Friendship, Reinvention & Resilience: What a College Reunion Taught Me About Aging Well

Optimal Aging

Optimal Aging
Friendship, Reinvention & Resilience: What a College Reunion Taught Me About Aging Well
Oct 02, 2025
Jay Croft

Reconnecting with old college friends after 40 years might sound nostalgic, but in this solo episode of The Optimal Aging Podcast, host Jay Croft uncovers deeper insights about aging well — insights that can reshape how you approach your business and connect with clients over 50.

Jay reflects on a recent reunion at Colorado State University and the three big takeaways that emerged: the power of lifelong friendships, the need for reinvention after disruption, and facing mortality with joy and purpose.

This is a heartfelt, thoughtful episode full of lessons on how connection, resilience, and perspective can enrich the aging experience — and how fitness professionals can use those insights to better serve their clients.

🔍 Episode Highlights:

💬 Lifelong Friendship & Health

  • How social connection supports longevity and wellness
  • Why gyms and fitness businesses must create community

🔄 Reinvention After Disruption

  • Newspaper careers upended — and what that teaches about adapting with age
  • How older clients may be navigating life reinventions when they come to you

⏳ Mortality Without Morbidity

  • Honest reflections on aging and loss — without becoming morbid
  • Why purpose, laughter, and joy matter in your message

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro & personal message
 01:00 – The reunion at Colorado State University
 03:20 – Lifelong friendships and healthy aging
 05:10 – The role of community in fitness for older adults
 06:40 – Reinvention after career disruption
 08:30 – Reinvention and resilience in fitness as we age
 10:00 – Mortality and mindset: acknowledging without fear
 11:30 – Final 3 takeaways for fitness professionals
 12:10 – Wrap-up: gratitude, purpose, and reflection

🎤 Host: Jay Croft

Jay is the founder of Prime Fit Content and host of The Optimal Aging Podcast, helping fitness pros market effectively to the over-50 population.

🌐 Podcast Website: https://www.primefitcontent.com

📬 Contact Jay: jay@primefitcontent.com

📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/primefitcontent

🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/croftjay

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