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The Whole Mama Show: Untold Stories of Motherhood

I'm Aisha O'Reilly and my mission is to have safe spaces for moms to share their truths.

We haven't been shown the full picture of motherhood, so this podcast is a collection of conversations with mothers sharing some of the untold stories of being a mom. Whether you're a first-time mom trying to figure out your new baby, a mommy to a toddler full of tantrums, trying to conceive, or a seasoned mom who parents her own way, know that you're not alone.

You're not the only mama who doesn't fit the image of a perfect mom.

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The Whole Mama Show: Untold Stories of Motherhood

Ep. 47: You're Not the Only Single Mama with an Absent Father

October 31, 2025 • Aisha O'Reilly

n this conversation, Aisha O'Reilly and Amanda Ndlangisa explore the complexities of motherhood, particularly focusing on Amanda's journey as a young mother. They discuss the challenges of navigating early motherhood, the importance of support systems, and the impact of absent fathers. Amanda shares her experiences of feeling unprepared for motherhood and the societal expectations placed on women. The conversation highlights the significance of family support and the emotional processing that comes with parenting, ultimately reflecting on personal growth and the evolving understanding of motherhood. In this conversation, Amanda Ndlangisa shares her journey through early motherhood, mental health struggles, and the challenges of raising children as a single mother. She discusses the emotional impact of abandonment by the fathers of her children, the importance of therapy, and navigating the legal system for child support. Amanda reflects on her experiences, the stigma of being labeled a 'bitter baby mama,' and the lessons learned about acceptance and self-care in motherhood.

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