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Thank you"},{"speaker":"Amy Quinn","startTime":2772.45,"endTime":2777.46,"body":"both. See ya, Marilyn. Maryland."},{"speaker":"Marilyn Schlossbach","startTime":2777.46,"endTime":2779.59,"body":"Great to"},{"speaker":"Marilyn Schlossbach","startTime":2777.46,"endTime":2779.59,"body":"see you not in a meeting Amy! (laughs)"},{"speaker":"Tara Thurber","startTime":2782.38,"endTime":2784.87,"body":"Bye ladies, thank"},{"speaker":"Tara Thurber","startTime":2782.38,"endTime":2784.87,"body":"you and have a great day!"},{"speaker":"Marilyn Schlossbach","startTime":2784.87,"endTime":2786.31,"body":"Thank you"},{"speaker":"Marilyn Schlossbach","startTime":2784.87,"endTime":2786.31,"body":"so much."},{"speaker":"Tara Thurber","startTime":2786.31,"endTime":2797.23,"body":"Bye Marilyn."},{"speaker":"Marilyn Schlossbach","startTime":2797.23,"endTime":2797.37,"body":"Bye!"},{"speaker":"Tara Thurber","startTime":2797.37,"endTime":2799.932,"body":"We are defined"},{"speaker":"Tara Thurber","startTime":2797.37,"endTime":2799.932,"body":"talent coming to you at top"},{"speaker":"Tara Thurber","startTime":2799.993,"endTime":2801.58,"body":"five. Make it a great day."}]}