Beyond the Loss: Life and Identity After a Child Dies
Over time, the conversations we choose to have begin to reflect what matters most.
If you’ve been part of this podcast, you’ve heard me speak about human development, systems thinking, and the ways we make meaning of our lives and work. That work continues—and remains at the core of my coaching and professional practice.
What has changed is the space where I am choosing to have a different kind of conversation.
After the death of my son, Michael, I felt called to create a more personal place—one that speaks directly to the experience of loss, and to the questions that emerge when life no longer looks the way it once did.
That space is now Beyond the Loss.
This podcast is for parents who have lost a child, and for those who support them. It is not about fixing grief or finding closure, but about understanding how we continue to live, to make meaning, and to become—after loss.
If you are looking for my current podcast,
you will now find me there.
I invite you to join me on Beyond the Loss.
You are welcome.
Beyond the Loss: Life and Identity After a Child Dies
Episode 285: Reducing Stress and Beating Burnout with Pamela Wagner
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Stress, fatigue, and burnout are now as common around the world as an ordinary headache, but with a much higher chance of causing irreparable damage if not dealt with promptly. Joining us today is Pamela Wagner, the Founder of Ajala Digital, and she is here to share her tips and tricks for managing stress and overcoming burnout.
Pamela is a digital marketing specialist who made Forbes’ 30 Under 30 list in 2022, and her company is all about helping six and seven-figure businesses leverage Google and Meta Ads to maximize profitability. So to begin, Pamela explains how she became an entrepreneur and what that decision meant for her life’s trajectory.
We discuss the role of trauma in highly successful people, why it matters to have a firm sense of belonging, why our guest decided to become part of the solution against burnout, and how she goes about coaching her clients to manage their stress levels and rise above imposter syndrome. We also learn about the differences in marketing between Europe and North America, how burnout manifests in the two continents, the value of family constellation therapy, and Pamela’s tools for reducing stress and mitigating burnout.
As a bonus, be sure to join Pamela’s free community: From Hustle Monster to Calm Warrior – daily science-backed hacks by a Harvard grad for a stress-free you & a life that truly feels good.
What you’ll learn about in this episode:
- When Pamela Wagner first recognized her entrepreneurial spirit.
- The role of trauma in success, and the importance of having a grounded sense of belonging.
- Exploring the complexities of migration, and how to flourish as an immigrant.
- Pamela’s assessment of the current state of online ads.
- Why she decided to help solve the global dilemma of burnout.
- How she helps her clients to manage their stress levels and overcome imposter syndrome.
- Comparing burnout levels and the perception of stress between the two continents.
- Tools for reducing workload and mitigating stress.
- Understanding the value of family constellation therapy.
- Our guest’s parting words of wisdom and hope.
Transcript: Here
Additional Resources:
Website: pamelawagner.marketing
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/pamela-wagner/
Instagram: instagram.com/pamelawagnerofficial/
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Email: letushelpyou@ajaladigital.com
Agency: ajaladigital.com/
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