Not Your Mama's Autism (NYMA)
NYMA is the story of one family's experiences with autism through a multi-generational lens. Hosted by a woman who is both the older sibling to a non-verbal man living with autism and now the mother of two children on the autism spectrum, NYMA takes on topics like autism awareness now compared to thirty years ago, past and current treatments, allies, special education pre-Covid-19 and during Covid-19, disability rights broken down by zip code, marriage therapy along the autism journey, intersectionality of race and disability, corporate inclusion efforts and much more.
Not Your Mama's Autism (NYMA)
Access to Reproductive Health Care: Autism and Intellectual Disability Edition
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Lola Dada-Olley
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Episode 6
Summary
In this episode of Not Your Mama's Autism podcast, Lola Dada-Olley and her husband, Tosan Olley, discuss the complexities of navigating reproductive healthcare for their daughter, who is on the autism spectrum. They share their journey from recognizing the onset of puberty to preparing for their daughter's first period, emphasizing the importance of communication, family support, and collaboration with healthcare providers. The couple reflects on the emotional challenges and milestones they encountered, as well as the long-term considerations for their daughter's reproductive health.
Takeaways
- Navigating reproductive healthcare is crucial for children with autism.
- Communication about puberty can be challenging but necessary.
- Dads play an important role in discussions about reproductive health.
- Preparation for menstruation involves multiple therapy disciplines.
- Understanding sensory challenges is key in healthcare planning.
- Access to reproductive healthcare can significantly impact quality of life.
- Long-term planning is essential for children with special needs.
- Collaboration with healthcare providers is vital for effective care.
- Celebrating milestones is important in the parenting journey.
- Pre-decisioning helps in managing future healthcare needs.
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Reproductive Healthcare for Our Daughter
02:51 Understanding Puberty and Its Implications
11:10 Preparing for the First Period
16:25 The Day It Happened
20:14 Long-Term Considerations for Reproductive Health
25:03 Celebrating Milestones and Future Planning
Transcript
Lola Dada-Olley (00:01.395)
Welcome, welcome everyone to the Not Your Mama's Autism podcast. I am back yet again with the hubster, the hubby, Tosan Olley. We are talking about a not so light topic about our daughter's reproductive healthcare and the decisions we are starting to make for her in hopes of
her living the highest quality of life possible. For those new to the podcast, we have an 11 -year -old daughter who's minimally verbal, on the autism spectrum, and intellectually disabled. So, this episode will walk through some traditionally seen as uncomfortable topics, things like periods, things like cramps.
things like talking it through as a family for a child who has communication challenges. This is naturally a difficult conversation, whether or not your child can traditionally communicate or not. So, our daughter has a history of some sensory challenges associated with the way her autism manifests. So, once she turned 10,
And we knew that that next phase was right around the corner. We had to really sit down and think about the type of options she would have, not only based on her autism, but quite frankly, based on her family history that we know of at least when it comes to reproductive health, our family on my side, at least part of my side of the family, we've had a history of fibroids, PCOS, difficult periods.
how could that potentially look in a growing child who will one day become a young woman who may not be able to communicate things like pain in a traditional way. So, we
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