The Daily Mastery Podcast by Robin Sharma

Put Down Your Phone + Give the Gift of Your Pristine Listening

Robin Sharma Season 1 Episode 1215

To listen to someone is to honour someone. And the greatest gift you can give is the gift of your presence. 

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The greatest gift you can give your child or your spouse or your client or your coworker is the gift of the fullness of your attention. When you focus your presence and your energy and your attention on another human being, you make that person bigger. You validate that person. One of the greatest gifts you can give another human being is the gift of pristine listening and if you're checking your phone, well then again, you're taking your attention and you're leaving attention residue on your phone, which means you have less attention for the conversation. And if you have less attention for the conversation, then you're not really listening to that person. And if you're not really listening to that person, the deep place within them knows it and they're going to trust you less. And you're going to miss data that would allow you to serve your client or build the teammate or dominate your domain. So no phone conversations professionally and personally.Just turn off your phone, turn off your device before the meeting, and go all old school and have areal conversation. The second excellent habit that will allow you to beat digital distraction, construct your own Menlo Park. So one thing all great geniuses do is they spend a lot of time in solitude. Solitude has a bad reputation in our society right now. We think if we're not with the cool crowd, if we're not checking our devices, if we're not posting selfies or other images, we are losing out. We have all these fears and here's what really happens. As you start to spend most of your best hours of your greatest days posting, checking, playing with apps, getting hooked, you actually become addicted. We all know about technological addiction. And it's literally dopamine. Dopamine is the inspirational neurotransmitter. And every single time you check for alike, there's a shot of dopamine. And it becomes this addiction. Every single time you pick up your phone, you build the neural pathway to check it even more often. So an addiction to distraction is the death of your creative production. Your phone is costing you your fortune. If you look at the great geniuses of the world, the Shakespeare's and the Basquiat's and the Beethoven's, the great chefs and the great titans of industry and the great humanitarians, all great thinkers have one thing in common. They spent long periods of time away from diversions, distractions, trivial interruptions.