The Breakthrough Secrets Podcast

#102 - Hector Gutierrez: The Better Man Blueprint

June 06, 2021 Chris Abbott & Mike Kurkowski Season 2 Episode 102
The Breakthrough Secrets Podcast
#102 - Hector Gutierrez: The Better Man Blueprint
Chapters
1:50
Introducing our special guest Senior instructor at StrongFirst, Director of Operations at Hardstyle Kettlebell, and founder of The Better Man Blueprint Hector Gutierrez @thedragao
2:00
Hector’s 100 snatches a day program
3:30
The Better Man Blueprint
4:20
Training for men
6:30
Masculinity is under attack
6:40
“When you destroy the family, everything else falls” - Hector Gutierrez
7:40
Men don’t ask for help cause for them, that is a sign of weakness
8:50
How men react in different ways to being wounded
10:00
Losing your gold
12:20
The feeling of being devalued
15:20
Using how you are in your advantage
16:10
Forgive or forget
16:40
Winners vs Losers
17:30
As the leader of the house, my family’s energy goes where my energy goes
22:05
Strong in mind, body, emotionally, spiritually and in community
25:20
Where is your identity and who you are
31:50
Having the courage to acknowledge that something is wrong
32:50
“You can’t solve the problem until you take ownership of the problem” - Hector Gutierrez
34:40
The foundation of trust
36:50
Different shadows for different aspects of masculinity
36:55
King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Book by Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore
37:20
Your golden shadow
37:50
“The shadow is there, it’s somebody who understands that shadow and chooses each day to not go into that shadow what makes you a good man”
40:50
How to determine what is the center
44:20
The 7 human goods
44:40
“Religion is man's ability to reconnect with his cause of being”- Hector Gutierrez
45:20
“Through a woman, man’s first love, through a woman man will fall, through another woman man will be reborn and redeemed, and through that woman God is gonna come to reveal to you who you are” - Hector Gutierrez
48:50
Jesus of Nazareth is the perfection of masculinity
54:00
Jesus Christ split our time B.C. and A.D.
1:02:50
The family is under attack
1:03:20
Lucifer and his intent to attack women
1:09:50
“Without women we don’t have a blueprint on how to become a better man” - Hector Gutierrez
1:14:50
Where to reach out to Hector Gutierrez @thedragao
The Breakthrough Secrets Podcast
#102 - Hector Gutierrez: The Better Man Blueprint
Jun 06, 2021 Season 2 Episode 102
Chris Abbott & Mike Kurkowski

In the 102nd Episode of The Breakthrough Secrets Podcast, Mike, Chris and our special guest Senior instructor at StrongFirst, Director of Operations at Hardstyle Kettlebell, and founder of The Better Man Blueprint Hector Gutierrez will talk about man as the leader of the house, the importance of the family, The Better Man Blueprint, women and man’s first love and Jesus Chris as The Perfection Of Masculinity.

Join us in this insightful and captivating talk!

In this chapter you will discover:

.

(1:00) Introducing our special guest Senior instructor at StrongFirst, Director of Operations at Hardstyle Kettlebell, and founder of The Better Man Blueprint Hector Gutierrez @thedragao

(1:10) Hector’s 100 snatches a day program

(2:40) The Better Man Blueprint

(3:30) Training for men

(5:40) Masculinity is under attack

(5:50) “When you destroy the family, everything else falls” - Hector Gutierrez

(6:50) Men don’t ask for help cause for them, that is a sign of weakness

(8:00) How men react in different ways to being wounded

(9:10) Losing your gold

(11:30) The feeling of being devalued

(14:30) Using how you are in your advantage

(15:20) Forgive or forget

(15:50) Winners vs Losers

(16:40) As the leader of the house, my family’s energy goes where my energy goes

(21:15) Strong in mind, body, emotionally, spiritually and in community

(24:30) Where is your identity and who you are

(31:00) Having the courage to acknowledge that something is wrong

(32:00) “You can’t solve the problem until you take ownership of the problem” - Hector Gutierrez

(33.50) The foundation of trust

(36:00) Different shadows for different aspects of masculinity

(36:05) King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Book by Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore https://www.amazon.com/King-Warrior-Magician-Lover-Rediscovering/dp/0062506064 

(36:30) Your golden shadow

(37:00) “The shadow is there, it’s somebody who understands that shadow and chooses each day to not go into that shadow what makes you a good man”

(40:00) How to determine what is the center

(43:30) The 7 human goods

(43:50) “Religion is man's ability to reconnect with his cause of being”- Hector Gutierrez

(44:30) “Through a woman, man’s first love, through a woman man will fall, through another woman man will be reborn and redeemed, and through that woman God is gonna come to reveal to you who you are” - Hector Gutierrez

(48:00) Jesus of Nazareth is the perfection of masculinity

(53:10) Jesus Christ split our time B.C. and A.D.

(1:02:00) The family is under attack

(1:02:30) Lucifer and his intent to attack women

(1:09.00) “Without women we don’t have a blueprint on how to become a better man” - Hector Gutierrez

(1:14:00) Where to reach out to Hector Gutierrez @thedragao https://strongashec.com/kettlebell-workout-snacks/?fbclid=IwAR2gor62klQbYAH3rTDgRLZwpCIHxwjVSfXEkruIkHYIa9HTgeaNK4twVYE 

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Show Notes Chapter Markers

In the 102nd Episode of The Breakthrough Secrets Podcast, Mike, Chris and our special guest Senior instructor at StrongFirst, Director of Operations at Hardstyle Kettlebell, and founder of The Better Man Blueprint Hector Gutierrez will talk about man as the leader of the house, the importance of the family, The Better Man Blueprint, women and man’s first love and Jesus Chris as The Perfection Of Masculinity.

Join us in this insightful and captivating talk!

In this chapter you will discover:

.

(1:00) Introducing our special guest Senior instructor at StrongFirst, Director of Operations at Hardstyle Kettlebell, and founder of The Better Man Blueprint Hector Gutierrez @thedragao

(1:10) Hector’s 100 snatches a day program

(2:40) The Better Man Blueprint

(3:30) Training for men

(5:40) Masculinity is under attack

(5:50) “When you destroy the family, everything else falls” - Hector Gutierrez

(6:50) Men don’t ask for help cause for them, that is a sign of weakness

(8:00) How men react in different ways to being wounded

(9:10) Losing your gold

(11:30) The feeling of being devalued

(14:30) Using how you are in your advantage

(15:20) Forgive or forget

(15:50) Winners vs Losers

(16:40) As the leader of the house, my family’s energy goes where my energy goes

(21:15) Strong in mind, body, emotionally, spiritually and in community

(24:30) Where is your identity and who you are

(31:00) Having the courage to acknowledge that something is wrong

(32:00) “You can’t solve the problem until you take ownership of the problem” - Hector Gutierrez

(33.50) The foundation of trust

(36:00) Different shadows for different aspects of masculinity

(36:05) King, Warrior, Magician, Lover Book by Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore https://www.amazon.com/King-Warrior-Magician-Lover-Rediscovering/dp/0062506064 

(36:30) Your golden shadow

(37:00) “The shadow is there, it’s somebody who understands that shadow and chooses each day to not go into that shadow what makes you a good man”

(40:00) How to determine what is the center

(43:30) The 7 human goods

(43:50) “Religion is man's ability to reconnect with his cause of being”- Hector Gutierrez

(44:30) “Through a woman, man’s first love, through a woman man will fall, through another woman man will be reborn and redeemed, and through that woman God is gonna come to reveal to you who you are” - Hector Gutierrez

(48:00) Jesus of Nazareth is the perfection of masculinity

(53:10) Jesus Christ split our time B.C. and A.D.

(1:02:00) The family is under attack

(1:02:30) Lucifer and his intent to attack women

(1:09.00) “Without women we don’t have a blueprint on how to become a better man” - Hector Gutierrez

(1:14:00) Where to reach out to Hector Gutierrez @thedragao https://strongashec.com/kettlebell-workout-snacks/?fbclid=IwAR2gor62klQbYAH3rTDgRLZwpCIHxwjVSfXEkruIkHYIa9HTgeaNK4twVYE 

.

#TheBreakthroughSecretsPodcast #strengthtraining #kettlebells #strength #knowledge #education #podcast #strengthshow #fitness #health #strengthhasagreaterpurpose #wellness #coaching #mindset



Introducing our special guest Senior instructor at StrongFirst, Director of Operations at Hardstyle Kettlebell, and founder of The Better Man Blueprint Hector Gutierrez @thedragao
Hector’s 100 snatches a day program
The Better Man Blueprint
Training for men
Masculinity is under attack
“When you destroy the family, everything else falls” - Hector Gutierrez
Men don’t ask for help cause for them, that is a sign of weakness
How men react in different ways to being wounded
Losing your gold
The feeling of being devalued
Using how you are in your advantage
Forgive or forget
Winners vs Losers
As the leader of the house, my family’s energy goes where my energy goes
Strong in mind, body, emotionally, spiritually and in community
Where is your identity and who you are
Having the courage to acknowledge that something is wrong
“You can’t solve the problem until you take ownership of the problem” - Hector Gutierrez
The foundation of trust
Different shadows for different aspects of masculinity
Your golden shadow
“The shadow is there, it’s somebody who understands that shadow and chooses each day to not go into that shadow what makes you a good man”
How to determine what is the center
The 7 human goods
“Religion is man's ability to reconnect with his cause of being”- Hector Gutierrez
“Through a woman, man’s first love, through a woman man will fall, through another woman man will be reborn and redeemed, and through that woman God is gonna come to reveal to you who you are” - Hector Gutierrez
Jesus of Nazareth is the perfection of masculinity
Jesus Christ split our time B.C. and A.D.
The family is under attack
Lucifer and his intent to attack women
“Without women we don’t have a blueprint on how to become a better man” - Hector Gutierrez