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Nullify-Turbo Byte
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Exclusive access to premium content!Nullify is a short but powerful Turbo Byte on the unseen agreements that quietly shape our lives. In this episode, Tombo Baldwin breaks down how words, thoughts, and repeated phrases can become “poison agreements” that bind us to outcomes we never actually wanted.
Tombo explains why words carry real authority—and how careless statements, cultural clichés, and offhand comments can function like contracts in the mind, the universe, and the spiritual realm. He introduces a simple, practical framework for handling these moments as they arise: agree, reject, or deflect. With relatable real-life examples—parenting, food, everyday conversations—he shows how deflection in particular can stop a negative agreement and replace it with a positive declaration of what you do want.
This episode challenges listeners to take ownership of their words and thoughts, become aware of hidden agreements, and actively nullify the ones that don’t align with who they are or who they’re becoming. Simple, actionable, and worth a second listen—this Turbo Byte lays the groundwork for real change by reclaiming authority at the word level.
You’ve got more control than you think—and it starts with what you agree to.
What you agree with gains permission to operate in your life.
(Transcribed by TurboScribe.ai. Go Unlimited to remove this message.) We're all in attendance here. Boom, boom, boom, boom. Hey, uh, this morning I'm having some of my wife's homemade hot cocoa. I've already had my fill of coffee this morning. And uh, probably too much. And nicotine. I love knick-knacks. They're kind of like tic tacs, but they have nicotine. They are amazing. If you haven't discovered the benefits of nicotine Oh, we're gonna do a podcast on that coming up, but I love a tic tac or a knickknacks because they are clean Form of nicotine and they don't come in those pouches. I do not like those patches. Maybe like the pouches I don't these are more like a candy, but they're shaped like a pouch so they can go between your lip And no, I don't get any kickbacks or benefits just a product I love and I want to pass it along to you and I probably overdo it But hey, we're here for a turbo by today. We are gonna talk about a follow-up Some real down-to-earth practical advice that you can use in regards to poison agreements those agreements that come so sneakily in to your life and Whether you believe it or not, it's true They are legally binding in the quantum realm the universe and the kingdom of heaven I associate all those three together, but you may not come from the same belief system I do and I use the kingdom of heaven, but this is true for all of them So we're not going to get hung up on that stuff because we want to move forward. We want to move ahead and If someday you want to find out more about what I believe it ekes out on this podcast and I'm always happy to respond to text and emails that aren't from solicitors, okay, I Get so much stuff from solicitors, but let's get into turbo bites about poison agreements First thing words are powerful. You got to get that words are so powerful. You can't no longer Be careless with your words Let's just make that agreement right now where you say I am no longer Gonna be careless with my words words have meaning and when you say that and you say that to yourself You have just set in motion a force That's gonna act on your behalf. And so what else can we do here? We're gonna speak some more words I am gonna become aware when I'm making agreements that don't line up With who I am and who I want to become Just say that these are powerful things. It seems silly, but you say it with feeling and emotion and You have just made a legally binding contract and Your mind all of a sudden you're gonna go. Whoa I'm seeing things everywhere now I use three principles and I've taught this to my family and my wife Adrienne also adopts these principles and That is agree Reject or deflect and I'm gonna start with the one that I use the most because I tend to be more tactful and You don't have to use this but this one works really good For me when an agreement comes in that you don't agree with you deflect Tom give me an example. I'm gonna go back to the one about my teenagers When at Home Depot the cashier says just wait till they become teenagers. They're gonna be hellions and I guess in a sense I kind of rejected this but I Deflected with a positive answer and I if you've listened to the last few podcasts You know that I love to leverage things leverage is Such such such an important tool. I say oh, I can't wait to the teenagers They're gonna be amazing. And so I deflected that comment and I spoke the positive Deflection in my mind is one of the greatest tools because you're turning it into the positive Now the other ones are pretty easy. I could have said to that cashier, you know, I just kind of reject that I don't think that's true and That can open up a conversation. You know that can That does prevent the contract from taking hold. You've just stopped it right there The reason I like deflect is because not only am I Deflecting that agreement that's coming in to try to bind me for something that I don't want in the future because I want great Teenagers, so I'm speaking what I want. I'm also sending an example for that cashier I hope that cashier left and thought Kind of like the way that guy responded, you know, I I think he's probably an idiot. It's not true He's gonna have horrible teenagers But I didn't because I am in control of me and you gotta take that authority You've got to rise up in your authority. Just say right now with me because words are power They are the ultimate power and until that really takes root in your head You're not gonna be able to move forward So just decide right now and say it words have incredible power I am gonna take authority and control of my words and I equally believe that thoughts are as powerful. So you've got to follow up With your thoughts now Occasionally when you run into those great people which you're becoming one of them If you're already not you're on your way like myself, we're becoming great people. We are assets We are valuable to those around us to ourselves to our family to our friends and even to those That we don't know yet on a deep basis and may never not Know them on a deep basis Agreement when you know, boy, your kids are great. You're gonna have great kids. Yes, I am They're gonna be amazing we're already enjoying them So much so this terrible bite. This is so important The word thing I just I want to take a hammer and just BAM BAM BAM And just get that rooted in so I'm gonna speak words to you You're gonna become aware of agreements that you're making that do not line up with who you are You are gonna take the action to either Deflect them if they don't line up reject them if they don't line up or Agree, if they do line up You can do it. Hey, that was this turbo bite I is probably worth listening to again a simple thing that has served me so incredibly well and has crafted What I now experience on a daily basis a great family with deep relationship kids that I love Now I just feel like we're not supposed to end yet, okay, there are other agreements like Maybe you're not in this environment that I have been in but one of the issues I deal with is food And I remember going to potlucks and just people saying oh, yeah, I'm just gonna eat I can't eat anymore because this is what you do at potlucks, right? Well, this food is really great But I'm just gonna enjoy it till I'm nicely satisfied and that brings me so much joy Simple things like that, right? Could your problems be related to agreements? And when you make them over and over again, and you back them up with actions actions are just like fortifying that and strengthening that You got to go back and you got to deal with them the next turbo bite I'm gonna tell you how to find out how to find those hidden Agreements, they're so simple. They pop up everywhere, but you are gonna become aware You are gonna begin to deal with them So hey, I got you. I do. We'll see you here on the next turbo bite