Lisa Hopkins

But the reason I'm kind of calling you out a little bit the motivation piece . Why do you think it's hard to motivate yourself to schedule something ? Do you want to schedule stuff ? I can schedule stuff till the cows come home . It's just getting up and doing it , yeah . But do you want to schedule stuff ? Of course you can . No , I mean not necessarily . Well , there it is .

Lisa Hopkins

So why are you here talking to me about oh , I really want help with scheduling . You don't want to do it , and that's okay . Tell me what you want to do . Well , I came here mostly to be inspired . You're using scheduling as a smoke screen . What is it that you want ? What do you want ?

Lisa Hopkins

You told me what was your biggest challenge . What do you actually want ? If that challenge went away , how would your life be different ? Your biggest challenge what do you actually want ? If that challenge went away , how would your life be different ? Um , I don't know . I'd get more done . Okay , if you get more done , what will change ? Yeah , um , I I don't know . Okay , so I'm gonna leave you . I'm gonna leave you with that thought and take you off the hot seat .

Lisa Hopkins

But do you guys see where we're going with this ? How can you go for what you want if you don't know and this is not , believe me , this is everybody , not just you . We're all nodding our heads , okay , so we need to get really specific , personally . Specific , not specific so other people can understand it . Specific , but so you understand . It doesn't matter whether the people understand your why . What matters is that you do , and what happens is you know , we get , I'm not sure you know , or we hold ourselves back by worrying about all of that . And this is where space , giving yourself space , can be scary , Because you're kind of going okay , now this is the space I'm supposed to get fixed in , or whatever , I must be broken , or blah , blah , blah . Not at all .