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Marguerite Lorenz, Luck or Control? Why Estate Planning Matters Before Crisis Strikes

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Returning guest Marguerite Lorenz is here to talk about all things trust and estate related. She has a new book, Luck or Control, The Life-Improving Power of Estate Planning,” reflecting on how a rushed, outdated will during the host’s husband’s terminal cancer diagnosis made planning urgent and life-easing. 

Lorenz argues estate planning is not about wealth or only death, but about documenting preferences for incapacity, healthcare, and distribution to avoid confusion, family conflict, fraud risks, and costly probate (noting a $46,000 minimum in California for a $1 million estate). They discuss choosing qualified estate-planning attorneys, updating plans, naming multiple healthcare agents, tracking fiduciary actions, avoiding “early inheritance” ambiguity, and real cases involving elder financial abuse, safe deposit boxes, life estates, pet trusts, no-contest clauses, and special needs/public benefits concerns, directing listeners to planforthis.com for a free toolkit.and you need to go and get it!  

https://planforthis.com/

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Previous episode with Marguerite: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-21-marguerite-c-lorenz-ctfa-clpf-master-trustee/id1530413097?i=1000510372491

0:58 Why Estate Plans Matter

03:14 Cost Versus Probate

06:17 Free Toolkit And Hiring Help

07:28 Fiduciary Duty Explained

08:37 Family Caregiving Gray Areas

12:43 Document Everything As Trustee

15:31 The Black Box Problem

17:52 Choose Your Three People

20:35 Agency And End Of Life Choices

24:42 Mabel Casino Cautionary Tale

27:23 Preventing Inheritance Fights

29:46 No Contest Clauses And Spite

32:17 Leaving Love Not Destruction

33:26 Fairness Between Children

34:02 Fairness Can Flip

34:37 Needs Based Trusts

35:39 Love Not Punishment

37:46 Planning for Incapacity

41:04 Life Estates and Marriage Myths

43:51 Pet Trust Pitfalls

46:53 Sign the Documents

48:44 Wills and POA Basics

50:28 Stop Clever Workarounds

52:05 Safe Deposit Box Chaos

55:35 Special Needs and Flexibility

01:00:34 Fund the Trust and Wrap Up