The Ultimate Birth Partner Podcast
Everything a pregnant woman and her partner need to know to support them in preparation for labour, birth, and the early days with a new baby. This podcast gives both you and your partner the confidence and knowledge about the role they play throughout your birth, so they don't undermine or ruin the birth for you. Throughout these episodes, my guests and I will share with you our experience of being a birth keeper and advocate for women across the globe. This podcast is inclusive and invites guests from all backgrounds to enable you to hear a wide range of experiences.
The Ultimate Birth Partner Podcast
Episode 170 - Hyper‑Vigilance in Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum
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Hyper-vigilance is common in pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum period — but rarely named. In this episode, we explore what hyper-vigilance really is, why so many women experience it, and how it impacts mothers, partners, and babies.
We talk about nervous system safety, surveillance culture in maternity care, why reassurance often doesn’t help, and what truly supports healing — without pathologising women or telling them to 'just relax'.
This episode is for:
- Pregnant women who feel unable to switch off
- Women reflecting on births that looked fine but felt exhausting
- Mothers who can’t rest even when their baby sleeps
- Partners who want to support without fixing
In this episode we cover:
- What hyper-vigilance actually is (and what it isn’t)
- How pregnancy culture trains women to stay on alert
- The impact of hyper-vigilance on labour and oxytocin
- Why surrender in birth is a nervous system state, not a mindset
- Postpartum hyper-vigilance and sleep
- The effect on partners and relationships
- What genuinely helps nervous systems soften and repair
- Why this work matters before labour begins
Aimee and Tom's story - https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-ultimate-guide-to-being-a-birth-partner/id1541228817?i=1000536622734
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