#Identify and eliminate your negative, unattractive patterns
#Replace them with positive, attractive patterns
#Repeat those new patterns until you are strong and attractive on default
Without those three steps, all the podcasts and books in the world will make no difference.
And as much as you learn, you won’t be able to see your own patterns clearly without an outside perspective.
Even if that’s what you do for work (like me).
I had to get my own coach to see my negative patterns, replace them with new ones, and then create something where I had accountability to practice those new patterns every day.
I am accountable to my guys for my practice just like they’re accountable to me for their practice.
So, if your marriage isn’t where you want…
Let’s get to work.
CLICK HERE to apply to join Strong Men Strong Marriages.
Dr. Mike
P.S. Watch on YouTube here.
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