When Birth Takes a Turn: Ashley's Unexpected NICU Story

Metro Detroit Birth Stories

Metro Detroit Birth Stories
When Birth Takes a Turn: Ashley's Unexpected NICU Story
Dec 30, 2025 Season 4 Episode 39
Exie Buehler

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In this powerful and vulnerable episode of Metro Detroit Birth Stories, my friend and former client shares her family’s unexpected NICU journey after the birth of her baby.


What began as a hopeful birth experience quickly shifted into unfamiliar territory, bringing fear, uncertainty, and moments no parent ever anticipates. 
Ashley and Kevin talk honestly about the physical and emotional toll of an unplanned induction they weren't expecting, the cesarean that followed, and their little guy's NICU stay that even their medical providers didn't see coming. 

Through it all, they recount the importance of prenatal education and the strength it takes to navigate a birth when nothing goes as planned.


This conversation is raw, real, and deeply human. You will hear about moments of stress and overwhelm, but also how love, communication, and self-advocacy helped them through the hardest week of their lives. Ashley, Kevin, and little Oliver are all doing well, and they shared their story to help other parents feel less alone if their own journey takes an unexpected turn.


⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of an unexpected NICU admission and medical stress in the postpartum period. Please listen with care.

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