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Warning: We cover necessary and important topics about the marriage relationship and sex. We use frank language without being crude or crass. Our approach is biblical and wholesome, but not intended for singles — especially not for children.

We keep our Song of Songs series going by unpacking the main characters and what their symbolism says about marriage, desire, and intimacy. 

• why the lovers are unnamed and ageless, inviting us to see ourselves in the poems 
• why we read the Song of Songs as an anthology of love poems rather than a strict timeline 
• the wife as the primary voice, including initiation, pursuit, and desire 
• body image and modest self-talk contrasted with a husband’s verbal affirmation 
• the husband as “beloved,” including the power of affectionate, honoring language 
• daughters of Jerusalem as a chorus for discipleship and sexual wisdom 
• the mother’s role in sexual instruction and marriage formation 
• brothers and watchmen as cultural forces that restrict, harm, or create barriers 
• sexual trauma named in the text and the hope of healing through safe intimacy 

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For a deeper dive, here's a list recommended resources to expand your perspective to help with reading the Song of Songs:

• Allender, Dan B., and Tremper Longman III. God Loves Sex: An Honest Conversation about Sexual Desire and Holiness. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books, 2014.
•  Alter, Robert, trans. Strong as Death Is Love: The Song of Songs, Ruth, Esther, Jonah, and Daniel: A Translation with Commentary. New York: W. W. Norton & Company, 2015. 
•  Longman III, Tremper. Song of Songs. New International Commentary on the Old Testament. Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 2001. 
•  Pope, Marvin H. Song of Songs: A New Translation with Introduction and Commentary. The Anchor Bible, vol. 7C. Garden City, NY: Doubleday, 1977. 

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  Cherishing,
  Matt & Jenn

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