Trauma for Breakfast

Good Grief with Jamie Briscoe

December 13, 2021 Stacey
Good Grief with Jamie Briscoe
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Trauma for Breakfast
Good Grief with Jamie Briscoe
Dec 13, 2021
Stacey

We are talking about grief on Pt 1 of 'Good Grief' with Jamie Briscoe. 
Listen in as we discuss -

- the ball of grief
- how to respond when friends are in crisis
- what does grief look like post-adoption, post cancer diagnosis, post death of a loved one? 
- how do we accept and embrace grief as a human experience?

Show resources mentioned - 
How to Respond to People in Crisis: Comfort In; Dump Out | Psychology Today

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/laugh-cry-live/201809/how-respond-people-in-crisis-comfort-in-dump-out
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/laugh-cry-live/201809/how-respond-people-in-crisis-comfort-in-dump-out%3famp

Mindfulness or a self-check-in. 

https://positivepsychology.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Meditation-for-Radical-Acceptance.pdf

Radical Acceptance -

  1. Radical Acceptance- Current circumstance that causes a lot of pain

We heap SUFFERING on top of our painful experience when we refuse to acknowledge and accept this current situation.

  • Accept what is- acknowledge reality
  • What can I control/not control?
  • Non Judgemental look at situation
  • Stop resisiting reality
  • Live in present moment DESPITE pain!
  • Nurture- routine, rest, soften, ease, hydrate, comfort

Radical Acceptance questions to process:

  • Realities I am refusing to accept:
  • Behaviors I choose when I refuse to accept current reality:
  • How I experience suffering when I refuse current reality:
  • Resistance I feel in my body when I refuse to accept current reality:

(release tension in stomach, back, neck; allow tension to soften, send deep breath to that place of tension and allow the release of the breath to send out the tension)


Show Notes

We are talking about grief on Pt 1 of 'Good Grief' with Jamie Briscoe. 
Listen in as we discuss -

- the ball of grief
- how to respond when friends are in crisis
- what does grief look like post-adoption, post cancer diagnosis, post death of a loved one? 
- how do we accept and embrace grief as a human experience?

Show resources mentioned - 
How to Respond to People in Crisis: Comfort In; Dump Out | Psychology Today

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/laugh-cry-live/201809/how-respond-people-in-crisis-comfort-in-dump-out
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/laugh-cry-live/201809/how-respond-people-in-crisis-comfort-in-dump-out%3famp

Mindfulness or a self-check-in. 

https://positivepsychology.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Meditation-for-Radical-Acceptance.pdf

Radical Acceptance -

  1. Radical Acceptance- Current circumstance that causes a lot of pain

We heap SUFFERING on top of our painful experience when we refuse to acknowledge and accept this current situation.

  • Accept what is- acknowledge reality
  • What can I control/not control?
  • Non Judgemental look at situation
  • Stop resisiting reality
  • Live in present moment DESPITE pain!
  • Nurture- routine, rest, soften, ease, hydrate, comfort

Radical Acceptance questions to process:

  • Realities I am refusing to accept:
  • Behaviors I choose when I refuse to accept current reality:
  • How I experience suffering when I refuse current reality:
  • Resistance I feel in my body when I refuse to accept current reality:

(release tension in stomach, back, neck; allow tension to soften, send deep breath to that place of tension and allow the release of the breath to send out the tension)