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The Best Questions to Get Your Peers Working With You

Matthew Haddock Expert in Management and Leadership Season 8 Episode 317

Cross-department tension. Competing priorities. “Us vs them” thinking.

If you’re a manager who needs results without burning bridges, this episode is for you.

In this practical, no-nonsense episode of the Manager Matt Podcast, Matt breaks down five powerful questions that help you build trust, influence peers, and turn strained inter-department relationships into genuine partnerships.

Instead of pushing harder or escalating issues, these questions shift the dynamic from “I need something from you” to “How do we win together?”

You’ll learn:

  • Why most peer conflict isn’t personal — it’s structural
  • How the right questions instantly lower defensiveness
  • What to say to uncover hidden pressures and priorities
  • How to surface friction points without blame
  • The one leadership question that builds trust faster than any process or meeting

Each question is explained with real-world examples, simple psychology, and language you can use immediately in your next conversation.

If you want to:
 ✔ Break down silos
 ✔ Get support without forcing it
 ✔ Be seen as a collaborative, credible leader
 ✔ Build influence across departments

This episode gives you tools you can use today.

Because great leadership isn’t about authority — it’s about alignment.


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