💡 Coaching Insights: Is It Perfectionism or Fear of Failing That Holds You Back?

The perfectionism trap claims countless creative works before they ever see the light of day. What begins as high standards often morphs into crippling self-doubt that prevents us from finishing projects or sharing our gifts with the world.

This transformative conversation explores the crucial difference between value-driven high standards and fear-based perfectionism. When we create from integrity rather than fear, we focus on what's within our control—our effort, intention, and commitment—rather than obsessing over others' potential judgments. As one profound insight reveals: "You can't control what people say, but you can control your integrity."

The discussion unpacks how our desire for dignity and positive perception can actually work against us when it becomes our primary motivation. Instead, by recognizing that nothing is ever truly "finished" and that perfection is an illusion, we free ourselves to complete meaningful work. This shift from external validation to internal values doesn't mean lowering our standards—it means creating from a place of authenticity rather than anxiety.

Perhaps most powerfully, the conversation reframes "letting go" not as something we reluctantly do, but something we "get to" do—a conscious choice made with gratitude. This perspective transforms creative challenges from burdens into opportunities for growth and expression. When we release our grip on controlling others' perceptions, we discover the freedom to create boldly and finish what we start.

Whether you're working on a book, a business, or any creative pursuit, this episode offers practical wisdom to break through perfectionism and find joy in the creating process itself. What might you accomplish if you stopped holding yourself back?

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Chapters

• 0:00 Creative Fears and Finishing Work
• 1:31 High Standards vs. Being Good Enough
• 2:13 Dignity, Integrity, and Self-Control
• 3:23 Choosing to Let Go with Gratitude