The Thomas Bepko Podcast

Marriage After Kids, ADHD, and Ultimatums That Changed Everything ft. Lila Sussman Bepko (My wife)

Thomas Bepko Season 3 Episode 3

TJ sits down with his wife, Lila, for a real talk on love, screwups, and doing the work. They cover the early red flags, the breakup, cheating, and why they chose therapy and forgiveness. Lila shares how being a therapist helps and sometimes hurts at home. They get into ADHD in marriage, feeling heard, I-statements, sex vs emotional connection, and why your partner can’t meet every need. Parenting and co-parenting, losing each other after kids, and how to put wood back on the fire. Clear takeaways, no fluff, just what actually helped them stay together.