These Are The Aesthetics
Two young black men having non politically correct conversations, occasionally with guests, about fashion, pop culture, sports, music, other entertainment and most of all our life journey. We have conversations that usually wouldn't be discussed on camera. The purpose of this podcast is to listen while you are on your lunch break, when you with the homies playing 2k, and to feel like you're apart of the convo instead of spectating.
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IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
0:00 - Intro
7:43 - Sharing a suitcase with someone
12:53 - Music predictions this year
19:21 - Latto announces pregnancy reactions
25:29 - Real Boston Richie allegations…
34:49 - Stefon Diggs vs “Private Chef”
43:20 - Klay Thompson vs Megan Thee Stallion
55:06 - Woman that are “Home Bodies”
Welcome to another episode of These Are the Aesthetics. I go by the name of Cheech, aka the ladies' favorite broadcaster. AKA The Summer is mine. Gary swear I'm doing a commercial about my place. But he don't understand how much money when you just move to a spot, how much money you spend to get it up to par. It's a big deal. So it's a prideful thing.
SPEAKER_00Cheese been dropping ads for a little while now. I keep the times on you, by the way. You've been dropping your little ads. It's okay. You did too. No, I did not. You just blamed it on the political advertisement.
SPEAKER_01You just blamed it on your oh, she went to Bath and Bath and uh uh what's that shit called?
SPEAKER_00Bath and Body Works. Bath and Body Works.
SPEAKER_01Oh, Home Goods Again. You did the same shit.
SPEAKER_00Well, I go by the name of Gary, aka and Gary Retrust, aka Mr. Sneaker Convo, aka Black Creator.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Uh, and today we have a very special guest, somebody that I've known for a while. Uh honestly, a last minute Hail Mary that happened to fall through. And let me give you a flowers early. She's the first female guest to be here on time. Before me, by the way. On time, you know, but you know, she's a she's a professional, she's she's cool. You know, you guys are gonna get to know her personality more throughout the episode. But go ahead and introduce yourself.
SPEAKER_03My name is Juju, aka Get Sneakerhead or the Vietnam. Yes, yes.
SPEAKER_01We're gonna get to how you got that day, too.
SPEAKER_03Okay, we will.
SPEAKER_01Because that's something you just gotta embrace.
SPEAKER_03I don't think like you even it's our thing, it's it's a lifestyle.
SPEAKER_01It's the movement.
SPEAKER_03I would definitely put you guys on for the show.
SPEAKER_01Well, how's everyone feeling? How's the energy in the room? If you had to rate your week uh from a scale of one to ten so far, your energy and your your life, you know, your lifeline right now, what would you say it is? And why?
SPEAKER_00Um, I would say I'm at a I was at a nine when I came in here, I was eight. So some pet peeves.
SPEAKER_01You sound like the white neighbor right now about the noise complaints.
SPEAKER_00Everybody knows Gary about the house of pet peeves, but I'm doing fun. You gonna have HOA on speed down, boy.
SPEAKER_01I I already know. Would you get the crib? Oh man. I got the apartment. I already want to file a complaint. It's just the third time this dog just shitted next to my car. Get rid of him.
SPEAKER_00You is either you e fix him or you highly.
SPEAKER_01That's crazy, by the way. To give you your leasing office an ultimatum is crazy.
SPEAKER_00I know I'm the one that pays the bills. But anyway, I'm I'm really doing good. Um I'm fine. Um, I'm in a better mood for sure. Um, I actually want to um my introduction to you, our first conversation, I just thought it was like naturally funny. Because like um, we brought up like I guess a cologne that um I was using. And when I brought up the cologne, I told my wife, it's like, I don't really like that cologne because like, you know, it smells like a lot of Haitian men. Um I'm wearing. And she kind of made like a little face, and she was like, she's probably wondering, is this wife white? What? So I had to address that. No, my wife is Haitian, and I just thought it came from like a really small.
SPEAKER_01Your wife is a black Haitian. French cool.
SPEAKER_00Anyway, but like I just want to address this like having people. I thought it was a funny conversation. It's like, do I really look like a date white woman?
SPEAKER_03A little bit, a little bit. You do. It's given that.
SPEAKER_00Because can you explain like why do I look like a date white woman?
SPEAKER_03It's just the way you're sitting, the way you look, it's your aura. It gives it gives that for real. It does. Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Because it's not the first the reason why I wanted to look like the type that have a baby mama.
SPEAKER_01We don't. We don't.
SPEAKER_00Because I've been getting.
SPEAKER_03Wait, do you have a baby mama movie?
SPEAKER_01No, he does not.
SPEAKER_00You look like you just seek meaningful relationships. It's just because I've been I've been having this stigma on me for a long time. Which is positive.
SPEAKER_03Is it positive? I don't know if it's positive. It's given Sheldon from Big Big Bay theory. Nah, I don't think it no, the good thing is he's not that nerdy. Like, I like Sheldon. Sheldon is very cute.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, but Sheldon Penny? Penny. Yeah, but he's missing, he's missing something.
SPEAKER_03No, that's what is given. That's what you give, for real.
SPEAKER_00It's not a bad thing. No, no, it's a funny conversation. I just love to like call out because I find it funny like every single time. Because it's like um every time someone sees me, it's like.
SPEAKER_03But do you date?
SPEAKER_00So, funny enough, my first girlfriend was like I'm married to a Haitian woman.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_00Yes.
SPEAKER_03We like that.
SPEAKER_00Yes, exactly. Happily married. Happily married. But in the past.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_00Presently I'm happily married.
SPEAKER_01Well, yeah, I'm saying in the past, you used to date. You probably I indulged a little bit. You dipped your toe in the snow just a few times. Toenail. Okay. Toe and nail, okay. No, not toe and nail, toenail. Okay. How are you doing? Uh, as far as me, man, I'm I'm I'm good, man. I mean, y'all know I keep life simple. As long as I'm healthy, my parents are alive. Uh uh I have a job, I have a place to lay my head. I'm cool. Uh on a scale of one to ten, I'll give myself 8.5. Um, this week is going well so far. Um the only thing is I had to cancel my today's technically my day off, but I had to go into work because they needed my help. You get it. Um, yeah, I mean, it is what it is. Sometimes you gotta do it. You gotta you gotta do what you gotta do, but you gotta plant the seed for them future favors you're about to ask too. You know? So when you ask for them PTO days in a blocked off week, they could look at you different now because you be showing up.
SPEAKER_03I help too.
SPEAKER_01Oh, the bosses love to call it brownie points. Right, which is great, which is kind of racist. Because it's not macadamia points, it has to be a brownie. Yeah. Brownie points. But how you feeling, Juju? How you feeling?
SPEAKER_03I'm doing good. Um, kind of like the same thing you were saying, like you're alive, you got a job, you know.
SPEAKER_01It's the little things.
SPEAKER_03The little things, because it could definitely be worse. I'm doing, I would say I'm out of 10.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_00Um, so I'm actually kind of like rolling to like I know like we're we're rolling in back into the aesthetic um conversations. Obviously, we're these are the aesthetics. Obviously, we need to talk about the aesthetics of stuff that we like to do or like to wear, or what fly to us pretty much. So, like one of the aesthetic questions I had, like, I want to do because I just came back from a honeymoon.
SPEAKER_01A birthday slash honeymoon.
SPEAKER_00Birthday slash honey.
SPEAKER_01Because it was his it was his birthday, but his his his wife kinda hijacked it and made it into honeymoon. But it was the honey birthday.
SPEAKER_00The honey birthday.
SPEAKER_01You the birthday. You you were the birthday.
SPEAKER_00Thank you. Thank you. I got married last month, so we're like, you know what? How about we do the birthday? Thank you. Thank you. Just to do the birthday and the honeymoon. So um uh had a what put it out there, had a good time, went to Mexico, cartel did not kidnap me, had a good time. Um, but um the conversation I want to have as far as like the aesthetic question is is that um packing, I don't know if you ever been to an all-inclusive hotel. Um pretty much the question is like basically the best way to pack, pack light. And I knew I was gonna pack light, but the main question I want to ask y'all is have you ever went on a trip with somebody and shared a check-on luggage?
SPEAKER_03Shared what?
SPEAKER_00Have you ever shared like a check-on bag? Like share a bag with somebody. Both of y'all share a big one.
SPEAKER_01Share a suitcase with somebody. He's deep in the he's deep in the game in the game. Like he's he's he's in like what we call a healthy relationship.
SPEAKER_00So I'm gonna put it out there. I know some people can be like, uh, broke. First of all, I want to put it out there is that um I knew I was going to an all-inclusive resort. I wasn't gonna wear much. I just got a pack of little white T's, two pairs of pants, two. I got my little carry-on. I still got a carry-on, but I just didn't feel like packing.
SPEAKER_03Okay, okay.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, I still have a carry-on, but we shared on a check-on bag.
SPEAKER_03Oh, that's cool. There's not that's cool.
SPEAKER_00The only thing is that when I put her hair dry somewhere, so it should be one at the hotel.
SPEAKER_01I'm just bothered.
SPEAKER_03I just fucking with it.
SPEAKER_00So the only thing is like, um, as far as like why it's out, men, if you're plan on going to all-inclusive, the best way to plaque for an all-inclusive is bring nothing but swim trunks, underwear, white t-shirts, and I would say about two sneakers, one to like work out in, one to like just wear a dress, need a pair of slides.
SPEAKER_01For sure.
SPEAKER_00That's really the I'm saying you don't really need a full check-on for that. Just saying. I just want to put that out there.
SPEAKER_01Especially if you plan on staying at the resort, because my my philosophy is ESF. We go in there to eat, sleep, and fuck. Occasionally, occasionally I might sprinkle some activities and some adventures, but I'm not here for all that. This is just an escape for us. This is our honeymoon, this is our practice, have a let's practice having a baby time. It's not really for, ah, let's go ziplining, oh, let's go see the elephant. No, I want you to see my elephant right now.
SPEAKER_02That's crazy.
SPEAKER_01There's an elephant in the room. But to me, I thought I think the the best advice I ever gotten before I started traveling like that is pack how you want to feel. So if you're gonna go to a whole bunch of business meetings, pack a whole bunch of suits. But if you want to feel light, uh relaxed, and and you you just want to like take in all the good, you know, the good energy in a nice island, tropical island, pack light shorts, t-shirts, sandals. Like I used to hate thong sandals, but the older I get now, I understand.
SPEAKER_00Because it's like your feet are gonna look like two different people.
SPEAKER_01Correct. Exactly. So how do you feel about that? Because as someone who's you would never share a check on that. You would never share a suitcase. I don't know where you work, actually, by the way, because you always on the go. You always out of town, you always do some flash shit.
SPEAKER_03But um, I never shared a check.
SPEAKER_01A suitcase. You never shared a suitcase.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_01Um I don't take that as a surprise if you're a girl. You have to.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I I always overpack.
SPEAKER_01Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_03I try not to, but I always do. Just in case. An outfit just in case. Another outfit just in case. I always overpack. Like I rather be prepared than I'm not sure. But what do you guys are preparing for? Just in case you never know. I'm an activity person. I I plan everything. As you can tell, like I'm always on time, I plan everything. Um, I know where we're going, what time, okay, what what color, like okay, you got your shit like that. Like, everything is on point, and I have to make sure I have all my outfits. And I need just in case outfits, because what if I put this on and I don't like it? Okay. What if the outfit in my head doesn't come out?
SPEAKER_00No. See, the thing is, so here's here's my issue with women when it comes to like packing, is that when you actually share a suitcase, it's like you kind of have that feeling where it's like you're really like, it's like you're in like a woman's bathroom that you weren't in, that like you were just forced into. Like, what do you need that suit? Bro, you open the suitcase, I'm like, where's the clothes? It's like brushes, makeup, like a lot of like it's it's everything that's like aesthetic of just like face and hair. And I'm like, where's your clothes? Have you seen them? Then the clothes will be in like a little small pack.
SPEAKER_01They they come in like a little plastic bag. I've been in the rainbow. Them clothes, them little dresses are like this thin.
SPEAKER_03The clothes are not big, so it a lot of it can can fit. Like, we need we gotta be cute, especially we gotta take our pictures. Come on now.
SPEAKER_00Like you like you know, that little pouch on the suitcase that's like the front. You can pack like 20 thongs in there. You put three boxers in there, it's fit.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, that's true. That's true. But more of the story is is pack how you wanna feel, I feel, because it's like, yo, just try not to overthink it. Again, ESF. If all fails, ESF. ESF.
SPEAKER_00I approved this message.
SPEAKER_01No, listen, I didn't even want to bother you. Because it looked like you was putting in that word. Put that word. I'm never gonna say this in front of your wife.
SPEAKER_00What's with Stephen A. Smith? I'm never gonna say this in front of your wife. What's Stephen A. Smith? That's private.
SPEAKER_01I'm never gonna say this in front of your wife, by the way, but every time I saw the hair dude the next day, I'm like, oh yeah, get it, get it.
SPEAKER_00All you say is my wife is very happy. You see her teeth in all her pictures.
SPEAKER_01That's good, man.
SPEAKER_03We like that, we like that.
SPEAKER_01So the second quarter, I like to call it, of the year, is always uh uh crowded with some of the A-listers. The there's a lot of good movies coming out, good projects coming out, especially from a lot of hitmakers. Like Chris Brown is dropping soon, Drake is dropping soon, Lotto, who I call the baby female Drake, is dropping soon. Um, you can tell, like the summer, this summer is gonna be one for the books. Uh, and you could tell by the type of energy that's already out there. Um, I just wanted to talk, you know, actually talk about some of the predictions, how you guys feel about some of these uh up-and-coming projects. Uh, for example, we can start with somebody like Drake, who at you know, coming from the battle, a lot of people turned sides on him, uh, a lot of people turned their back on him, a lot of people are doubting his pen. A lot of people felt at some point he was scared to drop music, they felt like his confidence left. Like, what's your prediction on his upcoming album? Like, do you feel like he's gonna give us bar Drake? He's gonna give us Island Vibes Drake, he's gonna give us London Drake. You feel like the boy is back? What's happening?
SPEAKER_00Honestly, I do not know what to expect from Drake because like every time I'm like, oh, I'm finally about to get that rap album, I'm getting like a bunch of like RB B-side Drake pretty much, which I'm not mad at, and that's my favorite version of Drake. But at this point, it's like, hey, whatever, whatever, like whatever music he gets me, I'm just gonna like intake it pretty much. That's rap. And that's my thing, because it's like now I you would think that now it's like, oh, it's go time, it's rap time, it's like, you know, LeBron, game seven, like, all right, I'm about to kill all these niggas. But it's like Drake always knows, like, I can please niggas who are already fans, or I can please the women. That makes me more money. That's usually the side that he goes to. But my only request from everyone that's listening to this album is that, bro, Kendrick fans, it's okay. It's not your time. Go somewhere. Yeah, it's okay. When Kendrick had his time, I was bumping his music. I love the album, even though I'm a bigger Drake fan, but I'm not gonna freaking go on the mountaintop and say, Drake is better. That's all I ask Kendrick fans. If you really, this is not your time, get off Twitter, get off Instagram, go freaking do your little beep, dop, boop, bop, bam. Do it. You can do it. Just not in two weeks.
SPEAKER_01That's all I ask. Which, okay, let me ask from a woman's perspective. Like, which version of Drake do you like? Because you might not, it's not too many women that like the lyrical Drake. Like, I prefer timestamp Drake.
SPEAKER_00Yes.
SPEAKER_01I love the girl records because I do go out, I see what it does to the female body. But what's your favorite version of Drake?
SPEAKER_03I definitely like um more RB.
SPEAKER_00RB Drake.
SPEAKER_01Okay. I like that.
SPEAKER_00Exactly, exactly. She's not gonna, she's she'd rather put on that like uh too sexy instead of 6 p.m. in New York.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. For sure. And I if she did put that shit in the car, I'm like, what nigga you would? Who the fuck was you chilling with? Why do you guys do that? Because there's certain songs that as a female you should not know.
SPEAKER_00Bro, like, I'm sorry, I don't want to go into a female's car and then like all I hear is Axel. I'm like, no, no, no. How do you know?
SPEAKER_01Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, what's what's going on? That's like me knowing all the lyrics of Mana Lee or a Canda Mansong.
SPEAKER_02You'd be like, whoa, all right, nigga, you you've been outside with the bad bitches too much. I have to say though.
SPEAKER_00Even though I have a playlist. I'm I'm uh I'm a really big scissor fan. I would say that. I'm a really big scissor fan. Anything Scissor puts out, I'm pretty much on board.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Well, the next person that's coming out, uh, I think next week, actually, is Chris Brown. Chris Brown, the you know, the the ladies go crazy over Chris Brown. And I love how strategic Chris Brown gets every time. Because his birthday is on Cinco de Mayo. He's dropping the album next week. He's coming from a very successful tour. He's going on tour with Usher. So he's using the Steam from his birthday, the tour announcement, rolling out a new project. All that is gonna add up to add, you know, add to the momentum. Um, the is gonna add to the moment. And you know, the ladies go crazy over Chris Brown already. Uh you going to that tour unbeknownst to you. Your wife already got the ticket, so you kind of are forced to go.
SPEAKER_03Did you pay for the meeting greet?
SPEAKER_01No.
SPEAKER_03Huh? Absolutely not. All right.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely not. We gotta put our foot down and laid back up. I'm not that late back.
SPEAKER_03$2,500. For what?
SPEAKER_01For my for Chris Brown to go grope my the woman that took me three months to grope so he could grope her for$25. You want me to pay my money so Chris Brown can touch my bitch? Why not? I'm already sex club.
SPEAKER_00And meanwhile, while she's waiting in line to go to his meet and greet, Usher's gonna be in the stand giving us a fucking tip.
SPEAKER_03Nah. I'm gonna pay off us. But Chris, yeah.
SPEAKER_01I I you would do that if you were in a relationship. In a serious relationship.
SPEAKER_03No, I I wouldn't be able to. Okay. Out of respect. You get what I'm saying? But I'm single. So if I had if I had the money, I would that was ad.
SPEAKER_01He was like, that's an ad.
SPEAKER_03If I had the money, I would definitely pay the 25. Okay. For real. Like that.
SPEAKER_00I I have the polls would you do on Chris Brown?
SPEAKER_03Everything. Okay. Everything. I would do all the pose. I can't get, you know what? I know y'all wouldn't do that shit.
SPEAKER_01That's the crazy. Sure. Every woman that gets that shit, they get their money's worth. Like they're bro.
SPEAKER_00The big one would be the nastiest one.
SPEAKER_01Fucking spoof.
SPEAKER_03He better do what they want.
SPEAKER_01That is. That's true.
SPEAKER_00That is.
SPEAKER_03I'm paying good money for this. That is.
SPEAKER_01But I'm I'm I'm I'm excited, man, because one of the biggest uh slack that Chris Brown gets is uh him make quote unquote making the same songs all over again. I see different writers on the new project. He's he's been dropping music that sounds different. Um I feel like this album is gonna be a lot more soulful based on some of the songs he dropped already. And I can't wait, man. Whatever makes the women happy.
SPEAKER_03That you you you like that, huh?
SPEAKER_01I rock with that because I would have a great summer. And whatever the ladies want, cheese want. Such a bird. I'm trying to hang with the bad bitches or something. As you should the announcement that shocked the world, I want to say, was Lotto announcing her new album while showing the world that she's pregnant. Lotto fans are excited about new music. Lotto haters are on her ass about being pregnant by a man that she's still hiding, quote unquote, even though we know who it is. Also, all the shit that Lotto talks in her music about hey, my body count is low, y'all niggas can't touch me, I make more money than y'all, all the fly shit she popping, she is presenting the world with a pregnancy announcement with no ring, and the man was not even in the video picture frame, whatever. How do you guys feel? Well, I'm gonna start with the woman first in the room. How do you guys feel about her doing it this way? Do you care? Do you not care?
SPEAKER_03I don't really feel any way about it because I don't know her life behind closed doors. You understand what I'm saying? Okay. Um I only know what she shows. Okay. And a lot of people like to keep their relationship private. It works. Clearly. Me too. Clearly. Clearly, it works for her. You know? I I don't have an issue with it.
SPEAKER_01I think at this point she just wanna keep that ace in her back pocket because she knows that's the easiest way that people are gonna pay for her.
SPEAKER_03And then the thing is, people don't really know who she's with, they just assume. And look, everybody has something to say. Correct. So imagine if they did know what was going on, they would have way more to say. So I think she's going about it the right way.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_00That's that's an interesting take. What about you, Gary? I don't really have much to say about it, but as far as like um, I think the the rollout of like if you're pregnant and like you don't you really kind of trying to hide the fact that who's the baby father is, I think it's a little bit corny. Just a little bit, just a little bit. I don't really know how to explain it because like if your brand image is like, okay, um, even though I'm with 21 Savage, I'm not really with them, it's like big mysterious. Like, all I know is you didn't get pregnant by the air. That's just all I know. You was fucking somebody. That's all I'm saying. Like, the jig is up. Like, Santa, I see you under the tree. Might as well just review it at this point. That's all I was saying a little bit.
SPEAKER_03Why do you feel like that though?
SPEAKER_00The reason why, like, I feel like it's like um, if you're trying to put on the stigma where it's like, oh, you big mama, you that bitch, I don't need a nigga, this and that. If you're pregnant, cool. That's what it is. Not saying you have to do a whole rollout of who the nigga is. But all I'm saying is if you're still carrying on the oh, like um, that like, oh, I'm not with a nigga, I've never been with a nigga, clearly you've been with a nigga, you pregnant.
SPEAKER_03I don't think she ever says she's not with her neck. She just doesn't say anything.
SPEAKER_01My only thing is, I know why she did it. Because at some point the album is gonna drop, you're gonna have to do press. You're gonna have to go on tour. Cardi B had to do go through that too. My only thing is I want people to pop out when they're ready, not because they're forced to. And also I want you to be proud, I want you to be proud, prideful and proud of the person that you chose to have this baby with. Because the way you talk, we know that nigga is not no bum ass nigga. He's a boss, he probably has the shit together. That's fine. That's more of a reason to be like, yo, that's who I'm with. There's a part of me that like the obscurity, but there's also a part of me, it's like, why do you want to do it half-assed? Why do you want to announce and kind of have my arm there and not my face? I don't I don't know. I'm conflicted about it. I'm conflicted.
SPEAKER_00I got a random quick question. Is it easier to hide a baby mama or is it easier to hide a baby daddy?
SPEAKER_03I think it's easier to hide a baby daddy.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Really?
SPEAKER_03I feel like baby mamas always want to be known and seen. And that's my man. I have a baby with him. And men, half the time they don't even want the baby, so they don't care.
SPEAKER_01But the real conversation that we need to have at some point. The niggas that tell you, hey, I don't like you enough to have this baby with you, and you go ahead and go along with it anyway, now you want to do the journey by yourself. Because there's a lot of that that is happening in Palm Beach. I'm not gonna name no names, but it's like if you know this was a fling, you know what it was, then it's not maybe not the brightest idea to have a lifetime commitment with somebody. Because that's what a child is.
SPEAKER_00All I'm saying is that like Stephon Diggs freaking had a couple women pregnant, who would have knew? True.
SPEAKER_01Because he's not out there boasting about the women. He's not one the one walking around with a belly. That's true.
SPEAKER_03It don't really, yeah, it don't really. I feel like women always have it harder.
SPEAKER_01I agree.
SPEAKER_03Because they have to carry the baby for nine months, and the man has the choice to say, I don't want no parts. But a mom can't do that. Like she has she has to be there, she has to do what she has to do. But that goes to show like you gotta be careful with who you're dealing with. You don't need to be just dealing with anybody and having kids. I don't I don't know. I don't I don't have kids, so I I try not to say much. You know, because I I don't know. But you're wise enough not to have that with my husband, my baby father, or whoever, that's the only family I get to choose. I'm not about to choose a loser. It's true. It's true. Like I'm gonna pick somebody that even if we don't work out, I know they're gonna be a great dad. They're gonna be there, that we're gonna be mature, we're gonna co-parent. Not somebody that's gonna get upset or doesn't want to see the baby because me and them are not no, like, because we're not seeing eye to eye at the moment. Like, no.
SPEAKER_01You want somebody with emotional intelligence by the time you decide to take that step. I agree. That's very much. I'm getting a very mature juju today. I like it, I like it. The refined woman. I like it. All right, well, let's get to the shits now. Okay. Uh, Boston Richie versus allegations. And the reason why I say allegations is been there's been allegations since this nigga got famous. The first one was he was allegedly dating Shorty when she was 16 or 15. That was the first rumor and slash allegation. Then the second thing is he be cheating, he be tricking old bitches, making her look crazy. Third thing is domestic abuse. And the fourth thing that got announced this week, everybody's using that get here now shit.
SPEAKER_03I like it. I stay with my man.
SPEAKER_01Now uh it's been it's been announced per per her DM and messages that he likes to be the one to be fucked. We don't kink shame over here on this podcast.
SPEAKER_00I'm King Shaman today. I don't judge niggas. I'm Jamaican, I'm King Shaman today.
SPEAKER_01Uh but how how did you guys receive all this shit? Because I've classified Boston Richie in a in a box already as a rapper and as a person. And I feel like it's easier for men to separate the the human from the music and from the act. But I think for a lot of these kids and these the internet, it's like everything is a shock. Like, especially when you don't know these niggas in real life.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So how how did you, what was your reaction as a woman when you found out the nigga that be talking crazy like that on records is getting pegged behind closed doors, allegedly.
SPEAKER_03That's not something that I'm into, but you know, you like it, I love it. I feel like it's like no, no, no, no, no. Keep hiding behind it. No, if it works for you, it works for you. But I really feel like that's not our business. True. There's no reason why we should know that.
SPEAKER_01Correct.
SPEAKER_03Nothing against her. I I really like Tati. I think she's beautiful. She is, but it was no issue when you were doing it. I know she's young, you know. We can say, oh, she's young, but you know, I feel like she knew exactly what she was doing. Correct. Like, it was no big it was no problem when you were doing it, but now it's a problem.
SPEAKER_02The money stopped.
SPEAKER_03Like, so I'm slippery. I I feel like she they could have dealt with that behind closed doors. Correct.
SPEAKER_01I it's like everything is for the internet.
SPEAKER_03What was the reason of putting that out there? True. Like, that's what I really want to know. What was the reason? Is it supposed to expose him? Because you were doing it. You guys were yeah, you guys were doing this together. He wasn't doing it by himself.
SPEAKER_01That'd be crazy. That'd be crazy. That'd be like the only bitches that put the plug on the wall. POV, nigga. The first time I saw that shit, I'm like, bruh, Shorty, you pretty enough to get a nigga to fuck you.
SPEAKER_03But maybe she doesn't want that. Maybe she wants to do it herself. Fucking the wall? She's saving money. Saving her energy, okay?
SPEAKER_00Okay, so those women have to pay those men.
SPEAKER_03That's true.
SPEAKER_00Allegedly.
SPEAKER_01Well, how did you how did you what was your first initial reaction when the news broke out? Oh, deleting his music.
SPEAKER_03Oh my god! It was not even proven! It doesn't have to do with anything, though.
SPEAKER_00Bro, Fran, first of all, if you're already talking to underage women, that's already a no, bro. That's one. Two, you can't be freaking big popping your shit. Talking about, oh, you do this, you pop this. Because like the snitching allegations, I know a lot of people wrote off um I forgot about that. About um Boston Richie, like, which I'm not a street nigga. I don't give a damn. I don't believe 95% of these rappers, let's be honest. Bro, the rapper that we believe the most is snitching them. Gucci man.
SPEAKER_01Well, that's technically he's not a street, he's not in the streets.
SPEAKER_00We can't anyway. Anyway, so it's like hearing that, and then it's like, I can't, I don't know why. I can't be like listening to like hard like gangsta music, not really gangsta music, just like fly nigga shit, and I know you popping your shit. I just can't, I can't do it. I feel you.
SPEAKER_01I just can't do it. To me, it was more so there was different vintage points. Cause like, and you know me, I'm diplomatic cheat. I, you know, everybody's gonna get hit with the accountability ball. So for me, is when everything is happening, I'm asking for me where her parents are. She's a young girl, she's younger than him. I not I'm not that invested in their relationship. I don't know when they actually started dating because I think the rumor is he knew her when she was 15 or 16 and they actually started dating when she was 18. I'm not that invested in their relationship, so I never care to look and do the fucking fucking graph on the wall. But I feel like as a younger act in the music business, you want positive shit attached to your name. Like snitching allegation, dealing with an underage girl, and now you getting pegged, and you know, you allegedly involved in domestic, like you be beating her ass and shit. It just looks a certain way. And and at some point I feel like as men, you gotta, you gotta sit back and assess the role you play in your own suffering.
SPEAKER_00Y'all saw the video, right? It's like, because you can't of him explaining himself.
SPEAKER_03I saw the whole 11 minutes. He didn't even acknowledge like it was a bunch of BS.
SPEAKER_00Sunglasses on, strike one and two for me.
SPEAKER_01I think he was trying to say, like, there's shit that I think they had an on and off relationship, and what he was trying to say in the video is that I hold you down and I don't talk about the shit you be doing, which I respect as a man. Yes. But at the same time, it's like if she's acting like a child, she's acting childish, and the the the relationship has to get to the point where y'all exposing each other and you a public figure, it might be the time to end it.
SPEAKER_03But from his.
SPEAKER_01Of course he does. Like, because niggas like him, I feel like this is me, in my personal opinion. I feel like niggas like him, as the older nigga, get a kick or get a get a get an ego boost out of training a new mind. It's like I don't want to go get somebody experience. Because she needs him.
SPEAKER_00It's a power dynamic.
SPEAKER_01She needs a control thing. But it's like, yo, I could go learn shit from other hoes and come teach you how to. I could train my own thing. Like, which, which is sick. Which is sick. I get it. But it it it's I think, bro, you got money, you a young nigga, you went, you live in Florida, you know, you have access to people. Date somebody your age or date somebody you equally yoke with. You know, whether that person is a little bit younger or a lot older. But I I feel like at some point, as a celebrity, you gotta pick what's best for your image and your brand. Because again, at some point, I hate to say it, you wanna be on SNL. You wanna be on David Letterman, you wanna be on Jimmy Fallon, you wanna perform at the Super Bowl if those are your dreams.
SPEAKER_00He's definitely not getting that future feature no more.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, and you you notice how Future kind of distanced himself from the.
SPEAKER_00Just off the snitching allegation.
SPEAKER_01It's it's like, bro, I I feel like he gotta do better. Because he he does no, he does need to do better.
SPEAKER_00And when I say when I say that like I deleted his music, it's not because really this, like, that's not a little bit of that, but it's like it's it's you're selling a story. It's like I still listen to Frank Ocean, I still listen to Isaiah Rashad, and there is a video of him getting down, and that was crazy. But like, you know what kind of save Isaiah Rashad? He's an earthy nigga.
SPEAKER_02True.
SPEAKER_00And he's talented. He's not rapping about killing niggas or be or popping his shit.
SPEAKER_01It's just I I I Boston Richie, if I if you if you could take one advice from me, you need a publicist, and you need to leave young bitches alone.
SPEAKER_03He does need a publicist.
SPEAKER_01You you because you can't be speaking for yourself in moments like this. You're incriminating yourself.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, he doesn't know what to say.
SPEAKER_01And on top of it, this is a complete bad hit because he performs at a lot of like schools. Yeah, that's a thing. A lot of universities and a lot of places the young young kids be at, man.
SPEAKER_03I I feel like men whose weakness is women are always gonna be in crazy situations.
SPEAKER_00Oh, what a segue. Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_03In the video, he did say, Oh, I can't stop cheating. What?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, he did say that.
SPEAKER_03Like, and he was proud to say that too. Yeah, that's him admitting that his weakness is woman. And if you can't say no to certain people, certain women, like I know.
SPEAKER_01I have a problem with that though, because I get it. As a young nigga, you wanna chase your dick. But at some point, you get to the point where you wanna fuck quality and you wanna be, you want that exclusivity.
SPEAKER_03You don't skip a couple people. Like, not everybody. You gotta yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, no.
SPEAKER_02No, that's true.
SPEAKER_00Even and I'm pretty sure the access frame is a lot different than most men, but it's like your fame.
SPEAKER_01You can say no. You can say no, bro. You don't have to go home with not reply after every club fucking booking.
SPEAKER_03And he said that with such like flex. Like, no, it's not a flex. It's not.
SPEAKER_00But until another nigga that can't that has like issues with women. It's your boy.
SPEAKER_01Well, what don't don't don't be starved with that shit. Don't do that. Don't do that. We're gonna talk about Clay and Megan. Oh, I was talking about Stephon Diggs. Oh, we can actually do Stephon Diggs. Let's leave Clay and Megan fly. Stefan Diggs, we both like him because he's a fly guy.
SPEAKER_00Fly as athlete right now for sure. Yeah, one of the. Who's the flyer? Who's flying that Stefan Diggs? In in football? Any sport, nigga. Any sport.
SPEAKER_01I think Swaggy B back in his day could give him a run for his money. But anyway, as of right now, it's it's him. He's the face of the league when it comes to fashion. Um I actually like Tyrod Taylor too. Actually, he's fly. But anyway, uh, Stefan Diggs cannot catch a break. And I personally feel like as big of a fan that I am of his uh with the fashion and football, he looks like one of the niggas that you have to neuter. He needs to be neutered. Uh he's another nigga that has a hard time keeping his dick in his pants, and and he's been with some of the most incredible women on the planet. It's like, I don't know. His brother, too. His brother is an animal too. But he that's the story for another day. Uh Stefan Diggs was actually in the courts recently fighting for his name and for his image because uh a chef, Gary calls it a BBL chef, a chef that he hired to cook for him. Came out and said, hey, we had a sexual relationship, and it got to a point where it got violent, he he he strangled me, he hit me, this and that. And the first thing me and Gary organically got to is, first of all, why are you hiring a chef that looks like this? And number two, why do you have to fuck everybody that's in your fucking life? Why does every woman have to feel your dick at least once, Stefan Diggs? Why?
SPEAKER_00And there's no issue with your like your whole team allegedly being all woman. That's not the issue. But if majority control is this, but if your majority of the team got a BBL, you have a problem. You do have a problem.
SPEAKER_01And he has the same type, the same build when it comes to women. It's always the Latina with the fat ass or the fucking mixed chick. And again, I'm not no player hater. You you you young, you're in your early 30s with a hundred M's. I get it. But it's like at some point, you're not self-made. You have to report to somebody, you work for somebody. Where's the self-respect? Like you making money that could change your family's lineage. Are you ever thinking about your legacy? Are you ever thinking about how your little sister, your little cousins, and your little brothers. I think I don't I don't know if he has girls, but I think he has uh uh he has I think he has two kids, though, two or three kids.
SPEAKER_00Even though we kicking his back end, he did caught a break recently.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I mean he did get found not guilty, but you are guilty off the decision of hiring the bitch. Because everybody, the first question with the the the shit got announced, the lawsuit got announced, everybody was like, okay, how does the chef look? Because they know like if this bitch is bad, we know you're gonna try to stick your dick in it, which is crazy.
SPEAKER_03I don't know much about him, but I do remember back then I saw a video um of like his teammates going around. Oh yeah, and he's doing which one of the teammates you wouldn't want your sister to date? And now listen, yeah, yeah, you you hit it right on the head. And everybody said him.
SPEAKER_00He was playing for the Vikings at the time. There was no thing that said Stefan did.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_00They did it, they did it in the basketball too. They everyone said Jonathan Caming. Which is crazy.
SPEAKER_01Uh, but yeah, my my thing is I'm happy for him. I I just feel like, bro, uh the the the the I think the life the like the longevity for for a football player is so short. You have so so so little time to create the income that you need to live off of until you die. It's better to protect that. I'm not saying have your fun. But have have these women sign NDAs, don't put your hands on nobody, have respect and self-control when it comes to people around you. It's just I I feel like he's he's really fucking up. I I just it's it's sad.
SPEAKER_03So I think um, sorry, I think the the type of people he has around him also is a big thing. Okay. Because you need people around you that hold you accountable and that tell you about yourself. And a lot of people, when they have money, they have a whole bunch of yes men's around them. So that's that's definitely I think that's definitely a thing.
SPEAKER_01Okay. I mean, but you it's like he's dating Cardi B, right? How did you feel about that relationship? I don't know why the hell she I think she just wanted some fun.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but look what it look where it got her.
SPEAKER_01Them Spanish women, but they they breathe. If if it was supposed to be like a breeders, like you breed, you breathe that's the Spanish girl she gets pregnant. So I don't know why niggas even play with bitches like that.
SPEAKER_03If it was supposed to be a fun thing, if it was supposed to be a fun thing, she should have kept it at that. Because now it's not, it's more complicated. If that was the case, she should have just stayed with her husband. They were doing the same thing. You left a dog to go be with a bigger dog, make it make sense. And she's like, she's I I don't think she realized who she is, in a sense, because it's like you're you're not a regular person.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, you're doing you're doing the same thing.
SPEAKER_03Oh, yeah, no, I didn't I'm I don't know why she did that. That wasn't a good decision, but hey.
SPEAKER_00Someone says she left the pit bull for a King Corsa. Which is hilarious. But like if I if I had to be like a little bit mature, like I do not just want to this to be like let's kick Stefan back, um kick his back in, even though he does deserve it at times. But um, I do want to focus on the woman with these allegations. Correct. Because there wasn't any like physical evidence of like him actually choking her. Um she even the lawyer like tore up apart, like, do you have any videos? She's like, No, I don't really do videos of myself. And they're consenting adults that know who he is, and they're they're consenting adults, but my thing is like what what I do hate about this whole trial is that there are women who really do get abused, and trials like this really do suppress a lot of the real issues that do happen in the world. So I want to say, like, that that is unfortunate. And the thing is, everyone's saying is what happens to this woman now? Does she just continue to live her life? Does she get another job? Like, does she go to jail? Does she have to pay a fine? But it's like Stefan Dix is kind of in that that that scenario where it's like it's a lose lose for him because with all the shit that's going on around him, just him being back in the courtroom for another woman just looks bad already. So it's a lose-lose. So it's like, what do you guys think should happen to this woman?
SPEAKER_03Well, I I I can't say because I don't know if it happened or not. That's true. Yeah, but if if it really didn't happen, I think women who lie on men definitely need to be held accountable. They need to be put in jail, something. Because it's been a lot of innocent people. It's a hot take. It's not a hot take. It's been because it's not a good idea.
SPEAKER_01No, coming from a woman, we've never heard a woman say that.
SPEAKER_03I have I have a brother, I have cousins, you get what I'm saying? So if somebody accused them of something and it wasn't true, they go to jail for it, let's say like 30.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03That's not okay. And then, oh, whatever.
SPEAKER_01Pat on the back.
SPEAKER_03But if it was the other way around, you know, people would look at it differently. So I don't think that's fair. If he really didn't do that to her, she definitely should be held accountable, but we don't know. Stephon Diggs, too much is at stake.
SPEAKER_01Too much is at stake. That means too much is at risk. Um you know, you you have a legacy to protect. Um, I I think you you have bigger fish to fry, bro. You you you need to, I get it, you're a handsome dude. You you could you could get a modeling gig. You could go to ASAP Rocky route, you could be a creative director for a brand. You're gonna you're gonna be okay, but at the same time, you don't want part of your brand to be public scrutiny because you always you're gonna always like attract that type of energy. Because women are gonna know, oh, your weakness is sex, your weakness is this, I'm your type. So you're always gonna find yourself around the things that you don't want, and it's always gonna test you. Like God is always gonna put the test in front of you until you can pass the test. So, dog, I He needs to get it together. Yeah, get it together, get it together. He's a again, solid dude, great player. Um, when he's focused, he is untouchable. Um, but yeah, you gotta get it together, bro. And by embe by you being in those predicaments, you are embarrassing other people that are affiliated with you. So that's all. Um Clan Meg. Clan Meg is that's the one that took over my thing. It's it's it's really the meat and potatoes of the of the show today. Uh, I've heard it all. I've watched all the again, I sit at home and I consume data before we get here. Because I always want to have my own original opinion. So I listened to all the noise. I I heard what the the the London, the UK chick is on his ass. I said, Clay, nobody who knows who the fuck you were isn't that I get it. It's a lot of chatter. Um, you know, both women and men are going against each other. Who's right? Who's wrong? Why did she blast them? I'm gonna start with you again. How do you feel about this situation? Who do you feel was wronged? Uh, do you put any accountability on Megan? Do you blame Clay? What what was your perception as the facts were coming out or the allegations were coming out?
SPEAKER_03Okay, I don't know, I don't do much research like you, so I only just see like what I see when I'm scrolling. But I feel like from the little things that I seen, I would probably be on Meg's side because yes. Only because I feel like men need to need to just be honest with what they're looking for.
SPEAKER_01He was acting like he was ready to be married. What why do you feel like it was an act? What if he actually liked her and then?
SPEAKER_03If he really liked her, why would why why they're cheating?
SPEAKER_01Well she she accused them of cheating. I she didn't publicly.
SPEAKER_03Well we don't know, but if he if he really did, yes, let's say he did cheat on her, that's not okay. Because yeah, if I'm with you, we I'm meeting parents, I'm we're cooking together, we we're so in love. You could have been single. Why come in my life and you know, like I think we're building something and this is so serious, this is what it is, and then you you're cheating. Okay. That's why I would I would be on her side because he could have been single.
SPEAKER_01Do you put any honest or any uh any accountability on Megan for one going public too soon about this, or even going on social media to open up the door on saying what happened? Because again, she could have just took her L in silence, or she could have processed it. And when the breakup is this fresh, we all adults here, we know there's a chance you might go back, you guys might amend it.
SPEAKER_03Um I definitely would have took my L and silent, but that's just me. I don't really put out who I'm dating and what I have going on because then everybody you're putting everybody in your business. And we don't know what's going on, really. We don't even know if that's what happened or not. We don't know. Correct. Um, so I I guess I would fault her for that. And um, even the go in public thing, I feel like she should have sometimes when you have something that you're really into, something that's good for you, it's good, it's great, you gotta keep it to yourself. You don't have to share with everybody because then that's where the negative energy comes. Because now everybody's like bashing her. Oh, she's this, she's that, and then and no.
SPEAKER_01Now your history, your track records come into play and all that.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah. So um, you know, I think she probably should have just kept that to herself.
SPEAKER_01What Gary's been begging to give it. How do you feel, Gary? Do you want the give me the raw, man? We don't do politically correct over here.
SPEAKER_00All right, for the shock factor why I truly believe I think she's stupid. Okay. I'm gonna tell you why. Because if you did not say anything, we would not know anything about this. Clay not even active on social media like that. If you literally said nothing, we would not know any of this. And I'm not saying that like Klay is like not wrong at all. Because he's completely that's that's shitty. You introduce her to like her, sad to say this by my Caribbean men. Love doing that shit, but and like literally showing the your significant other to your family, knowing damn well you see no future with them. A lot of Caribbean men do it. The love bombing, possibly, possibly love bombing. But my thing is, is like, we already know Clay was did some shit he was not supposed to do.
SPEAKER_01He cheated, he pretty pretty much like drew up like a false reality for Meg, which is presented the the good guy, he presented the Russell Wilson and he hit it with the future. Pretty much.
SPEAKER_00Pretty much. And also speaking of that, I do think that like um that like um Meg kind of like took Clay as like oh he's not a chump, but it's like his card. I think she forgot that like he'd been around the block too. Yeah, but he's a little bit more subtle about it. So and also like what the reason why I like why I'm a little like annoyed with Meg the Stallion, where it's like you like fam, you did like a whole TMZ freaking press, like, oh, me and Clay are not together, this and that. She did like the whole black screen with white writing on the story. Oh, they love and and the thing is, is like my main issue, Meg is that like we did not need to know any of this. First of all, you know who we're not talking about, and it's not even a topic. Zoe Kravers is already engaged, and she was engaged to Shannon Tatum last year. Sure. She's with Harry Styles now.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, nobody knew. Nobody knew. So all I'm saying is Taylor Rooks popped up wedding day. She posted her shit on wedding day. We knew she had a nice. It's gonna be me. We like, what? Everybody was hurt last year, two years ago. Coco Jones is Donovan Mitchell. Love Coco. Oh, I was they smoked that one. They posted the proposal rings. Cool.
SPEAKER_00Y'all could know now. Like, I understand that you're a public figure, but all I'm saying is she didn't the more public she made this, the more stupid she looks, in my personal opinion. And I'm not saying that either party is right or wrong. I think they're both wrong. I just think Meg looked more stupider in this in this in this situation.
SPEAKER_03Stuper.
SPEAKER_00The reason why is because uh Clay goes on live on his boat.
SPEAKER_03I didn't know that.
SPEAKER_00Clay goes on. I don't like that playing music relating to love and bullshit. And and mind you, this is like another thing. What like what kind of boils my skin is like even not even just the UK woman, there's someone's like, who was this nigga before Meg the Stallion? A four-time NBA champion, gold medalist, multi-millionaire, he will be fine. And I'm not saying that like he's better than Meg in any way, shape, or form. All I'm saying is that like Meg is that like you made this a lot worse when you decided to make this breakup public. Yes.
SPEAKER_03I I can agree with that. I think you know she definitely should have just kept it moving. But maybe that's just her way of venting.
SPEAKER_01No, you're the therapist. You have too much money and you a brand and people are affiliated with you. Too much money is invested for you to crash out.
SPEAKER_03That's true, but I think when people's feelings are hurt at the moment, she acted out of emotions. I get it. I'm not saying it's okay, she just needs to learn how to control her emotions.
SPEAKER_00I bet you, I bet you any money like um God forbid, but if Glorilla and um Brandon Ingram break up, I'm pretty sure they'll probably be a little bit more quieter than this.
SPEAKER_01Okay, but they're two different types of people. But I think they're both brands. What I'm saying is this Megan the Stallion, before I give my take on the whole thing, you are a business, you are a brand. You are like, you have a lot of you you are an investment to a certain degree. So if you the last time Tori shot, you went on Gail King to have an interview. So you can't be sitting down and you your words hold weight. If if indeed Clay did some bullshit, I'm gonna tell Oprah this. I'm gonna go to to to to you know a show, like a daily show and say, I'm gonna blast you on Good Morning America. I'm gonna make my voice be heard, I'm gonna have time to process everything, be be poised, be be you know, just get your shit together. Like, because breakups are hard, right? We're not gonna try to be insensitive about the whole thing. I feel like they both kind of were in a season where they needed each other. Clay has always been the vanilla-looking guy where you have crazy success, but you cannot have a steady relationship. You have a lot of hot girlfriends, but they never last. Megan, you always go for the bad boys, or you always go for we know you have a type, but it never works out for you, and you kind of wanted a rebrand. So it's like I felt like she felt safe running into a nigga like him, but he's still a nigga. He still plays for the NBA. They're the worst. He still has a lot of fucking money, and that attracts a demographic of one. Like everybody wants help. Everybody needs their life change. You're not the only bitch that enjoys private private jets. You're not the only bitch that enjoys their bills being paid. You're not the only girl that enjoys the island trips, the birkin bags. So, of course, he's been associated and he knows well enough about these type of women. Now, what I will say is um to hold both of them accountable, Claire, you knew this was an experiment. Everybody, I could tell. Because it it he was out of his skin. Every time they were seen together, it looked forced. It looked like she was trying to bring him into his.
SPEAKER_00I'm gonna say they did look, they didn't like each other.
SPEAKER_01I was like, no, they they I feel like I feel like they I think it started off as we good for each other's brand, you know, this is a fresh start for the both of us. Then I feel like they fell in love. But I feel like what people are are not taking into consideration is he's a basketball player. He travels for a long time out the year. He's on the road playing, he's around a whole bunch of bad behavior, good behavior, good shit, bad shit. She's also on tour, she's also doing interviews, she's dropping music, she's performing all over the place. So it could have been a bunch of factors that cause him to break up. It could be the distance, it could be the lack of intimacy because they're not around each other. A lot of things lead up to cheating. So it's not just, oh, I'm greedy, I want other bitches, I want to cheat on you. If that, you know, it's never that black and white. When shit like that happens, it's a deeper rooted issue. But um, but I think he definitely probably sold her a fantasy, and she wanted something new, so she fell for it. And it made me, I actually feel bad for her because you bringing around your people's, knowing that she ain't got nobody because her parents died.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_01So you giving her that sense of home, that sense of comfort. You know, it's like putting her on a pedestal and now you fucking pulling the rug under her. Like that's kind of fucked up. Um, and and I feel like she she is gonna have to heal from this. And this is why I'm more so against her posting it online because these type of things is gonna create a trauma. Yeah, yeah. It's gonna ruin you in some way, shape, or form. Um, but yeah, you and you're a professional at this. You post that shit on your close friends, then you probably hit your homegirls up. That's the way that you're gonna go. Then maybe you write it down. The next step is okay, write in your journal, then go to the therapist. Or, you know, if you have to have a conversation because clearly y'all liked each other. There might be a possibility for reconciliation, so let's not ruin that. Thank you.
SPEAKER_03And I think in the moment she just, again, it was like an emotional. Yeah, it was definitely an emotional thing in the moment.
SPEAKER_01I I again I think they both kind of look stupid uh in a sense. And yeah, I mean, I hope they work it out because I think Meg Meg deserved some type of peace. It seems like she can't catch a fucking break. And yeah, Clay, nigga, you're not slick. The good guy, the good guy shit, you do it. We all been there. We know what you did. Real niggas know what you did, okay? Before we wrap up, there's a uh a mystery that I want to debunk. I put my detective hat on and I solved it. We gonna, we gonna, we gonna peel the layer off the homebodies of women that claim that they're homebodies. What I've learned and what I've discovered is there's the true homebody, hardworking woman that likes to stay home. She spends a lot of money in her apartment and her vibe. You know, this is her zen space. She don't want to be bothered, she's been through a lot. She rather be by herself. Then there's the other woman who has no friends, has no money, and she claims she's a homebody until she meets like lit friends or a lit nigga that likes to do things and go on trips and do activities. So, ladies, this summer, I don't want to hear it. If you don't got no money, you don't got no friends to go out with, just say that so a real nigga like me can hit you up and be like, yo, come on the yacht. But don't lie and pretend, oh no, I'm a homebody, I don't give a fuck about these things, and then you bashing men on the low. And then your Twitter story and your thread stories are telling different. So I just want, I just want the cap to stop. That's all. How do you feel about people that claim they're homebodies? Because I know some people genuinely love being home.
SPEAKER_03I like being home, but I like being outside too. Um, it's a balance for me. Okay. But I feel like if you're a homebody, you shouldn't have to tell me. I think I'll see it. Correct. So I feel like the people that, oh, I'm a homebody are like, nah, nah, nah, nah. No, shut up. We don't want to hear that. Like you, I kind of agree with the yeah, because I be outside, but if I had more money, I would be outside more.
SPEAKER_01I'd be out the country more. Shit.
SPEAKER_03I would be doing more things because I can afford it. So I definitely, yeah, no, we don't want to be I'm bringing y'all to the carpet.
SPEAKER_01Come on, y'all can confess. I just don't want to hear it this summer. If you don't have the money to be outside, get with a local lit nigga. Get with the Vietnam. Get with the Vietnam. Got you. And and and tap in. And it's like things that women do be so cheap. Y'all be wanting to go wine tasting and y'all want to go do like cute shit.
SPEAKER_03And it's so easy to find a man to pay for stuff. These men be paying for things.
SPEAKER_01Correct.
SPEAKER_03Come to the Vietnam Academy. She teach you how to get that. It's so easy. So easy. If they like you. If they like you. If they like, that's true. That's true. If they like you, but some some some men be really lonely.
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SPEAKER_03And some men just want to hang out with a girl that looks good. That's true. Like, oh my God. That'd be my men, but it's so crazy because the men I'm so mean to and don't like and don't be into, they the ones that be, eh, I mean. I'd be like, bitch ass nigga, let me the fuck up. Like, but they wanna they wanna hang out, they wanna buy me things, they wanna take me out, I wanna hang out with you.
SPEAKER_00It's not ACU as a challenge. Can we stick to that real quick? I know we gotta wrap up, but it's like I'm like, I'm glad that you mentioned the fact where the fact where it's like some some men are lonely, they just want to be someone that looks cute. No, just saying, I'm not trying to series this out, but like, as a woman, if you go into a man's company and he's spending a lot of money on the date, the outfit, uh very expensive plate of food. Do you think all of that is he's doing that all because he wants your company?
SPEAKER_03I don't care why he's doing it. Because at the end of the day.
SPEAKER_02All right.
SPEAKER_03No, for real, because at the end of the day, it's my decision. Like, if you wanna be stupid, you wanna do all these things, and I decide I don't want to do anything, you're not gonna get anything out of me.
SPEAKER_01Like that's it's not clear from the joke because sometimes y'all be enticing it. Y'all be touching us, talking at the dinner table, y'all be sending the sexy picks.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but do you go about I'm like me, I can't speak for other people, but I've you're always gonna know like what it is. Like, cause I appreciate you. If I don't like you, it's it's gonna show. But I think some men just just they refuse. You not liking them. I have a man still, a nigga still trying to talk to me from when I was 15. Damn. Baby, I'm 32. It's not happening.
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SPEAKER_00I just want to put it out there. Niggas is not dropping all that bread for a mascot.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, that's true.
SPEAKER_00That's true.
SPEAKER_03Some of them are though. That's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_01I don't care how vanilla that nigga look, Megan the Stallion. He be out here. He wants some pussy. And he can afford a lot of it. Anyway, I go by the name of Cheech, aka your favorite broadcaster. Uh aka, uh, I'm outside this summer responsibly. Uh, may I add. Uh aka, he wanna hang with the Vietnamese.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_00The work of the people.
SPEAKER_03I know this is gonna get me a jump. I know this is gonna get me a jump. And you already know it's Juju. Follow me on Instagram, I guess Nick Ahead, and check me out. Vietnam, real Vietnam shit. You already know. And by the way, the Vietnam's, okay, this is where we get it from. We actually, I'm gonna be really quick. We get it from our homeboy. He used to always joke joke around with us. I be talking to my be like, oh, I'm going on a date. Oh yeah, because you've you're a Vietnam, you're a Vietnam. Rest in peace to my dog, because he definitely, he actually passed away. So it's kind of our way of keeping him alive. Yeah. But when we say real Vietnam shit, we don't mean like, you feel me, doing whole shit. We mean we get all the Vietnam's got a degree. Make our own money. One of us, one of the one, one of the Vietnam, she's engaged. What is the Vietnam? The other one. Vietnam means like a bad bitch. A bad bitch that's doing what she needs to do. A real bad bitch. Having fun, we outside our own company. With your nigga money, with our own money, like whatever.
SPEAKER_01We can do should get a boat full of bitches and be out there. They don't need no nigga inside.
SPEAKER_03We don't need a nigga for nothing. Like, we can stand on our own two feet.
SPEAKER_01Are we gonna if you said that?
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I'm not saying that we don't want the money. We want the money, but we got our own money too. Like, we don't need a man to do the things that we want to do. That's what I feel that I'm doing.
SPEAKER_01I hope I hope the one I like want some attention from is not the one engage.
SPEAKER_03We're gonna talk. We're gonna talk.
SPEAKER_00I have my people call your feet.
SPEAKER_01I have my people call your feet.
SPEAKER_00I want the name of Gary, aka in Gary Trust, aka Mr. Sneaker Convo, aka spending other people's money.
SPEAKER_01OBM!
SPEAKER_00And whatever. We have these aesthetics.