Ep. 26: On my SXY Birthday… 🥳💫💃🏻

On my SXY birthday 

On my SXY birthday, alongside some celebration, I want to honor the chaos, the pain, the madness we see in the world… 

Honoring for me is not a party per se, but a deep acknowledgment of what we are seeing… The disgrace… the atrocities… the disregard and lack of respect for human life, plant life and animal life… the disregard for life itself… 

Honoring the chaos for me is about presence…

We seem to have lost our way… focusing on more money… more power… more of what ails and destroys… more of what poisons and numbs rather than on what heals…

As a SXuality and pleasure cheerleader,
 I know the power of pleasure, joy and purpose and how they contribute to your SXY. I live by these elements and I encourage you to also live by them. I urge you to fill your cups with them—  Joy, pleasure and purpose are what helps us to move forward and not give up…

We can’t forget
 Our joy, pleasure, purpose aren’t complete unless we help others live by these too…
 We must help fill the cups of those who can’t—
 For whatever reason.

So whenever this finds you:
 Fill your SXY cup. With bubbles!
 Then help someone else do the same…
 Because only through care,
 Through love and radical unity,
 Can we be truly free. 

As one of my favorite mantras states, ‘Lokah Samastah Sukhino Bhavantu’ = “Nobody’s Free, Until We’re All Free”. 

So I ask you…
 💫 How will you fill your SXY cup today and whose SXY cup will you help fill? 💫

Here’s to #reclaiming SXY.
Here’s to #redefining SXY.
Here’s to what it really means to be #SXY. 💋