Hey , there , this week , inside the room where it happens , you'll hear an aha moment where my client realizes there is no comparison because she is completely unique . Jealousy creeps in when we compare . But what if that feeling isn't jealousy , it's recognition , a glimpse of what's possible . For you , this one's all about turning comparison into empowerment . For you , this one's all about turning comparison into empowerment , transforming judgment and owning your individuality .
Speaker 2Let's dive in Well yeah , and that makes a lot of sense right Comparison is the enemy of growth , right ?
Speaker 1Absolutely yeah . So when you notice something , usually it's because you see yourself in that . So when you see someone doing something and you start to feel a little bit I don't know jealous or envious or whatever , you know , it's really good to tap into yourself and go no , no , that's , that's , that's cool . And what is it that I find cool about that ? It's not going to be the same as what other people think is cool . So your
brand of whatever it is you do , there is room for you . 100 . There's room for you because you've got your own , you know , your own style , your own way of being yeah , thank you for saying that .
Speaker 2Yeah , that's definitely a big thing too that I've been trying to like . Yeah , I don't have to compare myself to people .
Speaker 1Well , there is no comparison .
Speaker 2Yeah .
Speaker 1Period . We're all unique , right ? I think once we recognize that , you know not , that we want to be unique and therefore separate ourselves from everybody else and stand out from everybody else See , that's ego . When you recognize other people's brilliance and other people's uniqueness , then you grow your own .
Speaker 2Yeah , I really like how you said that too Finding what you like about this other person . Are you envious of this person
, or is there something like a quality in them that you see or that you enjoyed about yourself ? I think about that sometimes too , when I'm just like that's a media . Yeah , yeah , yeah , that's I think about that sometimes too .
Speaker 1And I'm just like that's a media and like yeah , yeah , yeah , it's really a flag for potential . So when you feel jealousy , you can convert that to go . Wait , I'm not jealous , I'm aware that I could do that and you know you could . Then , you know , fall into the whole victim mentality of all the reasons why you can't . Why , well , they can . But the reason they can is because I don't know , they're rich or they're whatever . You know you fill in all the blanks or they're lucky , or you know and it's like no , I can
you know , and it's up to me , and that's where that's ownership .
Speaker 1that's empowerment . Empowerment is not doing something and then showing off . That's not empowerment .
Speaker 2Look what I did .
Speaker 1Empowerment is feeling like that , feeling like you know , gosh , I'm jealous owning it . Why am I jealous ? Getting curious right , dissolving the jealousy by recognizing that actually maybe I'm not living up to my potential , not in a bad way , like bad me , but like . And then you ask yourself the question do I want to step up ? It's up to me . If I don't , that's okay , but the choice is in me . But all this bullshit comparison is not helping anybody , especially you yeah , yeah 100% .