Intimate Covenant Podcast
Song Of Songs (part 3) -- a celebration of covenant sex and romantic passion [185]
Aug 03, 2026
Episode 185
Intimate Covenant -- Matt & Jenn Schmidt
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In this episode we conclude our Song of Songs series with a break down the biggest interpretive debates around Song of Songs and explain why a purely allegorical reading collapses the text into endless guesswork. We also name the book’s core themes, showing how covenant marriage, erotic desire, and spiritual meaning fit together without embarrassment.
- why Song of Songs often gets treated as allegory only
- what an allegory is and why the text never labels itself that way
- how bad presuppositions about sex distort Bible interpretation
- why canonicity objections usually come from discomfort
- how Scripture uses marriage as a metaphor without erasing earthly marriage
- examples of hymn lyrics that ignore context
- Song of Songs themes: mutual pleasure, exclusivity, intimacy, passion, beauty
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For a deeper dive, here's a list recommended resources to expand your perspective to help with reading the Song of Songs:
- Allender, Dan B., and Tremper Longman III. God Loves Sex: An Honest Conversation about Sexual Desire and Holiness. Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books, 2014.
- Alter, Robert, trans. Strong as Death Is Love: The Song of Songs, Ruth, Esther, Jonah, and Daniel: A Translation with Commentary. New York: W. W. Norton & Company, 2015.
- Longman III, Tremper. Song of Songs. New International Commentary on the Old Testament. Grand Rapids, MI: William B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, 2001.
- Pope, Marvin H. Song of Songs: A New Translation with Introduction and Commentary. The Anchor Bible, vol. 7C. Garden City, NY: Doubleday, 1977.
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