Available with Anabell Ingleton
Founder of The Identity Engineering Collective • Master Certified Facilitator • Creator of The Open Heart Blueprint, Anabell Ingleton is a leading expert in identity engineering, subconscious reprogramming, and self-concept transformation for ambitious women who want extraordinary love, success, and emotional freedom.
Through her signature frameworks and private client work, Anabell helps women dismantle the subconscious identities that keep them over-functioning in love, doubting themselves in leadership, and settling for far less than they desire. Her approach blends memory reconsolidation, attachment patterning, quality installation, and deep subconscious identity work, creating results that are permanent, precise, and profoundly life-changing.
Her clients are smart, successful women who have done the therapy, read the books, built the careers, and “know better” intellectually. Yet in relationships and moments that matter most, they collapse into the old identities they thought they had outgrown. Anabell helps them finally shift from performing, pleasing, overthinking, or earning love into a grounded, receptive identity that attracts emotionally available men, healthy relationships, and a life aligned with their highest standards.
Her work isn’t about tips, tricks, or temporary mindset hacks. It is about reconstructing the internal architecture of a woman’s identity so that confidence, worthiness, emotional safety, visibility, and love become her automatic state. This is the transformation behind Total Love Confidence and the backbone of The Open Heart Blueprint, The Winner Method, and her advanced 1:1 identity work.
On this podcast, Anabell brings you inside the world of identity engineering. You’ll hear real client stories, hidden patterns that shape attraction and connection, and high-caliber insights that show you why you repeat certain relationship dynamics and how to finally break them. Every episode is designed to help you see yourself clearly, choose differently, and embody the woman you know you were always meant to be.
If you’re a woman who has mastered everything except your own self-concept… you’re in the right place.
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How She Finally Stopped Attracting Lazy Little Boys
Most women think their dating patterns come from bad luck, bad timing or a reflection of the “kind of men out there.”
But what if the pattern isn’t in the men at all?
What if the pattern is in you… specifically, in the identity you bring into relationships?
This week’s episode walks you through a real client story that will make you rethink everything you’ve ever believed about attraction, compatibility, and why you end up doing all the work.
You will hear about:
• A high-achieving, emotionally intelligent woman who kept dating the same man in a different body.
• The moment she realized she was once again planning, paying, pleasing and performing.
• Why “chemistry” can be a trap for women who learned to earn love.
• The hidden identity that makes successful women over-function in dating.
• What happens when you remove the identity that works for love and install one that simply receives it.
• The quiet dissolving of her old attraction patterns, without willpower or forcing it.
• The surprising shift in how her partner began showing up once she changed.
This episode will challenge you to ask yourself:
Are you attracting under-functioning men, or are you showing up as the identity that under-functions for them?
You’ll learn how identity-level work rewires your deepest relational patterns, makes receiving feel natural instead of risky, and eliminates your subconscious attraction to “potential” men who drain you.
If you’ve ever felt like:
• You are tired of doing everything
• You always attract men who need help
• You lose your softness around men you like
• You are stuck between longing for love and resenting the work of it
…this episode will feel like someone finally turned on the light in a room you’ve been stumbling through for years.
By the end, you’ll understand why the right men don’t see you as work.
They see you as a privilege, a prize, and an investment.
But they can only see it when you see it first.
Press play. Your future self will thank you.
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