The DIVA's Lounge Podcast

Stop Abandoning Yourself

Host FlyGirlDiva Season 5 Episode 3

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How many times have you ignored your own feelings…
 shrunk yourself to make others comfortable…
 or stayed connected to things God has been trying to pull you away from?

In this episode of The Divas Lounge, we’re having an honest conversation about self-abandonment—what it looks like, why we do it, and how it keeps us disconnected from the woman we’re becoming.

Because healing isn’t just about growing…

It’s also about learning how to stop betraying yourself in the process.

✨ In this episode, we talk about:

  •  Ignoring your own needs and boundaries 
  •  Why self-abandonment becomes a habit 
  •  How fear of rejection keeps us stuck 
  •  What God may be trying to reveal through discomfort 
  •  Honoring the version of yourself you’re becoming 

Sometimes we abandon ourselves trying to:

  •  keep the peace 
  •  avoid conflict 
  •  hold onto people 
  •  stay comfortable 

But eventually, you have to ask yourself:

✨ “At what cost?”

✨ Journal Prompt:
 In what ways have I been abandoning myself… and what would it look like to finally honor myself fully?

💜 Ready to go deeper?
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This is your reminder:

The woman you’re becoming deserves to be protected, honored, and chosen… by YOU.

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