Why You Keep Attracting the Same People—and How to Finally Change It with Healing Technology

In this powerful and eye-opening episode of Healing Her Halo, Patience sits down with emotional healing expert and biofeedback specialist Deepak Chari to uncover the hidden patterns shaping your life, relationships, and self-worth.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck in the same cycles—attracting the same types of people, experiencing the same emotional triggers, or wondering “Why does this keep happening to me?”—this conversation is for you.

Deepak breaks down the 4 phases of emotional programming that begin before you’re even born and explains how generational patterns, childhood experiences, and subconscious beliefs can influence everything from your confidence to your relationships. 

But more importantly—he shares how to break free.

Together, we explore:

• How emotional trauma and subconscious patterns are formed
• Why you may be attracting unhealthy relationships
• The connection between your voice, confidence, and self-expression
• How releasing emotional “weight” can transform your life (and even your presence)
• A new way to think about “karma” as a program that can be rewritten

This episode is a reminder that:
✨ You are not your past
✨ You are not your patterns
✨ And healing is not only possible—it’s available to you now

If you’re ready to reclaim your voice, your power, and your peace… this episode will put a spark back into your halo.

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As a gift to the Healing Her Halo community, Deepak is offering a free downloadable PDF featuring 2 powerful techniques you can use anytime you feel overwhelmed.

These simple, effective tools are designed to help you:

• Quickly release stress and anxiety in the moment
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✨ Whether you’re navigating daily stress or deeper emotional triggers, these techniques give you immediate support—right when you need it most.

Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Welcome to another episode of Healing Her Halo, a women empowerment platform for women who've experienced trauma and the struggles of mental health. This is a safe space to gain guidance on how to navigate through the storms of life and how to stay present in the light when the sun shines again. Be sure to download, share, and subscribe so you can help heal another woman's halo. Now, here's your host, Patience Murray.

SPEAKER_02 0:25

I'm here with Deepak Chari. He helps women and men release emotional hidden blocks from stress, anxiety, and past emotional experiences with an advanced voice biofeedback technology so they can feel calm, confident, and empowered, and attract the relationships they desire, enhance their current relationships, and improve their business success. He is the co-founder of the Chari Center of Health, an engineer and certified biofeedback specialist, and the creator of his life transformation technology program with advanced voice biofeedback to promote emotional healing, mental clarity, and peak performance. Deepak, welcome to the show.

SPEAKER_01 1:07

Thank you for having me on your show, Patience.

SPEAKER_02 1:10

It's really an honor to have you here. And we we were talking a little bit before you know the show got started. And just to let you guys in, um, the the listeners, Deepak's name actually means light. Isn't that right?

SPEAKER_01 1:22

Yeah. So hopefully all of your viewers, and maybe your listeners in a way can see the light or hear the light for me.

SPEAKER_02 1:29

Absolutely. I'm so excited to chat with you because part of the you know reason why we do this is because we want to put a spark back into women's halo. So to have someone here who's actually embodies light is a huge, amazing thing. So just to start, you know, what really got you inspired or interested in the work that you do?

SPEAKER_01 1:47

That's a great question. Well, it all started on my childhood journey. I didn't know I'd be doing this work on literally of thousands of people so far in the last 20 years, but it started on a different journey. When I was growing up as a kid, patients, I was at least I perceived I was being bullied by other kids, my same age or a little slightly older, probably from the age of eight or nine. So my safe haven, and I also was a bookworm, by the way, my safe haven was the library, okay? The fountain of knowledge for me. So I would hide in different aisles at different times, whichever one was safer than the other. And since I was there for long periods of time hiding away, I said, okay, we may as well occupy my time here. So I would randomly, seemingly randomly, grab books from this shelf, and those books happened to be on the law of attraction, which I didn't know what that was at the time. There was also other books on boosting self-esteem, self-confidence, like How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, other books like that, books of manifestation by Dr. Joseph Murphy, As a Man Thinketh, Think and Grow Rich, and countless other books. So I didn't realize what I was doing at the time, but I was programming my subconscious, besides trying to get through each day, within a positive way, in the thinking of advanced concepts. So as I got older, um, the bullying continued in different ways, from being pushed around to you don't fit in our class, Deepak, in our group. In fact, you don't fit in any of our groups, so you're on your own. So I was like, gosh, I'm alone, I'm abandoned, you know. So I said, okay, you know what? When I graduate from high school, I will, this pattern will be gone. Because this is a childhood, childhood pattern, childish pattern. But guess what? When I graduated from high school, I was probably around 18 or so, it continued, but in a different way. I was drawing the most negative, narcissistic, mean, manipulative, cruel, condescending, gaslighting. And you can throw in some other words if you like. I did, they were the most given. Yeah, you go ahead and add them in there. All those things, cruel. These these were my friends. These were my classmates, these were my professors, my bosses, my supervisors, and yes, even my relationships, in this case with women. It can happen with uh, and your demographic is women. 99% of my clients, by the way, are women, and it will happen with them drawing the same kind of people as well. So, going back to this, I was thinking, wow, I thought this bullying pattern's gonna end, but it's continuing. I said, Well, you know what? It's better to have horrible, narcissistic, mean, cruel, manipulative friends than no friends at all. That was my crazy logic at the time, but at the time, that's all I knew. Okay. So let me reflect back to my childhood again, and all the pieces of this mysterious puzzle will fit together. So, as I was growing up as a kid, also, my father, I didn't realize, was under a lot of stress, but he didn't want to share that on his family because he was the main supporter financially of the family. And he was a new, he was an immigrant to this country from India, both my parents. So he wanted to fit in properly. But he was under a lot of stress, so I used to give him his blood pressure medications every morning with this coffee, and it was supposed to help with other issues too. Um, so I give it to him every morning thinking, okay, this is gonna help him, this is gonna help him. But then when I became a teenager, my sister and I, suddenly at the age of 51, he suddenly died of a massive heart attack, just like that. So my my yes, thank you. My mother was an instant widow with two teenage kids, okay? Um I was probably seven, yeah, 17, 18, and my sister was 15. So my sister and I looked at each other and I said, we looked at each other and said, How did this happen? Why did this happen? Then there was a pause and we both looked at each other at the same time, we're both very connected, and said, How can we prevent this from happening to anyone else in the future? Now we were just teenagers. Well, fat we that put a vision out, this is all connect into the future. We said, you know what? We're gonna make some kind of center where we go to the natural root of this. In other words, he was taking all the pharmaceutical medications, didn't work at all. Now my mom doesn't have a husband, we don't have a father. But guess what? Maybe we can create something like that, a place like that that can go to the natural root cause where there's no side effects. Okay, it was just an idea. Fast forward after he passed down, passed on, my father, my sister said, I'm going to study medicine and in and I'm going to find a way to heal people in a natural way. Okay? So I'm going to go through med school, residency, the whole works, which is 20 to 15, 20 years, just so I can practice natural medicine, which nobody does like that. So I was inspired by her, but I became an engineer because my father was an engineer, almost like contribute to him. But I I just didn't know any different. So I became an engineer in the field, improving productivity and efficiency in all these different companies. The CEOs loved me. Wow. But then as I was seeing all the people my sister was healing of all these medical, different, complex medical conditions, and they're getting resolved with no side effects. Then I said, Oh wow, we're able to do she's able to do with these people what she couldn't do with our father. I would like to also switch from this left-brain engineering into that. Yes, I'm improving productivity efficiency, but maybe I can, if I heal a person, the person that they're with transforms all their lives, you know, because that person's now happy, they don't have to take care of them, and they can help other people too. And so I think that's more inspiring to me. So I said, we found my sister and I formed a partnership to form the Chari Center of Health, which you mentioned in the beginning of the show, which is an integrated functional medical center going to the root cause in a natural approach way. But I didn't know how I could fit in because I didn't have a medical degree or a tech, you know, to heal people. That's right. So remember I read about those books on law of attraction I talked about in the beginning because I wasn't stuck in the library hiding from the bullies. Yes. So I suddenly said, wait a minute, I read books on the law of attraction. Maybe I could try this. So this is what I did. Universe, can you somehow help me with my gifts and talents in engineering to somehow heal people in that center my sister and I formed a partnership in to heal people in some way. That was it. It was kind of that's as simple as it was. Well, guess what? Two weeks later, some friends came up to me and said, Deepak, this guy's gonna be speaking in Santa Monica, California, at the time we lived in San Diego, California, about how your voice reveals all your limiting emotional patterns like anxiety, stress, fear, depression, phobias, emotional trauma, emotional triggers, self-sabotage, whatever, guilt, shame, from your voice. And it'll pattern out, create a computerized voice map of your subconscious mind, show you what the emotion is, but most importantly, you would know what frequencies to send to that person, and this work is done remotely, to release that limiting pattern, regardless of how long they've had the pattern. One year, two years, twenty years, sixty-five years, like one lady I had. You can release it. So I got, I got excited. Oh my gosh. I went up to the guy speaking, I said, I would like to apprentice with you. And he goes, hmm, you know what? I'm gonna just gonna take on one more person. There's only like a handful, literally, I was one of the handful of people, and that's it. I was in the right place at the right time. So I was apprenticed in this technique using advanced voice biofeedback, which you mentioned, and he he watched me in the trenches working on people with anxiety, depression, fears, phobias, emotional trauma, and clearing it. So he goes, I think you got it. And I go, good. Then I thought, wait a minute. Maybe I can streamline things. I did this engineering degree, maybe I can make some use of it somehow. That's right. Yeah so maybe I can streamline some steps, take out some other things, you know, make it more efficient. And I did. That's what I called, as you mentioned, my life transformation technology program. Because it took his concept of what he did in his original program and made it something my own. So that's so good. And then I thought, remember, I was bullied my whole life, remember that? For all you listeners and viewers, I thought, what if patients, this is a program. Like it seemed like this is what I was destined to, but if this is a program, like in the movie The Matrix, do you all remember the mute matrix, y'all?

SPEAKER_02 9:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 9:58

About Neo and Morpheus? So I would be like Morpheus working on myself, and I'm also Neo too in this case. So I worked on myself with the same technique I worked on others successfully, and the voice map showed that the pattern was cleared, and I felt a sense of relief, which is what happens when you clear the pattern. So I said, Well, okay, it looks like I cleared it, let's see what happens. Well, within two weeks later, those mean, horrible, narcissistic, mean, manipulative people, remember all those people every in every area, shape, and form, they suddenly all at the same time started saying to me, Deepak, we don't want to be around you anymore. You don't fit with us. But my relationship abruptly left me. All those friends that I thought were horrible just abandoned me. Everybody left me. So I thought, wait a minute, now I'm alone. I thought I'm supposed to have these horrible people in my life. But guess what? In those two weeks' time that they were leaving, these other people suddenly appeared out of nowhere that were loving, nurturing, compassionate, caring, positive, optimistic, motivating. And by the way, patients, I had no concept of what a loving, caring person is. And why I share that with your listeners and viewers and listeners is that even if you have never you tracted the same horrible, narcissistic, mean, manipulative kind of people like I did in my life, and you don't even know what a loving relationship is, because maybe you had a childhood with you had dysfunctional childhood with fighting parents and other stuff like that, then you can still have it. Yes, you can still have that ideal relationship. I've done it for many others. So that's I just that's why I wanted to share that story, inspiring story. So I attracted these wonderful people in my life. I had no concept of what that was. So I go, oh my God, it is a program. It is a program. So you're not destined to live that life. So then I got so excited and said, okay, now I'm gonna go to town in our center. So I worked on one person after another, till hundreds of people all over the US and all over different countries in the world because of the journey I started with, thousands of people later.

SPEAKER_02 11:55

That's an incredible story and transformation for you as well.

SPEAKER_01 12:00

Totally.

SPEAKER_02 12:01

That's incredible. And I have a couple questions for you, just on that journey of self-discovery, of realizing that there were some patterns that you were experiencing in your life that may have stemmed from childhood, that may have continued on in adulthood. But what was before you and and just to take a couple steps back, before you got into the program, how were you able to even identify that something was wrong? Like, how were you able to pinpoint that these people that I have in my life are narcissistic, basically bullies that have followed me from childhood into adulthood or manifested themselves into my adulthood? Like, what were the key things that you could could name to help some people who may be in the same place that are maybe don't even know that they're dealing with people like this that they need to basically change internally to get rid of.

SPEAKER_01 12:56

Right, right. Well, and I'll talk about that and also something I wanted to share with all your viewers and listeners, which I think they'd be fascinated with. I have discovered through this process in my own journey that there are four phases that we all go through. And it's those four phases that determine what I drew into my life and why that happened. So if I explain these four phases, I think it'll explain why that even happened to me or why it happens with many of you, the people who are following you as well.

SPEAKER_02 13:24

Oh, this is what we need. This is what we need.

SPEAKER_01 13:26

This was the secret that showed that to me. And in this, and I only I felt something was wrong because intuitively there's something within us that says, something is not right. Maybe I'm done, maybe this is how my life is. I this is the kind of what you call friends, but it just didn't feel right. But plus, I would see other people who had wonderful loving, nurturing relationships because maybe their functional upbringing was different. And so they had, so I said, wait a minute, those people are a lot nicer. These horrible people around me, they must, is it just this how it is? This is the kind of people I'm I deserve, because I felt I didn't deserve it, uh, that anything better than that. So let me explain these four stages, and I think it'll explain the mystery of how I even drew that pattern and why many of your wonderful listeners who are wonderful, compassionate, caring women, are drawing these challenging situations and relationships in their life. It could be situations too, not only relationships.

SPEAKER_02 14:19

You know, like so Deepak. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 14:21

See what I'm getting at? Like, why do all these negative things happen to me? Situations. Yeah, it doesn't happen to this other person. Okay, here it is. Because of my self-journey, I found out there's four phases we all go through. Now, the first phase is when your parents decide to procreate you. And I know I'm being kind of direct and blunt here, but I'm talking from a quantum science perspective. So, in the moment your parents are procreating you, you're just like this energy being, you're almost like invisible, sort of. Whatever unresolved emotion emotions that your father and mom had in that moment. So, for example, if your father was like, gosh, you know, I'm not where I want to be in life. I'm very frustrated, and I'm not so happy with the woman I'm with, too. I know I probably could have done better, and she's just not what I wanted. Um, and uh, and I'm also somebody took my position. I should have been much more advanced than this. And I came from a traumatic childhood which I never really cleared in my life. Okay, all of a certain percentage of all those unresolved emotions gets downloaded in that moment in the process of procreation from the dad. And what if the mom was thinking, gosh, you know, I'm not I wasn't ready to have a kid. I I guess I'm pregnant, but I wasn't ready, or this is too soon, and I wanted to jet set around the world and do other things. I'm not so happy in the relationship with this man either. He's not an ideal man, but maybe, you know, he'll change with this kid. Maybe he'll bring us together, you know, whatever it was going on. So those unresolved issues from the mom go in. That's phase one. But guess what? I also discovered the unresolved emotions, and this is key, from the grand a certain percentage from all the grandparents parents get downloaded to the kid energy field as well.

SPEAKER_02 15:59

Wow.

SPEAKER_01 15:59

So I'm talking about the mom's mom, mom's dad, dad's mom, and dad's dad. And if the kid is adopted, it would be both the biological and the adoptive parents. So a certain percentage of those unresolved emotions from the grandparents get downloaded from the kid to the kid. Now, what if the adult who was a kid at one time says to me, Deepak, my grandparents all died before I was born, so we can skip that part. They didn't have because I didn't know them at all. I'll say, Sir or ma'am, it doesn't matter if you knew them or not. It has no difference whatsoever. Your subconscious mind is way beyond that. It's in the it's in your energy field. So let's say the grandfather was depressed or anxious or traumatized or angry about life or fearful, you gotta watch your back. You can't trust people, they're gonna take your money, or you know, um, it's a doggy dog world out there. You gotta push, push, push, you know, uh, you gotta manipulate, you gotta be aggressive, you know.

SPEAKER_02 16:54

Whatever so familiar.

SPEAKER_01 16:57

Am I talking to the choir? See what I'm saying? So so all those fears, which are illusionary from the grandparents, and all, or if they were maybe addicted to different kinds of substances or issues, things like that that they never got over. Certain percentage of those unresolved emotions and patterns, behave, ways of looking at things, how they see life. Is it a scary world out there? Is it a frustrating world out there? People take advantage of that, downloads to the kid too, by the way. And I thought I'd throw this out to your viewers and listeners so you can connect to this better. How many times, patients, have you seen grandchildren who walk, act, and talk like the grandparent? Okay? So, for example, I've seen this many times. You see this little kid, and they go, and but you he's a kid, but he his grandpa Joe died before he was born. But he kind of talks like Grandpa Joe. He tilts his head sideways like Grandpa Joe. He has the kind of personality, kind of a slow, kind of moving kind of personality. And the parents are like, uh, I don't know. They talk faster. I don't know why this kid is talking like that. He's talking like, where did he get this from? That's Grandpa Joe's direct personality. How could that be? It bypassed us, it looks like, and came to him. Yeah, a lot of times that happens. I can, and I can actually quantify this with my technology.

SPEAKER_02 18:11

That is actually amazing. So I actually have a son, and we joke all the time about how he looks like the splitting image of his grandpop, right? He looks more like his grandpa than he does meet me and my husband. Interesting. Interesting. So you're right. You're so right about that. So, and and I know we're at point two, but um for those people right now who are thinking like, oh crap. Like, you know, no idea we don't want all these things to get passed down. You know, we don't we don't want the things from like the generations before to get passed down, but this this is the reality, right?

SPEAKER_01 18:42

But this is the reality, but there is a solution, which I'll talk about too as well. Um there's a challenge, but there's also a solution. So whenever I tell a challenge, I'll always give a solution too. Okay, but the thing is, reality is is important because if you see if you're in your garden, you say, Deepak, there's no weeds in my garden. There's never any weeds, they never come in my garden. Well, reality check. There's a weed right there, there's a weed right there, there's this dandelion right there. Well, no, I don't see them. Well, you can say you don't see them, but they're right there. You want me to pluck them for you? That's right. Okay, so instead of denying it, you know, um, I'm just saying, being a realist and say, okay, those patterns are there. Once we accept that this is there, then we can know a we'll have a corrective plan of action, you know, instead of denying it. Because denial is one of the patterns, by the way. You know, denial. Oh, there's no problems, I'm fine, deep. Yeah. That's okay. Grandpa Joe might have said that he was fine, but maybe he wasn't so fine, you know, that pattern downloaded that. This is the other thing. If the grandparents had resolved their issues, which they thought, oh, I don't have any problems, it's you grandkids that have the problem. If they resolved their issue, whatever it is, addictions, uh, anger management, sadness, depression, then the next generation would get the resolve. Okay? But again, that hasn't happened in all the thousands of people I worked on. So, but the good news is we can take, we can clear it. So, okay. So, phase one, I told you, right? You get the imprints of your parents and grandparents uh in the moment of procreation. Okay? Now, phase two, what's that? Phase two is when you're in your mom's womb for nine months incubating and downloading everything your mom is feeling. Every thought, emotion, reaction in every fraction of a second is downloaded to the kid. So if your mom was thinking, gosh, I wasn't ready for this kid, I wish it didn't have the kid yet. Even if the mom never said anything to the kid, what do you think the message is to the kid? I wasn't wanted, I should have never been born. Yeah, they'll get that message. Or what if the parents are fighting? The kid's in the womb. Hey guys, I can hear you guys fighting. I know what's going on. You think you don't, I'm not born yet, but I hear everything and I feel everything too. And if your mom was thinking, gosh, I'm not so happy in this relationship, maybe this may not work, or the kid will pick all that up. Okay, so that's phase two. Okay, already phase two. This is two. Now phase three. Phase three, what's that? That's when you're born into the world. Okay? Now, phase three, you're born into the world. So what happens now is you have the direct interface of the parents andor grandparents, teachers, uncles, aunts, people older than us that are influencing us. And I've studied it even more. The ages that influence us the most is from age time you're born to the time you're 12, but especially from 0 to 7, especially. Why? Because from age 0 to 7, you're in what's called a theta state, an alpha theta state. That means your brain is in the most receptive state to absorb anything. You can you can create a Mozart, you can create the most talented, gifted dancer, singer, artist in the world, but you can also, if you're not aware, create trauma or challenges in the kid's life in the same way. So if the other way is very common, also, um, because if the parent And said, gosh, you know, I you didn't get the talent genes in the family, I guess, huh? Well, might have skipped you maybe in this generation, huh? Why can't you be like the Do you see that girl across the street? Look how beautiful she is. Look how talented she is. Look how well she speaks. She even sings. I guess you weren't able to do that. Look how good she is in school. Couldn't you be like her? You know? Why don't you why don't you aspire to be like her? What do you think the message to that kid is? I'm not good who I am as myself. I have to be and act like somebody else because I'm not good enough. I'm not, you know, or I'm not worthy of love. What if the parents never showed love to the kid? The kid doesn't even know what love is. And maybe the parents didn't know what it is either. Well, what kind of relationships do you think they may draw into their life? So whatever's told or picked up by the kid from age zero to seven, especially up to age 12, is accepted as a gospel truth, no negation whatsoever, no matter how crazy it is. And unfortunately, I've worked with a lot of people who are adults now who had different kinds of abuse, unfortunately, and mental, emotional, physical abuse. And so those imprints were in there. So that, but those can be cleared, but I just want to mention that. So the zero to twelve, okay? Now then there's the last phase, phase four. Now what's phase four? Phase four is when you take what I talked about in phase one, two, and three. Now you duplicate those phases into your own life, create the same patterns that your parents and grandparents did in their lives, into your own life, and then into your kids' lives. That's phase four. So this cycle continues over and over again. I had a lot of data behind this. So this program, which I call my life transformation technology program, which you mentioned earlier, is like a rocket ship, like breaks you out of that into a whole new, instead of that repeating, but into a whole new realm where you're creating completely new patterns, situations, and and events in your life that are strengthening you, making you more confident, going to higher levels. The past patterns of the past will not follow you. You're going to create new patterns for yourself and for your kids. A whole new evolution. But taking the wisdom of the past, but none of that negative baggage. So that's why I created that program, that the solution to this.

SPEAKER_02 24:39

So, what is the first step, Deepak? What's the first step to breaking this cycle? How do we actually begin that journey if we feel right now we are in on a world that has been a result of a lot of bad decisions and patterns in our lives?

SPEAKER_01 24:57

The first thing that I would recommend is to be aware that something is not happening the way it should be. Because if we accept how things are, we're just going to create more of the same thing. And that's known as denial. Okay. Um, if someone says, Well, Deepak, that's the way life is. And I have found the contrary. No, it will be like that if you don't change anything. You may have heard of the word karma. Have you heard of that word? Karma. Some people say to me, because it dates back to India, like tons of many tens of thousands of years ago, that's my karma. That means that's what I was destined to be. That's why I have this tragic, traumatic life, drawing these horrible relationships in my life, horrible situations.

SPEAKER_02 25:44

This is what it is.

SPEAKER_01 25:45

This is yeah, that line. This is what it is. That's how it is. I have an answer to that. The answer is yes, that's how it is for you if you continue to stay in that path. True. That means that is your karma. But this is my definition, patience. My definition of karma is the word program. Back in the day, maybe 10,000, 20,000, 50,000, 100,000 years ago, nobody knew what the word program is, like we do in today's society. But if karma is a program, a computer program of how you lived your life, those four phases I talked about, that was repeating over and over again hundreds of years, then if you don't make any change or do anything different, yes, the pattern will continue. The subconscious will keep you in that box and it'll continue, guaranteed. So you that's your karma. But what if you work with me, for example? Here's an example with my life transformation technology program and clear those patterns. Now you're a rocket ship blasting out of that. Now you're going to create whole new situations. Now you have a different program. You have a good karma. Some people, not a bad karma. Well, a program is a program. It's just our judgment of what it is, right? A computer program. Has anyone ever said, oh, that's a bad computer program? No, they'll say, oh, that's a program that has some viruses or it's corrupt or whatever. No one said that's a bad program. So it's just a program that has not been, it's limiting for us. It's we're not, there's no growth or it's stagnation, or we're taking it downhill. But if we change that program and make it positive, then suddenly that program is a wonderful program, that same program, right? So it's just a matter of first step is to be aware that something needs to change. I cannot keep doing the same thing. Awareness is the first step. And that's where I can come in because I've gone through all these challenges and I've had a lot of 20 years of experience of clearing these patterns. I have a blueprint of how for each person we can change that programming I was talking about, that karma, that programming. So then it's all good. So you see what I'm saying? How we certain words we give connotation with?

SPEAKER_02 27:49

I see, and the light truly is coming on, no pun intended, right? Thank you, thank you. It's so phenomenal, Deepak. And I I'm curious, you know, for me as a learner, sometimes hearing the success or sort of barring the faith of other people is really helpful. So just from your program, do you have any notable experience or notable story from uh I guess that's what you say, one of your clients, right? Yeah. Um that can sort of speak to this transformation so listeners can sort of see themselves in that story.

SPEAKER_01 28:20

Yes. I had um have so many beautiful stories, but I'll tell this one story. I think my relate to your listeners and viewers. This woman came to me, she's a very sweet woman, um, but she had a very uh traumatic childhood growing up, uh, with parents who were fighting all the time, bitter divorce, uh yelling, screaming, physical, verbal, mental abuse. I mean, with the parents. So in her life, those fit forward phases kind of kicked in, the ones I talked about earlier. So she drew these horrible, narcissistic, neurotic, as she said, condescending, manipulative, gaslighting, cruel, mean um men in her life. So, and and she had she would have a divorce, which was you know very bitter, and then she'd have the person on the property and have to have you know those orders, restraining orders from them coming. And then after that, she said, okay, now I got to the divorce, now I'm gonna go for some new new people. Now I'm fresh out of that. But then she drew the same kind of people narcissistic, mean, abusive, manipulative, controlling, negative, every name of the book, gaslighting, over and over again. Okay, so she got so frustrated and somehow she found out about my work. So she so she came came to me and I do this work remotely. I used to do it in office, but now it's remote with all the same benefits. So she said, Deepak, I keep drawing the same horrible mean people and situations in my life over and over again. I want I want to get the kind of relationship I always wanted. I said, I listened to her voice and I mapped it out. I said, it's because of your ancestral programming, imprint programming from your parents, grandparents. I explained those four phases. But the good news is I have a plan to clear those four phases. So I worked on her, was working on clearing those four phases. And as I was doing it in the process over the next couple weeks, she's all suddenly those that relation these relationships were transformed. The old ones left, decided to just abruptly leave her. But then these wonderful men started appearing. She'd never had that in her whole life. So she said, Deepak, in the first couple weeks of working with you, I got this wonderful men. There's several actually. I think this is it. I said, Whoa, you're doing great. Go out, have fun, go dancing, do all the things you want to do, but don't go all the way yet. Just hang on with me. We're just starting our journey. She says, but I didn't know I could have men like this. Just hang on with me. We just started. You're doing great. So I would work with her some more, clear more deeper patterns and her light. And then those men, then these other men came. They were, she goes, Deepak, these men are even un I didn't think it could get better than this. These are just so wonderful. Carring music to someone's ears right now. Yeah, isn't it? So they were much more, and she couldn't, she's like, Deepak, I mean, let maybe I should just go for this now. I said, I know where you are because I can see the forest and the trees. Hang with me. But go out, dance, go out, date, whatever, but just hang with me. So we kept going forward and they kept getting better and better. Then she came to me one time and said, Deepak, I think I have found my dear soul soulmate. I said, Well, show me his picture. I looked tuned into energy and I like I think so. Yeah, now it looks good. Um, but she had, you know, gone through all those things because I can see the forest in the trees of someone.

SPEAKER_02 31:29

So that's so powerful, Deepak. I gotta I gotta stop you here.

SPEAKER_01 31:32

Yeah, go ahead.

SPEAKER_02 31:33

We need people in our lives who can say to us, I don't think so. Not yet. Just keep doing some more work because a lot of times we'll have people around us that are enabling our bad behaviors or encouraging us to repeat the same cycles. But you're saying that in addition to the technology side of it, and I want to get into the remote understanding of how that actually works so people can know like what that would be like for them. Sure. But there's a there's a human side to it, right? Where you're actually a friend in the process, letting you know, hey friend, not yet. Yeah, I know you're ready to jump out there, but let's do some more work. So I love that you have that aspect to your program as well.

SPEAKER_01 32:11

That's right, right. It's a journey with it, it's my program, but it's me with the program. Since I created it, I'm a part of it, and I'm compassionate and caring with each person, and I'm very patient with them. And I care about them dearly. I'm their coach, their guide, their mentor through the process. Because I went through my own challenges, so I understand. Look, I've been on the other side, I know what that's like. And even if maybe people had some worse situations than me, I can, I'm totally there for them all the way. So you're right, I'm there holding their hand, guiding them, you know. So, so that lady then showed me this person. I said, Yeah, now you're in your voice and everything is reflecting that. And she's, you know, it's already 10 years, you know, still going good. So, and I've worked with others, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 32:53

In fact, some people can't make it past 10 days. That's amazing.

SPEAKER_01 32:57

Exactly, exactly. And I was at some one conference with all these women, and somehow some other lady invited me to it, and I said, you know, that's all I was the only one of those only guys there. But then suddenly, out of the blue, this lady who I'd worked on before, who I'd forgotten about, I helped her get her dream relationship, just like another story like this one. And then she suddenly announces, ladies and gentlemen, it was the ladies mostly, ladies, I have something to tell you. And then she holds her hand up to the to the audience. I'm like, oh my god, I remember her. I have to thank, if he's here, I gotta thank Deepak here. He got me engaged to be married. It's because of him that I'm married to. And I'm like, oh, okay.

SPEAKER_02 33:35

I can imagine the roaring screams.

SPEAKER_01 33:38

Yeah. And I was like, oh, oh, I didn't know she, you know, so that was kind of a very cool moment I got, and all these women came up to me. So um, how'd you do that? You know, like that was cool. But I mean, that's people remember it. I forgot I had worked on her before. So it's very kind of cool the kind of things that can happen, you know. Here's another case study. I worked on a lady who was very passionate. She loves poetry, singing, music, dancing, very artistic, and she took care of herself and she was very in good shape and everything. But she had these unfortunate relationships in her life that took away her mojo, took away her drive for life. So she started getting depressed, and she started, went to a psychiatrist, and he gave her all these different um depression meds. So that unfortunately in her case took away all her mojo. She gave up all her singing, music, dancing, writing, um, taking care of her health, and all those things. She gave up everything for 30 years, though. So yeah.

SPEAKER_02 34:35

Oh my goodness.

SPEAKER_01 34:36

For 30 years. So then she somehow that she found that wasn't working for her. So she somehow searched and found about my work. I'm not sure Divine had made it happen. So she came to me and said, Deepak, can you help me? I've been on 30 years of antidepressant medications, but I've lost all my motivation and drive for life. I said, Well, I'm not gonna worry about where you were, let's worry about where I can take you to. So I worked on her, okay, and step by step, and then she said, Deepak, I'm feeling so good. I've never felt like this in my life. Can I get off my antidepressant medications? I said, Well, I'm not a medical doctor, I'm an engineer and biofeedback specialist. Go and talk to your doctor and ask him, you're feeling good. So she went to the doctor and she said, You know, can you take me off this? He goes, Well, let's take it off 30%, but in case we need to go up, we have we already we can always go from there. 30% off. I'm still feeling good, Deepak. And I did more deeper work. See if you can go lower. Okay, hmm, it's unusual. Okay, lower 50%, lower to 75%, then 100%. And she's still flying hot. So she said, Deepak, I'm off of all of it, and I'm feeling great. She started going singing, music, dancing, dating, working out, taking care of her health, got back to her toned body, looking fantastic. So she she got off of all those medications, she got back to her passion of life. Now, this is the interesting twist of the story. She saw one of her girlfriends who had seen her when she was at her lowest state, right? 30 years before. So her girlfriend, who hadn't seen her in those 30 years, saw her now after I'd worked on her. So she looked at her and she goes, Oh my god, girlfriend. She said, What? I don't believe this. But you look the same as when you did 30 years ago, except you look better.

SPEAKER_02 36:13

No way.

SPEAKER_01 36:15

I mean I can't I can't make this up. This is what happened. And she goes, Okay, tell me his name. What do you mean, tell me his name? He did a fan. The plastic surgeon worked on you. What do you mean? Look at it, look at the look at the eyes, look at the cheekbones. Okay, he did a good job. He's really good. It looks so natural. What's his name? No, no, no. His name is Deepak Chari. He's not a he's not a plastic surgeon, he's a he works with voice. I know, yeah, yeah. Don't hold back from me, she said. She thought I'm a plastic surgeon. Now, get so think about this for your viewers and listeners. If you release those the weight of those emotions that are really causing us to look at life, you know, and weighing on us, which weigh on us in this way, too, the sagging skin all, if we take that weight off, then suddenly everything goes back to before you had those emotional challenges. See what I'm getting at?

SPEAKER_02 37:11

You are the answer to many women's prayers, knowing that you even exist and the way that you are articulating the realities of life, it is making it very simple enough for us to identify in these areas to know how when we need to go get this support deback. So thank you for making it straight to the point, simple. You release the weight, you release some of the weight in the face, and things get better. I think that's just so helpful, the simplicity of that. Thank you.

SPEAKER_01 37:41

Absolutely. And plus, I would work on people in the beginning and they didn't realize they were leaning like this and the shoulders were and every session, every session, every session. And I'll say to the person, by the way, you're and you and you get a voice, by the way, when you work with me, you I guarantee you this, you will get a voice like you've never had in your life. I will release the full potential for your voice, which you never would have had when I until I release these patterns. So I'll say to them, Did you know you're sitting straighter and your head's up and your shoulders are back? Oh no, Deepak, I always sit like this. What are you talking about? I said, No, I saw you from the beginning, okay? I know. No, no, I always sat like this. They forget. Because when we release these patterns, the body adapts to where you are. So they forgot that they used to sit like that or walk like that. And another you might be interested in this too. This is based on the concept of your voice. When I cleared these limiting patterns of emotions that I was talking about that you've had your whole life, I told you you'll get a voice like you've never had before. Because the science of this is this. When you have those limiting emotions, guilt, shame, anger, resentment, sadness, you know, whatever it is, self-sabotage, different emotions, this is the science of this work, squash different keys of your keyboard. So we have, let's say, 60 trillion cells in our body or so, right? A lot of cells, right? Imagine each cell patient has a keyboard in it of 12 keys, like a piano keyboard. Now, different emotions squash different keys in your voice, like anger set squashes different keys, sadness squashes different keys, grief squashes different keys, so on and so forth. If you have a couple different emotions, a lot of the keys are squashed, which means you are not heard. Those keys are not playing. If you're not heard, you're not seen. And if you're not seen, you're not acknowledged. Okay? So when I release those emotional patterns that are squashing those keys, then your voice is truly heard in a way it's never been heard. Okay? I'm telling you, it's really powerful. Can I share this quick story?

SPEAKER_02 39:41

Because you're with Yes, that's extremely powerful. We want to know more. We want to hear more.

SPEAKER_01 39:45

Yeah, this is very inspiring, especially for the women. I worked on this woman executive, okay, who in this case worked with men. Different men executives. She's a brilliant woman. I'd say more brilliant than the men, frankly. Um, okay. So she had some great ideas of how they could take their business to another quantum level by eliminating certain things and improving improving things. She told them they didn't listen to her at all. So she was so frustrated. So guess what? They did their own strategy, which was not what she recommended at all. She said, Whatever you do, don't do this. And they they didn't hear a word she said, so they did their own thing. So they lost tons and tons of money. I'm probably millions, hundreds of thousands. So anyway, they were so, gosh, I know I thought that was gonna work, it didn't work. So she said, Men, I told you what to do. You didn't listen to me. I didn't hear you say anything. So she came to me, somehow found out by work. She said, Deepak, I'm so frustrated. These men, I had a way to not only not lose money, but to make tons of money. And they didn't listen to a word I said. Why? I told her, you know what? I'm listening to your voice. This is what I do for a living for the last 20 years, but I don't hear you in your full potential. And if I don't hear you and this is what I do for a living, I guarantee you they didn't hear a word you said. So they didn't value you, okay? That's what the most common thing I hear from women. I'm not seen, heard, acknowledged, appreciated, validated, understood, and given importance. The most common thing I hear. And that's the reason why. So I worked on releasing those limiting emotional patterns, which originally came from childhood, as I mentioned. And then I said, okay, now I can hear your voice really well. I want you to talk to those men again. Deep Hug, are you kidding me? I said, I know they lost the money in that deal, but you're an innovative woman. You'll you'll have some other innovative ideas, how they can get out of the hole, maybe do better. She goes, Well, actually, you're right. I do. I said, I know you do. So she went and I said, But why don't you report what happened? So she went to those men and said, Man, guys, you didn't listen to a word I said, but I have a solution of the mess you created. This is what you can do to reverse it to get you back to ground zero, and this is what you can do to go above that. Then this time when she told these men, oh my God, that is the most incredible idea I ever heard. Oh my God. And they applied what she did, and it was very successful. And then they said, Wow, you're right. You know what? If you had given us ideas on that first approach, we would have never lost money to begin with. So she turned her eyes to the ceiling but smiled, knowing that she was not the same person. She's a different person, woman than she was before. Her full potential came out. So now from then onwards, they listen to every word she said and she was promoted. So I tell that story to the women listeners because that's a common, common thing that I've heard from a lot of the women. Can you relate to what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02 42:28

Absolutely, Deepak. There are so many versions of ourselves, especially as women, that we, you know, cycle through throughout the course of a day, right? Multiple hats that we have to wear. And myself, you know, I'm a creative, I'm also a corporate woman, you know. So there's a lot of hats that I'm managing. So just in this one conversation, I feel like I can relate to each and every one of these women's stories, and I know the same is felt from my listeners. And I have hope for you ladies who are listening and men who are listening as well. Deepak is actually offering a hundred dollars gift certificate towards his initial set of sessions. So Deepak, you can share more about that. But if you're listening right now and you want to have the same success that these women have had and their stories of transformation, Deepak, how can we get in touch with you and be a part of your program?

SPEAKER_01 43:19

Wonderful, absolutely. Uh patience. So what they can do is you can go to my website, which is www.fastanxietyhelp.com. And that is F-A-S-T-A-N-X-I-E-T-Y help H E L P dot com. And if you go to that website, you can sign up for a complimentary 15 minute consult with me. No obligations. I will we'll connect, I will listen to your what's going on, your stories of what's going on in your life and what you would like to have in your life, and I will offer a customized plan, which I do for each person uniquely, of how I can take you from the challenge you are now to the glory. Place and wonderful freedom place you'd like to be at, and I will map it out for you. And again, no obligations, but this way you'll have a blueprint I'll create for you of how I can take you from where you are to where you want to be. And so that's what I offer everyone. And also when you go to my website, check out my testimonials because you'll see plenty there, and you might be able to connect to some of the different people and where they were and where they are now as well.

SPEAKER_02 44:25

That's phenomenal. And I was going to bring it up in one of your case studies. You you mentioned to the woman, I think it was the creative woman that you were you were mentioning when you said this, but I'm not concerned about where you were. I'm just concerned about where you're going because you're headed somewhere, right? And I think we need more people like that in our lives who are speaking to the version of ourselves that we can become, not who we are, not who we were, but what that version of ourselves that we struggle to see sometimes. And I feel like you're coupled with this technology. And I want to just dig into that a little bit more because I'm sure somebody has a question, like, so how does this actually work? What is a technology? Where does the technology piece come in? What is it actually gonna look like? Am I gonna be strapped up to a machine or what is it? What is the actual experience so we can know and prepare ourselves for when we get ready to sit down with you? So if we could just take a second to dig into the reality of what it actually feels like to be in the program.

SPEAKER_01 45:18

Absolutely. That's a great question. What is the experience like working with me? So in our sessions, which are all remote now, done from the comfort of your home or favorite location. So what we do is you just need a laptop with windows, you need a headset with the swing down mic, which I will tell you, you can get it from Amazon. It's like not very inexpensive. A technology I would send to you, it's called a hand cradle that you plug into your computer with the USB port. Okay. And the reason for that is I as a practitioner would send that to you. Um, it's a one-time fee for that. You place your hand on that technology, and that's what sends those key frequencies that you specifically would need, that person, into your hand, which is a hand energy center, they call it a chakra. So it'll send the frequencies into your hand, chakra, into every cell, all 60 trillion cells of your body at the same time. So all the cells will be in perfect harmony. Because when we have these limiting emotions or limiting thought or behavioral patterns of thinking, those cells are out of tune, out of harmony. So that's what I do. I reverse engineer and get the cells in every in the notes, those piano keys in every the keyboard in every cell in tune. So whatever is out, whatever is not shouldn't be there, guilt, shame, regret, regret, anger, frustration, cannot coexist, cannot stay in that hotel anymore. It has to be vacated out. Because once everything's in harmony, anything that that shouldn't be there will want to leave your body and you'll actually feel those emotions leaving. So the way a session would work, each session's an hour, I have them close their eyes, place their hand on the technology, they'll have a head set of headphones on with the swing-down mic, they'll listen to certain music which I play, and the music is not the magic. The music is the carrier wave of the frequencies, which they won't hear, but their subconscious does. That's the interesting thing. So they just all they have to do is think about the challenging situation. This person broke up with me. This person yelled at me. I was fired from my job, or some trauma happened, whatever. They think, they feel the emotion of that challenging event. These are done in bursts of about two to three minutes at a time. So they just simply think about it. They don't have to even say any words. And I will work on the back end and I do all the and work on clearing those patterns while they're thinking of the challenging emotion. So, for example, let's say on a scale of one to ten, it was a ten. I can't believe I was betrayed. I can't believe this person cheated on me and left for another per with another person or another woman or something. They're angry about it. On scale of one to ten, it's a ten, it's at the highest level, okay? On my measuring meter. So I said, think about that. Think of that horrible situation that happened. Just feel the emotions of it. And then I will send the frequencies while their eyes are closed. They place their hand on technology, the frequencies go into the hand, resonate every cell of their body while they're thinking of that challenging situation. And a couple minutes later, they'll open their eyes. I'll say, okay, now tell me how you feel about that same situation, that horrible situation you went through. Maybe now from a 10, it dropped to a seven. Maybe this was the bitterness that they they had a breakup from ten years ago, that they're still holding the energy the same today. But in that one moment, maybe it already dropped to a seven. So we do another round that's called a round. And you know, for the next for the hour, next two to three minutes, two to three minutes, seven, five, four, three, you know, then finally down to a level one or zero. Um, it may, if it doesn't happen in one session, it might drop to a huge level less, and then maybe the next session we take it down. But no, no, no, they might have had that for 20 years. Okay, one lady had a pattern of depression for 65 years. She was 90. She had the pattern for 65 years. She couldn't clear it with any kind of other therapy she did. Talk therapy in her case. So she came to me and I was able to clear it in a couple months, doing only one session a week. So what I'm trying to say is that's how it drops down. So that's how a day in the life of a session with me. Does that help explain it a little bit?

SPEAKER_02 49:10

It really does. And and Deepak, so is there a certain number of sessions that you recommend, just standard across the board from anybody, or is it each person has their own unique journey and they have to sort of figure that out for themselves?

SPEAKER_01 49:24

Great question. Because if we were a robot, and personally I like working with humans, not robots, um, then I could say this is how many sessions to clear the, but we are not a robot. We're a mental, emotional, spiritual, a very high-level being. We're more advanced than a robot. So it will vary from person to person. However, I have a baseline of nine foundational sessions. Because what I do in these sessions is the first half hour of the first hour and a half session, I will map out the imprints you picked up from, I'll create voice maps of your conscious mind, your subconscious mind, of your mom, your dad, and your all the relationships you've had, and all of your grandparents. I will create voice maps of that. And I will show you, and it'll even show percentages of perception of the belief systems that you picked up from all those people and why you think the way you do, and why you draw the things in your life the way you do. You know, a lot of times we'll say, Well, Deepak, this is my view of the world. I'll say, Really? Okay, let me tell you what the real deal is. This is your view of the world is 70% influenced by dad, 85% influenced by mom, 92% influenced by your father's father, who died before you were born, and and 89% influenced by your mother's mother, who also died before you were born, and you mix that in the soup, and that is your opinion of the world. Is it really your opinion? Is it? It's theirs. And you you're calling it your own. So when we release those limiting imprints and patterns, then it is truly your way of looking at the world, which is totally usually different than the way it was, than the actual reality. So we work on clearing the imprints of all those things. So that's what half hour of the first session, we map out where these patterns came from. It'll also explain in your life why things happened the way they did, why you drew those certain situations. Then we have a plan of clearing the imprints you picked up from your mom. It may take a couple sessions because you know they formed your whole lifetime of belief systems up to age 12. So we clear it might take two or three sessions to clear that. Dad, two or three sessions, and then we cleared the key childhood events, which we've all had. Like I was bullied, but other people had different abuses, unfortunately, and different issues or challenges or trauma. So we cleared those childhood events, you know, zero to twelve I talked about. And then by then you would have probably got close to nine sessions, the foundational, if that makes sense. Then from there, we clear what's going on in your life now, current and past relationship people that you had. We clear the energy of those. Because if you don't clear the energy of the current or past relationships, they will repeat. I'm just telling you. So we clear that, and then lastly, the cherry on top, we clear the imprints of the key grandparents. We don't have to do all of them, but the ones that had the most charge. Then you are liberated from the matrix. You're gonna live a life that none of your parents or grandparents ever lived, and you're gonna create a new future for yourself and for your kids.

SPEAKER_02 52:18

This is so inspiring and just so exciting to know that there is a way forward that even if you feel in this moment, it feels like nothing is ever gonna change. It feels like you keep repeating the same loop over and over again, and it feels like how am I ever actually gonna create the life that I truly want and desire for myself and my kids? Deep has a solution. And if you reach out to him and connect with him at his website and let him know that you are coming from the Healing Her Halo show, you can mention my name and he will take care of you. He absolutely will take care of you. So, Deepak, this has been a very, very, very enlightening bringing back the light again from your name, truly walking in your purpose. But if there's any final message to help put a spark back into women's halo, or men, if you're listening, um, any women's halo, what would that be?

SPEAKER_01 53:18

This is what I would say. I know all of you, a lot of you women have gone through so much challenge in your life, so much trauma, so much maybe mental, emotional, physical abuse, and so much challenge in your life, or you're drawing negative challenge situations into your life, and it seems hopeless. Regardless of where you went through and what you've come to, know that that was the past, and from this point onwards, everything can be changed. You are not destined to live that challenging life. You weren't you're made to fly and soar with the eagles above and beyond anything that happened before. You are not limited. If you felt like you're a caterpillar your whole life, you can what if I help transform you to the butterfly where you're not limited in any way, shape, or form? It's a complete transformation. So just know that there is hope. Whatever you lived in the past or even up to the present is no uh limit from where you can go in the future. You are limitless.

SPEAKER_02 54:18

Thank you, Deepak. And that is another episode of Healing Her Halo.

SPEAKER_00 54:25

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