The Soul's Work Podcast
From the Abandonment Wound to Connection (Part 2) (with Steve LeBlanc)
May 25, 2022
Season 3
Episode 9
Janice Ho
Janice and her guest (also dating partner) Steve LeBlanc get vulnerable chatting about how early abandonment trauma has impacted their later relationships and capacity for connection. In part 2 of their conversation, they dive into:
- Integrating the inner work into relationships
- Healing from infidelity
- Steve’s greater self-awareness of his triggers in present-day situations
- Experiencing secure attachment and freedom in a consensually non-monogamous relationship
- Developing a safe container to be present (and just be) in the relationship
- Healing sexual trauma and unlearning patterns in relationship
- How Steve’s earlier sexual experiences led to repressing his needs and being performative in later relationships
- The differences Steve has experienced between having sex with men versus women
- A spontaneous, real-time moment of processing between Steve and Janice about Steve’s internalized belief that women don’t want him sexually
- A mutually healing sexual experience between Janice and Steve
- The need for both clear communication and an understanding of the nuanced power dynamics in heterosexual relationships
- Steve’s understanding of his privileges and some ways he’s developed empathy
- What Steve hopes for going forward with connection and love
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Janice is a therapist-in-training and not licensed to work with clients.
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