184-Your Self Image is Everything

There are people in my family that believed they were old at 40 years old and yet they lived tonbe 100 years old. That means that they lived for another 60 years after they thought they were going to die. That means they lived 60 unfulfilled years thinking that this was it. Nothing left to live for. 

 How do you see yourself? What do you believe about yourself? What are you and what are you capable of? Who do you see when you look in the mirror? 

Self image can be a self fulfilling prophecy.

It’s time to level up and become the best version of yourself 

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How do you see yourself? Do you see yourself wealthy or do you see yourself poor? Do you see yourself ugly or beautiful? Do you see yourself successful or failing? Do you see yourself struggling or learning? Wow. Do you see yourself giving or do you see yourself stingy? I'm sure it's giving. Do you see yourself stylish or do you see yourself unrefined? Do you see yourself young or do you see yourself old? Well, here's the thing: you will become exactly how you see yourself. Self-image is actually no joke, it's a real thing. How you see yourself is what you will become. Listen to me. I know people that were 40 years old, and as soon as they hit 40, they just felt like they were so old and they had the old me talk. Oh my gosh, I'm getting so old. I'm over the hill. Give me my black and white balloons. Oh, it's all downhill from here. And you know what? I've seen those same people at 40 years old. I'm talking about people in my family. And those same people end up living 90 to 100 years old. Little did they know that they weren't even halfway there. They still had another 50 or 60 years left. I've seen other people in my family sit around and talk that old me talk. Oh, I'm getting so old. Yeah, I'm getting up there too. Oh my gosh. And they sat in their living rooms for 40 more years watching the ceiling fan turn around and looking out the window, seeing who was driving by. Who was that? I don't know. I think that's Aunt So and so. Oh, who was that? Oh my gosh, look outside, let see who's coming up. And they would sit in the living room every single day with the ceiling fan waiting to die. But they didn't die. The ceiling fan, that same ceiling fan turned and turned for 40 more years. I saw it. But then I've seen some people, let's say Bob Proctor. He was a great motivational speaker, and he was the author of The Secret. And that guy was like 86 years old, and he had a studio at home, and he talked like a young person. He acted like a young person. And he said that he planned on living. He said, Why did you why did you build a studio in your 80s, man? Most people are like way, they're just trying to rest and relax. And he said, Hey, I'm in my prime. I'm in my prime. And you know what's crazy? Is that man ended up dying maybe a couple of years later after that? But he lived like a young person. And I'm telling you, my friends, whatever you think about, however you see yourself, that is exactly what you will become. I've seen poor people believe that they're rich and they get rich eventually. I've seen rich people so stingy, so thrifty, so penny pinching, they think that they're, oh my gosh, I'm poor and I got 182,000. I only got 182,000 in my in my savings and my 401k. Oh, I sure hope nothing happens to me. Oh, I sure hope I'm okay. And they end up losing it all. Or worse, they end up dying, not spending a penny of it, because they're so afraid that they're gonna die broke. Well, I got news for you, my friend. We're all gonna die broke. You're not taking you're not taking any of it with you. Not none of it. None zero. Not the car, not the house, not the clothes, not the bank accounts, not the 401s, not the nothing. You're going to die broke just like everybody else. So you might as well enjoy life. You might as well spend a little bit of that money. You might as well travel a little bit. If you can't afford to travel, you might as well go get yourself a nice hotel room every once in a while. Spend yourself three or four hundred dollars, man, a night for two or three nights. Get some room service because if you see yourself as happy, you will be happy. If you see yourself as a person that lives, you will live. If you see yourself as an overcomer, you will be an overcomer. But those that see themselves as a victim, and they've been telling that same old story for 40 years of what she did and what he did and what divorced, and my first husband, my first wife, and my people, that this, my that, let me tell you, you will become a permanent victim. Not me, my friends. Not me and not you. You are no victim. You are an overcomer. You are a victor. You are that one person in your family that is going to make it. You have to see yourself as that hero. You have to see yourself as that one golden eagle in the family. You have to see yourself as that one strange black sheep that doesn't do anything like everybody else. Nope. I am a successful entrepreneur. I am wealthy. I am the one that's going to bring my family out of these generational curses. I am that one that is going to see that all my close relatives and the ones that I like are going to be financially free too. I'm going to make sure that my kids and grandkids know that there was this one man or this one person in our family. He made it and he left some breadcrumbs. He left a trail. I'd say some golden nuggets. I didn't leave breadcrumbs. I'm going to change that. I'm leaving gold and golden nuggets for my generations to come. How do you see yourself, my friend? Do you see yourself living to a hundred or do you self see yourself dying early? It's up to you. But I would warn you you should see yourself as a success and not a failure. Go live your life. Enjoy every minute of it.