The Struggle is Real

If you have read any of my articles on husDOM.com You may have noticed a common thread. I usually archive my personal experiences, my personal struggles. I believe that it not only helps you listeners or the people reading the articles on husDOM.com. I also believe that when I write it down, it helps me look at that situation from a different perspective. And that comes from actually trying to describe it to others put it into words put that situation into words. Well, today's not much of a departure from what I've done in the past. Today, I'm going to talk about a struggle, and not just a struggle, right?   It's much more personal for me. It's about my struggle. I don't want anyone to focus too much today on me and my struggle. Right?

The real lesson is that we all have ebbs and flows. Nobody is immune to that. Hopefully over time, though, we develop the skills to avoid most of these ebbs. And also the skills to help recognize when we're in these choppy waters, right? When things need to be addressed. And for us men, us strong men, this may be one of the most difficult things to do.  To actually recognize and admit when we're not getting the results that we want. If we admit that we should pivot that maybe just maybe we're not doing something right. Some guys get hung up right here. Right? They feel like failures. Gentlemen, we cannot allow ourselves to get hung up on silly shit like this.  We will all need to pivot along our journeys always. It's not if but when. And it's certainly not a failure. The only failure would be not recognizing the need to pivot or  not taking action.  Growth actually happens from learning to evaluate situations and take positive action, not just action, but action with intention, right?  A specific action with the intention to get a specific result. 

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Chapters

• 0:03 Discount Ad
• 2:04 Introduction
• 5:25 Fox and Hare Ad
• 6:53 The Struggle is Real

Transcript

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Intro: 1:41

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Mr Fox : 2:04

Welcome everyone. This is Mr. Fox, the host and founder striving for excellence through the essence of masculinity, and Wow, it has been quite a while since I recorded a podcast. sleep. I'm on the 36th floor sitting in front of this massive After entering my hotel room tonight, the first thought that were is how much I wish I had LK with me to tie her up and ravish Anyway, let's get to today's podcasts if you have read any of my articles on husDOM.com You may experiences, my personal struggles. I believe that it not husDOM.com. I also believe that when I write it down, it helps comes from actually trying to describe it to others put it much of a departure from what I've done in the past. Today, struggle, right? It's much more personal for me. It's about and my struggle. Right? The real lesson is that we all have ebbs and flows. Nobody is skills to avoid most of these ebbs. And also the skills to things need to be addressed. And for us men, us strong men, this recognize and admit when we're not getting the results that we we're not doing something right. Some guys get hung up right allow ourselves to get hung up on silly shit like this. We when. And it's certainly not a failure. The only failure would Growth actually happens from learning to evaluate situations intention, right? A specific action with the intention to get With that said, let's jump right in to today's podcasts. Guys, I just want to take a minute and talk about the Fox been crushing it putting out the finest loggers you can find Right now I'm sure everybody's familiar with supply chain that. But in certain areas, we do experience that. These hanging somewhere they're not in a box, we don't buy them from a leather hide. And we cut your flogger out of a hide. So it's just ordering a box of 50 of them. We're hand making every about the holidays, if you're a submissive and you're thinking want to get these orders in right away. The turnaround time these floggers out right and left. There's some time involved getting it delivered to you. So there's a process right here So some of these things go out within a day or two. And again, getting a flogger, and you want it by Christmas, check out The struggle is real. Approximately two weeks ago, I recently. It wasn't disrespectful, wasn't anything every submissive, LK is strong and independent. But she looks relationship. Her behavior change was subtle. My epiphany was on the road I was away from home. However, I recognize that that she spoke, the words that she chose, the tone of her said it wasn't any disrespect, or necessarily anything that was happening? During that same phone call, but after some that the change in LK was a natural behavior. The behavior was on a subconscious level, LK wasn't that anything had changed yet. I was the only one that saw the conversation was trying to figure out the why. What had about this on the phone, I realized that the change in lk's change. I wasn't providing the safety and the leadership that that she expected and that she would thrive in. I wasn't being I believe that she was creating that safe and structured that vacuum, in that void, she wants a certain environment, and develop that environment for herself. After I figured this that same conversation. It was an insight and realization that observation neither one of us could deny it. It was real it thought it was happening. During that discussion, LK added perspective. The discussion was not what LK and I would consider dialogue between the two of us. Right there that night I awareness has allowed us both to adjust and get back on course, early, that we actually avoided an ebb. On a personal note, I feel that LK and I have been doing very of them. And with that statement alone, why aren't I doing 100%? level up. One of the things that I did consider also, when I was pretty well, but was my intention still there? Right? Or Or was my intention still there? Did it still really mean have mean a lot to me. But I think it started to become just performing the ritual, but before performing the ritual and intention back into me. Remembering what it means to me. sense. During that conversation, LK did tell me she said as a home, you're doing a really good job. I feel your presence. I environment for me it's really feeding me. And then lk said, however, when you're on the road, when you're feel the same control. The same structure. That was gold, discord channel, you'll hear me use that word a lot. I call it men just listen to what our submissives are telling us and just listen. Active listening, we get what I consider gold, to focus. I will tell you that this summer has been crazy for lk and I we've ever spent at any one time before. We haven't been seeing a leader, as a husDOM, I should see this coming and I should be I'm providing the structure and the environment that we both are we all paying close attention to the finer details Are we keenly aware of not just her behavior, but of our own, relationship has ebbs and flows. It's just a fact of life. The the frequency and severity of those times. To have less ebbs relationship. Some of you listening to me right now may currently be in an everyone else somewhere in between. It doesn't matter who is to first recognize that you're in one. Or in my case, issues at the time that I noticed that something was your situation and look for ways to improve it. Be fucking What is going on? What are you doing to lead in your marriage? No one else is in your head. Right? There's no shame in your If after being brutally honest with yourself, you see something First, don't blame yourself. Don't see yourself as a failure. Its quite the opposite. Really, right? You're being proactive in Next, ask yourself why? Why is this happening in our dynamic? What is the catalysts? Finally, take complete ownership for whatever it is that you The leader is the one that is setting the scene in order to that forces you to address it. And then have to reset. You're are leveling up your relationship. didn't like, take ownership. Take ownership of whatever it you both want, and what you both desire. I'm not looking for specifics with this next question, unless here, listening today, is putting in the 100% that you this journey? Who here is ridding on their previous Maybe you're just resting, going along with the current right the If we're all being honest with ourselves and not trying to act Actually, no one is immune to what I'm talking about. No one does not exist. Let's recap a couple of the main points today. It's time to take relationship. What do we see when we pull back the curtain? What areas of our relationships of our lives, are we not fully Next, ask yourself why. Why is this happening? What's changed? particular scenario. Take ownership. By taking ownership. You're not allowing yourself to play the anybody else. Also, by taking ownership, we're compelled to results that we want. Remember, we've identified a problem. We know why it goal is. We took ownership. There is no one to blame. responsible. And we're the only ones that are going to save action for us as the leader right? Nobody's going to. For those of you that would like to share your stories with how I grow as a leader and as a Dominant. Post whatever it is into your relationship. Either posts it on our private discord your story in our social media, Instagram or Facebook. Your None of us are alone on this part of our journeys.