Be Boujee Be True Be You

#9: Relationship Perfectionism - Why Do We Need Our Relationship To Appear Perfect? How To Lose The Need Of Everything To Go Perfectly & Feel Great In Your Relationship (No Matter What Anyone Else Thinks)

November 11, 2022 Charlotte Jones Season 3 Episode 9
Be Boujee Be True Be You
#9: Relationship Perfectionism - Why Do We Need Our Relationship To Appear Perfect? How To Lose The Need Of Everything To Go Perfectly & Feel Great In Your Relationship (No Matter What Anyone Else Thinks)
Show Notes

We've all seen those couples on social media over the years, the couples who post constant mushy, loved up posts about each other, only to notice they have changed their relationship status to "single" a short while later.

Throughout my twenties, I was one of those people. 

I had such a strong need to make sure if anyone was going to be thinking or talking about my relationship, that they would be thinking and saying all the right things, and I would go to great lengths to make that happen (and not just by using social media).

In this episode I discuss where my need for perfectionism came from, what I did to make sure I no longer needed the validation of others to make big decisions and feel like my life was succeeding and how to trust that my own opinion and what I think of me and my relationship is the only opinion that matters.

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