Beyond Common Business Secrets

Why You’re Not Getting Enough Clients: The Problem Most Business Owners Overlook

Tracey Watts Cirino Season 5 Episode 207

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Why aren't you getting enough clients?

If you're posting consistently, showing up, talking about your business, creating content, networking, and investing in marketing but still wondering where the clients are, this episode is for you.

Because sometimes the problem isn't that you need more marketing.

The problem is that your message isn't clear enough for the right people to recognize that you're the answer to the problem they're trying to solve.

In this episode, Tracey Watts Cirino breaks down the messaging clarity problems she sees so many business owners struggling with and, honestly, the same kind of clarity work she continually evaluates in her own businesses.

You'll discover:

  • How to tell whether your message may be getting in the way of your marketing
  • Why people can like your content without understanding how to work with you
  • The difference between being specific and niching yourself into a box
  • Why constantly changing your offer may actually be a messaging problem
  • How unclear messaging makes content, websites, sales conversations, and offers harder
  • The five questions every business owner should be able to answer clearly
  • Why clarity isn't about having the perfect message; it's about making the right problem easier to recognize
  • How a clearer message can help the right clients understand that you're the person they've been looking for

If you've been asking yourself, “Why am I not getting enough clients?”, don't automatically assume you need another marketing strategy.

Start with the message underneath everything you're already doing.

And if you know you need more clarity but aren't sure where to begin, check out the Messaging Clarity Starter Kit Tracey's practical starting point for turning what you know into a clear, usable business message.

The Messaging Clarity Starter Kit™ is coming soon. I'm putting the finishing touches on it now, and I'll share the link here as soon as it's ready.

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Tracey Watts Cirino: Hello, and welcome to Beyond Common Business Secrets. I'm your host, Tracey Watts Cirino. I'm so excited that you are here.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, today, we are going to talk about why you're not getting enough clients.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: The clarity problem most business owners overlook. So, my friend, have you ever had one of those moments


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Where you look at your business, and you think, ugh.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Why am I not getting enough clients?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Because…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you already know that you're doing all the things, right? You're posting, you're showing up, you may even be networking, you're creating content, you're talking about your offers.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You have a website, you've invested in branding. Maybe you've even paid for marketing.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Maybe you've hired somebody to help you with your social media, and you have that being posted for you now.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And yet, you're still… Looking at your bank balance, you're still looking at your calendar, thinking.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: where are all the clients that support all this, you know, extra I've been doing? So, if that sounds familiar, I want you to stay with me for this episode.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Because, my friend, you are not alone.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Because I want to talk to you about a problem that I see so many business owners, and honestly.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: it's something I continually look at in my own business, too. Like, in all of my businesses.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And that is… Clarity.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Yes, I am serious. That is clarity.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: look at how clear you're being. And I don't mean it in the sense that it's, like, not because


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I think you aren't smart enough, because, my friend, I know you're super intelligent. It's not because you're not working hard enough, because


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Hard work is never going to be a replacement for Clarity!


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Tracey Watts Cirino: It's just never going to replace it. And it's not because you need another marketing strategy.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: It's more like this, like.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: it's certainly not because you need to become someone else entirely online. And if I sat back and…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: listen to what every, you know, guru's message is, and I would literally be in a state of thinking I needed to fix myself and become someone totally different.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But… That is not, that is not, I repeat, that is not what I am proposing here. So.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what I'm saying is that your message Isn't clear enough


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Tracey Watts Cirino: for the right person, so for that right person, that ideal client, to recognize that you are the answer to the problem that they are trying to solve.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Like, sometimes people are problem-aware only in their HUD. Like, they're, like, running around all day thinking about the problem that they have, but they haven't shared it out loud yet. So.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: They are literally waiting for someone else to articulate it to them. And…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Other people are telling everyone about their problem, but they haven't even begun to look into finding a solution. They're just in this newer phase that is, like, problem-aware.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, the thing is, is that when we look at it through this lens, it's like, okay.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: No matter what you do in business.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Your message needs to be clear enough that the right person, those ideal clients.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that they recognize that you, like, that you are the answer to the problem they are trying to solve. And when that happens.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: then, you know, then that's when you want to put some muscle, even some money, behind your marketing message. But when it's still in this state of your message isn't clear enough for the right person to recognize you.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And they…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: have no awareness of the fact that you're the answer to the problem that they're already trying to solve. Like, when that happens.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you can… Spend a tremendous amount of time and money marketing a business


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that people still don't understand. And I was guilty of this so many times, even in, like, starting my third business, where I had made these similar mistakes before.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I did it again in a new and bigger way. It was even, like, dumber, the amount of money that I spent when it wasn't clear yet. So, this…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: is not coming from a place of judgment, it's coming from a place of, friend, let me take you by the hand and help you and show you where you want to get this clarity piece right first.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Because it serves as the foundation to everything else. So today, we're gonna talk about why you…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: may not be getting enough clients, and like, that could be very valid. And specifically, how to know when your message is actually getting in the way. Like, sometimes it is just a simple little tweak, right? Other times it's something bigger.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But this is gonna give you that foundation. So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Like, I want to start with something that I see all the time. So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I have business owners that will come up to me and say, okay, I am posting, I'm putting myself out there, but nobody is reaching out. Or people will come up and say.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Hey, I've been following your simple content strategy, and people tell me that they love my content.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: but I'm not getting, you know, any clients from it. Or, I hear this one a lot, and I know we've talked about this before, I know I'm good at what I do, I know I get results for my clients.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So why isn't that translating into more clients, more sales? Like, why is there, like, a gap, a disconnect here? And…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you might be surprised. My first instinct isn't


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Tracey Watts Cirino: let's create more content, let's do more marketing. That's, like, never my first instinct. My first instinct is always, okay, let's slow down. Like, let's slow down. And…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: look at… What your product is.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You know, what is the product you're selling? What's the service you're selling? You know, what's the solution that you're selling? I like to look at that first.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And then, this surprises everyone. This surprises, like, all of my new clients all the time. Then the next thing that I ask you is.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Do you believe in it?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Do you believe in it?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Most people are like, absolutely, they get so passionate, they start, like, speaking from the heart, telling me every single thing that they want you to know about


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Tracey Watts Cirino: this beautiful service that solves this amazing problem for, like, this amazing… this, overwhelming problem, and then at the end, this is, like, this amazing solution that they've delivered. And it makes them feel so good, and then they're so connected to their clients, and it's such a beautiful thing.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And… I love when that happens, and then other times, I'll get people that are like, no.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I'm only doing it because of the money. I don't even like this anymore! Oh my goodness, I didn't even know that. So sometimes it's giving you permission to look at it, right? So, I strongly encourage you to ask yourself, like.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Do I like this? Like, does it matter to me? Am I passionate about it?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And do I believe in it? Like, when… you know, those seem…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: like, things that, like, oh, they're quieter, so you, like, leave them under the surface, but I'm like, if your soul is trying to tell you something, it might be whispering, and you want to just bring it into the light. So, we slow down, and…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And, like, after we answer those questions, right, like…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Do you believe in it? Do you like it? Like, do you want to be selling this?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That will…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that brings, like, a tremendous amount of clarity. That reveals so much. And then, we will work together on solving that.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Or…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: For people that don't have a coach to help them sort through this, you know, this is, like, sometimes, like, the dark night of the soul that you might have to go through.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But, once that is clear, that we love what we do, we know it's powerful, we know it's helpful, we know people need it, and when they…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: are at… like, it's like the after… the afterglow, the basking in what it's like after they work with you, then yes, like, that's so exciting. Like, that's the thing. We look at… we slow down, and we look at the message. Because here's what I've learned.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you can have a really great offer and still have a confusing message. Like, you could have something that is pure gold, that, wow, if the world knew about this, it'd be lit on fire. You'd have, like.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: 3 million, you know, you'd have 3 million views tomorrow, or more, and…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: it's, like, if it's explained in that way, because, like, everybody needs this. But sometimes it's, like, not enough to just have a great offer, because if you have a great offer, and your message is still confusing, you have this, like, tangle, right? It's, like, all tangled. So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I've also learned from doing this as long as I have.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I've also learned that you can be incredibly talented.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: and still have a message that doesn't immediately connect, right? Sometimes it just doesn't. You can have years of experience and still describe what you do in a way that makes people work too hard to figure out whether you're actually the person


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Tracey Watts Cirino: they need.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And, my friend, that's a very expensive problem.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Right? That is a very expensive problem to have, because you're leaving money on the table every day, right? You're doing all the work, you're showing up on social, you're having conversations, you're putting yourself out there, but…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: not…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: not being the person that people can see as, oh yeah, I need to work with this person, that's a really expensive problem. So.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: It's…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: when your messaging isn't clear, everything downstream is harder. So, it's like, you feel like creating content, going to a networking event, even, like.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: getting on a call with a referral, like, everything is, like, pushing a boulder up a… like, pushing a boulder up the side of a mountain. Like, everything is harder. So.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: If everything is harder, that's, like.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: create such exhaustion. So, your content becomes harder to create.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: your website becomes… it's harder to write the copy, your social media becomes harder to plan, your sales conversations become longer, and you drag them out, and maybe you don't even call people back that maybe showed interest because you're like, ugh, right? It happens. So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Overall, your offers become harder to explain.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And your potential client has had to do too much work, too much heavy lifting on their own to figure this out. They're like, hmm, scratching their head, is this for me? Or… wait, what did she say? Huh?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And when people have to work.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that hard to understand something, they usually just move on. Or, like, it doesn't even open… it's like, it doesn't open the gate to them even considering you, right? It's just…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: It's not that… it just never opened the gate, so they didn't even understand, really, what you did. So, I want you to know, my friend, it's not because you're not valuable, it's because you…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: didn't recognize the value, like, quickly enough. Like, right? It's like, because you didn't…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: say it in a way that made it easy for them to recognize the value and see it quickly, so that they're like, oh, wow, I literally just did a Google search for this. Like, I didn't even know there was somebody that could solve my problem. Oh my goodness, thank you, right? So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: the question I want… you to ask yourself is, if…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: somebody who is a perfect client, she's your ideal client.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: if she… like, and I like to name… like, I have my clients, like, name their ideal client, like, my ideal client's name is Sally, right? So, Sally, like, I give her a name, she has… she has…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: a hairstyle, she has clothes, she's on trend, she has a job. Like, we have gone full in to creating an entire profile for her, because I love to speak directly to Sally. Now.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: This is part of, like, my fun…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: like, the fun of my imagination and curiosity, plus the fact that I love to play with Barbie dolls when I was a kid. So, like, do what makes you,


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Enjoy it.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You don't have to take it this far, but a simple way is just


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Tracey Watts Cirino: think about it, like, ask yourself this question. If somebody who is perfect, who is, like, that perfect ideal client for you, if… if she landed on your website, looked at your Instagram profile, your Facebook, your LinkedIn.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: If she heard you speak on, like, somebody else's podcast, if you were a guest on someone's podcast.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Or, she saw one of your posts.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Or maybe she met you at a party.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Would she immediately understand?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: 3 things. Just three. So, would she understand who you help, What problem you solve?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And what makes you and your solution Absolutely valuable to her.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So… this is not your title, right? This is not…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what your title is, right? So, not every certification that you've earned, not everything you've ever done, not, like, your whole bio, all your accolades, not every service that you could possibly provide under your umbrella of all the amazing services you do.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Not all of that. Like, that's, like, way too much. I'm talking about…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: the actual problem that you solve. So, the problem that you solve, because


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Tracey Watts Cirino: If that's super clear, when your ideal client goes on…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: your website, social, meets you. When that's clear.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Then everything's easier, because, friend, your client…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: is not waking up thinking about your business. Ever. Even clients that are, like, my most high-level clients that pay me tens of thousands of dollars to do high-level work for them, they do not wake up and think about my business in any way, shape, or form.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: They never would. That's not their… that's not how it works. They wake up thinking about their problem.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That's it. And if I can Solve their problem?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Do it quickly, efficiently, and with so much clarity.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that, they're like, yes, that's who I need to work with.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That's how that real trusting relationship begins. Because, you know, it's like when you're a kid, and your mom tells you,


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Tracey Watts Cirino: honey, don't worry what everybody else thinks. Like, don't worry about if people are talking about you or what people think, because


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Tracey Watts Cirino: they're too busy thinking of themselves, right? So this is true for your clients as well. It's the same, you know, we've been telling kids and teenagers this forever. Like, people have their own stuff on their mind, their own problems, their own challenges. They are not waking up thinking about you.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So… We don't have to spend time in that area. We have enough things to think about.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: The only thing we need to think about is being so crystal clear on the problem that we solve that


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that our ideal client, in my case, Sally, knows, yes, oh my goodness, I need to hire Tracey, because this is exactly what I need, right? So, this is also where I… I think many of us, this is including me.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: like, we can get caught up. So, this happens so often. So, we know our business so well, right? We know everything we can do. Like, this extensive menu of services and, like, offers.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: We know all the ways we can help.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: We know our… like, expertise. We… we have this vast…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: catalog of experience and things that have worked for other clients that we've worked with. We know our process, we know all the things that make us different, and because we know all of it.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And we are this expert, we want to tell people all of it, because if you just knew all of it.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: your life would be so much better and be so amazing, right? Like, we just want to help


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Tracey Watts Cirino: serve and…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Serve the world and take care of them in such a deep, meaningful way that, like, ugh, we're just trying to give it all to them.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But clarity doesn't come from saying more, and saying everything all at once. It could be like a… it's like a fire hose. It's like running someone over, right? Like, in a cartoon, like, you run them over. Well, we're humans here, we don't pop back up as fast as the cartoon, so…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: clients that are in all different levels of their problem that are working with us, right? We have, like, for me, like, I have some in high-level mentorships that


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you know, we're working one-to-one all the time, or I have other clients that I meet with once a quarter, and we do a VIP day, and we knock out a ton of stuff. Then I have other clients that are, you know, newer, and they're just in one of my done, you know, like, one of my…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: courses that they can just go online and do themselves anytime. They can do it at midnight, they can do it whatever. You know, and other people in the highest levels.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: hire us for the done-for-you services. So, the thing is, is that no matter what your industry, you have people in different levels.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I'd like to make this distinction here that is really important, right? This is… it's really important to me that this drives it home for you. So, I don't believe the answer is always to niche down.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I don't believe that. I really don't believe in niching, because I don't like to be put in a box personally. I have a vast array of interests. I have businesses and, income streams that are in various industry.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And I know I've talked about this before, and I will probably keep talking about it, because I think there's a huge misunderstanding around this. So, I don't believe you have to put yourself in a tiny little box and say, oh, this is the only person I will ever serve, and this is my niche. I don't… I don't really resonate with that, it never felt good to me.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that I spent probably a year of frustration. I spent so much time, money, and energy around trying to solve this, and it just frustrated me, it pissed me off, and really didn't get me anywhere.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: is very different from niche, right? That, like, quote-unquote niche, because when you are specific, you make it easy for someone to say, that's me, that's exactly


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Tracey Watts Cirino: she helps people become more successful. Like, those things are all true, but they're not, like, making light bulbs go off. They're not creating an emotional connection to where your client's like, oh, I must hire you for that. Like, that's exactly what I've been looking for. That, like, doesn't happen there. So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You might realize that these niches aren't specific enough to create this sort of recognition of, like, wow.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: they're seeing it… they're sort of seeing you mirror their problem back to them in a way that recognition for them is gonna sound like, oh my gosh, that's exactly the problem I'm having. Wow, you said it better than I could.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That is when somebody recognizes their problem in your message. You've created an opening, and I think we did a podcast


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Tracey Watts Cirino: they don't know what's going on in the jar, they just see you talking from inside the jar. So, once you hit that moment where they have that recognition, and it sounds like, oh my gosh, that's exactly the problem I've been having.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: a lower-priced item, like one of my books. So, think about your business in this way. It's like, you know, sometimes people want to test you out. They, like, they trust you, but they're not 100% that you totally get it, so they'll start with something lower cost.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: into, oh, did you… have you read Tracey's book? Or… or here's this, digital tool, this asset that she… that she has available that, you know, you can download it and create this asset in your business. You know, I have a lot of digital tools like that that are more of the lower-cost offers. So.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that's information. Like, consider this feedback. This is, like, good information. So I want you to look at it through the lens where you're not… like, it's with no judgment. Just take this as good information, good feedback, that you're like, okay, I…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: It's a clue, because if you have to explain everything before somebody understands the value of your message, the value of your message, like, your message may be doing, like… it's, like, not doing enough of the work for you.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, you know, when I say something like, when someone's like, what do you do? I'm like, I translate your expertise that you have as this beautiful business owner into language that your ideal buyers


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Tracey Watts Cirino: comments, you get likes, people tell you, oh, I love this, or that's such a powerful quote, or you always say exactly what I needed to hear.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That's so good! Or, oh, it's interesting. And yet.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you're not getting more clients on your books, nobody's inquiring about your offers, nobody is, like, asking, like, how do I work with you? Right?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But they're not… they might even trust you on some level, but they're not convinced that you're the right person to solve their problem. They may even believe that you're knowledgeable, but do they understand the problem you solved? Do you… they're asking, do you, this expert.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But we also both were, like, in, the hair show circuit, you know, like, teaching and presenting on stage and, you know, doing stage work. So I really found it to be interesting that he loved to go to parties, and almost like he would always run into one of my clients and start a conversation.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And it would be really interesting, because he would say something about being, like, being cheaper.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Right? I never was competing on price. If anything, I was probably the most expensive in the area, right? Like, not everybody can say that they left an industry at the top of… like, I was charging $500 for haircuts. Like, that's when I was like, it's time for me to do something else.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: when it comes to personally doing services, now I get to help people in, you know, a different way with my coaching and mentoring services, but I always found it to be so funny, it's like, you're missing the point. So, do you want to be known for the discounts and, you know.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And that's what you're going after, that's great, but own that category, if that's what you're doing.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But you are never gonna poach a client from me by that being the angle that you use.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And it can kind of be a big deal, but I see people constantly changing your offer. So, this one's a big one. So, I know that


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Tracey Watts Cirino: people would want this instead. Like, this is something that might happen to you. And sometimes that's exactly the right move.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You know, sometimes that's exactly the right move, but sometimes we're changing the offer because we're trying to solve a messaging problem.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Because those are not the same thing. Messaging problem is very different than your product problem, so I want you to be clear on which problem you're solving. Before you create another offer at all, you want to ask yourself, does my ideal client actually understand the value of the offer I already have?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: the offer is amazing. Like, I've had a lot of clients over the years, especially, my clients that are coaches and authors. Those clients


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Tracey Watts Cirino: just refining it, right? It's… and I… this is another… it's funny how there's so much overlap in what I do, but it's, like, so much of the best artistic creations were not about exactly how much hair you leave on the floor, it's…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what's left, like, what's on the floor, it's like what's left on the head. That's what creates the beautiful look, right? It's like, when you're hanging a beautiful painting on the wall.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what is the refinement of what's left, right? Not the paint that's splashed on the floor. So here's the thing.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you need to be clear on, is it a messaging problem or a product problem? So, I strongly urge you, if you haven't already, write this one down. Does my ideal client actually understand the value of the offer I already have?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That's a very different question, and that is going to give you a powerful answer as to what direction you need to go to fix the problem that you're having. So, the number 4 is your marketing keeps changing because you don't know what to say. And what I mean by that is that


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Tracey Watts Cirino: This is, like, this is another one I see constantly, and… and I'm all about talking about many different things.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But through the lens of resonance, right? Like, I talk about healthy… planning healthy meals for my kids. I talk about taking care of the dogs, I talk about a freedom lifestyle business. I talk about my love of business, and how business is…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Get that.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: like, Monday you're talking about one thing, but you completely go over to Wednesday, something completely different that's not relevant and doesn't make sense.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what I'm saying is that I might talk about a lot of stuff, but the essence of who I am, my core values.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: generates the revenue that gives them the freedom to live a life that they design, by choice. That it's not something that is left to autopilot, they aren't blindly going at it like a sheep just because they're, like, settling into circumstance. They're making conscious decisions. This resonance is clear in everything I do. How I parent, how I teach, how I coach, how I write, how I speak, how I podcast, how I show up as a guest.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Make sure you're not hopping and skipping all over to where you're just making someone feel like they're in a pinball machine as they're watching you. And next week, you discover this whole new marketing strategy, and suddenly you're talking about something else that is exactly the opposite of what you talked about last week.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: is signaling to everybody that you're very exhausted. And when you're exhausted and don't have clarity, you're not going to be the ideal choice of a person that can help them solve their problem with clarity and conviction, right?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: clarify your message in a way that makes it have a clear foundation. You can talk about a lot of different things that you're interested in if you're genuinely passionate about it, but there needs to be resonance that it still feels like you. And…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That's what's gonna make people compelled and magnetically drawn to work for you, like, to work with you, or for you, when you're hiring your team.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you might know what you have to do, but you need someone like me to help alongside of you, to mentor you every step of the way so it actually gets done, right? Because there's a very… it's very different


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Tracey Watts Cirino: This can get really fuzzy when you're all over the place, but once you have that clear message foundation, once you have that, and you're really clear on


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you're very clear on the problem you solve. I'm very clear, like, for me, I'm very clear on the problem I solve, and I may create lots of different products and services that


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But the problem I solve is very clear, right? I just might create different offers. So, the transformation you… like, when you're clear on the transformation you create, and the language that connects all of it.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And because you're no longer reinventing your message, like, every Monday morning when you're like, oh, what should I post? When you, you know, you sit down to create something.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: your message does not have to be perfect, we are not going for that, mine is not. I am constantly refining it, re… like, just, like…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what's needed? And I listen to myself often. I feel like I get these, like, intuitive downloaded hits, like, oh, this is really something new that I want to create. So.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I start to notice the questions that people are asking me. I pay attention to the words that people use.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: and then you realize that something isn't the way you decided. Like, so…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I can look back on my life, and there have been so many times I believed something with absolute conviction, and it served me for a time, right? It served me for a time. But then I learned, I grew, I expanded, I…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you know, I became more knowledgeable, I got more wisdom in that area and a different area, and maybe my view and my belief around this changed.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: But I don't look at it like I went backwards, I look at it as evolution. So I'm saying not to skip around like that, right? It's allow yourself the grace to expand and have more growth.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That is where the clarity gets stronger as you listen, right?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Do not recommend listening to feedback from everyone, because there are tons of people out there that are not your ideal client, that have no idea what they're talking about, and we cannot let them into our heart and mind. Their feedback doesn't matter. Sorry.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Sorry, I'm not sorry.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Guard your heart, protect yourself, listen to the feedback that genuinely resonates with what you're trying to do, and will genuinely help you get better at serving your clients and solving their problems.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Clarity gets stronger and stronger as you listen to the right people, the right things.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, that's definitely one of the reasons I'm so passionate about this work that I do, because


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I've been doing it for a long time, and I still believe there is always another layer of clarity. There's always another…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: layer available of how I can deliver it where it lands even clearer, even cleaner for my clients. So, I will continue to refine my message. I will continue to practice my next stage presentation. Like, it needs to continually evolve.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And it doesn't mean that you failed, because when you look back, you're speaking about your offer different. It means you're evolving, it means you're expanding, it means you're building something of value. Your business evolves.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Your clients evolve, your offers evolve, your experience expands, it elevates, and your message gets to evolve and elevate with you.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Here's the clarity test I want you to use. Take your business and answer these 5 questions. Are you ready? For those of you that are able to.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: get a piece of paper and write these down. For those of you that are driving, save this episode so that you can come back and answer these questions. So, one, you want to answer this question. Who do I help? Not everyone, not anyone who needs this.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: everyone that will pay me. Like, I've heard that so many times, when I'm like, okay, who do you help? They're like, anyone that will pay me. Okay, no. That… that's not gonna help.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Who do you help? Ask yourself that question. Who is the person you understand? Who is the person whose problem you know how to solve?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Number two, what problem do I solve? Not what you do, not, oh, I'm a business coach, or I'm a salon owner, not that. What problem do you solve?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: the problem. What is happening in your client's life or business that makes them start looking for your help?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Number 3, what do I help them do?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: what is different because you exist, right? Number four, what does…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I'm sorry, why does my approach matter?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: What do you… what do you see differently? What do you believe that others in your industry may not? Right? Like, I…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: work with clients all the time that hire me for marketing, and I view marketing, your business, and messaging so differently.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: because clarity isn't just about understanding, clarity creates movement, right? It initiates your clients into action, and this is what we want, right? I say this all the time, and I think I've been quoted, I don't know, thousands of times with saying this, is that


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You do not have a business unless you have a sale, right?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: a logo, right? So you need a sale. If your ideal client understands your message, but doesn't know what to do next.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: you've stopped one step too short. They need to take action, right? It's like, I'll often teach my author and coaching, you know, my clients that are coaches and authors, I will teach them, like, you need to ask


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Why aren't you getting enough clients? So maybe…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You do need more visibility. Maybe you need more traffic. Maybe you need a better sales process. Maybe you need more connections that lead to more sales conversions.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: before you completely redesign your website. Before you change your offer yet again, I want you to look at your message underneath all of it. Because if the message isn't clear, more people seeing it


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Tracey Watts Cirino: doesn't necessarily solve the problem at all, right? It can actually amplify the confusion and make your problem bigger.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So I don't want that for you. That is… we don't want that for you. I want your marketing to make it easier for the right people to recognize themselves in your message.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: That's the journey, right? Those are the light bulb moments that you want going off in your client's mind. And you need to craft a message that delivers that.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, that's exactly why I created something very new, very new, very special for you. It's called the Messaging Clarity Starter Kit. So, I created it because I know how overwhelming it can be to sit down and try to figure out all of this from scratch, right? Sometimes it's just like, okay, great, Tracey, you highlighted this problem, but now what?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, what do I say? How do I describe what I do? What's my value? What should my website headline say?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: How should I introduce myself? What do I actually say on social media? Oh, someone just asked me to go on their podcast. They want to know how to introduce me. What should I have them say?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: how do I make all of this sound like the same business and sound like me, like the actual me that I know my clients love to work with?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: The Messaging Clarity Starter Kit gives you the foundational tools to work through these questions and create a message you can actually use. So, it's not a message that sounds good on just the worksheet, it's a message you can take


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Tracey Watts Cirino: to your website. You can use it for your bio. You can use it to create content. You can use it in your everyday conversations. You can use it on your offer in sales pages. You can use it in your marketing. You can use it on your sales calls. You can use it


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Everywhere that you naturally exist as a human.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: living her life that is also a business owner, right? Because the goal isn't to have a beautiful sentence describing your business. The goal is to become easier to understand, right? You want people to understand you and know what you can do for them every day in your business. So…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: When you're easier to understand, it becomes easier for the right people, those ideal clients, to find you, to recognize themselves in what you're saying, to trust that you understand their problem, and…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You are the person that can solve their problem so they want to take that next step with you.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So, before you go and create another post today, I want you to stop and ask yourself one question. If my ideal client saw my marketing today, would they immediately recognize that I solved the problem?


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Tracey Watts Cirino: that they're trying to solve, like, they woke up today trying to solve it. If the answer is yes, beautiful! I'm so proud of you. Keep going.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: If the answer is maybe, or I'm not sure, that's probably some clarity work to do there. Like, that's probably where you need to work on this.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Friend, don't panic. You don't need to blow up your business, you don't need to start over, you don't need to be mean or mad at yourself.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: You don't need to become somebody else!


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Tracey Watts Cirino: Seriously, do not do that! You simply need to get clearer, and we will start from where you are. Because your brilliance is not the problem. You're already the expert. Your message may simply not be carrying your brilliance clearly enough yet.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: And that's totally fixable. That…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: is what this work is. This is the work that we can do. And honestly, it's work I continue to do in my own business, like, on my own business, and with


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Tracey Watts Cirino: all of my clients in my business. So, because I don't believe clarity is a destination, I believe clarity is a business advantage. We keep refining, we keep growing, we keep expanding. And the clearer you become about the problem you solve.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: The person you solve it for, and the value you bring, the easier it becomes for the right people to say yes.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: So… I strongly urge you to grab the Clarity Messaging Starter Kit.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: As always, thank you for spending this time with me. Thanks for being here on Beyond Common Business Secrets. And if you're sitting here listening to this and thinking, okay, Tracey.


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I hear you, I know I need to get clearer, but I don't know where to start. That's exactly why


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Tracey Watts Cirino: I created this specifically for you, and that is the Messaging Clarity Starter Kit. I'll put the link in the show notes so you can take a look, and…


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Tracey Watts Cirino: As always, stay beyond amazing, and I will see you on the next one. Take care, and remember, friends, you don't need to say more. You need to make what matters easier for your ideal clients to understand.