Truth without love makes a person harsh. Love without truth makes one self-indulgent and self-pleasing. In this sermon, Kong Hee shows us how to maintain a healthy balance by following the example of Apostle John, who was transformed through Jesus’ discipleship from being a self-righteous “son of thunder” to being an “apostle of love”. We must be ready to defend our doctrines, but our discussions must include four P’s: plan, proof, purpose and preparation. Listen to this sermon and learn how to begin to “speak the truth in love” (Eph 4:15).