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Let it go for the NOW!
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Let It Go for the NOW! is Tombo Baldwin firing a friendly warning shot at the “grind harder, control everything” mindset—and inviting you into a different lane: peace, surrender, and divine alignment.
Tombo starts by giving you permission to be proud of yourself right now—even if your progress feels messy. The core message is simple but counter-cultural: peace is the gateway, and most of what steals your peace isn’t “out there”… it’s the ego reacting to old wounds and trying to protect you through anger, control, and “making things fair.”
He shares two real-life examples from San Carlos that make the lesson stick:
- A quick traffic moment where he slips into rage, catches it fast, resets, and ends up seeing a breathtaking ocean-and-cloud scene he would’ve missed if he’d forced his original plan.
- A beach moment where loud people behind them start disrupting the vibe—until he realizes the “sour” is what helps him taste the sweet, and he lets it become contrast instead of a crisis.
Then the episode turns into a big, practical divine “case study”: his dental situation. Instead of spiraling into stress, interviews, and control, he practices letting go while staying fully aware. And in that peaceful posture, resources show up: someone offers to set the appointment, Spanish support shows up through family, and the path opens. Tombo frames it as the “kingdom of heaven” sending workers and solutions when you stop trying to force outcomes.
His punchline (the one he wants you to claim): when you let go of control, the fog clears—your best reality starts finding you. You don’t become lazy; you become aligned. You’re still engaged and responsible, but you stop gripping life like a steering wheel that’s trying to snap back.
He closes by urging you to practice this immediately—this week—so you can collect your own “best day ever” stories, and he prays you’ll connect with the Creator and the divine tools already inside you.
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Oh, well, well, look who's here. The awesome people are here. You guys that are doing the work to live the most meaningful best life. Good job! I know it sounds a little weird, but I'm so proud of you and I'm so proud of me. And just right now, no matter where you are in your journey, and even if you're a first time listener, just give yourself some love, some hate. Nice job. Good job. You've been working hard. I know there hasn't been a lot of success, but good job. You're doing it. You're doing it. And keep up the hard work. I'm so proud of you. Hey, this is Tombo Baldwin here with the Yup. Oh, too much redneck there. Maybe we should tone down the rednecks a little bit. Sometimes I get a little amped up and today's been a beach day, so I have a lot of energy and possibly had to wait. Man, we were at the beach and I we went to this Greek restaurant called La Palapa. Well, I think it's at the La Palapa Beach and maybe it's called La Palapa. It's a Greek restaurant on right on the beach on the Sea of Cortez. Absolutely gorgeous. Beautiful. There was a thing called a breeze happening today where the air temperature and the water temperature were significantly different and like this cloud wall formed on the water. That was amazing. And I tried to get a picture of it and didn't turn out so well, so I won't be posting that anyway. Was a great day and at the Greek restaurant. I decided to have some Uso on ice and had a few of those and was really good. So nice relaxing restful day. Yes, and I am here in San Carlos, New Mexico. Podcasting I'm so excited to talk about the subject today. We're going to move forward just on practical advice as far as what I'm experiencing and what I'm learning on this journey to live the very best reality possible. The most meaningful reality possible and just we'll talk about today. Just some real practical things. I had even well came home from the beach dropped Adrian off and she wanted to shower after being at the beach. So I went and in Mexico, you really can't drink the water. So you have to buy water. So I went and refilled some water jug blah blah blah and how to go get some Lambrusco at the wine store, which Mexico San Carlos Mexico has great Lambrusco. And if you haven't discovered Lambrusco and if you're a wine snob you're like, oh, that's kids wine. Well, I doesn't matter this redneck likes Lambrusco and so doesn't matter but even a story on the on the way home from doing that. But let me just first start. Hey, yeah, I if you're listening to this and you have been listening and you're really doing the inner work because it really takes inner work to get to that place of peace. We talked about how peace is the gateway to everything and you really have to get that thing. I mean, it's called by a lot of names, but probably most commonly named the ego that thing when somebody cuts you off in traffic instead of saying, you know, a story like well, they must be in a hurry for a good reason. We go to the negative and how dare they and I'm going to hump them and I'm going to speed up and bumper and tailgate them and. Yeah, we have to we have to do that inner work to get that ego came down and really we've we've talked about it just saying thank you for for those methods of dealing with things. I'm no longer using those, but thank you. They serve me well for that time period. And if you haven't heard that before, you can do that when you see things manifesting yourself where you lose your peace. And I probably say some that will make most of you mad, but you'll know you'll get mad because it's true when you don't have peace. Whether it's something inside, whether it's how you react to outside circumstances, it's still something inside. You always have the choice. You've heard me say this. It's been a while. But nobody can make you mad. Nobody can steal your piece. Yeah, a lot of bad things can happen to you, but you always have a choice. And what makes that choice easier is beginning to do that internal work. Hit those wounds. Our ego is built around our woundedness and the bigger ego we have, usually the more wounds that we've encountered throughout our lifetime, oftentimes in childhood. So we don't necessarily remember them. And, you know, we've been taught by our parents to deal with things in a certain way. And if we come from dysfunctional families, which everyone, if I asked you to raise your hand, you should raise your hand because there's a lot of dysfunction out there and it's just part of our world. And it's okay because you can make the choice to change. You don't have to live in it. You have a choice about everything. And you're like, Tom, it doesn't seem that way. I know because we have a lot of influence to save the victim. You know why? Because victims are powerless. Guess what? The people around you and those that are in power often want, they want you powerless and feeling powerless because then you become dependent on them and you are easier to control and manipulate for their purposes. And I know it sounds a little conspiratorial aspect. Those of you that live in the world kind of know that and are maybe some of the people that do that. And if you are, it's time to become a good person and stop doing that. How do you live the best reality now? Well, in the last podcast, now we did talk about that. How to get to that place of peace, you do have to do that inner work so you can calm down all those voices, the voices playing in your head. It's not fair. They shouldn't have. I can't believe they did this. Don't they know that I'm sensitive? I can't believe they said that blah, blah, blah. All that stuff that the ego is like, you know, because it's been protecting you, right? It has been doing a good job and I don't want to vilify it, but we need to retire. We need to say, hey, you know, thank you. It's been a good season, but we need to retire so we can get to that place where we can be in that place of peace. And then the gateway of the new reality, the reality now begins to take place. And one thing I thought of as I was. Well, we were actually at the beach. This wasn't coming home that coming home. Tom had a momentary and I'll say momentary because I recovered really fast car rage because I was trying to cross the lanes of traffic to make a turn. That would have saved me a lot of time and. Well, let's just go there before I go to the beach. Well, we should go to the beach story first. Maybe. Oh, well, we'll do the car story first. Anyway, I stopped to get some Lambrusco at the vino shop, which is what it's called here in San Carlos. And the Lambrusco I like was on sale, so that was good. And I like, oh, manifesting good. This reality is really great. It's like, I really love this. And so we'll add into traffic and had some room to get into lane. I wanted to card next to me, speeds up and switches from behind me to the lane I needed, even though I had my blinker on and both beside me. And Tom said, you know, the F you. And instantly I'm just like. Couple thoughts pass through my mind. We have a moment. We have moments. We have all the moments we want to reset. You can reset at any point. You never lose a reset. It's just the faster you can do it, the faster you can begin living in the best moment now. And so I realized, oh, this is a challenge. I'm going to be able to take a different way home. And instantly I turned and there's a beautiful head of these like deep purplish pink flowers. And instantly my mind is like, oh, let's just relax. Just just sit in this and I I drive and I'm looking at it saying, I'm really thankful for this journey home and. I pass these and then you go through this part where you can just get this great view of the ocean on your right side as you're kind of leaving the same the main part of San Carlos. And there was this like and I don't know what it's called here, but like, yeah, this wall of clouds like sitting across the ocean. It was absolutely breathtaking and amazing. Something you would see in a fantasy novel that you would like kind of take your boat up to and decide whether you're going through but blue sky and about 200 feet of this wall of cloud blue sky above it. Gorgeous bluish green ocean like underneath it. Just amazing. And I'm like, if I had made my turn, I would have missed this amazing view. When I let go of control and like trying to say all the reasons why this person shouldn't have cut me off and even coming in behind them and you know, somehow punish them to make things fair and just this weird deluded sense of like, I'm going to hurt those people by being a jerk. It's like, yeah, you're hurting yourself more. Honestly, I would have missed it easy. Like, I mean, my day was great. It was even better. I was like, oh, yeah. He's letting go. We're going to we're going to talk in this podcast about letting go. We're already starting to do it, but let me tell you the story at the beach. Well, we had a great time at the beach. We started in the Lapa Lapa restaurant and we ordered gyros and I've told you about the gyros are amazing and Adrian tried one and I don't know if she was quite as impressed with me, but she sure ate hers awful darn fast. So I honestly think she really liked that. She didn't say like, I do like have this eating orgasmic. Oh, wow. You know that tzatziki and the gyro meat and the pita bread. Oh, wow. She didn't have that, but it looked like she enjoyed it. And we each had a glass of wine. That was amazing. And then we went out outside closer to the beach to the ocean. They have like these built wood lawn chases that you can sit in. And so we went out there and then we ordered on ice and we sat out there and we talked and I listened to some that Adrian sent me that was really, really good and was helpful in my personal journey of living the best reality possible with meaning purpose and making a difference. And yeah, it was really good. And we met a lady there that it's going to donate a whole bunch of clothes to this ministry that we're down working out of here. So that was super cool. Got her contact information. She actually lives in San Carlos and does cruises around the world. That's her job. She works on a cruise ship as a manager. Super cool. It was great to meet her. Her name was Lynn and was amazing. And so then Adrian wanted to do more serious sun tanning. So we had to get away from the main public because we don't necessarily want to display our adipose tissue to the general public just for public safety and welfare. Mainly me, not Adrian, because she's hot, right? Kids are like, yeah, sorry, your mom's hot. That's right. You're all my kids are so beautiful and handsome and good looking. I mean, I'm, I'm pretty awesome too. So, I mean, they didn't have a chance other than to be awesome with parents like us, right? So where I'm sitting on, uh, like a portable chair, right? Not, not a porta potty portable chair and Adrian's laying on a blanket, you know, turning like roasting, you know, kind of like cooking food, but you know, what's that and doing that and we're enjoying it. And then these people come right up behind us. And like a bunch of, I don't, I don't want to be critical, but it's going to sound critical because it makes the story a little better. So let's, for the sake of the story, we'll be a little critical here, but these are great people and they were having fun and I'm sure there was no malicious intent. But for the sake of the story, let's say that they were jerks. And they start playing basketball right behind us, like older people, well, our age or older, you know, Americans or Canadians of darn Americans and Canadians and, and San Carlos, Mexico. I just wish they would stay like throwing these balls. Right behind us and all of a sudden I just like started losing my shit inside. I didn't lose it outside because I've been doing a lot of inner work. And so I, you know, I have some time for that. And it's like, yeah, I don't really want to say it's getting, you know, kind of loud here. And I agreed. And as I'm walking to the truck, I have this moment. I realized. This is an awesome moment. And you're like, Tom, it doesn't sound like the best reality now. Well, you know, the whole thing about a best reality now is. What defines the best the worst you have to have moments of reality that are challenging that help season your palate for the really good moments. This wasn't anything major and the people weren't malicious at all. They were having fun and Adrian and I had a wonderful day. So I looked and I was like, yeah, it was time to go and it actually was time to go. And I, that moment of uncomfortableness and having some angst made me look back. And see how sweet the moment that we had leading up to that. Absolutely were we can't define the best moment now by actual degree of. Comfortableness let's put it. Let's put it that way. I believe you can have satisfaction. Less well, we're stretching in here less. In uncomfortable situations, if you allow that uncomfortable situation. To season the ones that are so sweet and you're just like. We need sour to taste sweet. Otherwise, sweet wouldn't taste sweet. All right, I'm going to pause it here because I think I might have got a text that we're ready for dinner. So. If that's the case, we'll, we'll take off from here after dinner. So, quick note, it is dinner time. So I will be back. Maybe even tomorrow, but we will remember that I left off. The people that played bocce ball and the sweetness. We need the sour to taste the sweetness. So my friends. I'll be back. Well, I'm back. Hey, it was a chicken fajitas for dinner. It's pretty good and a little challenging, but I'll tell you about the challenge a little later. Chicken fajitas pretty challenging. Well, I will answer that question and shortly. So, yeah, the experience was really. I learned a valuable lesson same with the driving and. What what I'm learning this week and I've had because I listened to podcasts and I listened to a lot of stuff because I'm always. The quantum realm brings you the kingdom of heaven. That universal force brings you information through all kinds of places. And you just can't, you have to live your life, like, hyper aware. And hyper discerning to find out what is the information that is for you? What what is the information that's trying to keep you off track? And usually my filter for that and I have a pretty good sense of discernment and I, you did too. And especially if you say it, because words are binding and your best reality and your best discernment is now. And so you have great discernment. I have great discernment. We know that the things that are meant for us and we know the things that aren't meant for us. So, yes, I've listened to a lot of stuff this week and the and it goes along with what I've been learning. But as I'm down here in San Carlos, Mexico, I believe I told you that came down here and just. Work in and enjoy this time down here and Adrian, I had previously talked if we had the opportunity. I have bad teeth for a number of reasons, genetics and braces on too long and just some other things. And probably not the best oral hygiene out there. A number of things that have combined that I need a lot of dental work done. And in the States, that number is quite daunting. Like the daunting amount where you would take a second mortgage on your house to have this dental work done. And we've often heard of people talking in Mexico that, you know, the dental work is really good down here. And the costs are, you know, quite a bit less than they are in the States. And that's been in my background. And as we're down here, I am noticing my teeth and I'm maintaining a state of peace. But there are some things going on in my mouth that that are bothersome. And I'm really trying not to focus on. I'm trying to keep that state of peace and just get to a place of not figuring out, but allowing that reality to come about the best reality now for my teeth. Sounds weird, right? And it sounds weird to me. And as I was thinking about it and honestly, I didn't necessarily envision dental work. I actually was thinking, you know, miraculous healing, you know, a miraculous intervention. I would just wake up and, you know, the things that we do that we realize in this quantum realm, this kingdom of heaven around realm, that feelings and emotions and letting things go have more power, have more meaning. I want to state this even stronger. Have all the meaning more so than figuring out control, manipulation, you know, just getting it done. You know, putting your nose to the grindstone and are just taking out the loan and then making the payments and doing that stuff that imagination, emotions, feelings, letting go, operating in a place of peace, have more power. And that, as I first experienced that and I first am saying that, right, I'm having an experience similar to you. It's like, yeah, Tom, that's a bunch of woo woo bullshit right there. That's a new step in a big one, right? I know, but I challenge you. My reality is changing like crazy. One of the things that Adrian has said to me lately that I am performing hero-esque tasks, and it is her way to say she's seen miracles happen in my life right before her very eyes. She's known me for a lot of years, 30. This will be 37 years. We're coming up on the big four. Oh, and so she knows me and she knows my challenges. And she's like, ah, this is incredible. So the dental work and it's not a focus. You know, I'm maintaining a state of peace, but there are things going on in my mouth that are. If I really focus on him would really, really be concerning. And, you know, a belief is also that they're affecting my other health outside of my oral health that is impacting the rest of my health. And so, yeah, on my mind, but in a state of play, he's not worrying, not controlling, not. I got to find a dentist. Start interviewing dentists down here. And we ran into some friends that we met a year's past when Daniel was married down here and they were seeing a dentist. I just kind of casually asked, do you like him? Yeah, I like them. And they were going to give me his name and they never did. And so it wasn't like I wasn't nagging them. I was just in that place, a place of peace. I, I think the best way that I could say it, I was looking for the solution, not making the solution, not striving for the solution, realizing the solution was there. That reality where my dental work gets done is there and allowing myself to let go and let it come in. Here's the kicker of the podcast. And I have some more examples. But when we let go of control, that is when you're like, you have to figure out this place, this, this reality that you want to live in. The best reality now that where you're at peace and you're focusing and things are just, you're in bliss, you're, you're endorphins and, and you're experiencing the sweetness and the sour together. And they're beautiful and they're amazing because the contrast is the beauty and the, the contrast is what makes it. It's not, it's not the perfect reality. It's the best reality now. And so the experience that is the opposite of everything we've been trained in. We've been trained to work hard. We've been trained to thrive. We've been trained to put our nose to the grindstone, get it done. We've been trained to figure it out, just figure it out, get it done. You've heard it. You know, it's been said to you. You said it, get it done, figure it out. I don't care. Just figure it out. Just get it done. And we do that. And it is the opposite of how the best reality now happens. It's the exact opposite. And as a person who's very independent, who works very hard, who is talented in a lot of areas, many areas, that is challenging for me. But words are binding. So I'm not going to say I can't do it because I can absolutely do it. And I'm doing it. That's the thing. I'm doing it. Because what happened with the dentist. So I'm just letting it go. And you've got to realize, I'm downplaying it. I'm having serious, I'm not worried, but there are concerns. They're there. And when we're living the best reality now, we're not ignoring the things we're looking and we're saying there is answers here. I just, I need to let go. I need to see. And when we let go, that's when the path is like there's a fog preventing us from seeing the solution. When we let go of that fog clears. And guess what happens when we let go, when we let go of control and manipulating the circumstances, working hard. You probably don't like manipulation, but I think it's the best way when we put our physical and our mental inputs into it. When we let go and we say peace and emotion, like I was experiencing how my teeth would feel, how I would feel when my teeth are taken care of, no matter how it happened. Miraculous healing, dental work, combination of all those, which honestly, it is a combination of all of those. And feeling that, not feeling the stress of trying to figure it out and trying to get it done. Feeling the reality of it being done. And here's what happened. Sitting at the dinner table, somebody else mentioned they had been to the dentist. I'm like, oh, do you like the dentist? I do. And they're like, are you needing some dental work done? Like I am. And would you like me to make you an appointment? Oh, yeah, I would love that. Kingdom of heaven sent resources to start working on the solution. I didn't make the appointment. Get this. It is a Spanish speaking only dentist. And this person who made the appointment, and I don't mention their name because I didn't ask them, so I'm not going to mention their name. I don't think they would mind if I mentioned their name, but speak Spanish. Not great. Like a Spanish person, but pretty good. Offered to even go with me and talk and discuss. Well, it turns out that there was someone else. My daughter-in-law, who is a Mexican citizen, now a U.S. citizen, is fluent in Spanish. And went to my first appointment with me and has gone to subsequent appointments with me also. And, well, this is part of the awesome story, and so I'll get to that. But we went to the first visit, and the dentist opened my mouth and said, I'll need to clean your teeth. And we talked about it, and one of my major concerns is when I was younger, I got hit in the face. Two front teeth knocked loose, and the orthodontist who looked at it said, you know, I think they're going to be fine. But at any point in the future, they could just give out and fall out. And they've been good, but now they're loose. And so I told the dentist that. And she looks in my mouth and says in Spanish to my daughter-in-law, basically, this is Tom's short version. Because, you know, they speak for five minutes, and then I get, like, a two-sentence response, which I don't know what that's about. But that just seems how translation works, was you need a lot of work. And I said, C, which is yes, you know, I know. And she said, you know, she would give me a quote. And so I paid for my cleaning and my consulting, and then I had to go get an x-ray. And my one-hour visit was cleaning and consulting, and the estimate was a whopping $40. Wow. And then I'm like, okay, get an x-ray, and we go to the x-ray place. Same thing, I don't speak Spanish, so they kind of point and tell me where to go. And I go in, and I'm looking, oh, man, it's one of these 360 x-ray machines. This baby is going to be expensive. And I said, place of peace, place of peace, let go. Tom let go, like, instantaneously. Okay, this was quick. I'm practicing. I'm doing this stuff right now. I'm practicing. Let it go. And I sat there, and I smiled. It's the funniest thing. I'm just like, oh, I'm so thankful. There's a little mirror that shows me, you know, where to bite, you know, where they take an x-ray is where you bite. And I was like, oh, I'm really thankful for this because I need to trim some nose hairs. I'm like, yikes, those babies are getting out of control. You're just like, dude, you're sick with gratitude. I know, I'm sick with gratitude, right? It's like, I'm sick. I'm just like, I hope I'm infectious with gratitude just everywhere. Oh, and side note, people are like, oh, you're going to go to your first dentist appointment. It's like, are you worried? I'm like, it's going to be the best day ever. And maybe this one, I didn't say that. And the subsequent ones, I started saying, it's the best day ever. And, wow, yeah, they had been. So we went and got the cleaning, and it was amazing. And, yeah, got the x-ray, and it was a whopping $17. And I got my own copy, and then they sent a copy to the dentist. And my daughter-in-law and I went out for Chinese because we both like Chinese. And we had Chinese, and we picked up, like, some mouthwash and toothpaste that I was supposed to start using. And so did that, and it was great. And then later that evening, we get a quote for all the work I need to take. Granted, I'm not going to get you into all the detail, but, like, five teeth pulled. You know, I need some crowns, some bridges, you know, some replacements and all that. And you're like, ka-ching, ka-ding, ka-ding, ka-ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. And, you know, I saw the estimate there, and I waited a while to look at it. And somebody asked me, have you looked at the estimate? And I was like, no, but I think it's going to be good. I open up the estimate, and it's very, it's simple, a handwritten estimate. Like, a bunch of stuff needs to be done, and 1,500 and some odd dollars. People, we're talking tens of thousands of dollars otherwise. What happened? I'm doing it. You're doing it. We're doing it. So, I went back to my next appointment, and that's when they were going to yank the teeth. Yeah, can you imagine, 50, it's like, and they're like, we need to start scheduling appointments now so you can get them all done by the time you go back to the States. I'm like, that's awesome. And so, go back, and, you know, have, like, the teeth pulled. And same thing, people are like, are you worried? I'm like, I'm so excited to go to the dentist. Got the teeth pulled, was about an hour and 20 minutes, and, like, no painkillers at all. Obviously, the NOVA came when they yanked them and stuff, and my mouth was numb until, you know, 334. Appointment was at 1030. But, you know, that's, when it wore off, no pain. I was able to eat dinner that night. Two days later, I go, and they're doing more work, preparing for, like, some of the implants and stuff, and another appointment, about an hour-ish, and people are like, are you worried? Are you worried? And I'm a mouth breather, so the dentist is a little bit of a challenge for me when, you know, they put the mouth dam thing on you, the dam thing. It's actually called a mouth dam, I think. You know, you're, and you're, and I knew that that was probably going to happen. I just said, you know, it's going to be the best day ever. So I went, and the doctor, he did, he had, like, I think it's lidocaine they put in before they give you a shot of the NOVA cane. I could get that wrong, but he had a little squirt bottle of it, and, like, sprayed it on. It was like, oh, that's kind of weird, you know, none of this, like, swabbing the mouth and stuff. And then he sucked the NOVA cane in. Didn't feel it at all. It was, like, amazing. And then he started to go to work, and he's like, do you feel any pain? I'm like, no, no. And towards the end of the visit, the NOVA cane's starting to wear off. He's finishing up. They hand me a handful of pills, and I'm like, what's this? You know, because here, I got my daughter-in-law with me, but, you know, they're, they're telling me stuff. Hand it in, just take this, you know, with water. I'm like, I'm just taking, they're just like, it's Tylenol and Ibuprofen. I'm like, ah, no thank you, I don't need them. Wrote me a prescription for something more serious. Hey, people, listen, because this, this is, this is good. This is good. You gotta, you gotta take this in. You gotta claim it for yourself. You've got, if you do anything for me, make this happen in your life. Let, let go and let it happen, okay? This is, not this exactly, but you have needs, you have things, you have meaning and purpose. It's time, okay? No pain. No vacaine wears off. Look at my daughter-in-law, I'm like, where do you want to go for lunch? We ended up going for pizza. I had pizza. And then we went and had coffee. And we had an amazing visit and that time, because this is my daughter-in-law, right? She spends a lot of time with my son. I don't necessarily get a lot of time with her, you know, alone. And an amazing conversation, an amazing connecting time. It, I'm almost in tears. It was the best day ever. I'm living the best days ever by letting go. I'm not disconnected. I'm fully engaged. I'm fully aware. I know what's going on. I know what the needs are. I know what I want to do. I know where I want to go in life. I am stopping the control and the manipulation. And a way is coming apparent. It's not even coming apparent. That's actually a ridiculous statement. A way is like the universe, the quantum field. The kingdom of heaven is sending workers and resources for me in this time. Okay? I'm nothing special. Well, I am special. In that regard, you are special too. You're incredibly special. It's why I do this podcast. It is why I do this podcast. There's so much reward in this podcast. And the audience, you guys, the amount that you've downloaded, the amount that you've listened is amazing. You're absolutely amazing. I'm so grateful. I wish I could have a Yup, I Got You-like conference where we could meet up and I could meet all of you and we could swap stories. I want you to get this. I want you to get it so bad. And it seems so easy. But it could it. I'm careful with my words, right? I'm really careful with my words because they are legally bound binding contracts. But in the environment that we've grown up in and raised, this is counterintuitive. So it takes some work to go the opposite direction. Okay? We're not being lazy. We're not slackers. You know, I, I work hard and I do what needs to be done at the same time. I'm letting go of controlling outcomes. And guess what has stepped in the kingdom of heaven? The divine is stepping in. I am. You are. We were equipped with divine equipment, divine hardware, like these divine technologies that are within us. And we are learning to use those. And one of them is let go. And as you let go, the way and the resources of the quantum kingdom of heaven realm are racing towards you to make that reality. Do you get it? I hope you get it. I so hope you get it. I want you to have stories by the end of this week. Like we start, I'm just starting with where I'm living. It is growing. The money is growing. The wealth is growing. The connection, the relationship, everything in my life is growing and coming to fruition. The best reality now. Okay? Remember, we're not talking perfect. We're talking best because we need contrast. Contrast is what makes life colorful, meaningful, beautiful. Okay? I'm going to wrap it up here. I so appreciate you guys. Okay, let's, uh, you can do this. You can. And you are amazing. We just received this. You are amazing. The things, your shortcomings, the things that you focus on, those are just efforts where you didn't quite get it right. But you're trying. Your perseverance, your desire to get it right is amazing. Your desire to change, to change right now is amazing. You have what it takes. And I just pray that you connect with the creator and the divine tools that are within you. Talk to you later.