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Outliving the Fear of Death

March 15, 2023 Dyrk Hamilton
Outliving the Fear of Death
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The Honesty Room
Outliving the Fear of Death
Mar 15, 2023
Dyrk Hamilton

Dyrk visits with his friend Lori Owen-Rogers to learn about her fear of death. They investigate possible origins of Lori’s fear, such as childhood, religion, and sexuality, plus reveal how far she’s come in overcoming some key insecurities. Lori also shares practical advice for others dealing with similar fears. Stay tuned until the end for your THR Gift Bag!   

Timestamps

00:00:00         Intro
00:00:50         Thanatophobia – Fear of Death
00:11:09         Disclaimers
00:14:27         Introduction and Bio
00:16:57         Start of Interview
00:18:05         Handling Jitters
00:21:02         Childhood Memories of Death
00:27:49         Childhood Experience of Fears
00:33:23         9/11 Escalates Fear
00:35:04         OCD & Therapy
00:41:51         Power of Environment
00:49:12         Detour into Forgiveness
00:52:54         Returning to Fear of Death
00:54:49         Church-Instilled Fear of Death
01:03:04         Fear of Being Dead
01:10:27         Overcoming Fear of Death
01:20:04         Fear of Death & LGBTQ
01:29:27         Beautifully Different & Wanting Love
01:34:37         Lori’s Advice for Others Fearing Death
01:36:09         Light Bulb Round
01:42:52         Wrapping Up
01:44:00         THR Gift Bag
01:47:32         Outro and Upcoming 


Jem and the Holograms
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m06HMniduf0&list=PLLhOnau-tupQjKaCHmVEm91YRHSZyFVyj

 “They Both Die at the End” by Adam Silvera
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/they-both-die-at-the-end-adam-silvera/1125317666?ean=9780062457806

“Daring Greatly” by Brené Brown
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/daring-greatly-brene-brown/1111117601?ean=9781592408412

Lori Owen-Rogers sharing some of her journey with her church
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPvsFtEqQik&t=1468s 

THR Gift Bag
“Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future. If we can acknowledge our fear, we can realize that right now we are okay. Right now, today, we are still alive, and our bodies are working marvelously. Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky. Our ears can still hear the voices of our loved ones.”  ~Thich Nhat Hanh
Brainy Quotes https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/thich_nhat_hanh_531574

“Butterfly” by Lily Meola https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sSGgW5AH1Y

To Download the printout for “Outliving the Fear of Death”
(1) click or copy/paste this link: https://dyrkhamilton.com/podcast 
(2) scroll down to "THR Gift Bag"
(3) locate your gift by episode title



Comments and Feedback are welcome!
Email: dyrk@dyrkhamilton.com
Website: https://dyrkhamilton.com/podcast


Show Notes Chapter Markers

Dyrk visits with his friend Lori Owen-Rogers to learn about her fear of death. They investigate possible origins of Lori’s fear, such as childhood, religion, and sexuality, plus reveal how far she’s come in overcoming some key insecurities. Lori also shares practical advice for others dealing with similar fears. Stay tuned until the end for your THR Gift Bag!   

Timestamps

00:00:00         Intro
00:00:50         Thanatophobia – Fear of Death
00:11:09         Disclaimers
00:14:27         Introduction and Bio
00:16:57         Start of Interview
00:18:05         Handling Jitters
00:21:02         Childhood Memories of Death
00:27:49         Childhood Experience of Fears
00:33:23         9/11 Escalates Fear
00:35:04         OCD & Therapy
00:41:51         Power of Environment
00:49:12         Detour into Forgiveness
00:52:54         Returning to Fear of Death
00:54:49         Church-Instilled Fear of Death
01:03:04         Fear of Being Dead
01:10:27         Overcoming Fear of Death
01:20:04         Fear of Death & LGBTQ
01:29:27         Beautifully Different & Wanting Love
01:34:37         Lori’s Advice for Others Fearing Death
01:36:09         Light Bulb Round
01:42:52         Wrapping Up
01:44:00         THR Gift Bag
01:47:32         Outro and Upcoming 


Jem and the Holograms
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m06HMniduf0&list=PLLhOnau-tupQjKaCHmVEm91YRHSZyFVyj

 “They Both Die at the End” by Adam Silvera
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/they-both-die-at-the-end-adam-silvera/1125317666?ean=9780062457806

“Daring Greatly” by Brené Brown
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/daring-greatly-brene-brown/1111117601?ean=9781592408412

Lori Owen-Rogers sharing some of her journey with her church
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPvsFtEqQik&t=1468s 

THR Gift Bag
“Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future. If we can acknowledge our fear, we can realize that right now we are okay. Right now, today, we are still alive, and our bodies are working marvelously. Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky. Our ears can still hear the voices of our loved ones.”  ~Thich Nhat Hanh
Brainy Quotes https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/thich_nhat_hanh_531574

“Butterfly” by Lily Meola https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sSGgW5AH1Y

To Download the printout for “Outliving the Fear of Death”
(1) click or copy/paste this link: https://dyrkhamilton.com/podcast 
(2) scroll down to "THR Gift Bag"
(3) locate your gift by episode title



Comments and Feedback are welcome!
Email: dyrk@dyrkhamilton.com
Website: https://dyrkhamilton.com/podcast


Intro
Thanatophobia - Fear of Death
Disclaimers
Introduction and Bio
Start of Interview
Handling Jitters
Childhood Memories of Death
Childhood Experience of Fears
9/11 Escalates Fear
OCD & Therapy
Power of Environment
Detour into Forgiveness
Returning to Fear of Death
Church-Instilled Fear of Death
Fear of Being Dead
Overcoming Fear of Death
Fear of Death & LGBTQ
Beautifully Different & Wanting Love
Lori's Advice for Others Fearing Death
Light Bulb Round
Wrapping Up
THR Gift Bag
Outro and Upcoming