

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>0:00</time>
      <p>
          It   had   to   do   with   the   trajectory   of   our   lives.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>0:04</time>
      <p>
          You   were   c   we   were   kind   of   I   I   do   vaguely   recall   this.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>0:07</time>
      <p>
          We   were   c   we   were   making   predictions   on   you   know   where   we   would   be.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>0:11</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   re   I   don&#39;t   remember   what   I   predicted.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>0:14</time>
      <p>
          Talking   about   how   we&#39;re   not   gonna   talk   about   it   and   now   we&#39;re   gonna   talk   about   it.   So   But   like   we&#39;re   not   talking   about   dating.   That   was   not   the   question.   We   didn&#39;t   you   didn&#39;t   ask   me   who&#39;s   better   at   dating.   You   asked   who   do   you   think   is   gonna   get   was   it   married   and   kids   first   or   just   married?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>0:26</time>
      <p>
          Married   first.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>0:27</time>
      <p>
          It&#39;s   not   a   dating   podcast   in   general,   but   episode   200   is   mostly   a   dating   and   forecasting   podcast.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>0:33</time>
      <p>
          So   do   you   talk   about   tech   at   any   point   in   this   episode?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>0:36</time>
      <p>
          No,   I   think   I   literally   the   intro   will   be   welcome   to   episode   200   of   ADSP   the   podcast.   Feel   free   to   skip   this   if   you&#39;re   only   here   for   the   tech   content.   Um   fair   enough.   Recorded   on   all   of   August   26,   2024,   March   27th,   2022,   and   September   18th   and   19th,   2024.   My   name   is   Connor,   and   today   with   my   co-host   Bryce   and   our   two   partners,   Ramona   and   Shima,   we   revisit   a   conversation   from   2.5   years   ago.   Which   brings   us   to   episode   200,   folks.   Except   it&#39;s   not   gonna   be   200.   I   think   we&#39;re   gonna   make   this,   I   think   what   we&#39;re   gonna   do   is   we&#39;re   gonna   make   this   episode   201,   and   we&#39;re   gonna   skip   episode   200   for   later.   Because   I   don&#39;t   think   we&#39;re   ready   for   episode   200.   At   the   end   of   let&#39;s   go   and   take   a   let&#39;s   go   take   a   gander,   folks.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>2:04</time>
      <p>
          And   maybe   we&#39;ll   end   up   talking   about   I   don&#39;t   know   what&#39;s   in   store   for   me   right   now,   but   nothing&#39;s   in   store.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>2:10</time>
      <p>
          Nothing&#39;s   in   store.   So   we   recorded   episodes   72   and   or   did   we   actually   record?   Was   it   72?   71.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>2:20</time>
      <p>
          I   feel   like   it&#39;s   a   real   rug   pull   to   uh   everybody&#39;s   gonna   be   anticipating   episode   200.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>2:26</time>
      <p>
          No,   but   they   don&#39;t   remember.   Folks   don&#39;t   remember.   So   episodes   71   and   72   were   recorded   on   March   27th,   2022.   Which   today   it   is   August   26th,   2024.   So   that   was   almost   two   and   a   half   years   ago.   We   have   been   recording   for   almost   four   years   now.   November   uh   what   was   it?   November,   let&#39;s   go   get   I   don&#39;t   actually   know   when   the   well   actually   we   can   just   click   on   episode   zero.   Our   first   episode   aired   on   November   20th,   2020.   We   recorded   it   on   November   14th   of   2020.   So   it&#39;s   August.   We&#39;re   two   months   short   of   four   years.   And   at   we&#39;ve   I   think   we   maybe   have   referenced   this   kind   of   special   thing   a   couple   times   on   random   episodes,   but   at   the   end   of   that   recording   on   March   27th   of   2022,   two   and   a   half   years   ago,   just   about,   uh,   which   ended   up   being   episodes   71   and   72.   They   were   entitled   A   episode   71   was   entitled   APL   COBOL,   BASIC   and   More.   And   then   episode   72   was   called   uh   the   C   algorithm   family   feud,   uh,   which   clearly   would   have   been   uh   oh   yeah,   I   remember.   We   ended   up   talking   about   I   think   the   different   ways   to   implement   a   problem   based   on   the   algorithms   in   the   show   notes.   The   problem   was   determining   I   think   that   was   a   quiz.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>4:00</time>
      <p>
          It   was   a   quiz,   and   I   don&#39;t   think   I   did   well.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>4:02</time>
      <p>
          Well,   no,   it   was   a   quiz   in   that   like   name   the   ways   you   can   implement   finding   the   top   two   values   in   a   list   of   the   case.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>4:09</time>
      <p>
          So   it   was   a   quiz   in   that   I   asked   you   questions   that   had   answers.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>4:14</time>
      <p>
          Well,   it&#39;s   not   exactly   a   quiz,   it   was   family   feud.   So,   you   know,   top   seven   answers   on   the   board.   And   uh   anyways,   at   the   end   of   that   recording,   there   was   10   to   20   minutes   of   content   that   we   were   still   recording   for.   I   mean,   there   was   actually,   I   think,   an   hour,   an   hour   and   a   half   of   stuff   we   recorded,   but   only   10   to   20   minutes   of   it   is   arable.   And   in   that   conversation,   uh,   you   have   I   mean,   I   I   I   mentioned   this   to   you,   I   think   10   not   10   days,   but   like   maybe   10   episodes,   I   don&#39;t   know.   Probably   when   you   were   in   Toronto   a   month   ago.   Yeah.   And   you   had   zero   recollection   of   having   this   conversation   and   what   the   contents   of   the   conversation   was.   And   in   that   conversation,   you   said,   well,   maybe   we&#39;ll   revisit   this   conversation   at   episode   200.   But   I   think   why   is   it?   I   think   we&#39;re   just   gonna   have   to   leave   this   as   a   teaser.   Will   it   be   episode   250?   Or   will   it   be   episode   300?   Maybe   episode   250   is   good   because   we   want   to   do   something   special.   We   can&#39;t   defer   episode   200   to   be   episode   300.   Uh,   we&#39;d   have   to   defer   it   to   be   what   was   the   thing?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>5:18</time>
      <p>
          What   was   the   thing   that   I   said   we   would   defer?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>5:20</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   well,   if   I   mention   it,   then   we   have   to   end   up   talking   about   it.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>5:24</time>
      <p>
          Well,   let&#39;s   then   let&#39;s   do   it.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>5:26</time>
      <p>
          But   then   the   idea   was,   and   I   haven&#39;t   done   the   legwork   for   this,   is   that   I   was   gonna   we   were   gonna   listen   to   the   you   know   10   to   15   minutes   and   then   we   were   gonna   respond.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>5:35</time>
      <p>
          Okay.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>5:35</time>
      <p>
          But   I   don&#39;t   I   don&#39;t   have   that   stuff.   I   mean,   I   do   have   it   on   my   computer   over   here,   but   I   mean   I   can   redact   this   for   the   listener.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>5:43</time>
      <p>
          Connor,   I   I   will   make   you   a   deal.   I   will   make   you   a   deal.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>5:46</time>
      <p>
          Right.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>5:47</time>
      <p>
          If   you   get   that   content   ready   tonight,   I   will   on   the   first   night   of   my   vacation,   I   will   listen   and   record   a   response.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>5:56</time>
      <p>
          No,   I   think   well,   here,   let   me   uh   so   this   is   uh   I&#39;m   trying   to   figure   out   when.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:02</time>
      <p>
          You   gotta   give   me   a   hint.   You   gotta   give   me   a   hint.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>6:05</time>
      <p>
          It   had   to   do   with   the   trajectory   of   our   lives.   You   were   cut   we   were   kind   of.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:11</time>
      <p>
          I   do   vaguely   recall   this.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>6:12</time>
      <p>
          We   were   we   were   making   predictions   on   you   know   where   we   would   be.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:16</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   I   don&#39;t   remember   what   I   predicted.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>6:19</time>
      <p>
          Yeah,   so   episode   episode   250,   I   mean,   unsurprisingly,   is   gonna   be   a   year   from   now.   So   yeah,   we   have   an   off   by   two   based   on   this   spreadsheet.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:30</time>
      <p>
          I   I   see   I   think   I   do   now   recall   the   the   predictions.   I   think   I   do   now   recall.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>6:37</time>
      <p>
          But   I   think   we&#39;re   gonna   have   to   we&#39;re   gonna   I   should   what?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:41</time>
      <p>
          You   should   put   it   together   and   send   it   to   me   tonight   so   that   uh   I   can   record   something   in   response   from   Miami.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>6:46</time>
      <p>
          Oh,   so   we   can   just   record   individually?   That&#39;s   what   you   want   to   do?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:50</time>
      <p>
          Yeah,   yeah,   yeah.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>6:51</time>
      <p>
          I   guess   I   I   guess   I   could   try   and   do   that.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>6:54</time>
      <p>
          Uh   yeah,   yeah.   We&#39;ll   see   how   it   goes.   Gotta   deliver   for   the   listener.   We   gotta   deliver   for   the   listener.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>7:02</time>
      <p>
          Alright,   wait,   so   let   me   let   me   do   the   math   on   this   then.   So   um   episode   198   is   gonna   be   out   on   so   this   would   mean   episode   200   is   gonna   air   on   September   20th.   You&#39;ll   be,   I   think,   in   Italy   at   that   point   in   time.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>7:19</time>
      <p>
          No,   no,   I&#39;ll   be   back.   I&#39;m   I&#39;m   back   on   the   17th.   Wait,   when   am   I   going   to   Italy?   Am   I   going   to   Italy?   Do   I   not   know   about   going   to   Italy?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>7:26</time>
      <p>
          Were   you   going   to   Italy?   I   thought   you   were   oh,   maybe   that   was   last   year   you   went.   Didn&#39;t   you   go   to   Italy   in   September   at   some   point?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>7:30</time>
      <p>
          Yeah,   I   did.   That   was   last   year.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>7:32</time>
      <p>
          Okay.   I   conflated   because   I   knew   I   could.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>7:36</time>
      <p>
          You   have   to   tell   me   if   I&#39;m   supposed   to   be   in   a   certain   country.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>7:41</time>
      <p>
          You   know,   when   when   you   when   your   co-host   travels   as   much   as   you   do,   uh   you   conflate   the   months   of   the   year   and   the   countries   that   you&#39;re   going   to   be   in.   So,   anyways,   uh   September   20th   is   uh   supposedly   when   the   listeners   listening   to   this,   they   just   heard   us   talk   for   10   to   15   minutes   about   how   we   weren&#39;t   gonna   air   episode   20.   Uh,   but   at   some   point   before   episode   200,   you   mean?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>8:04</time>
      <p>
          Oh,   yeah,   episode   200.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>8:05</time>
      <p>
          It&#39;s   maybe   it   won&#39;t   be   tonight,   but   uh   at   some   point   when   Bryce   is   on   vacation.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>8:11</time>
      <p>
          You   got   you   gotta   do   it   tonight.   Because   I&#39;m   gonna   be   in   a   cruise   ship.   I&#39;m   gonna   have   like   no   internet   connectivity   for   the   first   Sundays.   You   gotta   do   it   tonight.   Well,   we   got   we&#39;ve   got   three   weeks   though,   so   you   you   you   you   gotta   come   on,   you   gotta   you   can&#39;t   leave   the   people   hanging.   You   can&#39;t   leave   the   people   hanging.   They&#39;re   not   hanging.   They&#39;re   gonna   get   it   on   September   20th,   regardless   of   when   you   record.   Oh,   oh,   you&#39;re   gonna   you&#39;re   gonna   put   you&#39;re   gonna   use   this   for   for   episode   200.   You&#39;re   gonna   put   it   in   the   middle   of   the   phone.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>8:38</time>
      <p>
          I   mean,   episode   200   is   I   mean,   the   numbered   episode   200,   if   we   release   an   episode   200,   will   be   on   September   20th,   no   matter   what.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>8:46</time>
      <p>
          Yeah.   Um   because   we   we&#39;ve   got   get   get   Shima   over   here   so   I   can   I   can   negotiate   with   her   to   let   you   spend   your   evening   doing   this.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>8:54</time>
      <p>
          Uh   she&#39;s   uh   she&#39;s   out   at   a   thing   right   now,   so   I   I   really   have   no   excuse   why   I   couldn&#39;t   do   it.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>8:59</time>
      <p>
          Uh   yeah,   and   you   get   it,   send   it   over.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>9:02</time>
      <p>
          All   right.   We   will   end   our   recording.   I   guess   we&#39;re   gonna   record   separate   follow-ups.   We   are   to   we&#39;ll   do   a   I   guess   a   little   phone   tag.   Or   maybe   we   won&#39;t   even   do   phone   tag.   We&#39;ll   just   do   two   separate   tracks.   Bryce   won&#39;t   hear   mine,   but   I&#39;ll   get   to   hear   his.   And   then   I&#39;ll   put   it   together   and   uh   the   listener   can   be   entertained   or   not   entertained.   Uh   maybe   they   didn&#39;t   even   make   it   this   far   into   episode   200   because   we&#39;ve   just   been   talking   about   how   we&#39;re   not   gonna   talk   about   it   and   now   we&#39;re   gonna   talk   about   it.   So   Alright.   Hopefully   you   enjoyed   the   rotate   episode.   If   you   didn&#39;t   enjoy   episode   200,   we   apologize.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>9:40</time>
      <p>
          Yeah,   if   you&#39;ve   got   a   if   you   gotta   if   you   got   a   uh   a   parallel   rotate   algorithm,   call   me.   Like   a   year   ago,   I   would   have   just   gone   and   spent   like   a   month   of   my   life   just   like   cunning   up   myself,   but   uh,   but   uh   I   don&#39;t   I   don&#39;t   have   time   for   that   anymore.   So   somebody   else   go   do   the   work.   Bring   bring   me   bring   me   a   high   performance   CUDA   rotate   algorithm.   God,   what   what   are   we   gonna   do   when   when   we   have   children?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>10:07</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   yeah,   you   know,   I   don&#39;t   know   if   uh   I&#39;m   getting   old,   man.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>10:11</time>
      <p>
          Yeah,   we   are   getting   old.   We   are   getting   old.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>10:13</time>
      <p>
          So   the   the   probability   that   that&#39;s   gonna   end   up   happening   decreases   as   every   day   goes   by.   All   right,   on   that   note.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>10:24</time>
      <p>
          You&#39;re   like   30.   You&#39;re   still   there,   I&#39;m   sure   I   I   I   hope   that   we   have   some   If   you&#39;ve   made   it   this   far   in   the   podcast,   we&#39;re   just   really   gonna   open   up   right   now.   We   probably   have   some   some   female   listeners   who   are   listening   to   Connor   say   that,   oh   no,   he&#39;s   hit   30,   and   like   now   he&#39;s   his   prospects   for   having   children   are   like   done,   and   they&#39;re   probably   not   amused.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>10:51</time>
      <p>
          I   didn&#39;t   say   that   they&#39;re   gone.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>10:53</time>
      <p>
          Like   you   realize   that   as   a   guy,   like   you   you   could   have   children   like   for   like   another   20   years.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>10:59</time>
      <p>
          It   is   gender   agnostic   from   the   I&#39;m   a   former   statistician   in   an   actuary.   From   a   statistical   point   of   view,   every   day   that   passes   by,   regardless   of   what   actually   that&#39;s   maybe   not   true,   because   like   it&#39;s   like   the   mortality   curve   of   drivers   is   that   there&#39;s   actually   like   an   uptick   at   some   point,   you   know,   because   of   uh,   you   know,   people   drive   recklessly   in   their   like   early   20s.   Uh   so   like   maybe,   you   know,   past   past   a   certain   point.   Um   actually   not   so   on   average   though,   I   would   say   on   average,   because   that&#39;s   the   thing,   is   if   you&#39;re   going   through   some   career   that   like   takes   a   lot   of   work,   maybe   you   become   more   eligible   once   that   calms   down   and   you   you   know   you   finish   studying   for   something.   So   like   maybe,   maybe   there   are   some   curves   for   some   individuals   where   like   actually   later   into   certain   years   the   probability   goes   up.   But   I   think   it&#39;s   downhill   for   now   from   your   own   out   for   me.   I   don&#39;t   think   uh   I   don&#39;t   think   we&#39;re   putting   this   in   the   episode.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>11:51</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   think   we&#39;re   putting   uh   period   of   time   when   people   have   kids   these   days,   with   the   exception   of   a   few   of   our   friends   who   like   wisely   planned   to   have   their   children   when   they   were   younger   so   that   they&#39;ll   now   be   able   to   retire   uh   uh   earlier.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>12:05</time>
      <p>
          Answer   me   this,   Mr.   Mr.   Lellbach.   Um,   how   quickly   do   you   think   you   go   from   being   single   to   having   kids?   Because   I   may   be   31.   Uh   and   you&#39;re   saying   that&#39;s   when   people   start   having   kids.   It&#39;s   not   like   you   go   to   the   dating   apps,   you   swipe   right,   and   then   two   days   later,   you&#39;re   having   kids.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>12:27</time>
      <p>
          I   I&#39;m   like   I   don&#39;t   want   to   answer   that   question   because   I   don&#39;t   want   to   incriminate   myself,   because   I&#39;ll   I&#39;ll   I&#39;ll   give   you   my   answer.   I   feel   like   at   our   age,   like   two   to   three   years,   like   you   date   for   one   year,   then   you   like   you   get   engaged,   and   then   you   get   married,   and   then   there&#39;s   like   one   or   two   years.   This   is   gonna   be   good.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>12:51</time>
      <p>
          Man,   this   is   gonna   be   so   awesome   because   I&#39;m   gonna   like   I&#39;m   I   might   try   and   find   a   way   to   put   this   in   here.   There&#39;s   a   lot   of   editing   that&#39;ll   maybe   I&#39;ll   like   save   onto   it   for   a   later   episode   or   some   like   bonus   episode.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>13:01</time>
      <p>
          And   like   in   three   years   from   now,   check   in.   I&#39;m   gonna   revise   my   I&#39;m   gonna   revise   my   answer   to   like   three   to   four   years.   I&#39;m   gonna   revise   my   the   Bryce   life   roadmap.   On   the   Bryce   five-year   life   roadmap,   in   five   years   I&#39;ll   have   I&#39;ll   be   married   and   have   children.   See,   see,   I   may   I   made   I   made   a   mistake   in   that   you   asked   me   a   question,   and   I   originally   I   answered   by   giving   you   like   a   a   timeline   for   execution,   and   that   was   the   wrong   answer.   Then   I   adjust   I   I   adjusted   to   the   correct   answer,   which   is   you   know,   the   executive   producer   answer   of   the   goal   is   in   five   years   married   with   children,   and   I&#39;ll   figure   out   the   details   of   how   I   get   there   later.   Obviously,   if   it&#39;s   four   years   from   now,   then   and   like   and   I&#39;m   not   married   and   don&#39;t   have   children,   then   the   timetable   will   be   a   little   bit   accelerated.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>13:58</time>
      <p>
          I   see.   I   see.   That&#39;s   uh   I   think   that&#39;s   consistent   with   my   point   of   view,   too.   Is   it&#39;s   like   uh,   you   know,   you&#39;ve   got   this   sort   of   roadmap,   but   like   we&#39;re   approaching   the   point   where   like   if   in   the   next   couple   years,   blah   blah   blah,   yeah,   yeah,   though   that   road,   that   road   is   like   obviously   you   had   me   when   she   was   35.   I&#39;ve   got   friends   who&#39;ve   But   that&#39;s   uh   that&#39;s   the   thing   is   I   know   you   can   get   married   and   have   kids   at   like   40   and   stuff,   or   even,   you   know,   kids   comes   a   little   bit   questionable   into   your   40s   and   whatnot,   but   um   like   you   there&#39;s   always   the   option   to   adopt   and   you   can   still   have   a   family.   And   I&#39;m   not   saying   that   it&#39;s   impossible.   I&#39;m   just   saying   that   as   statistically,   you   know,   I   don&#39;t   know.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>14:35</time>
      <p>
          Which   one   of   us   is   gonna   be   married   first?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>14:39</time>
      <p>
          Oh   this   will   be   a   whole   we   can   just   keep   chatting.   This   will   be   a   whole   bonus   episode   if   you   s   if   you   stick   around   until   like   episode   you   know   150   or   200   or   something.   Um   probably   you.   Why   me?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>14:51</time>
      <p>
          Why   do   you   think   me?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>14:54</time>
      <p>
          Cause   I   just   I   don&#39;t   know.   I   think   you&#39;re   they&#39;re   like   you&#39;re   better   at   this   kind   of   stuff,   you   know?   You&#39;re   more   charismatic.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>15:01</time>
      <p>
          You   were   no,   no,   no.   You   definitely   have   to   be   better   at   dating   than   I   am.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>15:05</time>
      <p>
          But   like,   we&#39;re   not   talking   about   dating.   That   was   not   the   question.   We   didn&#39;t   you   didn&#39;t   ask   me   who&#39;s   better   at   dating.   You   asked   who   do   you   think   is   gonna   get   was   it   married   and   kids   first   or   just   married?   Yeah,   I   think   it   yeah,   I   think   you   are   better   at   accomplishing   goals   that   you   set   for   yourself.   I&#39;m   not   saying   that   I&#39;m   bad   at   that.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>15:25</time>
      <p>
          Who   my   mother   very   much   wants   grandchildren,   but   she   never   nags   me   about   it.   And   I   asked   her   a   few   years   ago   why.   And   she   tells   me,   you   know,   kid,   after   you   dropped   out   of   school   and   went   like,   you   know,   moved   to   Louisiana   and   just   sort   of   forged   your   own   path   to   getting   a   career,   I   realized   that   like   there   was   no   point   anymore   trying   to   like   provide   you   with   guidance   or   encouragement,   that   you   were   just   gonna   do   your   own   things,   and   that   like   once   you   set   your   mind   to   something,   you   would   make   it   happen.   And   I   always   just   assumed   that   once   you   once   you   like   set   your   mind   on   the   goal   of   like   getting   married   and   have   children   and   having   children,   that   you   would   approach   it   with   the   same   intensity   that   you   do   everything   else   in   life,   and   that   there   would   be   like   spreadsheets   and   charts   and   planning   and   that   you&#39;d   have   all   of   it   taken   care   of.   She&#39;s   not   wrong.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>16:16</time>
      <p>
          That   is   a   perfect   articulation   of   exactly   what   I   was   trying   to   say.   Because   uh,   I&#39;m   not   saying   I&#39;m   bad   at   dating.   I&#39;m   not   saying   no,   I   think   I&#39;ll   be   single   for   the   rest   of   my   life.   I&#39;m   just   saying,   in   terms   of   you   know,   who&#39;s   gonna   get   to   the   marriage   finish   line   and   kids   finish   line   first?   I   just   think   that   uh   you   are   a   better   uh   goal   accomplisher.   And   you&#39;ve   put   that   on   your   brain.   You&#39;ve   put   that   on   the   roadmap,   and   you   know,   it&#39;s   uh   that   means   it&#39;s   uh   it&#39;s   GG   for   anyone   that&#39;s   betting   against   you   right   now.   Um   anyways,   episode   72   over.   So   how   are   I   mean   we   can   stop   recording   at   this   point?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>16:53</time>
      <p>
          Our   things   this   is   gold.   We&#39;ll   use   this   one.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>16:56</time>
      <p>
          All   right.   Maybe   we&#39;ll   save   this   till   um   what   is   a   thousand.   What   is   a   thousand   episodes?   That&#39;s   like   twenty   years.   That&#39;s   like   we&#39;re   at   72.   100.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>17:14</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;m   fairly   confident   I&#39;ll   be   engaged   by   the   time   we   get   to   episode   200.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>17:18</time>
      <p>
          Uh,   this   is   a   fun   game.   Predicting.   Oh   man.   I   think   that&#39;s   the   thing,   is   like   you&#39;re   you&#39;re   you&#39;re   like,   I&#39;m   gonna   do   it.   Episode   200,   definitely   engaged,   maybe   married.   I   like   I   think   about   it   and   I&#39;m   just   like,   oh,   I&#39;m   gonna   be   alone   for   the   rest   of   my   life.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>17:37</time>
      <p>
          You   gotta   you   gotta   have   a   conference,   man.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>17:39</time>
      <p>
          Not   that   I   really   believe   that.   Yeah,   I   just   don&#39;t,   I   just   don&#39;t   know.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>17:43</time>
      <p>
          I   am   debating,   well,   I   think   I&#39;ve   ruled   out   inviting   the   Polish   girl   to   um   whose   name   is   Ramona,   uh,   inviting   her   to   Family   Passover   because   I   like   that   girl,   and   I&#39;m   fairly   certain   that   if   she   came   to   Family   Passover,   she   would   never   want   to   talk   to   me   again   because   my   family   is   nuts.   Testing,   testing,   testing.   Well,   I   am   uh   I   am   here   with   the   the   Polish   girl.   Uh   I   was   wondering,   did   we   record   that   before   or   after   I   started   dating   Ramona?   But   given   that   I   talk   about   the   Polish   girl   whose   name   is   Ramona,   it   must   have   been   afterwards.   But   we   were   just   laughing   at   the   uh   at   the   part   about   uh   uh   that   I   didn&#39;t   want   to   invite   her   to   family   Passover   because   I   was   afraid   that   uh   if   I   exposed   her   to   my   family,   that   she   wouldn&#39;t   uh   want   to   have   anything   to   do   with   me.   And   and   now,   honey,   do   you   have   a   choice   to   be   whether   or   not   you&#39;re   exposed   to   my   family?   I   do   not.   Yeah,   she   does   not.   And   uh   yeah,   I   mean,   I   guess   you   beat   me   to   the   punch   because   you&#39;re   now   engaged.   Um   but   I   will   note   that   I   am   still   dating   the   same   person   that   I   was   dating   when   we   recorded   that.   Um   so   that&#39;s   that&#39;s   something,   right?   Yeah?   Honey,   should   we   get   engaged   and   married   before   Connor   just   despite   him?   I   suppose   that&#39;s   probably   not   a   good   a   good   basis   for   uh   for   for   for   getting   married.   But   uh   we&#39;re   very   excited   about   uh   about   your   your   wedding,   uh   which   uh   I   guess   is   gonna   be   sometime   next   year.
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>19:38</time>
      <p>
          We&#39;re   looking   forward   to   going   to   Mexico.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>19:41</time>
      <p>
          Yeah,   yeah.   Not   that   not   that   all   the   listeners   are   invited,   so   we&#39;re   not   gonna   say   where   in   Mexico.   But   I   guess   now   it&#39;s   just   a   race   to   uh   to   who   has   uh   children   first.   So   uh   so   yeah,   Connor,   you&#39;re   gonna   have   to   you&#39;re   gonna   have   to   to   to   pop   a   few   out   there.   Oh   man.   Gosh,   it&#39;s   it&#39;s   funny   that   we   were   um   that   we   were   recording   that   when   we   were   30   and   we   were   lamenting   how   old   we   uh   we   feel   because   uh   during   the   trip   that   Ramona   and   I   were   just   on,   well,   honey,   what   did   you   find?
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>20:15</time>
      <p>
          I   found   some   gray   hair   on   Bryce&#39;s   head.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>20:19</time>
      <p>
          Now   I   I   I   think   the   gray   hair   is   fake   news.   Uh   she   did   take   pictures   though,   so   it   is   a   little   bit   hard   to   deny.   But   um,   you   know,   my   hair   is   so   important   to   my   identity   because   it&#39;s   great   and   amazing   and   my   most   attractive   feature.   And   um   I   was   I   was   deeply   distraught   about   it.   Like   I   had   moments   of   existential   uh   dread.   And   boy,   uh   do   I   wish   I   could   go   back   to   being   30   when   I   could   like   sleep   through   the   night   and   when   things   didn&#39;t   randomly   ink.   And   I&#39;m   sure   all   of   our   listeners   who   are,   you   know,   a   good   bit   older   than   us   are   just   thinking,   like,   oh   these   kids,   they   have   no   idea.   But   um   but   yeah.   Um   it&#39;s   funny   that   we   thought   we   were   old   when   we   were   like   30   and   31.   Do   you   feel   old,   honey?
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>21:11</time>
      <p>
          Sometimes.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>21:13</time>
      <p>
          You&#39;re   not   old,   you&#39;re   beautiful   and   youthful.   I   feel   old   though.   Oh   boy.   So   so   by   what   episode   do   you   think   we&#39;ll   be   married,   honey?
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>21:24</time>
      <p>
          I   don&#39;t   know.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>21:26</time>
      <p>
          300   maybe.
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>21:28</time>
      <p>
          What   is   marriage?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>21:30</time>
      <p>
          Um   marriages   you   get   a   big   fancy   ring.
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>21:35</time>
      <p>
          You   can&#39;t   get   that   without   assigning   a   paper.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>21:40</time>
      <p>
          Uh   I   I   suppose.   I   I   suppose   technically,   uh   understood.
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>21:47</time>
      <p>
          We   could   be   a   m   we   could   be   a   modern   couple   married   differently.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>21:51</time>
      <p>
          I   mean,   technically   we   do   reside   together.   Um   and   have   resided   together   for   a   long   period   of   time,   so
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>22:00</time>
      <p>
          Does   that   mean   I   deserve   a   ring?
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>22:03</time>
      <p>
          I   mean,   I   think   you   deserve   a   ring.   Oh   man.   Well,   uh,   I   guess   Connor,   well   it&#39;ll   be   interesting   to   see   where   we   are   by   like   episode   400.   Maybe,   maybe   we&#39;ll   both   both   be   married   and   have   children.   Uh   yeah,   yeah,   I&#39;d   be   interested   what   your   timetable   for   that   is.   For   the   kids   part   is,   has   the   timetable   uh   uh   adjusted   any   from   uh   from   what   you   predicted?   Uh   what   it   must   have   been   two   or   three   years   ago.   Anyways,   I&#39;m   sure   that   this   episode   is   gonna   be   very   interesting.   Alright,   well,   uh   uh   I&#39;m   gonna   send   you   over   this   uh   recording   so   that   you   can   put   together   this   episode.   And   um   I   hope   to   talk   to   you   soon.   We&#39;ve   I&#39;ve   been   uh   we   we&#39;ve   we&#39;ve   been   away   for   like   three   weeks.   We   were   in   the   Galapagos   and   then   uh   Ecuador,   and   um   we   saw   a   lot   of   birds   in   the   Galapagos.   It   was   amazing.   Um   and   we   know   how   much   you   love   birds,   and   we   know   that   you&#39;re   thinking   about   going   to   the   Galapagos   for   your   honeymoon,   and   we   we   highly   recommend   it.   Yeah?
      </p>

        <cite>Ramona</cite>
      <time>23:14</time>
      <p>
          Yes,   we   do.   And   make   sure   you   cut   me   out   from   the   podcast.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>23:20</time>
      <p>
          All   right.   You   uh   you   heard   it   from   uh   from   Ramona.   Um   but   uh   yeah,   you   should   definitely,   definitely   go   to   the   Galapagos.   Oh,   and   I   had   a   great   time   at   uh   NDC   Tech   Town.   Uh   great   little   conference.   Um   I   gave   my   talk   on   uh   C   Horizons   and   I   updated   the   part   of   the   talk   about   reflection.   Um   and   I&#39;m   I&#39;m   now   so   excited   about   reflection   that   I   think   I&#39;m   gonna   make   a   whole   talk   dedicated   just   to   reflection.   Um   because   uh   it   is   just   a   really   cool   feature.   And   um   and   going   through   and   updating   the   talk,   um,   all   the   examples   became   like   10x   better   with   some   of   the   new   uh   refinements   to   reflection,   like   token   sequences.   Um   and   now   I&#39;m   just   like   very   convinced   that   it&#39;s   the   right   model   for   C.   Uh,   anyways,   uh   hope   to   hear   from   you   soon,   buddy.   Um,   and   uh   again,   congratulations   on   your   engagement.   Bye.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>24:21</time>
      <p>
          All   right,   folks.   It&#39;s   episode   200,   September   19th.   Less   than   I&#39;m   pretty   sure   it&#39;s   almost   exactly   twelve   hours   away   from   when   this   episode   will   be   releasing.   You   just   heard   from   Bryce   and   Ramona.   And   if   that&#39;s   the   case,   it&#39;s   only   fair   that   I   bring   on   my   beautiful   fiancé,   Shima.   But   we&#39;re   gonna   throw   back   because   it&#39;s   episode   200.   The   first   thing   I   guess   not   the   first   thing,   the   first   thing   you&#39;re   hearing   is   my   voice.   The   next   thing   you&#39;re   gonna   hear,   though,   is   guess   what,   folks?   A   lime.   Bubbly,   let&#39;s   go.   Shima&#39;s   taking   the   first   sip.   Does   it   taste   glorious?   She   gave   me   a   thumbs   up.   Say   hi.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>25:09</time>
      <p>
          Hello.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>25:10</time>
      <p>
          And   Shima   has   listened   to   parts   two   and   parts   three,   which   is   the   two   and   a   half   years   ago   recording   from   post-episodes   71   and   72,   and   she   listened   to   what   Bryce   and   Ramona   had   to   say.   So   I   am   just   gonna   turn   the   mic   over   to   Shima,   and   she&#39;s   gonna   do   all   the   heavy   lifting   for   the   remaining   five   to   ten   minutes   of   this   episode.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>25:35</time>
      <p>
          Okay,   sure,   I   can   do   that.   So   I   have   some   thoughts.   So   my   first   thought   was   just   how   sweet   you   sounded   when   I   listened   back   to   that   video.   I   was   thinking   about   how   you,   Connor,   challenge   everyone&#39;s   gender   stereotypes   because   you   are   so   looking   forward   to   having   a   wedding,   getting   married,   having   kids,   which   I   thought   was   so   sweet,   just   warmed   my   heart.   Very   romantic   guy,   and   I   felt   very   lucky   to   listen   to   that.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>26:01</time>
      <p>
          Continue,   continue.   This   is   lovely.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>26:03</time>
      <p>
          Okay,   well,   so   hard   right   now.   The   next   thing   I&#39;m   gonna   say   is   to   disagree   with   you   about   one   of   the   things   you   said,   which   is   that   fertility   is   gender   agnostic.   So,   obviously,   as   you   know,   I&#39;m   a   physician   and   I&#39;m   passionate   about   many   things,   but   one   of   those   things   is   female   age-related   infertility.   And   so   strongly   disagree,   demonstrably   false,   that   male   infertility   equals   female   infertility   as   people   age.   Do   you   want   to   challenge   that   and   go   into   further   details,   or   will   you   accept   that   as   fact?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>26:36</time>
      <p>
          I   will   accept   that   as   fact.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>26:38</time>
      <p>
          I   cannot   believe   you   called   age-related   infertility   gender   agnostic.   That&#39;s   a   bold   claim.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>26:43</time>
      <p>
          My   bad.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>26:44</time>
      <p>
          Okay.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>26:44</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   why   Mary   and   a   doctor,   folks.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>26:46</time>
      <p>
          We   clarified   it   here.   It&#39;s   not   gender   agnostic.   It&#39;s   very,   very   different   by   sex.   Okay.   And   I   guess   the   main   other   thing   I   wanted   to   say   was   that   you   all   had   a   really   hyper   focus   on   finish   lines.   Like   I   think   you   guys   said,   marriage   finish   line,   kids   finish   line.   It&#39;s   not   a   finish   line,   it&#39;s   a   process.   So   there   is   another   conceptualization   I   felt   that   I   had   to   correct   or   bring   up.   Um   wait,   and   lastly,   I   thought   it   was   interesting   that   you   were   catastrophizing.   So   you   said   things   like,   I&#39;m   gonna   be   your   loan   for   the   rest   of   my   life.   What   brought   that   on?   You   were   only   31,   Connor.   So   much   of   life   ahead   of   you.   It   still   is.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>27:20</time>
      <p>
          I   mean,   you&#39;re   not   thinking   like   a   statistician.   In   actuarial   science,   there&#39;s   something   called   Bayesian   credibility   and   credibility   theory.   Is   it   Bayesian   estimation?   But   it&#39;s   this   idea   that   like   you   have   a   prior   estimate   of   what   the   probability   of   something   is.   Maybe   it&#39;s   flipping   a   coin   is   like   50-50,   which   is   a   bad   example   because   we   know   that   actually   is   50-50.   But   if   it&#39;s   some   unknown   event,   like,   you   know,   what&#39;s   the   probability   that   this   person   will   get   married?   AKA   me.   Maybe   we   think   that&#39;s   like   85%,   you   know,   because   I&#39;m   a   catch.   But   as   time   goes   on   and   it   does   not   happen,   you   are   informing   the   prior   estimation   with   like   it   not   happening,   and   therefore,   like   you   keep   on   updating,   like,   oh,   the   probability   that   he   will   get   married   is   just   gonna   decrease   over   time.   The   longer   that   that   doesn&#39;t   happen,   the   more   and   more   you&#39;re   updating   your   prior   estimation   of   the   probability   of   it   happening,   and   it&#39;s   just   going   down.   Like   it&#39;s   just   statistics.   It&#39;s   not,   I&#39;m   I&#39;m   not   saying   it&#39;s   hopeless.   It&#39;s   like   I   said,   you   know.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>28:16</time>
      <p>
          Okay,   so   all   I   hear   is   the   initial   cognitive   distortion   of   a   catastrophizing,   followed   by   the   defense   mechanism   of   rationalization.   So   I&#39;m   just   gonna   say   that   you   are   catastrophizing.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>28:27</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;m   not   catastrophizing.   This   is   statistics.   I&#39;m   a   link   in   the   description   or   in   the   show   notes,   folks.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>28:31</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;ll   also   put   a   link   in   where   a   defense   mechanism   is.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>28:34</time>
      <p>
          You   can&#39;t   put   a   link   in.   I&#39;m   the   one   that   puts   the   links   in.   You   send   me   a   link   and   I&#39;ll   think   about   putting   it   in.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>28:38</time>
      <p>
          Okay,   and   I   guess   then   now   getting   on   to   what   Bryce   and   Ramona   said.   So   Bryce   said   it&#39;s   a   race   to   having   children   first.   Just   wanted   to   remind   him   there&#39;s   no   race,   there&#39;s   no   end   game,   just   a   process.   And   he   also   commented   on   how   he   looks   back   at   that   podcast   and   was   thinking   how   he&#39;s   so   young.   And   I   was   just   thinking   how   in   a   couple   years   he   will   look   back   on   this   podcast   and   think   again   that   he   was   so   young.   So   I   hope   that   he   recognizes   that   he&#39;s   super   young.   And   I   guess   that&#39;s   it.   Those   are   my   main   thoughts.   So   I   just   gave   you   all   my   thoughts.   What   do   you   have   to   say?   What   was   it   like   for   you   to   listen   to   that   now?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>29:11</time>
      <p>
          I   love   you.   You&#39;re   very   smart,   and   that&#39;s   why   I&#39;m   marrying   you.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>29:14</time>
      <p>
          No,   not   to   me.   What   was   it   like   to   listen   to   your   old   that   old   episode   again?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>29:18</time>
      <p>
          Oh.   What   was   it   like   to   listen   to   me   two   and   a   half   years   ago?
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>29:27</time>
      <p>
          Must   have   been   pretty   weird.   Unless   you&#39;re   used   to   listening   to   yourself.   I   think   it   does   a   lot   of   talks,   folks.   He   talks   a   lot,   folks.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>29:36</time>
      <p>
          I   do   have   more   podcasts   than   the   average   person.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>29:40</time>
      <p>
          And   a   YouTube   code   underscore   report.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>29:42</time>
      <p>
          Yes.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>29:44</time>
      <p>
          Check   it   out.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>29:46</time>
      <p>
          I   think   that   I   literally   a   year   ago   had   a   plan   to   kind   of   start   traveling   the   world   and   would   not   have   predicted   that   I   was   gonna   meet   you.   And   I   think   you   heard   that   kind   of   in   my   voice   from   two   year   two   and   a   half   years   ago.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>30:04</time>
      <p>
          Utter   despair.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>30:05</time>
      <p>
          Not   I   wasn&#39;t   giving   up   hope,   but   just   like   you   date   for,   you   know,   a   decade,   a   decade   and   a   half.   And   I   wouldn&#39;t   say   it   was   like   an   absolute   tragedy,   but   like   you&#39;re   not   meeting   the   person   you   want   to   spend   the   rest   of   your   life   with.   And   after   like   a   decade   or   a   decade   and   a   half   of   that,   like   I   said,   you&#39;re   not   giving   up   hope,   but   you&#39;re   like,   how   long   does   it   take?   You   know?   A   lot   of   my   friends   have   already   met   that   person   and   got   married,   and   it   just   wasn&#39;t   happening   for   me.   And   you   I   think   you   heard   that,   like   in   you   know,   two   and   a   half   years   ago,   me.   And   I   was   kind   of   preparing   to   just   like   set   up   for   a   different   life,   you   know,   a   life   of   traveling,   working   remotely,   giving   talks,   being   involved   in   the   conference   circuit.   I   get   a   lot   of   intrinsic   value   from   meeting   people,   you   know,   different   parts   of   the   world   that   are   just   as   excited   about   the   technologies   that   I&#39;m   excited   about,   or   different   technologies.   It&#39;s   just   really   cool   to   meet   people.   And   I   was   preparing   myself   for   that.   And   then   out   of   the   blue,   I   met   you,   fell   in   love.   And   yeah,   so   I   just   think   it&#39;s   uh   you   never   know.   Don&#39;t   give   up   hope,   folks.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>31:03</time>
      <p>
          There   you   go.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>31:04</time>
      <p>
          We   met   on   the   dating   apps.   It   is   I   know   it   can   be   uh   what&#39;s   the   word?
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>31:10</time>
      <p>
          A   slog.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>31:11</time>
      <p>
          Uh   yeah.   Uh   I   don&#39;t   know   if   I&#39;d   use   slog,   I&#39;d   use   the   words   morally   destructive,   morally   destroying   process   of   like   you   do   it   for   a   month   and   it   just   makes   you   feel   despair   and   hopelessness.   Uh   but   we   are   the   success   story,   and   we   know   a   couple   other   folks   that   are   success   stories   of   the   dating   apps.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>31:30</time>
      <p>
          Lots   of   folks.   Everyone   meets   on   an   app   now.   You   don&#39;t   meet   on   an   app.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>31:34</time>
      <p>
          But   in   order   to   meet   on   an   app,   there   is   a   lot   of   going   on   dates   with   folks   that   you   don&#39;t   click   with   necessarily,   and   um   maybe   sometimes   it   it   can   feel   like   it&#39;s   Well,   I   know   this   isn&#39;t   a   dating   podcast,   but   I   love   it   It&#39;s   not   a   dating   podcast   in   general,   but   episode   200   is   mostly   a   dating   and   forecasting   podcast.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>31:54</time>
      <p>
          So   Do   you   talk   about   tech   at   any   point   in   this   episode?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>31:57</time>
      <p>
          No,   I   think   I   literally   the   intro   will   be   welcome   to   episode   200   of   ADSP   the   podcast.   Feel   free   to   skip   this   if   you&#39;re   only   here   for   the   tech   content.   Um   fair   enough.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>32:08</time>
      <p>
          So   then   I   will   say   that   the   only   way   you   can   make   it   through   all   that   dating   stuff   is   to   think   of   it   as   an   opportunity   to   go   out,   explore   hobbies,   meet   people,   have   fun.   You   can&#39;t   kind   of   think   of   it   as   all   or   nothing   every   time   you&#39;re   going   on   a   date,   or   you&#39;ll   feel   soul   crushed.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>32:25</time>
      <p>
          Perfect   way   to   end   it.   Don&#39;t   give   up   hope,   folks.   Be   sure   to   check   these   show   notes   either   in   your   podcast   app   or   at   adspthepodcast.com   for   links   to   anything   we   mentioned   in   today&#39;s   episode,   as   well   as   a   link   to   a   get   up   discussion   where   you   can   leave   thoughts,   comments,   and   questions.   Thanks   for   listening.   We   hope   you   enjoyed   and   have   a   great   day.
      </p>

        <cite>Bryce</cite>
      <time>32:41</time>
      <p>
          Low   quality,   high   quality.   That   is   the   tagline   of   our   podcast.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>32:46</time>
      <p>
          That&#39;s   not   the   tagline.   Our   tagline   is   chaos   with   sprinkles   of   information.   Tune   in   next   time   for   your   new   co-host,   Ben   Dean.   Either   interviewing   Sean   Parent   or   just   talking   to   Ben   Dean.   What   do   you   mean,   me?
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>33:02</time>
      <p>
          Are   you   gonna   be   there   too?
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>33:03</time>
      <p>
          I&#39;ll   be   there.   Yeah.   I   just   saw   the   tweet   from   Sean   Parent   saying   that   he   appreciated   our   apology   and   he   was   talking   about   the   three   different   algorithms   used   for   stood   rotate   for   random   access,   bidirectional,   and   forward   iterators.   It&#39;s   gonna   be   talked   about,   folks,   either   with   Sean   Parent   or   with   Ben   Dean   or   with   both   of   them.   Maybe   we&#39;ll   try   to   set   up   both.   We   got   a   busy   schedule   coming   up   in   the   next   three   weeks,   but   we&#39;re   gonna   try   and   get   both   of   them   on.
      </p>

        <cite>Shima</cite>
      <time>33:26</time>
      <p>
          How   are   you   gonna   edit   this?   We&#39;re   all   over   the   place.
      </p>

        <cite>Conor</cite>
      <time>33:30</time>
      <p>
          What   do   you   mean?   That   is   what   you&#39;re   way   more   on   topic   than   Bryce&#39;s.   This&#39;ll   be   easy   to   edit   compared   to   him.
      </p>