The Kill Your Inner Loser Show

Day 13: Overcoming Porn Addiction & Not Using Women

August 29, 2020 Andy Episode 13
The Kill Your Inner Loser Show
Day 13: Overcoming Porn Addiction & Not Using Women
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The Kill Your Inner Loser Show
Day 13: Overcoming Porn Addiction & Not Using Women
Aug 29, 2020 Episode 13
Andy

Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself - and her too.

Shownotes:

NoFap.com:
https://nofap.com/

You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:

https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury

My How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person):

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/

The Takeaway:

  • Don't just focus on "I will stop watching porn". Make sure you also have something to work towards - something to replace the porn with.
  • Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn't porn.
  • I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me.
  • Don't use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together.
  • During sex, you can frame things as "I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild" - rather than "I'm using her to fulfill my porn fantasy".

Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/

Show Notes

Andy dives in to his own past struggles with porn addiction, as well as how to have sex that makes you feel good about yourself - and her too.

Shownotes:

NoFap.com:
https://nofap.com/

You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought:

https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#luxury

My How to Get Laid on Tinder Guide (also applies to relationships, and meeting girls in person):

https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/

The Takeaway:

  • Don't just focus on "I will stop watching porn". Make sure you also have something to work towards - something to replace the porn with.
  • Focusing 100% and going all-in on your goals (especially your dating/sex goals) will give you something to focus on that isn't porn.
  • I struggled for years with a very bad porn addiction; focusing on fixing my sex life was the cure for me.
  • Don't use women to just fulfill a porn fantasy; instead, share that fantasy with them and make it a fun thing you do together.
  • During sex, you can frame things as "I will aim to turn her on like crazy and make her go wild" - rather than "I'm using her to fulfill my porn fantasy".

Want a question answered on the show? Send it to me here:
https://theinnerwinnershow.com/contact/