Difficult Conversations [174]

Intimate Covenant Podcast

Intimate Covenant Podcast
Difficult Conversations [174]
May 19, 2025 Episode 174
Intimate Covenant -- Matt & Jenn Schmidt

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Warning: We cover necessary and important topics about the marriage relationship and sex. We use frank language without being crude or crass. Our approach is biblical and wholesome, but not intended for singles — especially not for children.


Difficult conversations are at the heart of successful marriages, yet many struggle with vulnerability and emotional expression. We explore practical ways to share feelings authentically and address how to reveal past mistakes you've been hiding.

  • Sharing your feelings can be a difficult conversation for some. This is a skill which may require intentional practice.
  • Vulnerability is the heart of intimate relationships. Revealing the fullness of yourself is the only way to be loved for who you really are.

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  Cherishing,
  Matt & Jenn

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