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Self-love vs Narcissism: Finding the Balance

Enthusiastically Spiritual: Uplifting Conversations on Mindfulness, Trust, Intuition & Spiritual Perspectives

Enthusiastically Spiritual: Uplifting Conversations on Mindfulness, Trust, Intuition & Spiritual Perspectives
Self-love vs Narcissism: Finding the Balance
Oct 16, 2025 Season 6 Episode 28
Teresa & Tom Shantz

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Embracing self-worth and self-love and exploring how to maintain a healthy balance between loving oneself and avoiding narcissism is today’s episode. We discuss the importance of recognizing one's needs, the balance of giving and receiving love, and the distinction between healthy self-love and narcissism. Techniques for cultivating self-love are shared, emphasizing the significance of maturity in personal growth and emotional health.

The hosts Teresa and Tom are joined by Tiger Coll, D. D. as they delve into the spiritual need for self love.  "Love your neighbor as yourself."  They contrast the spiritual perspective versus the confusion of narcissism.  They go over ways people sometimes hold back on feelings of self love and fulfillment.  They emphasize the significance of maturity in these areas for personal evolution and better relationships with others. 

They share on being able to accept love and it is needed to freely give love to others, as well as for personal healing.  Without it we just go through the motions of our (intellectual) concepts of love, giving with hooks, etc. without feeling it fully.   A technique for greater positive self acceptance is shared during the conversation.  

  • Loving oneself is essential for personal evolution.
  • Healthy self-love differs from narcissism.
  • Balancing true feelings with intellect is the key.
  • Self acceptance allows for authentic expression and true leadership.
  • Allowing acknowledgement of the personal fulfillment around personal accomplishments is one key.
  • Societal concepts on self-love influence personal beliefs and expressions of love can be used for

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