Signs of Attraction, First Kiss Stories of the Kaliente Girls. An Intimate Conversation with Domonique Simone about her book ‘A Star is Porn'

Ever wondered how to navigate the signs of attraction and make your move? Join us as we get the lowdown from the Kaliente Girls girls on interpreting body language, recognizing when you're being avoided, and more. Be prepared to reminisce as we journey back in time, recounting our first kiss experiences from the sweet to the downright awkward, and stressing upon the significance of boundaries in any relationship. They'll also tackle a serious issue that plagues most of us – phone addiction. We’ll discuss its pitfalls, emphasizing the importance of mindful phone usage, and the potential dangers of texting and driving. 

Hold on to your seats as we get up close and personal with Domonique Simone. From her humble start in small-town Georgia to the glitzy adult film industry and her eventual transition into the music domain, Domonique's journey is as inspiring as it is intriguing. We'll hear about her insightful take on the industry's evolution, the impact of platforms like OnlyFans, being raised by her grandmother, her losses, triumphs,  Michael Jackson and Prince, and above all  the stirring message behind her book, ‘A Star Is Porn.' 

Listen to new music by various independant artist throughout the world alongside mainstream artist signed to major labels. You won't want to miss out on this riveting episode!

PLAYLIST

1. Trick Daddy-I’m a thug
2. Está Dañada-Ivan Corenjo
3. 92legend & Big Kuza-Fed Up
4. Retro Leila & Brenda
5. Bianca Leony-Espiral
6. Naughty By Nature-Hip Hop Hooray
7. Believe-Correatown
8. Retro Kaliente Girls: First Kiss
9. NCT DREAM- Broken Melodies
10. Robin Taylor-Faces
11. Pretenders-Don’t get me wrong
12. Iamkay-A.M.
13. Retro Kaliente Girls: The Phone
14. K.C. and the Sunshine Band-Boogie Shoes
15. Taylor Ross-Path of Gold
16. Lifehouse-Hanging by a moment
17. Mele Mel and Scorpio-Yo Playa
18. Domonique Simone Interview
19. Michael Jackson- Dirty Diana
20. Domonique Simone Interview
21. Prince- Take me with you
22. Jolo Reeves-Alive
23. Paysome Jayy-Kid Rock
24. BEBÉ G-Italia<3
25. Danillo Gomes-Culpa da bebida
26. Living Colour-Preachin’ Blues
27. Fred Again..-Jungle
28. Rosecoleredworld-No One’s Home

You can also listen to this episode on our webpage: kalientegirls.com

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

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Speaker 2: 0:07

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Speaker 3: 0:14

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Speaker 4: 0:21

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Speaker 5: 0:25

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Speaker 6: 0:59

Let's write you Turn the baby cause I'm a girl. Ah-ah-oh yeah, check it out. Could it be my bag of jeans or my gold teeth that make me different from y'all? Ain't trippin' off. But listen, dawg, I'm a race like this from y'all. You do my thing using my ghetto slang, and I represent thug Thug. I roll with Washington Dougal.

Speaker 2: 1:18

Love is new to I, don't burn On the run. It got ten years on, for all for all. Let me say it, dawg, I'ma say it for y'all Mother, mother, popos, the judge, the CEO, the DA and PO, the family of the victim, witness and stitch and ass hoes, hoes. I don't know what this world's called, but I know one thing that this is the life for me. Baby, cause I'm a thug, I'll think anything. Baby, cause I'm a thug Wouldn't change forever. I'm cause I'm a thug.

Speaker 2: 1:55

Baby cause I'm a thug, Chica dawg, See, I'm so tight, I'd be like that and got so many hoes and I know you got clout and lookin' at his mouth, that and got so many hoes. Chela, ain't you hoes? There's something up with that d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d. I've been watching you, watching him. You must want to diss me and cry. My name alone been known to break up happy hoes. No disrespect, though, but you ain't had no mayonnaise answer her phone If your ass hoed begin' a man, a kid and getting it on, and you're gonna be hitting the right cause. Ever since the night she been hitting the phone she wanna throw up.

Speaker 6: 2:28

I don't know what this world's gonna be, but I know one thing that this is the life for me, baby, cause I'm a thug Of they, they, they, baby cause I'm a thug Wouldn't change forever. I'm cause I'm a thug, that's right. You heard this one cause I'm a thug. Ah-ha-oh, yeah, check it out, but I love this. I don't know what this world's gonna be, but I know one thing that this is the life for me, baby, cause I'm a thug Of they, they, they.

Speaker 7: 3:11

Baby cause I'm a thug. Wouldn't change forever. I'm cause I'm a thug, that's right you heard, baby cause I'm a thug. Ah-ha-oh, yeah, check it out what's up. Hell, yeah, hell to the year, ah-ha-oh, and, oh, my God, let's do it.

Speaker 3: 3:28

Calliente girl L-l-listen up Dash radio Discover channel.

Speaker 8: 3:33

LA Está dañada, del amor no siente ningún dolor.

Speaker 9: 3:45

Su felicidad terminó. Su esperanza desapareció. Ya no creí en el amor. Su vez se le acabó. Ya no creí en el amor. Baby, cada dia en su mundo. Su sonrisa, su careta, sus manetas, hay que delece. Hay que boneta, hasta tu careta. Me gusta bailar Con sus amigas. Eso les saca. Sormosa sonreza, sormosa sonreza. Hay que delece. Buena noche, lo-lo-lo Se molló el rico al työvieto. Todas las noches cantaban la canción Que bailemos we. Kiss on your cheeks and when you're crying, closed in your room, I hope you sing my song.

Speaker 10: 6:12

Hello my people. You're listening to the Caliente Show on Dash Radio.

Speaker 2: 6:32

She finally fed up. She said love is enough. He ran her through the mud just to leave her on the knee. He got what he wanted, never cared about the need, jeopardy, grip. So she had to break free. Love don't cause a thing, but it's never been. She was everything Throw his heart and leg cold. She opened up and let him touch her soul. Now she on the better thing. She focused on the cold. She spread the boundaries though you gotta go. She don't chase, she attract. She don't bear, she fall bad. She don't stress when she can't control. She don't chase, she attract. She don't bear, she fall bad. He won just an audio. She finally fed up from all the lies that he told Every day. That shine ain't gold. She finally fed up. It's time to take control. She had to let him go. The focus on her gold. She finally fed up. She said love is enough.

Speaker 9: 7:31

She finally fed up from all the sleepless nights. She finally fed up from trying to make it right and she just want some real love to make her feel whole. No relationship, same bag, it just getting old. She telling herself in the mirror she a boss bitch, and how you gonna let that nigga treat you like this Kids to your heart bitch, who he ain't no locksmith, can't know when us keep it real. And you know you topped in but she still want some one to hold because lately she feelin' lonely and give her heart out because it's like the way. And she finally fed up. He realized he fucked up when she gone with the wind. Ain't much more to say. She finally fed up from all the lies that he told Every day that shine ain't gold. She finally fed up. It's time to take control. She had to let him go the focus on her gold. She finally fed up.

Speaker 11: 8:20

She finally fed up. She finally fed up. She finally fed up. Hello, hello everyone here, leila and Brenda and Caliente Girls, I try to help. Everybody's doing how you doing, brenda.

Speaker 12: 8:40

Hi everybody, this is Brenda Mejia. We're doing good, Having fun with you.

Speaker 11: 8:45

And Leila and Kalini. Today, guys, I'm saying hello everyone. Well, we always have fun, so we do the show. It's kinda like the same thing Without the phone, without the microphone, Because we talk the same thing. So we just put the microphone and we share with everybody my personal life, because she's married, I'm not, so, anyways, okay, today I'm not going to talk about me, but I wanna give advice to the sun guys, and let me tell you why because I got sun, guys, they really like me and they don't know if I like them or not.

Speaker 11: 9:23

But because I'm a girl, I don't like to tell them I like them, I wanna figure it out. But some guys, they don't know how to figure it out. So, brenda, what do you think? Let's give them advice to guys, how a guy can figure it out if the girls like or not, if the girls into him or not, so that way it doesn't get all nervous about that.

Speaker 12: 9:51

Well, in my opinion, I think this is a good topic Because you guys are getting the inside from the woman's perspective. So it's just a little bit like you're cheating on the notes, because you know what I mean. Like you're asking your big sister. You're asking like your cool friend, hey, how do I know if this girl likes me or not? Like how you know what are the signs. So let's get it a little bit into the psychology side of it. So do you feel that she's looking at you? Does she glance at you? Does she have certain posture? Do you feel like she gets nervous around you? Does she try to get your attention? Does she smile at you? Does she play with your hair a lot when she sees you?

Speaker 8: 10:43

Do you see what I'm saying?

Speaker 11: 10:45

Yeah, I noticed that because I remember one guy they used to like me a lot and he told me oh, I think you like me because you touch your hair a lot. I was like oh. I don't even notice. I did that, so I guess it's true. Well, I will say to guys, if the girl right away makes time to see you, for sure the girl is into him. Right, not make it tight, not make it always cute, well, and then of course it's kind of for a female, without even noticing.

Speaker 12: 11:19

If you're attracted to someone, you flirt. So if there is that game of flirtatious looks and body language, then yes, she's interested. So make the move. It's okay, don't be shy.

Speaker 11: 11:36

Some guys don't have code, that's a problem, but I'm talking about some guys that can't figure it out. For example, I'm not a bad personality, I'm super sweet, I'm super nice. So the guy is confused Is she nice because she likes me, or is she nice because she's nice in general? Well, something is obvious, like as she says, looking in the eyes, being very, very open oh, you can walk out the next day. But if I say I don't know when I'm coming, I'm traveling, I don't know when I'm coming back, that is definitely negative, right?

Speaker 12: 12:12

Yeah, and then also, if you try to, the gentleman is trying to, like you just said, do a meeting, like, oh, I want to meet up for lunch, let's meet up for whatever. And if the female just always seems to be busy, it's obviously common sense. She doesn't really care. If she's not being responsive, if she runs away from you, then she doesn't like you. Very simple. I mean now, if she really likes to run as a hobby, well then that's a whole lot of things, but she would still make time to run with you. Does that make sense? That makes sense.

Speaker 11: 12:52

Okay, I think, with the helping guys, with the helping today, you know guys, you have to know the signs. Just read the signs. A girl will make all the time in the world if they want to be with you.

Speaker 12: 13:05

Trust me, right, right, but if she runs away, then she doesn't, so just keep moving.

Speaker 15: 13:32

That's okay. Next that's okay, that's okay, that's okay, that's okay, that's okay, that's okay.

Speaker 1: 15:44

That's okay.

Speaker 8: 15:53

That's okay.

Speaker 5: 15:59

That's okay, that's okay. You do a picture on my morning, but you clearly make my day. I'm rocking the year-yawning, but your number. Look my way. I'm licking on your door. I'm linen every single way. Get back in on. Come in. My homie treacher's on the way. This ain't got nothing to do with shampoo, but watch your hands show. Brother, hold the bow enough to fold the yellow. I don't drop. I read, I read a word. I'm ain't in. Play new buzzer funky bits. So say you're flitching. Just put that music in the hook. You bet we on some oldie tricking. To my girl town, gil Pam. Some answer with pills. Now the blues. I'm a rooster with steel.

Speaker 2: 16:39

I'm a man with a freestyle fan thumb, ain't trying to be handsome, tricking what you think ain't cuz I'm playing Ben, I live in off of hip hop. This is hip hop of the day. I get props to hip hop. So hip hop for Ray, hip hop. You heard a lot about a brother gang in Mo' Graham being low down. I threw the show down with any little hook round. I wanna know who you believe in. Be your funny reasons. Even when I'm sleeping they think I'm cheating. You said I know you're Mr OPP man, your PPP man, but only see me, man. You shoulda knew when I ain't hitting this step that I was with it a bit, not like a sit in a rep. I did your bonacut. She tied us up. Ay cuz I'm noody by nature. Now cuz I hate you. You put your heart in a part of a part this was a part and for cuz that I forget when you had a spark, hip hop, hip hop, hip hop for Ray. There's many hungry hip hoppers who reason hip off the top today. Serve with your heart, cuz I ain't bailin' no hate, ain't choppin' no.

Speaker 2: 17:35

Crust the silk growing every day. Hitch some thugger sale from the undersfield, from the underground town, down the hill with some bulls down drown swam. Some friends, such a clutch of clowns, beat them to follow me on. Come and fray. Tippy, tippy pours, tippy, tippy pours. I keep yin' up. I eat a month, this house, I, older than Louis Rawls Piece of this one and that one and that one. That's way I shout out. And I didn't miss one friend. Fools get foolish, neither than my.

Speaker 2: 17:58

Parker Lewis. You can have crews of shoes. They can't tattoo us. Some kiddies tryna come and serve too, lookin' for her crew, diddy. Check that. This kid's a curfew. I put on projects for booths. Lived two proofs, silly two. My problem solved. My name is Moog, my mitt and woody's in the hoodie. Be sure to use that joke. Bet your shows I lay in every hood. Jee, that's right, my fight is ill. P6l on S and Quest. Nice and smooth and cypher. I live in half a hip hop. This is hip hop for the day. I get prompted and pumped to hip hop for Ray.

Speaker 5: 18:28

Oh, hey, oh hey, oh, hey, oh, you listening, I am the Kelly Z Girls. Hey, everybody on Dash Radio. This is Convert Channel in Montessangeles.

Speaker 15: 18:54

No matter how hard I try, you keep pushing me aside and I can't break through. There's no talking to you. So sad that you're leaving takes time to believe it, but after all is said and done, you're gonna be the lonely one. Do you believe in life after love? I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough. Do you believe in life after love? I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough. What am I supposed to do? Sit around and wait for you? I can't do that. There's no turning back. I need time to move on. I need love to feel strong, cause I've had time to think it through and maybe I'm too good for you.

Speaker 15: 20:29

Do you believe in life after love? I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough. Do you believe in life after love? I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough, but I know that I'll get through this, cause I know that I am strong. I don't need you anymore. Do you believe in life after love? I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough. Do you believe in life after love? I can feel something inside me say I really don't think you're strong enough.

Speaker 11: 22:12

I don't mind you say that. I remember my neighbor. He was a typical escapor and in the summer he does surfing.

Speaker 3: 22:38

He was the one that knows everything.

Speaker 11: 22:41

One night I walked to go and buy candies. He grabbed me the tree, he gave me my first kiss.

Speaker 3: 22:49

It was so awkward I didn't want to kiss a guy for a long time.

Speaker 11: 22:55

It was like yeah, this is the soprapa, the telenovelas Kies ones. It was like saliva yeah it was like when he put his tongue inside. Yeah, so I didn't like it at all. No, so that was awkward. My first Kies.

Speaker 12: 23:12

Mine was really awkward. So I had this crush on him for like the whole little elementary school and then it finally happened in the middle school and I was a late bloomer.

Speaker 14: 23:28

He walked to me.

Speaker 12: 23:30

I think it was like before I turned 15, because my mom said that I couldn't kiss anybody ever. But like if I wanted to have a quinceañera then like if you were going to go to church and do the whole thing like you cannot be kissed, so I was like it was traumatizing. First of all, he had braces and he was chewing a gum that was like cinnamon.

Speaker 11: 23:56

You remember that.

Speaker 3: 23:58

Yeah, I'm telling you.

Speaker 4: 23:59

It was traumatizing.

Speaker 12: 24:00

And yeah, so he walks me to my class and all of a sudden he didn't like oh, he just kissed me and I was like in shock kind of, and all that. I literally just not like my first kiss.

Speaker 11: 24:13

So where did you say give me five no?

Speaker 12: 24:15

and then he was like trying to go out with me and try to be my boyfriend and I was like, no, that's evil, I can't. No, no, no. So yeah, I was traumatizing.

Speaker 10: 24:23

I totally feel you guys might happen in the seventh grade and it actually happened with the sixth grade.

Speaker 11: 24:29

What is the H of seventh grade? About the same 13.

Speaker 12: 24:31

Yeah, like 12. I think I was 12,.

Speaker 10: 24:33

I was 12, yeah, and I ended up kissing a sixth grader, which is kind of like why, but okay, whatever. And I remember we were like in the back of the school like a secretive you know we're about to like everybody's right there watching and yeah, he sticks his tongue and I felt the same way like in my mouth. I felt disgusting about tongue with tongue, so I was just so gross. But you know it was the worst part of this. I was a poor child and I remember the only video game I had was the Lion King for my Super Nintendo.

Speaker 10: 25:07

I let him borrow it, and he never gave it back. Oh, no, so he was like take her Double that.

Speaker 12: 25:14

Oh, he took my virginity of that and then he took my Lion King game. No, that's like that is traumatizing.

Speaker 14: 25:21

Yeah, that is so sad that is sad, like for me and my friends. I was like kind of practicing because my friends were like I don't even know what's practicing? Well, everybody say that it was like like a sucking on an orange. You know when you eat an orange, exactly. You do like the whole kind of that's exciting.

Speaker 12: 25:41

I've never heard that. That's actually sounds more fun than having a kiss, like sucking an orange, exactly.

Speaker 14: 25:46

We've never tried it. Your sauce is cinnamon orange.

Speaker 12: 25:49

No, you know what, up to now, don't ever give me cinnamon. I can't even smell it.

Speaker 14: 25:53

I hate cinnamon.

Speaker 10: 25:54

That's how my God has a candy of cinnamon. No, don't ever.

Speaker 14: 25:58

I used to have a boyfriend that his mouth was so small, like he's lips and mouth, but he would like be sucking on cherry, cherry mint the whole day. So he will kiss me like that and just like oh my God.

Speaker 10: 26:13

That was horrible Okay.

Speaker 14: 26:14

So tell us, so you were an expert already my first kiss, kind of like Exactly, yeah, I ate a lot of juice, I drink a lot of juice, no, and then we went to a party with my my parents were friends with his parents and we were just like looking at each other for quite a long time. And then he was like two years older than me, so he's like let's go around with the car. And I'm like, huh, okay, so I escaped from the party, okay, and then I got into the car with him and, of course, we went around the city and then we started kissing.

Speaker 11: 26:49

You were serious.

Speaker 14: 26:49

Oh yeah, I made sure he had a car.

Speaker 12: 26:54

And she had already practiced.

Speaker 14: 26:56

I knew already Wow, you're super expert, don't?

Speaker 18: 27:00

take me on a bicycle. You know I love it. No, I'm kidding.

Speaker 3: 27:04

I'm kidding.

Speaker 14: 27:06

So nothing. When, like the time passed, we kissed a lot and then, when I go back to the party, my dad was looking for me everywhere and he was like worried and he was just like asking everybody. So as soon as I got out of the car he grabbed me and he's like let's go home right now. So I was like oh shit.

Speaker 10: 27:27

I'm so like jealous. You were the only one that said we kissed so much.

Speaker 11: 27:32

Oh, I love it. I love kissing, I'm a kisser.

Speaker 14: 27:35

Oh well, you know, thinking time Kind of, but it was worth it, right it was, it was so worth it, that was worth it, so you're mean.

Speaker 17: 27:47

So you're mean, You're like to be spanked? I heard that somewhere. Somebody said that oh you do.

Speaker 11: 27:53

No, I'm just saying it was worth it because it's thinking. But she was like, oh, it's okay.

Speaker 10: 28:00

But he was okay for leaving the party.

Speaker 17: 28:02

Has anybody ever kissed a girl?

Speaker 12: 28:04

Yeah, I have All that you have no.

Speaker 17: 28:07

I have no, yeah, only you.

Speaker 10: 28:11

I guess, nobody else is saying, yeah, I go to school, I will never kiss a girl in my entire life.

Speaker 11: 28:17

I go to girls. Oh you kiss I'm not by accident on the birthday last week.

Speaker 14: 28:25

We were in this restaurant and then the waiter was coming behind Leila and Leila did like this, and then our best friend just turned around and they kind of kissed her like that, so screaming. And the waiter was so happy he made his night. He was gay, that's why, I guess.

Speaker 10: 28:43

So I don't know. Oh, I bought those oranges. Do you have some?

Speaker 14: 28:50

I think I need to practice my kissing game. You need to. Well, I don't know, maybe that would be awkward, Leila, but I had another story. I was in love when I was 16. I was in love with this that he was my boyfriend after. But I was in love with him for a year and a half and he wouldn't even look at me because he was a little like four years old. There were three years. He was like the most handsome guy in my hometown, so anyway. So we went to a party and I danced.

Speaker 3: 29:20

I loved dancing, so I danced, and so I sweared All the time, all the time, all the time.

Speaker 14: 29:26

Gumbia lentos all the time, and so I danced a lot. And then at the end of the night he takes me outside and I'm like, oh my God, my prince charming, he's going to finally kiss me. So when we kissed, we finished kissing and then he's like, huh, did you dance a lot? And I'm like, yes, why? He's like, oh, because you're very salty. Oh, so after that I was like, oh my God, he will never talk to me again, you know. But then he became my boyfriend and then, like four years after, oh wow, he liked it.

Speaker 12: 30:01

He liked it. Yeah, he liked it. So that was our experience. My people.

Speaker 10: 30:07

What about you guys?

Speaker 1: 30:09

This is your story of your first kiss at the Caliente page, and that's a you know, right, you're far away, you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend, and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend.

Speaker 19: 31:22

and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend.

Speaker 1: 31:35

and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after, you know.

Speaker 1: 33:00

But then he became my boyfriend and then, like four years after, you know, but then he became my boyfriend. And then, like four years after, you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after, you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after.

Speaker 5: 33:39

You know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after.

Speaker 8: 34:10

You know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend and then like four years after you know, but then he became my boyfriend, and then like four years after, if I know where this word of love is, every time I say I'm plotting a threat, you say I'm crazy, it's all in my head.

Speaker 8: 36:31

You say it isn't true. That's all I want. You say it isn't true. That's all I want. You say it isn't true. That's all I want.

Speaker 3: 36:46

You say it isn't true. That's all I want. You then turn around and do what I see, right? I see it in your face like you have to. You have to face it. Kelly and Tegels, are you ready for my blow? Hit Play Unsigned Artist alongside mainstream artists, no doubt on Dash Radio, discover.

Speaker 8: 37:10

Press play, don't get me wrong. You say hello and I take a ride Upon a sea.

Speaker 4: 37:50

We've missed it. It's plain to have the cool that's hiding. Don't get me wrong. Don't get me wrong If I'm acting so distracted. I'm thinking about the fireworks Echo off when you smile. Don't get me wrong If I split like life and forget.

Speaker 15: 38:46

I'm only off the one there. I cross a wounded line Once in a while. Two people meet Soon you leave for no reason. They just pass on the street Suddenly, thunder showers everywhere. Who can explain the thunder and rain? That there's something in the way. Don't get me wrong If I come and go like fashion. I might be great tomorrow but hopeless yesterday. Don't get me wrong If I form in the mode of fashion. It might be unbelievable. It's not safe so long. It might just be fantastic, don't get me wrong.

Speaker 8: 40:12

Don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong.

Speaker 17: 41:36

Don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong, don't get me wrong. Fun addiction.

Speaker 11: 42:32

I don't have fun addiction, I just like to be on the phone because my business, my Instagram, my audience, my fans, I need a phone. So you're addicted. No, not addicted, because I can't be without phone when there's no connection, when her phone dies for me it's so much.

Speaker 10: 42:53

When you have no other option huh Okay.

Speaker 12: 42:55

So don't feel bad because, according to the statistics, everybody has it, I do have it. You check your phone and average a day at 47 times a day.

Speaker 11: 43:07

Yeah, sometimes when I check that I'm freaking out so that day I won't be on the phone that much. You know when you check how many hours you're on the phone.

Speaker 14: 43:15

I was like that my boyfriend was away. I was just turned on my phone because I was so anxious if he's going to call me or text me. And then after 10, 15 minutes I'm like I have to turn it on again.

Speaker 12: 43:25

You know what the worst thing is?

Speaker 14: 43:26

I know it.

Speaker 12: 43:27

Because 85% of smartphone users will check their device while they're speaking with their friends and their family for dinner.

Speaker 10: 43:34

Oh yeah, that's for sure. Or even at the club, like you're not even enjoying the night, you're on your phone.

Speaker 11: 43:40

You, I do.

Speaker 14: 43:41

I enjoy my night. I'm not on the phone, trust me, I do, lala.

Speaker 11: 43:44

When I go on the club I dance.

Speaker 10: 43:47

I really want to say that I'm really not addicted to my phone.

Speaker 14: 43:51

You really want to say that? Yeah, let me prove it to you. Let me prove it to you.

Speaker 10: 43:55

Since Saturday. Since Saturday I have not posted, so today I posted at Caliente Girls so everybody can listen to us. So that's like big time now like to not post at all, to not put anything.

Speaker 14: 44:07

For me on Instagram. I'm not like I can go days without posting, but I look at it.

Speaker 11: 44:13

I never look anybody's stuff and Instagram I only put my stuff.

Speaker 10: 44:18

I'm such a selfish yeah that's another thing I don't really. I mean, unless it's us to call in each other.

Speaker 12: 44:25

You can actually go to therapy if you feel like you're. No, I'm serious, serious. Yeah, there's like a new trend right now where you go to therapy for what Like a real addiction. Yeah, it's considered not. Is there rehab for your?

Speaker 10: 44:38

youth.

Speaker 12: 44:38

Yeah, well, basically there's alternatives for you to do instead of being on your phone the whole time, like, for instance, like you kind of like steps to it, you know how many tickets do I get?

Speaker 11: 44:49

Do I get when they start? You know, remember when they put the the um About how long, yeah, they put the tickets? I get tickets every week for being on my phone texting and driving. Oh, that's dangerous. And I was being in the light and I have the police with the bicycle next to me and you didn't notice. Tickets 140, 200, 140, 140.

Speaker 10: 45:10

It goes up every time. No.

Speaker 11: 45:11

I get $1,000 in tickets for being on my phone. Finally, I'm like I think I'm going to stop texting and driving.

Speaker 14: 45:18

So what age do you think that is the best to have your first phone? Like you, girls have kids.

Speaker 11: 45:23

I had my first phone when I was.

Speaker 14: 45:25

No, but like for your kids or for like the generation now.

Speaker 12: 45:28

No, in the little. I think it's good, I think it depends. I think to start them off with the watch is better.

Speaker 11: 45:34

Because you can control it. My son too, yeah, my five Okay.

Speaker 17: 45:40

Because, they wear daycare.

Speaker 12: 45:42

You have to limit their use. At least you know that. The watch thing you can actually.

Speaker 14: 45:46

The Apple Watch.

Speaker 12: 45:46

You can control it to only a certain amount of people that can only have that phone and you can like pretty much know where they're at. And it has a GPS.

Speaker 14: 45:53

I think that's a good, I like that In my opinion.

Speaker 12: 45:55

just I always try to be my. I like that.

Speaker 10: 45:58

The most dirtiest thing you can have in your hand. Your phone.

Speaker 17: 46:01

Your phone. How many times do?

Speaker 14: 46:03

you clean? Or a dollar bill.

Speaker 17: 46:03

How many times do you clean your?

Speaker 14: 46:05

phone, a taco bill, you say A dollar bill A dollar bill.

Speaker 12: 46:08

I thought it was loose change.

Speaker 17: 46:09

Or receipt. How many times do you clean your phone?

Speaker 11: 46:12

I don't. My phone is always dirty, that you mention it.

Speaker 12: 46:16

You can see it.

Speaker 1: 46:17

Please don't.

Speaker 14: 46:18

You're cleaning our phones. Yeah, my phone is not clean, I know.

Speaker 10: 46:24

Take off that case and watch, because I've taken off my cases and I'm like you had two phones down.

Speaker 11: 46:31

You're not addicted.

Speaker 12: 46:32

I think, overall, we have to remind ourselves that For my foundation.

Speaker 17: 46:36

That are.

Speaker 12: 46:37

Okay, okay. My foundation See nobody's paying attention to me because you guys are on your phone. So I think overall the message would be You're in control of your phone at the other end.

Speaker 1: 47:29

So I think, overall, we have to remind ourselves that I want to put on my my, my, my, my blue shoes to run with you. Well, I want to put on my my, my, my, my blue shoes to run with you.

Speaker 3: 48:28

I want to put on my my, my, my, my blue shoes to run with you. I want to put on my my, my, my, my blue shoes to run with you. I want to put on my my, my, my, my blue shoes to run with you. You're now about to listen to one of the best unsigned artists in the world.

Speaker 5: 49:14

On Flow Presents.

Speaker 1: 49:16

It's just too bittersweet to explain, gathered all these memories and everlasting pain.

Speaker 1: 49:39

These little dreams relate to our unseen. I saw the bigger picture. Now you'll see. I'm on my grind. I'm on my grind, beautiful light, to see the signs. Could it be that we were wine Gifted? But we're surely blind. Your fate led me down this road, fought all these demons and never went cold. You let me down a path of gold, no contracts. Yeah, you won't never take my soul, never take my soul. It's time. It's time these people know that this life, this life, is more than just a show. More than just a show. I advise you to look inside yourself. It's just bittersweet. You won't find it nowhere else. Find it nowhere else. I'm on my grind. I'm on my grind, beautiful lights. I see the signs. It couldn't be that we rewind Gifted, but we're surely blind. I'm on my grind. I'm on my grind, beautiful lights. I see the signs. It couldn't be that we rewind Gifted, but we're surely blind. And you got me around your fingertip and you won't forget. And you got me around your fingertip. I love you for this.

Speaker 1: 52:16

Yeah, I'm on my grind. I'm on my grind, beautiful lights. I see the signs. It couldn't be that we rewind Gifted. But we're surely blind. I'm on my grind. I'm on my grind, beautiful lights. I see the signs. It couldn't be that we rewind? Could it be that we rewind? Yeah, on my grind.

Speaker 6: 52:51

Yeah, what others be hating?

Speaker 5: 52:55

We keep it afray hands on your feet, callie, and say girls, san Francisco.

Speaker 16: 53:02

California.

Speaker 6: 53:04

Desperate for changing, starving for truth. I'm closer to where I started, chasing after you. I'm falling even more in love with you, Letting go of all I've ever wanted. I'm standing here and tell you make me move. I'm making bad moves here with you, forgetting all I'm lacking, completely incomplete. I'll take your invitation. You take all of me now. I'm falling even more in love with you, letting go of all I've ever wanted. I'm standing here and tell you make me move. I'm hanging by a moment here with you. I'm living for the only thing I know.

Speaker 1: 54:16

I'm running in my crotch where to go and I don't know what I'm dying to do. To stay by your side where I feel there's nothing else to lose, there's nothing else to find, there's nothing in the world that can change my mind. There's nothing else.

Speaker 6: 54:52

There's nothing else. There's nothing else. Desperate for changing, staring for truth, I'm closer to where I started chasing after you. I'm falling even more in love with you, letting go of all I've ever wanted.

Speaker 1: 55:31

I'm standing here and tell you make me move. I'm hanging by a moment here with you. I'm living for the only thing I know. I'm running in my crotch where to go and I don't know what I'm dying to do. To stay by your side where I feel? To stay by your side where I feel.

Speaker 7: 56:01

Raying by a moment Flow, pre-sense, taking you all the way back With the old school blast from the past. Drop it Yo, player. What's up playing what's going on? Player, ain't a bad thing to play. There you go in the player. Play's gotta get some shame, and there's a lot of fools out there to bust your place.

Speaker 2: 56:26

For those that know yo, and if you don't, so it's the aka Panaspectus Scorpio. I'm coming from the belly, from the beast, from the east fool. It's the original G from the old school In Ohio. Got a girl that I'm boning on a regular, pulling me up on the cellular. I'm internationally known. I'm in my own zone, leave me alone and I'm trying to give a swerve, or pushing up it Straight up, humping in the pool, your polio. The shorties know the rule, so strip down and let me see you through the boundary. Don't drown like KRS. I'm from the boogie down when I'm on the west coast and straight up love, I'm in hot tub. Get my back rub on from this beach. True plays. Just don't have to reaps Say the kick, cast an over or over up.

Speaker 2: 57:01

Lexus Coup cruising down the street cold, flossing it up. It's Shawna, shawna, nice T A1 Max cold kick and fat Taking ocean. Rise and fly out. Rise, player haters. Ain't no room for ya, cause we're pulling out a nine cold doing ya Slaughter on the water, crossing borders with your daughter. This is Scorpio new world or die Yo.

Speaker 2: 57:19

Player what's up. Player what's going on. Player when you going. Player when you gonna get some shit. And there's a lot of fools out there that must get play. Yo, player what's up? Player what's going on? Player To have a lot. Player when you going. Player when you gonna get paid. And there's a lot of fools out there that must get play Straight from the air.

Speaker 2: 57:37

A kick's the swerve, the gift, the pimp, paul laying the playin'. The rhymes say your cash flow, the bull, a high ruler, while it always got the bumps C'mon pocket stay swollen too cold, a hold too hot to fry, baby. But Jimmy's your hero cause the day. Fly, so fly that every time I utter a word Then they rise up to the sky while I'm pissing off. Fries and birds mean cash when they ring the ring.

Speaker 2: 57:56

Go and beat, not sling, a brother swinging like a horse. Deep holes a skull. They brought a soul of a freak. Fuck a troll. I got the Jimmy for the roll man. They got that man. That pimp slap. Put your hand up like that. Get shot like crap. Beat like a drum, throw like dumb fake players. Get off two players. Come on now. Come on, that's right y'all. And it goes a little something like this Yo, player what's up? Play what's going on, play Not a damn thing. Play what you doing play, it's gotta get some shit. If there's a lot of fools out here, what's your play? Yo player what's up? Play what's going on?

Speaker 5: 58:28

play Not a damn thing. Play what you doing, play, play. It's gotta get some shit. If there's a lot of fools out here, what's your game? What you doing? Play music. If there's a lot of things, get some shit. But will never be the guy they big girls?

Speaker 2: 58:42

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Speaker 17: 58:51

I'm Yandex Show Dash Radio, and now my guest today is going to be Dominique Simone.

Speaker 3: 58:55

Hello everybody.

Speaker 17: 58:57

You have a book coming out called the Star Is Porn.

Speaker 13: 59:00

What is that all about? Well, I was in the adult film industry and it's just a story about my life and a lot of the things that I went through while in the industry, a lot of the ups and downs of the industry, and it's a very inspirational story and I hope that the readers will be able to find a positive message in my book.

Speaker 17: 59:26

What's your angle with this book? Why did you write this book?

Speaker 13: 59:31

I wrote this book because I've had a lot of my fans ask me a lot of questions about the industry and a lot of girls will contact me and ask me about my opinion about getting into the industry and what it was like, and I just felt like I had reached a point in my life where I was ready to discuss that and talk about the industry and what my life was like while working in the industry.

Speaker 17: 59:56

Okay. Are you currently retired from the industry?

Speaker 13: 1:00:00

Yes, yes, I'm retired and what do you do now? Right now I'm doing some things in the music industry. I actually book artists for concerts and I do some real estate ventures.

Speaker 17: 1:00:12

Okay.

Speaker 13: 1:00:13

So when you book, artists for concerts.

Speaker 17: 1:00:15

Are you like a manager?

Speaker 13: 1:00:18

No, not a promoter, but just a financer for the concerts. Okay, yes, I've done a few concerts. I've done one with Mary J Blash and another one with an artist, ella Alpha.

Speaker 17: 1:00:31

Okay, Okay, we don't want to talk about bad things about the industry or about, you know, stereotypes that people may have, but what would you say was one of your biggest mistakes when you were in the industry?

Speaker 13: 1:00:48

One of my biggest mistakes in the industry was that's a really tough one. Probably I think that I could have utilized a lot of the connections that I had in the industry at that time with what I'm doing now. I didn't. Maybe I should have utilized my time a little bit better. I really tried not to say that I regret this and I regret that because a lot of the things that happened in my career have led me to be the person that I am today. So I really try not to reflect and say I wish I wouldn't have done this or I wish I wouldn't have done that.

Speaker 17: 1:01:38

Okay, what was the most fun you had when you were in the industry?

Speaker 13: 1:01:44

I really enjoyed going to meet the fans. We had award shows. I loved going to the award shows and just meeting the fans and having that direct contact and traveling. I traveled a lot all over the world. I went to Europe, to the Cancun Festival, out there, and just being able to talk to different people about their views on sexuality and their views on our business. So that was very exciting for me.

Speaker 17: 1:02:19

Now 20 years ago no one would talk about this kind of stuff. Now it's just regular snaggler now with the Cardi B's and all the other artists that's out right now. Do you feel that it's more liberated now or do you feel it was better back in the day?

Speaker 13: 1:02:42

as far as the sexuality stuff, I feel that it's way more liberated now, because when I entered the industry, there are very, very few African American girls. Now there's a lot of African American girls and it's so much easier because of the only fans and you know, people can just take their phone and just shoot something and just post it right away. So the industry is very more accessible now than it was when I was in it.

Speaker 17: 1:03:13

Do you think? Only fans killed the industry a little bit.

Speaker 13: 1:03:18

I don't think it was only fans that killed the industry. I think that once the internet went from DALLA to the transformation in 2000, then more things were accessible via internet, so the guys that were usually running videos they could just go online and pull up videos or, instead of going to the strip clubs, they can do the one-on-one shows online. So I think that that's probably what killed the industry just the videos being more accessible online than they were before.

Speaker 17: 1:03:58

So, moving forward, what do you hope will come out of this book? Are you trying to get a movie deal? Are you trying to do something on Netflix or what's next?

Speaker 13: 1:04:10

I would love to do a movie about it. I think it's a very good story and I would love to do something like that. Yes, I don't think anything like that has been done yet.

Speaker 17: 1:04:26

Yeah, so give us a little detail, small detail, of what people will find amazing about this book.

Speaker 13: 1:04:35

I'll just give you a little brief synopsis. I'm from Georgia, so I came from a small town in Georgia.

Speaker 17: 1:04:41

What part of Georgia?

Speaker 13: 1:04:42

Baldaust in Georgia Okay.

Speaker 17: 1:04:44

You used to live in Albany.

Speaker 13: 1:04:45

You lived in Albany. Oh yeah, so Baldaust was about three hours from there. Okay yeah, so I'm from Baldaust in Georgia and it just tells the story, which the story has been told in different ways, with people that come out to Los Angeles to become singers. So basically, with my story I come out to Georgia, los Angeles, on a scholarship to go to college, and things just take a different turn and I end up getting into the film industry.

Speaker 13: 1:05:20

And I guess it has been other movies like this, like Sparkle, where you come into, you go to a big city, you want to be successful, you want to start them, and there's things that kind of deter, you like with drug use, with some people coming in contact with the wrong person. So I kind of caught a little red riding bit story because I was very close to my grandmother. You know, I venture from home and I come to this big city in search for something, in search for fame and fortune, and I come across a lot of wolves and I have a lot of ups and downs that I go through, but I end up coming out on top, you know, and a lot of people and a lot of people that I have worked with did not, were not so fortunate.

Speaker 17: 1:06:20

How did you get into the industry in the first place?

Speaker 13: 1:06:23

I was replying to an article for figure modeling, for modeling, and when I applied and went in for my interview it was actually for modeling and I told myself I can't do that, my grandma would go crazy, I can't do anything like that. But it was hard out here. I didn't have my family support. They did support me coming out to Los Angeles from you know being so far away and being from the Bible building, being from the Bible building.

Speaker 13: 1:06:55

I grew up Southern Baptist and my grandma she was very strict with me and church every Sunday and you know. So she was the one that I was mostly worried about when I got into the industry. I was just like I cannot disappoint her. I could never let her know that I was doing something like this, but she's the one that was actually more understanding about it. So I needed money and I went in for the interview and when he told me it was for new modeling, I said I don't think I could do that.

Speaker 13: 1:07:30

But time's got really hard and I went in and I did a photo shoot for a magazine. The first one was called Hustler and then another one called Players Magazine, blacktale and from there I met someone on those photo shoots that convinced me to come onto a video shoot. And I went to the video shoot and at the time there's a director. His name was Ron Jeremy and he was very well known throughout the industry. He was directing for this company and I went on the set and he said hey, you know there's no one like you in the industry. Would you like to work today? And I was just like sure, and that's how I got started. Ok yeah.

Speaker 17: 1:08:21

I know Ron.

Speaker 13: 1:08:21

You know, ron.

Speaker 17: 1:08:23

I interviewed him several times. How do you feel about his staying there when it happened with him at the end, with all the so-called cases and stuff?

Speaker 13: 1:08:36

I, ron was a very good friend of mine and we used to go to the rocking role-play over on the Sunset. We used to go there all the time and he introduced me to a lot of people and he was always really kind to me and I just cannot even see anything like that happening. But I haven't seen him for several years. I don't know, but I was really shocked to hear about it.

Speaker 17: 1:09:03

Plus, it's a different era now. So what was cool back then? It's so easy to get screwed up now you know what. I'm saying yes you can't even shake a person's hand, and it might turn into something.

Speaker 13: 1:09:15

these days, yes, I used to hang out with him at the Rainbow Room and he introduced me to a lot of the Axl Rose and all of these people and everyone just loved him. I mean, wherever I was with him, people just loved him. So I can't say anything bad about it. But, like he said, yeah, this is a different time and you can't do the things that he did back then. Who was?

Speaker 17: 1:09:41

your greatest inspiration? Back when you was working and trying to have your career going good, who was your biggest inspiration?

Speaker 13: 1:09:49

In the film industry.

Speaker 17: 1:09:50

In the film industry.

Speaker 13: 1:09:53

Probably Angel Kelly is the person that brought me into my first big film starring role she's retiring at the time and during that era it was Angel Kelly, Ebony Eyes, Nina DePanca. They were like the top African-American actresses and I loved Angel. I loved her work, she was beautiful and I just loved everything about her. So when she approached me to do her last film and then come in playing her sister, that's how I got started and I kind of pulled in a lot of her fan base as well.

Speaker 17: 1:10:38

Who was your biggest inspiration outside of the music, I mean outside of the film industry?

Speaker 13: 1:10:43

Female Female.

Speaker 17: 1:10:44

Anybody Female, Can you man?

Speaker 13: 1:10:46

female, I loved Michael Jackson. Oh yeah, yes. And when I was a little girl, I had all of his posters on my wall. And when I decided that I was going to come out to Los Angeles, I came out here wanting to meet him. I said I'm going to go up to Los Angeles and I'm going to meet Michael Jackson. And I did. And I was. You know, I liked Prince. I met him as well. Janet I haven't met her yet, but it was very exciting time for me.

Speaker 17: 1:11:21

Yes, how was it meeting Michael Jackson?

Speaker 13: 1:11:25

Wow. I met Michael Jackson outside of my at the time. It was his cosmetologist office. His name is Arnold Klein and I was told by someone a paparazzi guy what time he usually showed up every day at the location. And I just kind of get out there with the paparazzi and when I saw him, when he got out the car, I just ran up.

Speaker 13: 1:11:49

I was like Michael, michael, he has security with him. But he reached out and he shook my hand and he was like oh, I was like can I, can I go with you? And he was like you know, he was like had his mask on and he was just like, yeah, she could come with us and scare us. Like no, michael, no, no. And so I was like here's my number, here's my number. So it was like meeting someone that was wow, like divine. You know, he I'll never forget that experience, I will never forget that experience.

Speaker 7: 1:12:51

It's OK. Hey, baby, do what you please. I have the stuff that you want. I am the thing that you need. She looked me deep in the eyes. She dodged me, so distaste. She says there's no turning back. She's running yelling ah Nothing, I know no Nothing. I know no Nothing. I know no Nothing. I know no Nothing. I know no Nothing. I know no. She likes the boys and the fans. She knows when they come to town, Every musician's fan. After the curtain comes down, she waits at backstage doors for those who have prestige, who promise boys she'll fame a life that's so heavy. She's saying that's OK. Hey, baby, do what you want. I'll be your night-loving thing, I'll be the freak you can talk. I don't care what you say. I want to go too far. I'll be your everything if you make me your star. Nothing, I know, no, Nothing, I know no.

Speaker 18: 1:14:32

Nothing. I know no, Nothing, I know no Nothing, I know no.

Speaker 7: 1:15:01

She said I have to go home cause I retired. You see, now I can't sleep in alone. Why don't you come with me? I send my babies at home. She's probably worried. Tonight I didn't call on the phone to say that I'm alright. Diana walked out the main. She said I'm on your. Tonight I've been around to the phone saying baby, I'm alright. I said, but I locked the door cause I forgot the key. She said it's not coming back because you see me with me. I'm not gonna go home cause I forgot the key. She said it's not coming back cause I forgot the key.

Speaker 5: 1:15:59

Diana walked out the main. She said I'm alright. I said but I locked the door cause I forgot the key. She said it's not coming back. Cause I forgot the key. She said it's not coming back cause I forgot the key. Always imitated but never duplicated the mighty, mighty unfaithables. Gallante girls.

Speaker 13: 1:16:26

The same went with when I met Prince. I met Prince when I was at a nightclub in Century City it was called the Century Club and he asked that I come and sit with him and I went and sat with him and we were talking and laughing and watching everybody. So that was a very fun spirit for me too, because Purple Rain was one of the first movies that my grandmother bought for me when we had the VCRs, and I would get up every day and watch it over and over. I know all of the words and everything. So to meet Prince was just like such an exciting time for me as well. It was very exciting.

Speaker 17: 1:17:13

Have you ever had a relationship with a star, a major star, like dated or something?

Speaker 13: 1:17:23

I dated Robert Gennaro for a little bit and he's a very, very nice guy, very mysterious. I was very intimidated when I met him. Actually, when I met him I didn't know who he was. And it was another situation where I was out and someone said hey, there's a gentleman that would like for you to come and sit with him. And after sitting with him for about maybe 30 minutes, I raised my hand because he was with a lot of guys and big guys. They were just talking and I was like, may I go to the bathroom please? And when I went to the restroom, the owner of the establishment at the time he came up to me and he said wow, bobby really likes you. And I was like Bobby who? And he was like you're sitting with Robert Gennaro now. I was like, oh really.

Speaker 13: 1:18:21

So after I went back to the table, he actually asked me if I would be interested in going to. He said I have a friend that has a club called the Monkey Bar in Zimz Jack who's referring to Jack Nicholson. He said would you be interested in escorting me there? And I said that's my date and I was like I'm tired, I think I'm going to go home. And he gave me his number and I lost it, so he ended up having someone track me down and we reconnected when he was in Los Angeles shooting the movie Deep, so that was a very fun time as well. But dating, dating, dating celebrities is really tough. You know, he's a very private person and that probably is what led to us stop, to stop seeing each other because of the paparazzi always following him around everywhere.

Speaker 17: 1:19:23

You um? Are you currently married now?

Speaker 13: 1:19:27

No.

Speaker 17: 1:19:27

I'm not married.

Speaker 13: 1:19:32

Why I was married before. And it's just, relationships are really tough. Even when you're working in the industry. Relationships are tough with. It's tough dating actors that are in the industry and then it's even tougher dating someone that's not in the industry. And I tried the marriage thing once but it just didn't work for me. All the pressures you know that my husband he's just very insecure about my past. Yeah, you deal with a lot of insecurities and that's just something that I was not prepared to deal with.

Speaker 17: 1:20:19

No children. I have children. I have four children.

Speaker 13: 1:20:23

Really yes, thank you.

Speaker 17: 1:20:25

Okay, and who's the youngest?

Speaker 13: 1:20:27

The youngest um. His name is Jackson, and I named him Jackson, michael, Of course, and he's one.

Speaker 17: 1:20:35

One. Oh, so you just had a baby.

Speaker 13: 1:20:37

Yes, one year old.

Speaker 17: 1:20:38

Wow, okay, all right. What kind of future do you feel that you're trying to set up for them? If they said, hey, I'm going to get into this industry, would you be cool with that, or would you detour them from that?

Speaker 13: 1:20:56

Well, my oldest is 25 and he wants to get into entertainment. I have a daughter. She's a dancer, she's 16, and I have another son that's 18. And as far as the entertainment, if my daughter ever came to me and said that she wanted to get into the industry, I probably, you know, we want better for our children and we don't want them to follow in our footsteps, so I probably wouldn't recommend her doing that at all. I was very fortunate to have someone in my life. When I entered the industry, I started dating someone that protected me and guided me, and we were a close knit family because I came here and left my family in Georgia, so the industry was everything that I had. So, but it's not like that right now and, no, I would not want that for my daughter. How?

Speaker 17: 1:22:04

did you convince your grandmother to go along with you? Being that she's from where she's at. How did that end up?

Speaker 13: 1:22:11

You know, my grandmother found out about me being in the film industry. I was on People's Court. I had someone Judge Wopner Judge.

Speaker 13: 1:22:21

Wopner and I was so scared and my grandmother was the biggest fan of People's Court and she saw me on People's Court and it was so crazy because the day that I was on there, the audience, there's a school that had brought a group of third graders so and I was on there with a friend of mine and the judge, the guy that had brought me into People's Court, he was a fan of mine, he was a cab driver and it was just like a dispute with him and I had said that he had my pictures all over the wall. So Judge Wopner asked well, may I ask what you do? And I said I'm in entertainment. And he had his mother as a witness and she said, oh, she's a porn star. And so I could hear some of the kids behind me going what's a porn star? So that's how my grandmother found out and when I called her after she called me, she was so excited to see that I was on the show.

Speaker 11: 1:23:27

She was like I saw you on TV.

Speaker 13: 1:23:28

I saw you on TV because I didn't even know it was going to air as soon as it did and it airs so many times, it's probably one of their top watch shows. And she was just telling me. You were very articulate and I was really proud of you and I said well, you know how did you feel about what I do for a living? And she said that you're wrong and of course I'm not happy about it, but as long as you're not hurting anybody, she said you seem to be doing very well and she said, you know, as long as you're not hurting anybody, she said I understand. And after that I was really at peace because she was the person that I was concerned about the most, finding out about what I did. Did she raise you? My grandmother raised me.

Speaker 17: 1:24:26

Yes, who is no longer in your life, who sees that you wish was here to see your success and see how you're doing now.

Speaker 13: 1:24:39

My grandmother and my uncle, my uncle Jonathan, my uncle Jonathan, he. Basically we grew up together. We were raised as like a sister and I learned a lot of things from him about makeup, and he taught me how to dance and how he would say how to be a diva. And when my grandmother and my uncle passed away, it was during the height of my career and it really did offend me, and that's when my life started to spiral out of control. So those are the two people that I wish were here now.

Speaker 17: 1:25:32

I noticed that you don't talk about your mother and your father. Why is that?

Speaker 13: 1:25:37

My mother had me at a very young age. My mother had me when she was 15 years old and my grandmother took over from there and my mother. She went off and went to college and I was here twice in here and I'm close to my mother now, but my grandmother was like my mom.

Speaker 17: 1:25:59

And your grandmother was your mother's mom.

Speaker 13: 1:26:02

Yes, and my dad. I never got a chance to meet my dad because he died on his graduation. He was in a car accident and broke his neck and he didn't even know about me, so I never got the opportunity to meet my father.

Speaker 17: 1:26:18

Did that ever affect you? With men that you didn't raise? You weren't raised with your father.

Speaker 13: 1:26:27

I think that having a father in your life is a good thing. My kids they're very involved with their dads and I think having that male influence does help with a lot of decisions that you may make later on. But there's a lot of people that have fathers in their lives and it's not a good thing too. So my grandmother was that strong black mother for me, the mother and the father, and I think that right now and my uncle my uncle was just like my brother. So I think that in society today there's a lot of strong black women that are doing their thing and that are doing both being the mom and the dad, and so I think that if my father would have been around, they were so young, so I don't know what type of impact that would have had on me growing up.

Speaker 17: 1:27:41

Okay, but you and your mom now are close.

Speaker 13: 1:27:44

Yes, we're close.

Speaker 17: 1:27:45

She's being a god, a grandmother to your children.

Speaker 13: 1:27:50

Yes.

Speaker 17: 1:27:52

Do you ever have animosity later in your mind why didn't you do this when I was younger? Or blah, blah, blah. Or you just say you know what life is like.

Speaker 13: 1:28:07

I was very confused before. But I had a long conversation with my mother and after learning that she was just so young when she had me and you know it's like being in the South and how judgmental people are so my mom had a very rough time with her pregnancy. She concealed her pregnancy until the night that I was born, so she didn't go through all of the shame and embarrassment that most teenagers would have gone through if they would have came out and just openly said they weren't pregnant. But I have to think about it must have been really tough on my mom emotionally to be pregnant and go through a pregnancy without the support of anyone and to have to conceal it like that.

Speaker 13: 1:29:02

So I feel a lot of empathy for my mother and over the years, from even myself going to therapy, I just learned that she was going through a very rough time at that time too and she did the best thing for me. She left me with my grandmother, someone that was going to give me love and take care of me. She didn't abandon me and I did see my mother twice a year. She lived in West Virginia and I lived in Georgia, but she tried to do she did the best that she could to make sure that I was cared for and stay in touch with me, and later on, after I became a teenager, then I ended up moving in with her. But she did the best thing that she thought she could do for me.

Speaker 17: 1:29:56

And you raising your kids now. Did you find it difficult to be a good parent in the beginning because you came from the broken home type thing, or did you use your grandmother's strength and you worked with that Raising your?

Speaker 13: 1:30:16

kids. Now I used my grandmother's strength but I raising my children I did run into a lot of pitfalls because there's a lot of people that are judgmental about my career, even though I, when my son was born my first born I had retired from the industry. But you know, there is that stigma that is attached to the adult film industry, actors and actresses. So I did. I did have people that tried to give me problems with my children, but I was able to overcome that. I just had to stay strong. So I got a lot of that from my grandmother. She was a very strong woman and very, very good mother.

Speaker 17: 1:31:12

Is that also in the book? When you were going through the struggles?

Speaker 13: 1:31:15

with your kids. Yes, it is I have to read that.

Speaker 17: 1:31:19

You know I came from a broken home, so I, you know, I, I, I and when I was, when I have kids too I have a 16 year old as well and when you, when you haven't come from a good background, parenting background, it's hard when you become a parent because you don't know how to be a parent. So I had to go through a lot of classes, different little things to work on myself, so I wouldn't go and do the stuff that I was, that was done to me when I was going through foster cares and all this type of stuff. So it's just interesting to find out. You know how you handled your situation.

Speaker 13: 1:31:53

Yes, I had to do some, some classes, the parenting classes as well. But you know I really don't believe in the textbook parenting.

Speaker 17: 1:32:02

No, I don't either. No, that's over my head, but but but you know watching Oprah, or watching, you know talk shows, or well, which really helped me was Antoine Fisher, that movie.

Speaker 13: 1:32:15

Oh, I haven't seen that one, yeah where he was like from foster care.

Speaker 17: 1:32:19

they treated him like crap and then he ended up being a productive member of society and stuff like that. That's what helped me, because I don't understand that whitewashed, you know the timeouts. Yeah, I don't, but I don't understand all that.

Speaker 13: 1:32:37

Calling the police or your parents. I don't understand all that, you know.

Speaker 17: 1:32:40

Discipline, yes, yes, but all my kids have been through college and they're all doing good, so I guess I didn't do that bad. But back to the record at hand. So the book is out, and where can we get this book?

Speaker 13: 1:32:54

You can get it on. Amazon, it's going to be in the local bookstore soon. Kindle books.

Speaker 17: 1:33:02

And it's do you have it on digital?

Speaker 13: 1:33:05

It's on digital.

Speaker 17: 1:33:06

Yes, cool, cool, cool and the name of the book. One more time.

Speaker 13: 1:33:11

It's called a star is porn.

Speaker 17: 1:33:15

A star is porn. I hear you. And did you write it all yourself or you had a helper, or how did that work?

Speaker 13: 1:33:24

I wrote it. I wrote it myself and it took. It took a long time for me to do it because I felt like when I started writing it it was during COVID and and I just didn't feel like I was at the right point in my life where I wanted to come out with a book. So it was a lot of I had to do a lot of reflecting, think about, think back about a lot of things and kind of put everything in order. So it took a bit of time for me to put it together. But yeah, I'm very happy with the outcome. Cool, yes.

Speaker 17: 1:33:56

And that's my copy that I can get to breathe. This is your copy I have.

Speaker 13: 1:34:00

I have a bookmark in here for you.

Speaker 17: 1:34:02

Oh, let me see that that's cool. Oh, that's cool. Yes, so this is your merchandise.

Speaker 13: 1:34:07

Yes, oh cool.

Speaker 17: 1:34:08

I like this.

Speaker 13: 1:34:09

Yes, yes, and I will sign it for you.

Speaker 17: 1:34:11

Thank you and I hope you I am going to read it.

Speaker 13: 1:34:14

I hope you enjoy the read.

Speaker 17: 1:34:15

Yeah.

Speaker 13: 1:34:16

Everything we talked about is in here, plus more.

Speaker 17: 1:34:19

Yeah.

Speaker 13: 1:34:19

A lot of juicy stuff.

Speaker 17: 1:34:21

So yeah, I will check it out.

Speaker 13: 1:34:23

All right.

Speaker 17: 1:34:24

So um is there, do you have a dot com or where can people see you and stuff?

Speaker 13: 1:34:30

Um, I have a Instagram and is is is Dominique D. A lot of people misspell is D O M O N I Q U E underscore Simone S I M O N E underscore on Instagram.

Speaker 17: 1:34:44

And are you going to do any book signings or you're going on tour or anything like that, or what's going on?

Speaker 13: 1:34:50

Um, I have a publicist's for me with barbers I love her. She's got a shot, barbara. Barbara Sanchez yeah.

Speaker 17: 1:34:57

Go get that PR from Barbara yeah.

Speaker 13: 1:35:00

And, um, she's done a fantastic job at just you know, setting up signings for me, so we're going to have some books store signings.

Speaker 17: 1:35:08

That's cool, yes, all right. And um, and then also you have your um promotion for groups.

Speaker 13: 1:35:16

Groups. Oh yes, the the concerts that I'm doing Um.

Speaker 17: 1:35:20

What's the name of those concerts?

Speaker 13: 1:35:22

Um, right now we have some. We have some contracts that we're trying to put together right now, Okay, but I have done um, I, the last big concert I did was Mary J Blage, Okay, and that was um right after after everyone came out of COVID and it was in New York and in Baltimore, and I got to meet Mary and gifted her some boots and she's very sweet and it was just very exciting and fun.

Speaker 17: 1:35:48

She had an interesting life too.

Speaker 13: 1:35:50

Yes, yes.

Speaker 17: 1:35:53

I think she wrote a book or something, or was it?

Speaker 13: 1:35:54

a movie, did she? Oh, yeah, there was a movie.

Speaker 17: 1:35:56

Yeah, a movie it was very interesting how she came up and you know there's some similarities between you and her.

Speaker 13: 1:36:04

Oh really.

Speaker 17: 1:36:05

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 13: 1:36:06

I love Mary. She was so sweet. She was so tiny, just tiny. She was so sweet and it was just so much fun. She put on an excellent show and I was sitting next to Teraji, she was right next to me, we were in the front row and you know, I was backstage a little bit, so it was just, the whole experience was a lot of fun. That's cool.

Speaker 17: 1:36:31

Um, do you still have a lot of friends from the back in the industry Not to not the point industry, but just overall from the industry? Do you still contact? Or there's people that say, hey, girl, come over to the house, or hey, come chill with me, or something like that you kind of like to yourself?

Speaker 13: 1:36:50

I'm very to myself. Even when I was doing films, I had certain people that I hung out with. I was friends with Heather Hunter, one of my really good friends, janet Jackney, another one, taylor Wayne, so I didn't really hang out with a group of people and as far as now every you know the business has changed so much and with the only fans and they don't shoot movies like they used to. When I was doing movies, it seemed like they would shoot the movie every day somewhere close by and in this area or close by, but now everyone's doing their stuff from home or you know, the industry has changed a lot. So a lot of the people that I worked with are I don't even know where they're at, you know, and when you, when you start to have children and you know, veer into a different direction. I also became a nurse too, so my life went into a different direction and I just lost contact with a lot of people.

Speaker 17: 1:38:03

So what are you? Lvn or BSN?

Speaker 13: 1:38:05

LVN LVN yes.

Speaker 17: 1:38:07

Okay, cool, yes, yeah, so are you currently a nurse now?

Speaker 13: 1:38:15

I am currently studying to get my Arian BSN.

Speaker 17: 1:38:19

Okay, yes, that's cool, because you can never go wrong with that.

Speaker 13: 1:38:24

You got to have something to fall back on. And I, when I retired, when I was in my 20s, I just told myself I just did not want to be doing movies when I'm in my 50s or 60s, I didn't want to be doing it that long and I just felt like you know, you just have to have something to fall back on because you never know what could happen in life, life situations. And I'm glad that I went and got my nursing and that I did other things, because when the industry did shut down altogether, I didn't feel lost.

Speaker 17: 1:39:04

And you can still eat.

Speaker 13: 1:39:05

Yeah, I can still eat. Yeah, I can still eat, because some people went homeless some people, you know went crazy.

Speaker 17: 1:39:14

You know some people got burnt out with the drugs and all. Yes.

Speaker 13: 1:39:19

Yes, yes and yeah. That's what happens when the money stops. And you asked me earlier. You know what I really liked the fact that I was able to set myself up in other industries and not not crash, and burn Right, because it's very easy to crash and burn.

Speaker 17: 1:39:44

It is Especially when everybody's kissing your ass and telling you you're so great, and then you believe your own height and then later on when you fall, everybody's gone.

Speaker 13: 1:39:53

Or there's another person that comes in and that doesn't last for long. There's always a new person that comes in and then you're not so great anymore than there's that person. So, um, yeah, you're right. You're right, I didn't want to be another true Hollywood story for show, for show.

Speaker 17: 1:40:13

Yes, well cool, we're gonna get that book. Y'all Go read it. I'm gonna read it. I'm gonna tell you about it. Very interesting, thank you. Thank you, and don't forget Barbara Sanchez. She's one second, barbara, yeah.

Speaker 13: 1:40:31

Alright, Thank you so much. It was great sitting and talking to you yeah nice talking to you too.

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Speaker 7: 1:43:44

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Speaker 14: 1:44:33

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Speaker 7: 1:44:46

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Speaker 19: 1:45:39

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Speaker 16: 1:47:17

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