Believe Like A Boss
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Believe Like A Boss
Redefining Wealth: Transform Your Money Mindset and Embrace Holistic Prosperity
What if your perception of wealth could transform your life, not just financially, but holistically? Join me, Nandi Camille, as we challenge conventional wisdom about wealth in this enriching episode of Believe Like a Boss. We'll dissect the mindset of a "wealthy woman," exploring how this isn't just about the size of your bank account but about living with confidence, intentionality, and grace. Through personal insights and anecdotes, we'll debunk myths about luxury and create a narrative that embraces being well-rounded and poised, regardless of your financial status.
Ever wondered how your beliefs about money shape your reality? Let's reevaluate what wealth truly means and redefine it beyond yachts and diamond rings. Our conversation will encourage you to align your financial mindset with your personal values and aspirations. Whether you see wealth as a positive force or grapple with mixed feelings, this episode invites you to reflect honestly and consciously define wealth on your terms. We'll explore transformative qualities like groundedness and confidence, showing how they can become the pillars of your prosperous journey.
Embrace the discomfort of change and step into your next level of growth with newfound clarity. We'll unpack practical strategies to shift your money mindset, viewing financial goals as an inspiring game rather than a daunting challenge. Discover creative ways to generate income and unlock unexpected opportunities, all while embodying the confident, wealthy version of yourself. Join us in rewriting limiting beliefs and envisioning the lifestyle you truly desire. This is your invitation to redefine wealth, enrich your mindset, and share your journey with us if you find value in our conversation.
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Hi, friends, and welcome to Believe Like a Boss. I'm your host Life Coach, nandi Camille. Join me as I teach you how to smash your goals and expand the possibility of your life through mindset management, spiritual alignment and authentic action. I'll teach you how to create what I like to call a life of thrive, with ease and authenticity. It's time to play with what's possible. Are you ready? Let's go.
Speaker 2:Hello, hello, hello, and welcome back to another episode of Believe Like a Boss. I am your host life coach, Nandi Camille. Welcome, my friends, welcome back to another episode, to another week. We are into February. Valentine's Day is on Friday. Tyler and I don't actually have any plans. I'm running a community right now and that community, the nonprofit that I'm running right now, wants to have a potluck on Valentine's Day. So that's what I will be doing on Valentine's Day. I was like whose idea was this? Who decided that we're doing a community event? Now, I love my community and clearly they love each other, and that is why this nonprofit group is going to get together on Valentine's Day, and that is why this nonprofit group is going to get together on Valentine's Day, which I think is very sweet, and I guess Tyler and I will probably do something afterwards.
Speaker 2:My friends, the past couple of weeks have been a little bit of a whirlwind. I am now back in Denver. I'm so grateful to be back in Denver after being in Los Angeles for that photo shoot for Ever Eve and, on that note, I actually just ran to my mailbox because I just ordered some things from Ever Eve and I'm so stinking excited about all of the things, all of the things. Now, my friends, I will say that I know that for a lot of my friends I don't know if I should say it that way but people in general, ever Eve, when they go to the website, they're like oh, there's a little price here than I anticipated. So I do want to echo that, that it's in alignment with, like anthropology prices essentially and I think that that can catch people off guard sometimes but full transparency, it is really great. Quality pieces, and for me, what I truly love to do is mix and match. So I love to get high-end, quality pieces and then I love to go to Goodwill and just find my basics there or go to H&M, find some basics there that are a little bit less expensive, and I like to mix and match my pieces that way to make me feel well-rounded and still wealthy, and put together and poised.
Speaker 2:And when I say wealthy wealthy not just in the financial sense, but like when I think about the wealthy woman look at me tangenting. The podcast episode has not even started, we're not even talking about this today, but let's go down this path. When I'm talking about wealth, I'm talking about the wealthy woman. When I'm talking about the wealthy woman. That's a mindset, right? Yes, it ties to monetary value. The wealthy woman can purchase what she wants for herself when she wants to purchase those things for herself. But it's also there's an energy that comes with that that, even before I'm able to afford the $3.5 million home in Boulder that I want, that I still carry myself as a person who values themselves. And when I purchase things, it doesn't have to cost $200 to be quality right. But when I purchase things for myself and for my body, I make sure that I'm doing so mindfully and intentionally, that there are pieces that actually feel quality, feel good on my skin, feel good on my body, feel timeless. That's what's important to me and that's what I'm referring to when I say the wealthy woman. There's so much.
Speaker 2:When it comes to the wealthy woman, I'm like, hmm, maybe that will be another episode and part of me is like, maybe we just dive into this today. I actually did have something else planned for you today, but what is coming up for me right now is this whole topic of the wealthy woman. So we're going to segue and I'm going to tell you what today's episode was going to be a part going to be about, because it's being put on my spirit to talk about. What is the wealthy woman? Who is the wealthy woman? Let me back up first and full disclosure. We're ranting right now. I have no notes, but as a mindfulness based life coach mindfulness is awareness without judgment right, we're going to be aware of how we're thinking and how we're feeling and in this moment, what's coming up for me is talking about wealth and mindset and what that means, as you all know. Right, mindfulness, awareness without judgment. I'm going to always present to you, first and foremost, what are your thoughts, right, before I pour anything into your brain, before I give you any information, let's just do a check in. What are your thoughts about wealth? That's what we're talking about today. What are your thoughts about wealth?
Speaker 2:When I say the wealthy woman, when I use the word wealth, I want you to just listen to your body right now, and if that's the first time you're hearing that phrase, listen to your body what I mean is I want you to feel in your physical body. When you say the word wealth or the phrase wealthy woman, what happens for you? Does your body get tight? Do you feel uncomfortable? Does your brain say wealth equals money, equals greedy equals bad. Like what happens for you when you hear the phrases money, wealth, wealthy woman.
Speaker 2:Just do a check-in. What's happening in your brain? What are your thoughts about wealth, what are your thoughts about being a wealthy woman? If you're driving, clearly, just pause this. Listen to it as you're going, think about this as I'm talking to you. If you're able to hit pause, get out your notebook and journal for a second. What does it mean? Or what comes up for me when I think the thought wealthy woman, wealth, money. What are my thoughts about money? What are my thoughts about wealth? What are my thoughts about being a wealthy woman?
Speaker 2:And I want you to think about that last question in two parts. What does it mean to be a wealthy woman in the world? Like, what are your cues? When I say to you wealthy woman, what comes to your mind's eye? What do you think about? And then the second part you can break that down is what does it mean for you to be a wealthy woman? Right, because you might in your brain automatically when you ask the question what does it mean to be a wealthy woman?
Speaker 2:If you were to ask me that, say, 10 years ago, I would have said yachts and penthouses and big, beautiful diamond rings and limitless credit cards. That's what my brain would have told you if you said what does it mean to be a wealthy woman? Now, if you were to ask me, that still goes in the category luxury. Luxury, I suppose, is everything that I just explained, would go in the category of wealth, but that definition has expanded so much for me over the past 10 years.
Speaker 2:In doing this money, mindset, work what comes up for you when you think about what it means to be the wealthy woman? When I think about it now, 10 years ago it was 100% about luxury. When I think about the wealthy woman now, it actually for me comes with a demeanor of grace and a demeanor of groundedness. This is what it means for me to be a wealthy woman. A wealthy woman is grounded and is confident in who she is and how she shows up in the world, because she's not fearful about where her money is coming in or that she can pay her bills. So she's very grounded in her energy. So my definition has changed for me of what a wealthy woman is from focused primarily on outside things to what is the energy of the wealthy woman. Because at the end of the day. Remember, the only reason we want anything is because of how we believe we will feel in the having of it Right.
Speaker 2:And so when I thought earlier, 10 years ago, about the wealthy woman, yachts and luxury, my brain said that's what wealth means, and if I have yachts and luxury, then I will feel happy. But as I've gone on this journey, this mindfulness journey, this personal development journey, this money mindset journey, what I've learned along the way is that, regardless of if I'm a millionaire or I'm making $50,000, my life will be 50-50. So it's less about the things. And when I say my life will be 50-50, whether I own a yacht or I live in an apartment or I own a mansion, my life will consist of good and bad. My life will consist of high moments and low moments. You don't escape it because you have a yacht right. And so then it became okay. Well, it's not about the things.
Speaker 2:What is it to me? What does it mean to me to be the wealthy woman, if that's important to me, but not beyond the material stuff. What does that mean to me? And that's where my new definition of it means that I'm grounded. It means that I'm confident in who I am. It means that I'm confident in where my money is coming from. It means that I steward over my money. Well, that's what it means to me now to be a wealthy woman. What does it mean to you? Check in and honestly answer what it means. If you're in the space where, like when, I think wealth, truly just luxury, comes up for me, I think about planes, I think about first class. That's what wealth means to me. Great, that is not a bad, wrong definition at all. You get to have whatever definition you want.
Speaker 2:The check in the mindfulness piece is do you like your definition of wealth? And also check in, for some of you, as we're having this conversation, you're like wealthy woman, great, that doesn't bother me. That word doesn't have any negative connotation, it's not heavy to me. I embody being a wealthy woman. I love who I am. I love the job that I have, how I make money, I love my business. I am the wealthy woman and I'm in flow with that.
Speaker 2:Define what that means for you, right? That means that I steward over my money. Well, that means that I pay my bills on time. Right, if you are already feeling like I am the wealthy woman and I am who I want to be beautiful, identify what that means For my friends that are on the other side, where maybe this feels itchy, like, oh, that's an itchy thing, and at the same time, I still want it. That's what I want you to look at, right, the person that because this was me wanted to have more money, physical financial abundance, right, but also had this other thought about like wealth means bad, money is the root of all evil. Because I was raised in the Christian church and so that's the message that I received was money is the root of all evil. So growing up, my brain said money is bad, wealth is bad.
Speaker 2:No-transcript. How you're thinking about money, how you're thinking about financial abundance, is influencing how you're showing up in the world. Period. If you believe that quote wealthy people are quote bad, any and then your definition of quote wealthy people is somebody that has, like, an Apple Watch, airpods and a two carat diamond ring right, really, truly slow down and look at your brain. What are your cues of wealth? What does it mean? Like when you look out in the world, what are the things that you see that tell you, oh, that person is wealthy, oh, this is a wealthy business, right? What are your cues, and if your cues are AirPod and ring and her Gucci bag and I feel bad about that and I'm angry towards that person who has those things that I want you are blocking your blessing. Okay, so let's unpack that for a second. That's that duplicity that we're talking about.
Speaker 2:I want to be wealthy, I want to own a Gucci purse, I want to be able to fly first class, I want to be able to buy a home and, at the same time, I'm judging the people that have homes, I'm judging the people that have beautiful rings, I'm judging the people that are flying in jets. That judgment is blocking your blessing, is blocking your blessing. What I would offer is that the next time, if this is itchy for you, you bump into somebody that has a beautiful purse that you want or has a beautiful ring that you want, or has something. Again, these are all physical things, right, we're talking about physical things when it comes to wealth, but if you're triggered by those physical things, that's an invitation. It's an invitation Instead of getting angry and jealous.
Speaker 2:I love jealousy because it's just an indicator that we want that too, and the way that we work with jealousy is we see that ring, or we see that house, or we see the thing and we say me too, that is available to me as well and I'm not going to judge that person for having the thing that I want Me. Judging them just blocks my own blessing Me. Judging them is me putting negative energy into my brain and into my mind. Let's break that down in a neuroscience way instead of being woo If I'm judging somebody. If I'm getting on an airplane and the girl next to me has got this beautiful ring and I'm really jealous of it as she's like putting her luggage above and it catches my eye right and I see her putting her ring, I actually really I love my ring, but I know that this is a really beautiful example that a lot of women can really identify with. So we see this ring right next to us and we're like, oh my gosh, I bet he has a fabulous job and I bet she didn't even pay for that ring and I bet she doesn't even have to work.
Speaker 2:Do you hear that, that all of that judgment, when at the same time, you want what she has right If you were to slow down and be like. You want what she has right If you were to slow down and be like but do you like that ring? Yeah, but would you like for somebody to be able to give you the freedom to X, y and Z? Yeah right, don't block your blessing. Let jealousy be an indicator that you want that thing, and then allow yourself to play with possibility. Even though I don't have it now, even though I don't know how I would acquire such a beautiful ring or home or whatever it is, I believe that that is available to me as well. That is how I have transmuted, neutralized any animosity that I have about other wealthy people, because the truth is, anytime I was cranky, I just wanted what they had. I just wanted to be able to fly first had. I just wanted to be able to fly first class. I just wanted to be able to go to Dubai. I just wanted to be able to dot, dot, dot, right, and yes, that is again one part of wealth. And so I want you to again, let's zoom out.
Speaker 2:What is your definition of a wealthy woman on the energetic side, on the financial side, on the practical side? What does it mean as a whole person to be wealthy? What is your definition and do you like your definition of what it means to be a wealthy person, because if in your brain you're like, being a wealthy person means you are a millionaire and I could never be a millionaire. Right, catch that and maybe clean that up. Do you have to be a millionaire to be wealthy? Is that a true statement, right, check in. What are the sentences in your brain about wealth, about money, and do you like the sentences in your brain about wealth and about money? One of the earliest examples that I've given about this was when I was first invited to be an ambassador for Every Eve and they gave me $200 a month to go shopping and I had never in my life spent that amount of money ever, and I was asked to spend that every single month for an entire year.
Speaker 2:And, of course, if I didn't spend the $200 in a month, I would roll over to the next month. So can you imagine, like, let's say, I spent $150 one month on a few pieces and then the next month they put another $200 on my account? So then I have $350 to spend that month. Right, I was bumped up against so many edges. How dare you spend this much money? Who are you to spend this much money on clothes? There are other people in the world that don't have any clothes, and here you are spending all these hundreds of dollars.
Speaker 2:Right, I had to really slow down and look at the thoughts in my brain, because it was true that I was uncomfortable. It's not bad to be uncomfortable when you're reaching new levels of being a new person, whether it's money, or you're a new title, or you're going to be a new type of person, and you're going from full-time to entrepreneur, entrepreneur to full-time, whatever it is. Anytime you go to do something new, your brain's going to freak out, and so my brain is freaking out, oh my gosh. But that is an invitation. When our brains are freaking out, when we are feeling any emotion, it's an invitation. What is that emotion saying to us? And is it true, right? So some of the thoughts I was thinking like, oh my gosh, I could never spend $40 on a t-shirt, right, and then I just sit with that. I had to really sit with that. I was like, well, if you're going to be this wealthy woman one day who can easily afford 40, 50, 60, $100 t-shirt, maybe we don't judge the price of the t-shirt and it doesn't mean that just because I can spend a hundred dollars on a t-shirt that I will, but it does mean that I'm no longer going to judge the experience of shopping in different spaces and at different price points If it's not an alignment for me. Let's say I go into the store and like, ooh, that's a beautiful top, and I look at the price tag and it's not what I want to spend that day, instead of saying, oh, that's so expensive. All of these retail brands always charge so much. I could never afford this. Right? That is all negative talk. That is all blocking your blessing. What I could say instead, and what I started to say instead, was I don't feel like spending $40 on this t-shirt, or it doesn't feel in alignment for me to spend this level of money on this particular item.
Speaker 2:Right, I started to neutralize and shift the way that I was speaking to myself and speaking to items. Right, because it shifted my energy in alignment with the wealthy woman that I imagined. And again coming back to my earlier definition, the wealthy woman is confident. So when she walks into a store, even if she can't afford something, she's not going to freak out about it. She's going to say, oh, noted, noted. I'm either going to save up for that or I'm going to wait for it to go on sale, or I'm going to take a note that I really like this piece. I'm going to go find it somewhere else at a different price, but I'm no longer going to beat myself up. I'm no longer going to walk into stores and tell myself I don't belong here, this store, that only those kinds of people can shop in those kinds of stores, when I know that I also want to shop in that store.
Speaker 2:If there is a and again I'm getting back to the physical parts right If there's a store that you love, that you have never been into because you have talked yourself out of it, because you can't afford anything in that store, I want to encourage you to go in that store. Embody the version of you who can buy whatever they want in that store. And it's not again, it's not about the money. It's about the confidence that you embody, knowing that you take care of yourself, you clothe yourself with clothes that you love and that make you so happy. Right, walk into that store. You don't have to touch anything, right? Phase one is just walking into the store and telling yourself I belong here, I belong here, it is safe for me to be here, so what? I can't afford anything in here right now. I belong here, and maybe you need to talk yourself into.
Speaker 2:I remember when um Aloe, the fitness brand really I love their pieces really well done, high quality and I remember at first I was like I can't afford anything in here. I cannot afford anything in here. I bought a pair of socks. I think their socks were like $15 for one pair of socks. But that's where I started. I'm going to buy one pair of socks from this brand because I believe that it is possible for me to be able to walk in here one day and shop the way that I want to. I'm not there yet, but I'm not going to count myself out either and I'm not going to judge the other people in this room who are able to flex and spend their income the way they want to. I'm going to stay in my bubble, in my alignment, and I'm going to trust that maybe I can't spend it today, but maybe in a month, maybe in two months, and then what that does for me as a business owner is it gets me excited about what are some of the different things that I can sell, that I can bring value to my audience, that then I can make a little bit more money and I can go into the store.
Speaker 2:It becomes now a game, right, money becomes less cumbersome and it becomes this game of like what kind of life do you want to have and what is the price tag attached to that life? And are you willing to put in the work? And when I say put in the work, this is not hustling yourself into the ground. It's incremental work over time, whether it's asking for a raise or selling something new in your business, or maybe you just work on your manifestation practice and you work on money coming out of nowhere. And I know that sounds really crazy, but when I tell you that's literally what I did for this most recent ever photo shoot I prayed God, universe, I meditated I'm ready for money to come out of a new source. I'm ready for money to come to me in a new way, I don't know how, I don't know where. Please surprise me, and I'm not joking. My friends, within 48 hours of that prayer, everly reached out to me. And that photo shoot. Beyond me being flown out to Los Angeles and being having the flight paid for and the hotel paid for, I was also paid to be a model out there. So that's why I'm like I'm actually officially a paid professional model and I'm so grateful for that Play with this.
Speaker 2:What are your thoughts about money? Do you like your thoughts about money and about wealth? Rewrite the thoughts that are not serving you. So if you're thinking I could never be a millionaire, even though you want to be a millionaire, or I could never make $75,000, even though you want to make $75,000, let's start there. What do you want? What are the parts of you that say you can't have it right? Rewrite those parts. And if you need help rewriting that, you know where to find me. Book that discovery call.
Speaker 2:This is what we do in coaching. We're rewriting those limiting beliefs, helping you to step into the next level of who you desire to be Now, who the world desires for you to be. Who do you desire to be? What is your definition of wealth? What is the lifestyle that you want to live? Right and from that place, then, what is the work that we do in our mind and in our action to align with who it is that you most deeply desire to be? You got this, my friends. As always, take what sticks to you, leave the rest. I'll see you next week. Hey friend, if you like this podcast, I would love it if you could give us a five-star rating. Share it with your friends. If you're interested in one-on-one coaching, if this podcast resonates with you and you're ready for some one-on-one support support for you and your journey go ahead to nandikamilcom to learn more or head over to nandikamilasme to sign up for your free discovery call.