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And 39 years later, this is"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1388.25,"endTime":1401.75,"body":"where their relationship ended"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1401.75,"endTime":1416.09,"body":"relationship. Do you see any"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1401.75,"endTime":1416.09,"body":"similarities? Are you two on a"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1416.12,"endTime":1426.59,"body":"anybody that is? Friend,"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1416.12,"endTime":1426.59,"body":"brother, a sister, somebody that"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1426.59,"endTime":1438.35,"body":"about this, you do you know"},{"speaker":"Mr Fox ","startTime":1426.59,"endTime":1438.35,"body":"somebody? 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