The Real Relationship

Green flag/red flag or is it further separation ?

James Sherrah & Candace Sherrah

In this Real relationship podcast episode, we delve into the complex topic of red and green flags in relationships. 

We discuss how these indicators, while helpful, can also create undue separation by adhering to a binary perspective of right and wrong. 

We challenge the concept by examining how personal wounding and perceptions influence the identification of red flags. The conversation also explores the importance of compassionate love, self-reflection, and the necessity of courageous communication in maintaining healthy relationships. 

Additionally, we touch on the impact of past experiences, societal comparisons, and the significance of overcoming relational obstacles for the benefit of future generations.

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Flags

00:46 Perception and Subjectivity of Flags

02:33 Navigating Red Flags in Long-Term Relationships

03:21 Impact of Pop Psychology on Relationships

06:02 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

06:35 Embracing Darkness and Shadows

09:42 Courageous Love and Commitment

17:23 Overcoming Past Relationship Baggage

25:34 Generational Change and Future Relationships

27:19 Conclusion and Next Steps

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