Do It Scared: Finding Your Voice, Owning Your Worth & Walking in Purpose

In this powerful and soul-stirring episode of Healing Her Halo, I sit down with GRAMMY®-nominated spoken word artist, author, and creative powerhouse Ty Scott King for a conversation that will reignite your courage and call you higher.

From navigating identity struggles to stepping out on faith, Ty opens up about her journey of rediscovering her voice after transition, learning to sit in silence, and ultimately walking boldly in her God-given purpose.

Together, we dive into:
✨ Why so many women struggle with owning their worth
✨ The truth about fear—and how to move forward anyway
✨ What it really takes to turn your gift into impact (and income)
✨ The power of community, faith, and the right voices in your life
✨ How to balance love, marriage, and purpose-driven work

Ty shares deeply personal moments—from rebuilding after leaving a group, to writing books that changed lives, to hearing her name called as Female Artist of the Year—all while staying grounded in faith and authenticity.

This episode is your reminder that:

You don’t have to have it all figured out—you just have to take the next step.
“Baby steps still count… do something to keep the vision moving forward.”

If you’ve been holding back your voice, your story, or your next move—this conversation is your sign.

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and get ready to do it afraid.

Connect with the show on Instagram: @HealingHerHalo 

Connect with our Guest: @TyScottKing 

Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:00

Welcome to another episode of Healing Her Halo, a women empowerment platform for women who've experienced trauma and the struggles of mental health. This is a safe space to gain guidance on how to navigate through the storms of life and how to stay present in the light when the sun shines again. Be sure to download, share, and subscribe so you can help heal another woman's Halo. Now, here's your host, Patience Murray.

SPEAKER_02 0:25

Welcome to another episode of Healing Her Halo. Today, we are truly honored to be joined by the phenomenal Ty Scott King, a Grammy nominated spoken word artist, best-selling author, poet, rapper, and voiceover artist, an internationally recognized voice of faith, excellence, and purpose. Born in Jamaica and raised in the United States, Ty has graced some of the most prestigious stages, from the Pentagon to the Potter's House, sharing platforms with legends like Whitney Houston and Kurt Franklin, her voice has reached millions through major networks like BET, TV1, and TBN, billboard chart placements and collaborations with global brands like T-Mobile, McDonald's, and the U Version Bible app. And her impact continues to rise, being honored as the 2025 Florida Gospel Music Awards Female Artists of the Year and the 2025 Kingdom Image Awards Best Female Vocalist, along with multiple nominations this year, recognizing her excellence across music, faith, and culture. Often hailed as the Maya Angelou of this generation, Ty uses her God-given gift to shift atmospheres, inspire purpose, and remind people everywhere of their worth, their power, and who they are called to be. Ty, thank you so much for rejoining the show.

SPEAKER_01 1:45

Thank you for having me, Pam. Your voice, your presence. I'm just always in awe to be your guest.

SPEAKER_02 1:52

Wow. Ty, you are just so humble and just so sweet. And I think that is really the essence that we all aim to be, but you just truly are that naturally. And where, and I guess to start, where do you get that essence from?

SPEAKER_01 2:09

It's my faith. You mentioned faith several times as you introduced me, and that's really the place where I draw everything good that anyone ever sees in me. It's because God put it in me and He allows me to exude that it's His light that shines through me.

SPEAKER_02 2:28

I love that so much. And speaking of light, you have been lighting up the world, not only on your social media, but also on YouTube, the videos that you've been putting out just to encourage people and help just share that wisdom. And really today, I would love to just get into how you actually have been able to use your voice in such a powerful way to create impact, but also to create an opportunity for yourself to really support yourself. And I think a lot of women who listen to the show, they have a story, they have a voice, they may have a gift, but they don't really know how to make that transition. And I think there may be a conversation around worthiness around that. So I'll just pass it to you in terms of why do you think some women, women don't actually attach, maybe like I want to say a price, but actually put out their worth in the world where they want to receive a value? Is it an identity issue? What do you think?

SPEAKER_01 3:23

Yeah, I I definitely think you hit the nail on the head. I do think it is identity, a conflict or a uncertainty about who they are, why they're here, what they're called to do. Um, there's so many people, even some of the people in my circle who I think are amazing and I can see their gifts and talents, but they don't see them. It's like, oh, well, Ty, you do this, and you're a poet and you're a rapper, and you've been writing your whole life, and you've always known, but I can see things in them so clearly. So I'm always trying to speak life. Like you, like you can find information. I think people people would pay to be able to dig up these things that you're digging up in 30 seconds, like it's no big deal. And so, yeah, it's it's definitely an identity thing. A lot of, and it's I think that's normal. A lot of times we see things in other people, but we don't see it, see those things in ourselves because everyone becomes um a mirror. Like we're we're just looking, gazing into these other people's eyes all the time and seeing how wonderful they are. But that's why you need um really amazing people around you, people who aren't people who don't mind others shining because sometimes you can be around people who will just try to dim, dim your light, you know, and so you need people who will speak to you, foreign to you, see those gifts and challenge you. Because I think that's a lot, a lot of it too, is that sometimes people just aren't being challenged to like really step out, step out of the boat. You and I have had this conversation recently. I think I texted you and I was like, it's time to step out the boat. You know, so some people are just they're they're in the boat, it's comfortable, they know what this boat is like, they know how to adjust to how it's rocking, but to actually step out of that boat, step on the step on the water, like there's uncertainty that comes with that. So I think it's identity and uncertainty. And when we don't address those two things, then we just sit in comfortability. So many ITY things, like identity, comfortability, you know. Um, we have to be willing to basically constantly try to figure out why I am here, what is what is it I'm supposed to do? Because our lives are really beyond us. We're here to serve other people. And how do we serve other people? That's the thing that everyone has to figure out because everyone is gifted in some way, shape, or form. Some people are gifted administratively, and people get paid really well for that. Some people are gifted creatively, some people have multiple gifts. You and I are both multi-hyphenants, and so we have a lot of things to pull on, but people may see a certain gift and covet that gift without realizing, no, you're gifted in this thing too, and it may not be the thing that everybody's shining the spotlight on, but I bet you somebody will pay you for it. So a lot, it's yeah, identity.

SPEAKER_02 6:30

And I'm curious, has there ever been a point in your journey where you have felt like you didn't know how to either access your voice or share your voice with the world? And what did you do? Like, what was what were the first steps that you had to take into putting that out there or just like regaining that confidence in your voice if you if you experienced that?

SPEAKER_01 6:50

Yeah, um, yeah, I had a transition in the mid-2000s, kind of actually late 2000s, that really challenged my identity. And I had attached so much of my gift to a group that I was in that I didn't remember. You started writing poetry when you were eight, Ty. That was a solo endeavor, you know. You you you were a solo artist before you were in this group. And so I did go through a shaking internally, trying to figure out okay, how do I um how do I press through this? How do I continue to use this gift that that I know is mine? Like I I know I have this gift. So what is the angle I need to take? Is it um just getting in front of more people? Is it putting out the album, putting out the book? Like there, there were all these components there. I just didn't necessarily know which one I was supposed to use. And so um, as I just said, I was in a group for many years, but prior to that group, I was a solo poet and I was traveling all over doing poetry. And then I formed the group and traveled all over doing hip hop and poetry, and then I left the group and it was kind of like, okay, well, what now? Now it's like the third act. What is this even supposed to look like? But there was a book in me that I hadn't put out while I was in the group because there just was no room for that. There was no room for a book, it was all about making the music. And so after I sat and just reflected for several months, and it was very uncomfortable because one, I was used to going, going, going, always on this stage and that TV show and that radio show. So now I had to sit with the silence. As I said in one of my poems on my last album, Roots and Wings, sit with that silence, sit with that empty, all of a sudden, empty calendar, and say, okay, what is what what am I supposed to do next? What now? And out of that, I released my first book, which was my poetry book, Scot Free. And that book has been out since 2010, and I still get messages about that book because it came from a very real and sincere place where it was like, I don't know what I'm supposed to do next. I don't know what I'm supposed to do right now. I have no idea, but I that vulnerability, I feel it connected other people to me. So yeah, I definitely have been there. And when you're there, it's it's literally like, well, I may not just like the quote says, you may not know the whole see the whole staircase, but you can at least see this the stair in front of you. Take that step, and that step leads to another step and another step.

SPEAKER_02 9:55

You mentioned something about sitting in the silence. How did you know when it was time to come out of the silence?

SPEAKER_01 10:06

That's a really good question. Um I released my poetry book and I just started writing. And and the things that the poems that were in the poetry book, a lot of those had been written over time. So over all these years, I had compiled all these poems and then I released that. And then I was sitting in the silence, and one day I just felt like it's time to write. When I left the group, I didn't think I would rap. I I figured I'll continue to do poetry, I'll release this book and kind of see what happens next. So, in that window of time between releasing the book and not knowing what was supposed to happen next or what I was supposed to do next, I just started writing. And I was writing songs. And I remember, I remember exactly where I was when I said to a friend, this was before I even knew my husband, this is before any any of those things. I remember saying to a friend, um, I think I'm working on an album. And this friend actually ended up being the the person who um officiated my husband and I's wedding.

SPEAKER_00 11:21

Wow.

SPEAKER_01 11:22

And I said, I think I'm working on an album. And he was like, Yeah, I think you are. And we just went. I was like, I've just been writing a ton of stuff lately. And he's like, That sounds good. It's like a typical therapist. All right, let's let's go with that. Um, I love it, but yeah, that's it. It was just some moment where I was like, I didn't even know these things were in me, and now they're pouring out, and maybe this is what I'm supposed to do. And then I wrote the album and recorded it. All of these unsure steps. I don't feel like there was in that time, I don't think there was anything that was like um there was not this confirmation from other people because I really was being very quiet externally. It was just a lot of internal work going on. And other than that, one yes, I think you are from my friend, it was really just kind of taking shaky steps and hoping that I was walking in the right direction.

SPEAKER_02 12:36

That's so powerful, Ty. And and it comes back to also the people you surround yourself with, right? And who you allow to speak to your life in certain seasons. Because just as powerful as it was to confirm and push you in a way with that, with that confirmation, right? It could have been in a different way as well. And I think a lot of people are surrounded by those and dream killers and people who are speaking against what it is that they feel nudged to do, even if they're unsure. Um, so that certainty that you have, and I know your faith is a big part of that, but you had to take the actual steps. So eve the shaky steps, like you said. So coming out of the group and moving into the solo career and also writing scot-free. First of all, I love that play on words. That is so beautiful. I love that play on words. You are such a wordsmith, and I am so excited to see what you do next. And I know you just finished an amazing album. Can we expect another album?

SPEAKER_01 13:40

Yes, um, some singles are gonna come first, and then another poetry album. So I have a few different concepts of the poetry album, which um I have two, let me not say a few, I have a couple, which I'm going to go for because that usually is what happens first, is that I get the download of the concept, and then it's like, okay, let's go from there. So, yes, there's there's always more to come.

SPEAKER_02 14:09

Well, and and speaking of more to come, so soon you will be performing, correct? At with Sofar Sounds, don't you have a set coming up?

SPEAKER_01 14:18

I do. I have a Sofar Sounds set um this weekend. So exciting. And so I'm really excited about that. It's my second Sofar Sounds show, and for anyone who doesn't know, Sofar Sounds is really a very just think of MTV Unplugged if you if anybody watching remembers those days. If not, it's a very stripped-down set, so it's um not the big uh band type thing. You may just have one or two, you may have someone playing the guitar. My husband will play the guitar for me a bit that night, and um just very laid-back, chill atmosphere, really in tune crowd who's very attentive, and it's ideal for the poetry side of me. Of course, I'm gonna slip some rapping in there, but I was just it's very ideal for the poets. And so uh this will be my second so far sounds show. I I did my first one in Austin, Texas, when uh my husband and I lived there for a bit. And they have these shows all over the world. So sometimes and they're held in secret locations, so people um buy their tickets and they don't know who's performing or the location until I think 24 or 48 hours before. So it's just really it's a really cool concept, and uh this one will be like I'm not gonna say where, but it'll be outside, which I really like. I love doing those shows outside. It's just uh just a really nice spot.

SPEAKER_02 15:54

And can we know which city if anybody wants to buy tickets to support you?

SPEAKER_01 15:59

Yes, yes, Jacksonville, Florida. So far sounds like Jacksonville.

SPEAKER_02 16:05

So all the all of you that are listening who are in the area, please go get your tickets. And again, it's gonna be an amazing surprise and wonderful poetic experience. So definitely I'm jealous because I'm not gonna be able to be there. But if you get to be there, you better tag the show and tag Ty and say, Hey, I came from the New Horror Halo show to support Ty Sky King. Okay, and you also have a you will be there, and I'm gonna tell you why.

SPEAKER_01 16:33

Why? Because I'm doing I'm doing the song that we collaborated on. That's that's I'm doing my poetry part, and I'm gonna have the crowd sing your part. So you you will be there, Pei.

SPEAKER_02 16:46

Thank you, Ty. Y'all, I don't think you I don't think I actually introduced or really mentioned it in this episode. For those of you who have been around for the previous episodes of Healing Her Halo, you may have heard the origin story, but Ty and I actually connected through the Grammy U program through the Recording Academy. And it's been a blessing in my life ever since. And I'm just so grateful for you, Ty. Just to give you your flowers, you are an amazing human being, a wonderful spirit, and I'm just so grateful to be in proximity to someone like you. Thank you. Thank you.

SPEAKER_01 17:21

Thank you, Dan. You are extraordinary. Thank you.

SPEAKER_02 17:26

Thank you. Well, you know what? And I want to get into Doses as well, because this is this is definitely one of my favorite reads to go back to doses. So if you haven't read Doses yet, feel free to go get Doses, love, and friendship in vibrant pieces, right? So I absolutely adore this book. And speaking of just where you were in your life when you wrote this book, because uh I feel like books are such a spiritual form and expression of yourself. For the first book, I know there was this transition from the group into the solo career, but where were you at in your mindset when you wrote Doses?

SPEAKER_01 18:04

Doses is my fourth book. Um, so after the poetry book, I released a children's book. And oh no, that's not true. I released a teen fiction book, and then I released a children's book that became an Amazon bestseller, and then I released Doses, which also became Amazon bestseller. So that's amazing. Congratulations. I gotta catch you up, man. I gotta I gotta put some stuff mail for you. Absolutely. Um, but your question, um, can you tell me again?

SPEAKER_02 18:34

Yes. So, and in terms of where you were in your mindset when you wrote doses, how did you find the confidence to put yourself in print again?

SPEAKER_01 18:45

I really wanted to like these stories were driving me. It's like I would close my eyes and I would hear the voices in my head without sounding crazy. Um I understand, I understand. But these characters became so alive to me that I had to put them on paper. Like I had to tell, and they're they're cute, meet, cute short stories and just romance and deception and friendship. And I just felt like I wanted to give women something that they could laugh at, you know, real experiences, but hardships. I mean, it's all in there, but it they just became so real to me that I wanted everybody else to share to share them and to have these characters that they could look at and like, oh yeah, I'm going through something, but I love how you know she moved through that scenario. And I'll give away a little bit about one of the stories in the book because it was actually based on something that really happened with one of my good, really good friends and I. Basically, there was a guy who was kind of trying to play the both of us, and then we found out and became best friends and like kicked him to the curbs.

SPEAKER_02 20:10

That is crazy.

SPEAKER_01 20:11

Yeah, so it it was based on a a true story, one of those, uh, one of those stories in the book. So there are four four short stories in there, and um yeah, I was just in a really great place and a place where I wanted to bring light to situations like the one I just mentioned that can be kind of tricky, but just to show that God is working in in all of that.

SPEAKER_02 20:38

Absolutely, absolutely, and I wanna and I absolutely love all the stories in the book, so definitely grab your copy. And when you mentioned characters, the characters came alive in you first. And I feel like a lot of people who may be listening, they have a dream, they have an idea, they have a concept, and it feels alive to them, and then somewhere along the way loses that momentum or that that um action, that next step to actually bring it to life, and and then then in turn actually win with the voice or win with the dream that you have inside. So, what is some what are some pieces of advice that you can share with somebody who has something alive in them that they they're struggling with bringing to the surface?

SPEAKER_01 21:31

Voices, try to get all of every every negative voice, your own, internal, external, the devil, people, yourself, every hater, get all those, clear your mind of all those voices. Because that it becomes such a distraction, and all the noise, all of those things will cause us to question is this the right thing we're supposed to do? Is it supposed to be now? How will my Supposed to do it there, there are always going to be questions about how a thing is going to get done, when it's supposed to get done, and we want to, of course, we want to move in the right timing, we want to move in the right direction, but often we don't know what the timing or the direction is until we start moving, like the action of it, you know. So this the small incremental steps, like those things add up. A lot of times we feel like, oh, I that's I gotta go from zero to a hundred. You know, everything takes time. Baby steps, baby steps still count. You you have a beautiful young baby, and when he takes those first few steps, you're not like, oh my god, I can't believe you're not running yet. Like that would be terrible, you know. Most most parents, any good parent is not going to do that, and so we need to parent ourselves in that way and say, you know, I took a step today, I was tired, but I I showed up. I sent that email, I wrote the first line. Like, do something to move the the current of, you know, do something to keep the vision going forward, even if it's small. Because ours, a lot of times our small thing to somebody else is like, oh my god, how did you how'd you do that? And you're like, oh, I just you know, I just did it. So if we keep just taking those steps, just keep showing up day in and day out, it it will add up to bigger than we probably thought it could.

SPEAKER_02 23:50

And bigger than what we thought it could. I love when you said that. And how did it feel when you were in a moment when you were actually hearing your name called as a winner? As a winner. For and now just correct me if I'm wrong. Was it the Florida Gospel Music Awards for a female artist of the year where you were present and you heard your name called when you won that award?

SPEAKER_01 24:14

Yes. Um thank I'm I'm grateful because I've been present and heard my name called for numerous awards, but I've also been present and nominated for numerous numerous awards and not heard my name called. And so to hear my name called at the Florida Gospel Music Awards came on the heels of I believe it was maybe a month or two prior, where I had sat in a different award ceremony, nominated for four or four or five awards, and didn't win any of them. So that space of time in between those two, I feel like God really prepared my heart. I I feel like I was I walked out of that initial one, okay. It's like, okay, I didn't I didn't win any. And I made a video. I came right out because I had been sharing with people that I was nominated, people were voting for me. And so I, as soon as my husband and I walked outside, I made a video. And I was very sincere, like, congratulations to all of the winners. It's okay. Sometimes we win some, sometimes we don't. And so when I heard my name called at the Florida Gospel Music Awards, maybe just I think it was a month or two later, I was genuinely surprised. Not because I don't think I'm amazing, because I I do like we're all amazing. Everyone in that category was amazing. We all deserve to win. I was surprised that my name was called though, because I just wasn't, I knew that win or lose, I was still gonna walk out of there with my head held high. And so the moment really caught me by surprise, like, oh, it is my name. Wow, that's that's a treat, you know. And I had a um, I had written like four differ four different speeches for the other thing. And I remember making a video that I posted because I I was like, maybe I shouldn't have written these, maybe I shouldn't be telling you guys, because what if I don't win any? But I felt that I should, and so I did. And I carry those with me, which is I know it's probably crazy, but I carry those with me all the time. Not because I think I'm gonna win everything that I'm nominated for, but I think it's a rem, those are a reminder to me that like whether someone calls my name or not, there are people who have been supporting me who I want to thank on every single platform, wherever it is. I will go on the side of the road and get a bullhorn and thank these people, you know. So to hear my name called, I was very honored. I was surprised. But when I got up there, I really I remember saying, like, to other artists, to everyone who was in this category, everyone who has a talent, like, make sure you use it because these things are not for us. They they do they benefit us? Yes, I I get blessed when I read some of the stuff I wrote because I don't believe it's me writing. I feel like it's Holy Spirit writing through me. I feel like what I'm writing is inspired by God. Is it the Bible? No, but it's it's in I still believe it's inspired. And so I really I was grateful to have won to have the opportunity to encourage other people.

SPEAKER_02 27:50

So thank you, Ty. And absolutely, and you absolutely deserve to win. And there's no surprise to me that you won. Do you know what I mean? So I'm I I see that there is more wins in your future, and it's so deserving. You're so deserving. But you said a lot, and I definitely want to dive into um a few other things with you and get into some of the logistics about how you can actually put yourself in a position to win and and not be afraid to put yourself out there because I think there's something to be said about even putting yourself in the ring to even be considered, and that's definitely a conversation. Um, but you you said something about the speeches, and you felt like you were supposed to. There was obedience attached to that. Now, if you now you could have also not written them, right? But I think that was a testament to that action step that you were talking about, that even in the unsureness, still taking the action, and I think that's exactly you embodied exactly what you were talking about. But then even in the seasons where God was preparing your heart and through your sincerity of celebrating other people, God brought it right back around for you because you you were you had the right heart. Um, but was there something you wanted to say to what I said?

SPEAKER_01 29:09

No, I'm just I I know that this is probably not protocol, but I'm just always so in awe of you because this is what you do is not something that most people can do. You're an amazing artist, just wonderful singer, and when you dialogue like this, you just you hear the heart of what people are saying, and you are able to reflect that back, and that's not something a lot of people can do. And I'm just I I don't know, I'm just captivated by you.

SPEAKER_02 29:44

Wow, thank you, Ty. And I'm equally as captivated by you, and I receive what you're saying. So, and then y'all, this is real, so this isn't just for the show, like this is real, this is how we talk to each other. So, you guys are kind of getting an intimate moment right now, so um, and real experiences, right? So, but Ty, you have so many phenomenal things coming up, and I just want to, you know, open the floor to you, like especially with the show that's coming up and the performances, like what can we expect to see from from the show if the if the ladies are going to be joining and seeing you? Like, what can we get excited about with Ty Scott King?

SPEAKER_01 30:23

Yeah, so one thing that I love to do, especially at these type of live shows where it's stripped down to like acoustic stuff, and I like to do mashups, and so I'll be doing poetry but mashed up with like TI, Justin Timberlake, you know, just come on in things that people would not necessarily expect, um, but putting a faith spin on all of that, and so I'm excited for that. I'm always excited when my husband, like I'm dragging him onto the stage. No, I'm always excited when he um when we get to collaborate uh together. So yeah, can look forward to hearing an interesting mashup of poetry and familiar, familiar audio sounds.

SPEAKER_02 31:16

Amazing, amazing. But there's a Linnel that I can't let you leave without dropping some gems, whether it's in terms of love, for those of us who are still learning how to love properly, because I love how you love your husband and you guys work together, and I think that's such a beautiful balance that you guys find. So, is there any advice to women who are in that balance as well? A balancing creative creativity, balancing the love, balancing the work. How do how do you find your balance in it all?

SPEAKER_01 31:49

Yeah, it's a daily work, a lot of communication, definitely talking through how we both feel, how we see each other, what role, you know, how do I need how does my husband need support from me, and how do I need support from him? Um, one question we started asking each other a long time ago, we've been married, we got married. It's like sometimes when I'm like, is it 12 years or 13? I get panicked because I don't know. But we we got married in 2013. So I'll I will let y'all do the math. We got married in 2013, and one question we started asking each other many years ago, we we heard it from someone else was, how can I fill your love tank today? Wow. And we ask each other very often because on a day-to-day basis, that might change. You know, I might need him to just listen. Or the next day, I I might need him to actually listen and respond. You know, he might need me to just give him the 30 minutes he needs after he comes home to decompress, where I'm like, I want to tell you all the things. So that question definitely helps us to get a pulse of what the other person needs on any given day at any given time. And so um, it's as I said, it's not easy, it's a lot of communication. And because we're both artists, I think we we speak a common language just because of that, and our faith definitely helps us to navigate a lot of hard times. But I think it all boils down to that respect and taking the time to really try to hear each other, not just talk at each other, not assume, oh, you should know better because we've been married since 2013, however many years that adds up to, you know, but really really give each other room to grow and breathe because I'm not the person he married 2013. I'm uh there are things about me that are different. There are also things about him that are different, and so we're constantly relearning each other, but also remembering that God put him here for a reason. He has a purpose, and so do I. We our purpose overlaps, we're a unit, but he also still has things that God has called him to do as an individual, and so do I, and respecting that and figuring out how to craft that balance because my husband isn't just a musician, he's also a chef, and he's all many things. But there were there were several days where he had a catering to do, and I was performing somewhere, so it's like okay, I get to be his sous-chef, and then he's you know, running my sound and remembering that neither of us are the main character individually. We're we're both the star of this show, you know, and it's our show, it's the king's show. I'm not saying, you know, between us, I make him a priority, he makes me a priority, and we figure it all out from there.

SPEAKER_02 35:16

Wow, that's so beautiful. And I believe that we're gonna have another book from you on love. We're gonna need some love stories in here too. So we're gonna need a part two or three or four of doses, if not another saga, but we're gonna need something around love, some love stories from you, Ty.

SPEAKER_01 35:35

And yeah, I need to we I guess we need to continue that one, that one story in there. I think you told me that before. I need to can yeah, we need to continue that one. Yeah, find out what happens after the knock on the door.

SPEAKER_02 35:47

Oh, come on now. So you guys gotta catch up. So get doses so you can get caught up for when we get our the next part. And before I let you go, Ty, because I know I've I've held you long enough, but just for for any tactical or tangible takeaways for the woman who's listening who wants to put herself in a position to actually share her story, her voice, her light with the world, and and perhaps even monetize it, right? Because I think it's so sometimes as women, we put ourselves so far back on the list, right? And we don't really see ourselves as valuable as we actually are, and that shows up in how we even show up in business. But and just to give you your flowers in that, you are a woman that handles your business. You are kids. You absolutely are. Thank you. But it any advice, any advice at all that you can share with the woman right now who may be struggling to just really own her light in in that regard.

SPEAKER_01 36:51

Um yeah, there is there's something unique and special about you, like the gift that you have, no one can replicate. People may sound like you, they may kind of look like you. There they're gonna be similarities, but we're all unique. And so if you don't put that out into the world, then you're you're really doing a disservice to other people. You're leaving someone with a void that only you can fill, that God created you to fill in someone else's life. So whatever it is, whatever you feel is is holding you back, you you have to extract yourself from that. If if you had a friend that you knew was gifted and amazing and talented and just couldn't get out of her own head or her own way, you would be that person that does what you could do to help push her forward. Be that friend to yourself or find people who will be that friend to you. Ask for help. A lot of times we don't want people to know that we're struggling with something, but ask for help and and be that friend to yourself first because some somebody somebody is waiting on you. Someone needs what only you can give them. God created you for that, and so don't die with regret. Don't you know, don't ask all the what ifs. There's always going to be something, there's always gonna be an unknown. That's just a part of life. But I think the regret will eat you up more than I tried and I failed. Because what if you don't fail? Like, is it really that you're afraid of success? Because that's a whole nother conversation. But there really is no failure once you've tried, you just figured out a new way that it doesn't work, and so you look for the next way that it could work. But yeah, at the end of the day, regret is something that you don't want to live with. It'll eat, it'll eat away at you. So it's better to move forward and better to give your gift to the world in any small way that you can start out doing that. If it's posting online, post online, create a community. There are people who need that, they need to hear um, you know, your words. Like, there's a uh AI artist out that's really doing amazing things, and my husband told me her story. Is she was a poet and she had just been writing for years and years and years, and then she was like, Oh, I can turn these into a song using AI, and she got a record deal for like millions of dollars. That's amazing, and you know, everybody may not get the million-dollar record deal, but the point is that this thing that that you're holding back for whatever reason, just literally punch fear in the face and do it afraid because most people are doing things afraid, they just don't look like it. People ask me all the time, when you get on the stage, are you nervous or you've been doing this for 25 years? You're probably not nervous anymore. I'm like, I do get nervous, I just go. I do it, I do it nervous because all the I I don't know everyone I'm gonna stand in front of. As you said in my bio when you introduced me, I've been able to stand on platforms with legends like Whitney Houston. Of course, I was like, oh my god, that's Whitney Houston right there. Who wouldn't? And words are gonna come out of my mouth, and I hope they're not dumb. You know, I hope I don't forget my words. So push through the fear, do it afraid, and just trust that your gift will make room for you.

SPEAKER_02 41:14

That's so good. Thank you, Ty. I think this has been, I think in one episode we have touched on so many topics that I feel like there's so many good takeaways and tangible steps that that that women who are listening right now and men if you're listening can take and really apply, right? So if there's anything at all to the woman who is coming out of her silent season, and she's afraid to do it afraid, and she knows that people are waiting on her, but she is allowing that fear to overtake her. What are some what are some tactical steps and if there's scriptures that are your favorites, like what do you what would you tell her to do first to break out of that?

SPEAKER_01 42:03

Yeah, definitely pray. Um there's a scripture that says God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and of a sound mind. And so if if there's fear in there, there's there's a route to that fear. So prayer, I believe, is the best way to figure out what is going on. Because if you have when your car has an issue, you take it to a mechanic or the manufacturer. Manufacturer. So in my belief, in my faith, God is the manufacturer. So if I'm having any kind of fear, any type of hesitancy, anxiety, whatever it may be, I'm going back to the manufacturer. I'm going to God and saying, Look, the Bible says, You have not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and of a sound mind. So why am I feeling these things that I'm feeling? Why am I afraid to move forward when I know you gave me this gift? Um, so yeah, I would say prayer. Prayer is the first thing. And write those scriptures down, write affirmations, whatever, whatever you need to remind you that you're beautiful, that you're amazing, that you um your gift will make room for you, that you have something that will be a light to the world, write write it down, write it down and speak it over yourself constantly. Because when we what we hear gets into our system, and it that's what usually causes us to move. So faith comes by hearing. When we're hearing these powerful words spoken over over us, when we're speaking them over ourselves, now we're we feel more empowered to actually go and be the things that we're saying. So pray, make a list of everything about you that is amazing, and speak. that until you have it memorized, until it's just oozing and pouring out of you. And then go be great. Because who are you not to be, right? That home that says that? Who are we who are we not to let our light shine? There we're not doing anybody any we're doing a disservice to ourselves and the world when we don't go out in just a blaze of glory.

SPEAKER_02 44:28

Ty, thank you. Thank you so much. And I think you said everything that we needed to hear to put a spark back into all of our halos. And how can we stay connected with you?

SPEAKER_01 44:41

Yeah I would I would love to hear from all of you. My website is tai scottking.com and from there you can find me on all social media platforms. I love to meet new people and I love to hear from you. So please connect with me by going to my website or finding me on socials Ty ScottKing.

SPEAKER_02 45:04

Thank you Ty. Thank you so much. And it's always an honor to have you on the show and we honor you and we just thank you so much for the light that you brung and this has been another episode of Healing Her Halo.

SPEAKER_00 45:20

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